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S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category My Boyfriend Never Wants To Have Sex (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: May 31 2016 at 16:53 by Polarbearsateme

So my boyfriend NEVER wants to have sex! Or touch me. Or anything physical. I've heard so many excuses and I've tried to explain that it's really creating a distance between us now. I've tried to figure out if it's because we had a baby, if he still has feelings for his ex but I just can't figure it out. We have been together for 2 years, with a short break after our son was born. I suffered with pnd and struggled to be the family he wanted. We have been living together for 1 year and have slept together roughly 7 times. He has initiated 2 of these 7 times. Please someone help me out her...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Only One From Church Small Group Not Invited To Wedding (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: May 31 2016 at 16:30 by jashley

I am so upset, a couple at my church and in my small group got married and had this wedding and invited everyone from my small group except me. I know this because I saw pictures of everyone from my small group at the wedding. This was after I talked to my pastor about whether it was open invite bc I didnt get an invitation and he said it was invitation only and that I wasnt the only one not invited. But looking at the pictures I see that isnt true. So then I messaged him and told him I saw everyone from small group that goes regurarly there. He listed a few names of people that weren't invite...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category He Had Emotional Affair And I Feel Guilty (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 30 2016 at 22:51 by SadNstupid RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 18:33

My husband was texing another woman. I wasn't happy about it but he said she was just a friend. After a while he talked about getting coffee with this woman the day after our 14th anniversary. He told me I was being mean and just didn't want him to have friends. The tricky part is, years back he suggested trying "open marriage". I was hesitant, but wanted to be "good giving and game." At first it was fun but I didn't really feel I got much out of it. I quit, he continued. He went out with a female friend from high school who he told he was in an open marriage and ended up with her for a while...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category He Is Married-dating Site (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 30 2016 at 21:21 by mystique89 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 18:08

I got talking to this guy on a dating site a few months back. I found it a little weird after 2 weeks he hadn't given his phone number or asked for mine. One particular day I gave mine and said he could text me as I had to go for the day. I never got a text and when I came back he just said he had run into some crazy girls on the site before so didn't want to give out his number right away, and we continued to chat through the site. After 6 weeks I was tired of it. He kept telling me he wanted to tell me something but wasn't ready yet. He kept saying we connected so well. We had skyped e...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Awkward Neighbours. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 30 2016 at 16:25 by Spiggy RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 17:31

Three years ago new neighbours moved in. They were already known to be troublesome at their previous address in the next village. Almost immediately I had to call the police when he pushed his way into my house late at night to make a complaint about our dogs barking, a situation of his own creation when he drunkenly shouted through the hedge at them. The police took action against him by way of a restorative justice order. My OTHER neighbour ( a pleasant but meddlesome type who is a High Court judge who sees no problem as being unworthy of his attention ) offered to mediate between ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Surely Not Again (Posts: 7)

CREATED: May 24 2016 at 18:04 by moody_one RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 17:09

Surely it's not me this time? Things have been pretty good and stable for quite a while – but! Last Thursday I said I would cook dinner for Sunday and had a magazine recipe. I asked C to check it and she said fine and I asked her to get one or two ingredients on the next shop. I have taken to cooking the odd meal now and then and so far all been good and well received but it's easy and slow cooking stuff. Saturday night during a good fish meal, she told me “we” would change the recipe/method because it was chicken, we would use the oven not the frying pan as per the instructions w...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Warning: Long Story. But I Can't Stand The Pressure Anymore. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 30 2016 at 18:40 by getbacktosunshine RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 16:53

First off, this has been eating away at me to the point where I am losing my mind. A friend of mine, E (does not stand for anything) had a crush on this girl at my school. Never thought much of her, except for one time she complimented something I was making. Still remember it until today. Then it started, around 9 months ago. We were on our last class trip. I sat with a few friends getting drunk, away from all the others, when she came out of nowhere to ask me some questions about E. We went away an I remember she was hugging my arm the whole time. I didn't really understand what was going ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I'm Married, But Kissed Another Man (Posts: 32)

CREATED: Jan 31 2015 at 06:56 by TillyBops RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqqq / Hikari / Mee / Iamhim / vs / Skinnygirl / susiedqq / OldGuy / Scopes LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 15:19

I'm 5 years married to my best friend. We are together 12 years altogether and although I had boyfriends before him, it was never serious, and he is the only man I've ever slept with. He is a good person and a good husband and I love him very much. For the last few years we have been trying for a baby and are currently going through tests to try find out why it's not happening. A couple of nights ago I went out to a work function. It was a real dress up affair, and the drink flowed freely all night long. I hadn't been out drinking for about 3 months beforehand, so think the excitement of...

