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Been Raped And I Can't Live With The Consequences (Awaiting first response)
dear readers, kindly bear in mind that i am Lebanese and Muslim... my society differs from everything you might consider! we have loads of social contradictions in our lifestyles, lots of non applicable values and instructions, way to heavy social judgments...i was rapped by my mother's friend at the age of 8, been severely harassed sexually and as a child i didn't understand anything! in fact part of what was happening was enjoyable... mom was always busy with her boyfriends, dad with his work, alcohol and political network... i lost my father at the age of 12 ( ...
Topic created Apr 21 2014 at 13:42 by persa90
Changes In Relationship (Posts: 2)
I am 23 yr old girl having a relationship with a guy for last 6 years.But things have changed now. Of late we have fights for silly reason. We were in long distance relationships for the first four years of our relationship and now in same city for last 2 years. He even said that due to our regular meetings and chats he have even lost interest in me and also physically, there nothing interesting left.Can you please help us to find our lost love?...
Topic created Apr 21 2014 at 11:42 by rhea - Last post Apr 21 2014
Am I Asking For Too Much? I Dont Think So? (Posts: 3)
Im KJ, 23 and have a question … Also, bf is Adam and 24. My boyfriend and I have been together for just under six months. Last week (Thurs), he’d asked me what I had planned for Saturday and I told him I had a family event for Easter but it would only last an hour or so. We typically see each other for a while on Saturdays but this family event was something I had to attend. He told me that him and his best friend (male) were going to a hiking trail about an hour away and he wanted me to come. I told him I couldn’t. I asked who else was going and he said pos...
Topic created Apr 21 2014 at 15:34 by KJGirl90 - Last post Apr 21 2014
Lost Hope For Life (Posts: 3)
There was a guy in my life,I had been in relationship with this guy for like around 2years, but in those 2 years he has dominated over me more than he has loved me. If I did a mistake, I had to pay back for it like a dozen of times.He belonged to a pure punjabi family.I have been to his house, even met his parents.I was always worried about how will I survive with him as a partner,because his anger is very torturing.I am an independent girl working in a good IT MNC.I am earning sufficient to feed myself and my family.I lost my father 11 years back.Since then, my m...
Topic created Apr 21 2014 at 14:13 by Kashi - Last post Apr 21 2014
Acceptad2 said:today 06:20 Pm In Love With Someone A Bit Older Who Was In Autho (Posts: 2)
I'm falling in love with this girl who is a few years older than me. (24) But the problem is I do not know if she is even bisexual at all let alone the fact that my feelings are completely inappropriate as she was my manager for a little while but now we are friends so it's a bit better. Basically I don't know what to do, I've tried hinting im attracted to her but I thinkshe tthinks im just joking. Do I tell her how I feel? Shall I hint some more and wait and see? Is there a chance she feels the same as we both said we can't be bothered with boys right now. Maybe ...
Topic created Apr 20 2014 at 18:28 by AcCePtEdX - Last post Apr 21 2014
My Boyfriend Goes On Trips With His Ex. (Posts: 1)
I've been with my boyfriend for just over a month and have been seeing each other for 3 months, I've known him for years and also his ex. They have a child together, but also have one on the way. They still go on trips with each other, and he's also going away with her for two days. He says that he don't love her, he does it to just see his child, he's scared that she will stop him seeing his children. I completely understand that they need to talk and see each other, but days out and holidays?! I don't see the kid or my boyfriend when he as him. My boyfriend says...
Topic created Apr 21 2014 at 12:41 by EmilyT93 - Last post Apr 21 2014
Trying To Move On (Posts: 1)
Guys, Thank u very much for ur replies as it helped me a lot to come out of a trouble which i thought would never be resolved. Now i hv understood what life is nd i am trying to move on. But, how cn i knw that someone(girl) wants to b close to me ?...I have a dilemma in this regard,...
Topic created Apr 20 2014 at 13:09 by swanapaul - Last post Apr 21 2014
Is This The Beginning Of Depression? If Yes, How Do I Overcome It Without Anyone (Posts: 2)
ok... so let's start with a little background for my problem .... YEAR 2013: I'm from India, I wanted commerce but had to take science because my parents asked me to atleast give it a try. I HATED SCIENCE. I ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT COMMERCE WOULD BE PERFECT FOR ME. I LOVED IT. Had i opted for commerce, i would have been atleast in the top 5 ( no kidding ) my lack of interest was clearly visible in my class, my grades went down ( I failed in three out of 5 subjects! ) To add fuel to the fire, my sister got diagnosed with schizophrenia. she used to call me names a...
Topic created Apr 20 2014 at 17:57 by StupidGirl - Last post Apr 21 2014
Dui Tearing Us Apart (Posts: 5)
My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 10 years and have been in a serious relationship for about 4 years now. We love each other very much and have even recently moved across the country together. We moved so he could go to a technical college for marine mechanics. About 10 months before the big move we got into an argument he went out with is friends and was arrested for a DUI. There was no doubt in my mind about staying and helping him though the tough time. I was nothing but supportive because I thought it was a stupid mistake and he would learn fr...
Topic created Apr 19 2014 at 18:06 by lostINlove878 - Last post Apr 21 2014
Is This A Dead Relationship? (Posts: 2)
Me and my boyfriend have been together for five, almost six months now. For the first three-four months he was really insecure and we had a few problems and arguments and such. But now, the tables have turned and now I'm the insecure one. He spends so much time on other people when he's not with me. I know that we're two different people, but he suddenly changes. He's become more distant towards me. I guess, because we've been having too many arguments. And over the past give months, we've had so many 'fake' break ups that it's affecting us. We argue too much. If ...
Topic created Apr 21 2014 at 02:19 by lully - Last post Apr 21 2014
Is It Worth My Effort? (Posts: 1)
I have been dating my bf for a year and a half. It started off strong for the first month or two and then things got rocky. Then I found out I was pregnant. The relationship was difficult throughout the pregnancy. It turns out he is an alcoholic and a drug addict (weed), and can't seem to keep a job because he keeps getting fired due to his attitude. Now our baby is 9 months old. He is a wonderful father and has been staying home with the baby for the last 6 months (and I went back to work). I feel like I'm paying for everything. He pays for half the rent with his...
Topic created Apr 20 2014 at 14:17 by sdoodles444 - Last post Apr 21 2014
Stuck Between Best Friend And Lover (Posts: 2)
im 16 and have talked to this boy for 9 nearly 10 months and i love him so much. when i told my best friend and they met she does not like him and basically made me end it and said that if i had started a relationship with him that she would have stopped talking to me. unknown to her me and the boy still talk and are still in love and now hes ended it and the only way he'll talk to me is if we get together cause as we are were never going to be together. i want to be with him and dont know how to tell my best friend and dont want to lose her. what do i do help i k...
Topic created Apr 20 2014 at 18:23 by jasminet98 - Last post Apr 20 2014
As He Been To Strip Clubs (Posts: 3)
My husband said a name of a strip club after we were watching a programme on tv and I wondered how he knew the name of it. He said he had been watching top gear and they went to a club and that what was it was called. He went to one called pussey galores years ago which he denies but I know he did because he went with quite afew work male colleagues and he as always said he went back to the hotel because he had a headache but it was just a lie to fool me. I know he likes women because even in front of me he as stared at them then denied that he did. No respect f...
Topic created Apr 20 2014 at 01:04 by Sunshinelove - Last post Apr 20 2014
Be Nice To Have Some Opinions (deep Life Help) (Posts: 2)
Okay so first I will just start off by saying whats on my mind, then I'll give background info. -So tonight I've been thinking about me and life. Im so scared as to how I'll end up going off how it is now. I know things change but I just don't see when that change will ever happen. All my life has been rough. Always dealin with worryin bout lights gettin cut off, beening able to just live. If my life wouldve been poverty as my only problem, id see change will happen. When you have no mom, a effed up dad, and always strugglin it just makes it hard. Im 18 worked at ...
Topic created Apr 20 2014 at 08:47 by TexasKid1995 - Last post Apr 20 2014
Emotional Affair? (Posts: 6)
For 8 years my husband has worked with a woman who is his friend. The very first time I met her I could tell they had a lot in common. Her and her fiance and me and my husband went out for dinner. I was uncomfortable at times not understanding what they were talking about or not getting some joke, but I tried to let it go. At the end of the meal she tried to pay, but my husband grabbed the bill. The jokingly argued over who was paying while her fiance and I just sat there. He stood up to go give the waiter the bill and she stood up to try and get it from her...
Topic created Apr 19 2014 at 20:43 by Knest1 - Last post Apr 20 2014
Should He Stay Or Should He Go? (Posts: 3)
(This will be a very long post so bear with me please) My boyfriend and I are in our 40's and he moved into my home last October so we have been together for 6 months now. At first things seemed ok until he admitted during Christmas time that he didn't love me for the first month and half, then when I bought him 2nd hand Xbox games, he started to love me. This year I bought him a new smartphone because his old ordinary nokia phone was on the blink. I helped him set up an email address/password and introduced him to the social media site Twitter and helped him set ...
Topic created Apr 19 2014 at 13:29 by Spooooky - Last post Apr 20 2014
Is It Time To Move On (Posts: 8)
Ive been with my partner 12 years now. shes a loving careing person but things are difficult. I have had to change a lot over the years as I was unable to change her but felt I loved her enough. But things just seem to be getting worse. Iwil ad more details later as 12 years is a lot to explain. But at the moment if I think why an I with her the list is short. 1 she is kind and careing, 2 she has the loveliest Virgina, 3 she has a really naughty smile, 4 how would my 15 year old son cope with loosing her and our 13 year old dog, 5 what would I become without...