Education advice forum category advice forum category Failure (Posts: 22)

CREATED: Apr 26 2016 at 18:54 by Sheen RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / PJVL9 / Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 14:57

I've got a big problem, my parents and relatives are expecting me to graduate this year (college) ,but I can't. I have not finished some requirements.I just can't help it but I'm very disappointed with myself right now. I don't wanna fail their expectations. I don't know how to tell them about my situation. I'm afraid they would get angry and be disappointed. What would I do now? Graduation day is fast approaching :(.....

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Obsession With Stepmom Beauty (Posts: 10)

CREATED: May 30 2016 at 09:15 by Sam028 RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 14:56

Hii, Im Sam twenty one years male.. I have a stepmother aged Thirty-nine.. She is very very beautiful n hot.. .. Fair skin n thick long hair till hips.. You can call her 'beauty Queen' . I often get hardon seeing her.. She visits beauty parlor every week and ties hair in different buns n styles at home.. She's trying to be more beautiful n sexy which I hate.. Dad totally supports her.. Even if I request her not to visit beauty parlor and not tie hair bun, she won't agree to it.. She's becoming more n more hot.. What can be done.....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Just Venting To Be Honest (Posts: 10)

CREATED: May 13 2016 at 03:30 by Joe RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 14:35

So to be honest, I'm not sure how many people will read this and also not sure what I hope to accomplish, other than just putting my thoughts on paper (or in this case the internet, cause what can go wrong) but I'm at this point where I just really want to complain about a lot of stuff. So before we begin, let me introduce myself. Actually, one thing first. Although my English isn't necessarily horrible and chrome is being really nice getting most of the errors out, I'm not a native speaker and so my sentences might sometimes be a little bit wrong, but just ignore that. So now let's sta...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Mom Getting Married. How To Cope With Changes? (Posts: 5)

CREATED: May 29 2016 at 00:18 by cheerfuloptimism RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: May 30 2016 at 21:29

I'm pretty nervous posting this but I feel the need to get this out.Alright so on February 24 my mom came back home after a trip and announced she was engaged to a guy she had been getting to know over the phone for about 7 weeks. Just some quick background before I continue, back in January somebody gave my mom's number to a guy on the West coast and as you prob guessed we live on the east coast. Alright, so when my mom announced it she told me not to tell anyone about it and I've kept my promise and have even lied about her trips to go visit like she asked me to. I was worried when my ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Do I Marry The Imperfect One I Love Or Go For Blind/arranged Marriage (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 29 2016 at 17:23 by Oneperson123 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 30 2016 at 14:21

Marriage trouble... So, first of all- I hate marriage and am totally against it since it has failed for so many people that I know. I find it hard to ever really fall in love either. Marriage has been an ugly experience for my mom and a lot of other people I know. But since I'm in India, they stick to remaining married and never divorcing either - making things worse and traumatising for me... with all kinds of fights and stuff So, here is my dilemma: I'm being forced to get married. And I would say no, but I don't have the right to do so here. And I'm very religious. So, for th...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Moving In Together After Online/long Distance.. (Posts: 183)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 10:48 by nana RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 30 2016 at 13:36

first of all hello and thx for having me here..i kinda feel bad for not getting more info and looking through other articles before my bf moved to my country..so my questions is, what if we fucked it all up? i dont even know where to start.. 1.for me it was waaay to quick with the physical part so i felt extremly overwhelmed for not setting boudaries which made me very mad because i didnt tell him on time and when i did (took me some time to figure it out) he took it way too personally 2. the paperwork took us extremly long, we didnt rly take care of anything before he came to here..we ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Married By Accident (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 30 2016 at 10:47 by pradaindah RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: May 30 2016 at 12:12

So here's my problem. I just married with this guy for a week now, the reason behind our marriage is because I was pregnant. I barely knew this guy because I just met him on January and we're not dating or plan to, we contact each other just for a booty call only. But I keep this thing going because I have feeling for him. Then I found out I was pregnant and my parents push him to marry me. He told me he's not ready but suddenly after our parents meet each other he agree to marry me. Short story, we got married and he stay at my place now, but after few days he leave and said he gotta go take ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Very Very Embarrasssed Afetr An Unbelievably Weird Misunderstanding (Posts: 4)

CREATED: May 30 2016 at 00:42 by TheGoose RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: May 30 2016 at 09:41

This is a bizarre one that happened to me a few months back but it is still playing in my mind a lot. I've lost a lot of confidence and feel quite humiliated. I'm quite anxious as a result and have been prescribed anti anxiety medication for the last couple of months from my doctor. (Although the anxiety has decreased recently ) Firstly - to get to the punch line, I was out one night with 2 friends of mine (a flatmate and one of my best friends) and after one of the conversations we had, they took an interpretation from it that many years ago when I was in Thailand that I had a sexual enco...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Wife Doesn't Want Sex Anymore (Posts: 34)

CREATED: May 16 2015 at 18:25 by spooky RESPONDENTS: LatinaBlossom / psyduck / Misstoofresh / fivefingers / Maggie79 / susiedqqq / abc / Theshouldertocryon / El / Skinnygirl / Lixi / thedynamicsofsoul / Jess41 / AnnieBlue LAST POST: May 30 2016 at 02:21

I love my wife. We got married in December of last year. I think she’s beautiful. She has gorgeous dark curly hair. Brown eyes. Tan skin. A perfect figure. She’s delicious. I think about having sex with her, I CRAVE her body, every single day. Making love to her feels incredible. For the first year that we were together, we fucked multiple times a week. When we would go days without each other, we’d miss it terribly. She told me that I was one of the few men who’d ever given her an orgasm-- she squirts too when she comes. She was embarrassed by that despite how much I told her that...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Family Boyfriend And Religion (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 23 2016 at 15:12 by Problemsproblemspr RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: May 29 2016 at 16:58

I have very religious family very very religious but i dont believe anything and i cant say them also our familybrelations are so close for example i am very close with my granny s cousin s something so leaving my family is a big deal... My family dont drink alcohol dont eat some foods and they dont wear normal clothes and they want me to be like them but i am not and i cant say them that i drink alcohol and i eat forbidden foods and i have sex also i cant wear what i want but sometimes i wear secretly. In addition, my boyfriend is not religious and neither his family. So i said my mom that i ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Prince Charming Came Too Soon! (Posts: 4)

CREATED: May 27 2016 at 23:15 by Eleria RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye / susiedqq / Tinasaur / Skinnygirl LAST POST: May 29 2016 at 16:37

I want experience in the world. I'm just turned 18 and have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, the first boyfriend I ever had. He's had a couple of relationships before me and is now wanting to settle down and I don't know what to do. I'd love to get a flat with him and settle down eventually because I do love him and love spending time with him but I'm afraid I'm too young and I haven't experienced anything else before I flood myself with responsibility. Sex is also an issue- I've never liked it with him and I've told him, but I don't know whether it's us or just me b...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Stay Or Should I Go? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: May 24 2016 at 16:14 by Blue_eyes91 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / male28 LAST POST: May 29 2016 at 12:28

Hi there, this is going to be a bit long winded so bare with me... I've been with my boyfriend 3 years. We have arguments sometimes just like many other couples. I'm not sure if I'm wasting my time with him. He doesn't seem to want to move our relationship forward. We both live seperately with our parents, he has no intention of moving with me, he says he doesn't think I'm ready. He's not keen on marriage, doesn't want children for 'years' whatever that means. I'm 25 this year and want a relationship with a future. I suffer with depression so I'm not sure if it's just me. I go to his ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Always Accused (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 28 2016 at 16:40 by Broken1 RESPONDENTS: Aria1975 / Skinnygirl LAST POST: May 29 2016 at 12:05

Hey everyone! I have been married since January now and my husband who is the LOVE of my life and soulmate I have no doubt continues to accuse me of sleeping with anyone and everyone. I have in the past run around on my last husband but I have not cheated on this one and don't intend on it. I just don't know what to do about his accusations and how to handle it. Anyone that has any ideas please help! I love this man with all my heart but he is destroying me inside saying horrible things about me calling me names and accusing me of this stuff......I don't want to leave him but I don't have any ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Issues With My Parents (Posts: 4)

CREATED: May 25 2016 at 13:46 by Prvngrl22 RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / cheerfuloptimism / Linneyfye LAST POST: May 29 2016 at 10:50

I am 22 yrs old and I recently got into a pretty serious relationship (6months). My folks are super old school, and can't bare when I ask to stay the night at my bfs house or suggest that he stays at my house (which I still live with my parents). I feel so limited to the things I can do there, I feel like I can't grow up. His family is much different than mine, and they're really welcoming and kind. He suggested I move in with him, and I really want to. Any feed back will really help. Thank you. ...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Personal Problem & What To Do About It? (Posts: 5)

CREATED: May 25 2016 at 06:50 by Boxedthoughts RESPONDENTS: Amms / Linneyfye / Meee LAST POST: May 28 2016 at 20:56

First and foremost, before i get any links to psychology websites or articles or -whatever, I'm religious.I try to base my conduct off the bible, what it has set for me, and try to avoid what it clearly tells me to avoid. I've had one problem thats been.. Thats been a huge wall in my spiritual progression. I .. Masturbate.And ,although not frequently,also view pornography. I know for a fact the bible does Not condone this sort of conduct.I will not disclose my religion for reasons. Its been an ongoing battle but i have no back up-- i have not told anyone. It might seem trivial to some peo...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confusing Ex Guy Friend??? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 28 2016 at 11:22 by Everlasting Hope RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 28 2016 at 12:59

Hi (all names used are fake for privacy reasons) Recently my friend,George, decided to stop talking to me because I snapped at him. It all started a about a month ago when I was frustrated with school and I done something silly in order to catch up with work. My girl best friend, Natasha, told him what I had done and he told me off for it. I'm one who doesn't do well when someone is dicatating what I should do. I snapped at him but later apologied and took his advice. Everything was fine up until the end of that week. He was acting extremely off and being damn right rude. Naturally I ask...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Crush On Boyfriends Best Friend (Posts: 10)

CREATED: May 21 2016 at 15:02 by Amms RESPONDENTS: sarahbbj / Bear0161 / susiedqq / Linneyfye LAST POST: May 28 2016 at 11:20

I am feeling attracted towards my boyfriends best frd. I First time met him even before our relatn started .He is a very handsome guy a lot similar to my bt but he has green beautiful eyes and i am a very beauty conscious person.I fall for beauty. .Recently i havent met him from many months may be about 8 months or More but i couldnt forget his face.My bf loves me to core and my family deeply wants us to marry.He supports me and my siblings in studies financially as well ( my father is not alive and i have no job right now).I think that there is very lil chance that his best friend will acc...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Intp Boyfriend Issues (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 23 2016 at 14:13 by Katie89 RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye LAST POST: May 28 2016 at 05:54

I just started dating my boyfriend a little under two months ago. While things were great at first, I noticed problems in our relationship starting to arise. He has trust issues from previous relationships and It is my belief that they are spilling over into ours. He has to know where I'm at or what I'm doing at all times so we can be "in sync" so he says. Every time we get into a fight, it seems its because I bring something up that is bothering me or that i'm concerned about and he gets really mad that I didn't bring it up earlier and accuses me of not being "forthright". I admit that I...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Don't Know What To Do About This Boy (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 28 2016 at 00:21 by Wrenn RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye LAST POST: May 28 2016 at 05:32

Hello! I've never really done this before, but I feel uncomfortable talking to my friends about this so here it goes. There's this guy. I've never really been able to say that before. I've always kept to myself, at least romantically. Most people respected that and didn't try to connect with me that way. This guy did. He broke through the wall I had created. He asked me out three times. I rejected him 3 times. It's not that I don't like him, he's funny I guess and really sweet. We're in the same french class and text almost every day. He gets me to talk about deep personal stuff that I usua...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused And Mad , So Lost (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 28 2016 at 01:12 by kelly251 RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye LAST POST: May 28 2016 at 05:21

was with this guy , we planned everything together even planned to have a baby together. I already have two of my own. I told him we even about having a kid u have to promise when start to get tough u won't run. he said he wouldn't. then all of a sudden he went off the deep end. because of his mental disorder he was put in the hospital for a week. the whole week he was in there somehow his mom got to doctors convincing I abuse as a result if he was come back I could lose my kids. I lost my job cause he would watch the kids while I went to work. I was trying to help him get his dream job puttin...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Who Is Right, Me Or Him? (Posts: 10)

CREATED: May 24 2016 at 00:29 by atalosssometimes RESPONDENTS: Quiet / Linneyfye / Soulmate / Skinnygirl / male28 LAST POST: May 27 2016 at 23:02

My husband and I have a single female friend who, by her own admission,only sleeps with married men. We were at her house this weekend and my husband was outside grilling while the women were inside. The female friend went outside and down the steps with my husband. Later when I walked outside and over to the side of the upper deck, they were talking low (which is unlike either of them) and then she looked up and saw me and said ummm you have someone listening. They both stopped talking and changed the subject to involve me. I was a bit upset but husband says that I shouldn't be. What do you t...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Girlfriiend Seems Selfsish (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 27 2016 at 22:32 by bitesize RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 27 2016 at 22:54

HI ive been with my girlfriend now for almost a year.we decided to live together about 4 months ago as we were getting on great ,as she was on a low income i said if she just paid towards food i would pay all other bills , but now im just feeling taken for granted ,if we do anything as a couple i always have to suggest and arrange it ,where she is out at least once a week with friends while im at home because i cant afford to go anywhere , i have spoken to her several times and just get an excuse ,at first she said if i want any money or her to pay just ask as shes got loads saved up ,and ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Naive And Unsure (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 26 2016 at 11:19 by missyb RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye LAST POST: May 27 2016 at 22:50

So, I'm 23 and never been in a relationship. In fact its quite uncommon for me to have feelings for a guy. (never a girl) I only state this to demonstrate just how inexperienced I am. Over the past few months I got to know a guy as a friend and pretty quickly developed feelings for him. After a month or two of shy flirting a drunkly asked if he had any in return, he said he as still getting to know me. I took it for nice guy rejection and went right back to being friends. The flirting didn't in fact top, it was more obvious. It got to the point that most of our club had assumed something was g...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category 13 Years And I Finally Have Some Self Respect (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 27 2016 at 10:06 by sportzgrrl RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul / Linneyfye LAST POST: May 27 2016 at 21:49

I've been married to my husband for nearly 13 years, and when we met I moved abroad to his country (I'm American, he's English). Despite feeling very vulnerable when relocating and having to start over in my career and life, I have done my best to carve out a good life for myself. My self esteem at that time (and really through most of my life) was pretty low, and I found it very difficult to express my emotions in the early stages of our marriage. However, no matter how I carefully chose my words if I was upset about something (eg I have always done the majority of housework, bill paying, ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Married 6 Years, Feeling Used:( (Posts: 9)

CREATED: May 15 2016 at 04:46 by Linneyfye RESPONDENTS: manalone / Skinnygirl / susiedqq LAST POST: May 27 2016 at 21:02

I am currently a stay at home mom, previously a part time working mom, before that a full time working adult. My kids are 5 and 3. My husband and I have been on and off the rocks again. My main problem is I do not feel supported emotionally. My husband works long hours, around 50 hours a week, so I never feel right In asking him to help with the kids or to do anything around the house. Now that I am at home full time I guess I feel like that's how I earn my keep, so to speak. That being said, we have recently relocated for his job, which was a pay raise and I believe good for our family, b...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category How Do I Know If My Marriage Is Over.... (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 26 2016 at 16:45 by Janey RESPONDENTS: bkk5 LAST POST: May 27 2016 at 12:47

I just wanted some help and advise. I am 8 months married and have been with my husband for 11 years. We had a rocky start and I guess in essence I have always felt like I was 'lucky' when he moved in with me and eventually asked me to marry him. (In our first three years together he broke up with me twice and had a drunken one night stand). However we had been together for the last 7 years and happy - or so I thought. After the wedding I realised that ... with no wedding to plan anymore that we had become 2 separate people. He was watching sports almost every night and all weekend, ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Misunderstanding With My Lover (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 26 2016 at 19:02 by rahul151 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 27 2016 at 12:34

Hi everyone, I request you all to provide me some solution to my life problem. Actually I am in deep love with one girl from many years onwards we both love each other widely. as usual they are certain misunderstandings occurs between any pair. but what my actual problem is I am person with attitude like concentrating more on career only I don't have much interest towards my beauty. as time passes slowly my hair got fallen mostly in time frame of this duration. I got some costly treatment from doctors also but no luck. currently, as time passes slowly misunderstanding betwe...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Birth Control - His Turn And 8 Years Later...still No Vasectomy (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 25 2016 at 18:44 by Numby Mommy RESPONDENTS: lila LAST POST: May 26 2016 at 09:46

Before we even had children, I was the one who took care of the birth control. We agreed that after we had our 2nd child, husband would go and have the vasectomy (V). After our 2nd child was 6 months old and still no V, I went ahead and had an IUD put in, which was a 5 year plan. Done. Five years passed. Still asking him to get the V done, but would hear "I'll do it in the spring." "I'll take care of it in the winter." After awhile I (once again) went in for a procedure and had the Nexplanon (3 year birth control) inserted into my arm. After 9 months of nonstop heavy bleeding, miserable cr...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Need A 24/7 Friend (Posts: 3)

CREATED: May 25 2016 at 08:03 by LonelyGhostWriter RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / Amms LAST POST: May 25 2016 at 21:38

My mom is in the hospital, stage 4 breast cancer, I m currently staying with her in the hospital, she won t let me sleep. I just want a friend to talk to. Ya know? Just to talk to..I'm just very lonely and need someone to just talk to me. Please. She has stage 4 breast cancer, it spread to her brain, and in her bones. I have a lot of free time on my hands, but not too social because well, i'm at the hospital, I just need someone to talk to. I'm starting to fall into depression....

Workplace advice forum category advice forum category Screwed Up My Only Source Of Income (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 24 2016 at 19:30 by Poodles McGee RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: May 25 2016 at 10:29

I quit my full-time job a few weeks ago for reasons and am currently looking for new work. I'm running out of money, and the only other income I have is a small office cleaning job, about $250/month. I'm supposed to clean this place twice a week and bill every two weeks. Due to depression, I have only been cleaning once every two weeks, but billing for all four services so they won't know I'm being so terrible. Well, of course one of the office tenants finally complained to the building owner who I bill to about the overflowing trash. I've screwed up here in a big way, and I need to k...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category If This Were A Storyline In A Soap Opera You Really Wouldn’t Believe It… (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 24 2016 at 23:10 by Richie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 25 2016 at 03:15

Right here we go… I am ‘C’ 55 years of age. I am the third of 4 siblings. The eldest son has just turned 60 (we will come to that) we’ll call ‘B’ has an MBE & thinks of himself as an entrepreneur. Two years younger was my sister ‘J’ who was tragically taken away from us back in 1975 in a car accident that also took away the lives of three other people. Two years younger again is myself ‘C’. Finally comes my ‘little’ brother ‘A’ who is 9 years younger than myself. We grew up in a pub & my father being ex-services was very strict. So much so he was very violen...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Stress (Posts: 3)

CREATED: May 20 2016 at 14:56 by reddy RESPONDENTS: Problemsproblemspr / Soulmate LAST POST: May 25 2016 at 02:31

how to get rid of stress, i am software developer and has to do lot of coding all the time. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is My Wife Cheating ? (Posts: 16)

CREATED: May 20 2016 at 00:57 by Harley RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / susiedqq / Linneyfye / quiet / Blacklifeonline / Soulmate LAST POST: May 25 2016 at 02:16

I have been married to a wonderful woman for 8 years now. We have a 7 year old daughter. She was married before and has a 16 year old son. She left this guy 5 years before we met and said she was scared of him and supposedly has no contact with him. This past Sunday I find out he has worked in the same department but different location as her for 3 years. She says she didn't know he worked there but I know that's a lie. The only other lady that works beside my wife is friends with him on fb. I packed and walked out. Hardest thing I have ever done. Does It Sound Like She's CHEATING OR Am I ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage In Crises (Posts: 10)

CREATED: May 19 2016 at 03:59 by Delanie RESPONDENTS: TammyM / Jenny35 / Skinnygirl / Linneyfye / quiet / Blacklifeonline / Soulmate / Gymrat LAST POST: May 24 2016 at 11:26

Describing my marriage issue in full would literally take pages and pages. There is a lot of background that just can't be explained in this format. My husband and I have been married for 15 1/2 years. The last 7 or so have been some good times and a lot of bad times. Right now my husband won't hardly speak to me. It's almost like he hates me. He shows such disdain and disgust. He says he has no feelings for me because he says i am not committed to fulfilling his number 1 need--sexual. For me to please him like he wants, I would have to either get breast augmentation, dress sexier at work (sho...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Question For The Ladies (Posts: 14)

CREATED: May 21 2016 at 17:12 by blacklifeonline RESPONDENTS: quiet / Linneyfye / LonelyGuy / alwaysinmyhead LAST POST: May 24 2016 at 01:10

Ladies if you were married and your man paid all of the bills, was faithful, and spoiled you, would you screw him on the regular? The reason I ask this is that there seems to be an epidemic going on. My married buddies seem to be in the same household if you listened to there convos. There are some good men out there that are getting short changed by the same women who say men aint sht. Two of my friends are signing divorce papers as we speak, and I'm on my second marriage trying to hold it together. So ladies, how do you are would u treat a Real MAN....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Am I Mentally Ill? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 23 2016 at 22:06 by Mercy_Help RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 23 2016 at 22:46

Hey what's up. For a while now I've had a keen interest in bladed weapons (knives and swords mainly). I guess that's normal but is it if I have cut in the past? It only really started after I cut (only done it once). I lack confidence in myself and have a deep hatred towards school (even though my grades are fine). I cannot get into a relationship and worry that if I do then they will leave me. Members of my family have a mental illness and I wanted your opinion on the chances that I too have this illness. I'm pretty much convinced that I am ill due to the occasional moment I want to die (...

Drug advice forum category advice forum category Self Medicating For Depression And Stress (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 19 2016 at 13:24 by Steven X RESPONDENTS: Harley / Soulmate LAST POST: May 23 2016 at 18:08

Hey There! I need some advice or help or something (I don't really know!). So, last year I tried marajuana for the first time, that was rather uneventful. I didn't really like it, but I also didn't hate it. After doing that for 6-9 months I was given the opportunity to try Es. I loved them, it was the first time I was happy in literally months (Suffering with depression). After giving it 5-6 weeks, I tried them again but this time I did too much and ended up in a bit of a mess (still an enjoyable experience but I was simply too high...). After this I was on the hunt for a hard hitting but m...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum category Questioning Myself (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 18 2016 at 03:07 by Sealgirl19 RESPONDENTS: Problemsproblemspr / Soulmate LAST POST: May 23 2016 at 16:33

Growing up I was a tomboy who kept to myself. I was never really one to gawk at guys and my favorite colour wasn't pink. I haven't had a relationship until I was 19. I only had two relationships and they were hetero.I felt uncomfortable when having sex with the guys I had sex with.I feel uncomfortable because I'm not sure if I could claim myself as Lesbian. I haven't been in a relationship with a women and I only experimented once when I was young. I'm just unsure of what to call myself at this point. My question(s) would be Is to late to claim your gay if you've been hetero relationshi...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused By This Guys Behavior. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 22 2016 at 22:20 by Midnight.Sky RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye / Soulmate LAST POST: May 23 2016 at 16:20

Met this guy online - we met a few times but never started a relationship. I deleted him from all my social media because I was heartbroken after he TOTALLY ignored me on there for 2 years - I mean NO interaction with me on Facebook, didn't like a single photo of me or status or comment. He never acknowledged any comments I left on his photots etc..6 MONTHS AFTER I HAD DELETED HIM he text me on my old mobile (i changed my number) but i ignored it. He has just come back into my life after 4 years of no contact through Facebook messenger and he spoke to me for 1 hour, then stopped....now he has ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category The Unclean, Verbally Abusive, Husband (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 19 2016 at 03:17 by Abra B RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye / Soulmate LAST POST: May 23 2016 at 14:53

My husband is great, not perfect, but a really great guy. I love him very much. My issue with him is that he refuses to help clean the house unless I ask and when I ask, he completely becomes verbally abusive. This has been a problem throughout our marriage. I've tried talking to him and asking him why he won't just chip in; why he won't just help. He responds by saying I'm to demanding, controlling and smothering; if I just leave him alone and let him clean on his own time, then he would. So, I've gone for WEEKS without saying a word to him, just allowing him to come around to clean whene...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Why Do I Bother Staying With Him (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 23 2016 at 02:01 by jester RESPONDENTS: Alwaysinmyhead / Soulmate LAST POST: May 23 2016 at 13:36

I don't know if this relationship is even worth staying in I'm tired of my boyfriend constantly getting on chat lines and different websites I don't only have to worry about him talking to girls it's guys too. ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Im New (Posts: 2)

CREATED: May 19 2016 at 01:10 by maddiii__ RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / Soulmate LAST POST: May 23 2016 at 13:24

Hey guys, im new on here and dont know how to use this site.. a friend told me to create an account...

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