Topic created Apr 19 2014 at 09:53 by timeornot - Last post Apr 20 2014
What To Do, What To Do (Posts: 1)
I got out of a long term relationship with my girlfriend 2 months ago (maybe about a year and a half long) and have been getting really close to one of my female friends ever since. I did not exactly make any advances towards her in the first place, she started the constant conversations, snapchats, and food runs we've been doing for awhile. But I have always had some feelings for her ever since I met her (I've known her for two years). And now that we are always talking and seeing each other, my low key feelings for her have erupted into something I don't think I...
Topic created Apr 20 2014 at 03:37 by Turles - Last post Apr 20 2014
He Loves Me , He Loves Me Not ? (Posts: 3)
So I like this guy and he is confusing me beyond belief . We just started talking a little over a month ago but communication doesn't seem to be a problem : we text and talk in school almost daily , he even walks me to my classes . I was very on and off about him sometimes though because I have never liked anyone as much as I like him and he seemed like he wasn't interested. But then he admitted to liking me , and not just once but at least three times at different points . But recently over Spring Break , we didn't communicate at all and I feel like that threw us...
Topic created Apr 19 2014 at 16:09 by kaye.adreona - Last post Apr 19 2014
Housewife And Lonely (Posts: 10)
Ok where to start here, I've always been a socially active person. Recently I met a new partner and moved to a new area. I've been here a few months now and don't have any contacts around the area apart from my partners parents. I'm happy in the area and love my partner but the days are so long. My my partner works away, when he's home we do everything together and all is well. When he returns to work however I sit vegetating on the sofa feeling in a rut. My partner has some insecurities due to his ex cheating so I don't have social media accounts and without any ...
Topic created Apr 10 2014 at 13:16 by Connie21 - Last post Apr 19 2014
Am I Over Reacting (Posts: 5)
Hello all I am looking for abit of advice or guidance really as I am at a junction and I don't know what way to turn. In a nutshell I have been with my partner for 14 yr and we have had our fair share of problems with fault on both sides but we have always just stuck it out and got on with it. But now I am beginning to question just how selfish this man really is. Or am I just over reacting. Last week my Granda who is like a dad to me got rushed into hospital with kidney and heart failure and was on lifesupport. So going the hospital everyday he started to feel le...
Topic created Apr 15 2014 at 13:14 by geordie33 - Last post Apr 19 2014
Mixed Signs (Posts: 29)
I have been married for 12 years. My husband decided to retire and I stopped working also as to we were going to travel. But things changed his work offered him a good deal to come back and consult. He still draws his pension and paycheck. I no longer work outside the home. It's only the 2 of us I have no income as of now. He didn't need to go back to work but he chose to. So here's the problem every time I ask for money he tells me to get a job when I say okay I will he tells me not to I'm so confused. He does all the shopping I sometimes go with him he buys anyt...
Topic created Apr 12 2014 at 06:29 by kassidy - Last post Apr 19 2014
Been In A Pickle For Years =s (Posts: 5)
Hey, This is a bit of a long story but I'll try keep it short. When I was alot younger I met two best friends both of whom are lesbians ( As am I ). When I was 18 I started dating one of the friends only to find out she was "in love" with the other friend ( who was very hot might I add =P ) The friend I was going out with dumped me to try sleep with the other friend but It ended up with me sleeping with her instead, I really liked her and she really liked me but for some reason I chickened out and got back with the girl I was with in the start. I still wanted the ...
Topic created Apr 18 2014 at 02:27 by 7hi5m0rt4lh0u5e - Last post Apr 19 2014
Should I Trust Him Again ? (Posts: 7)
We'll this is a good one. I'm 47, been with my hubby since I was 18 and have 3 kids , 2 cats and a dog ! A few months my hubby s DBS declaring convictions came through the post with a conviction for soliciting prostitutes 10 yrs ago. No mention was ever made of it and it came completely out of the blue . I was actually sick when I discovered it ! When confronted he said it was a setup and nothing happened and that he had just stopped at the lights and she came over and then the police appeared put of nowhere on a cleanup operation ! Christ what do I do ? What do...
Topic created Apr 18 2014 at 22:17 by Happyhenrietta - Last post Apr 19 2014
I Need Your Help To Save My Relationship (Posts: 5)
Hey I'm student from Turkey and I'm sixteen.So my boyfriend and I broke up a month ago.It was our mutual decision.Our relationship was really different.We loved each other but we weren't meant to be.We were totally different.We had nothing to talk about but we loved each other.In fact, after we broke up I said i love him and he said '' I love you but we have to deal with this''.I was totally sure about his feelings.He loved me too. Now here is my problem.It has been a month but it still hurts so much.I want to know if he's feeling the way that I'm feeling.His ...
Topic created Apr 14 2014 at 18:01 by sebnemnur - Last post Apr 19 2014
He Says He Still Loves Me (Posts: 4)
I used to date this guy. We dated for about 9 months, we broke up because he couldn't handle a long distance relationship but we stayed friends. He keeps telling me he still loves me. He has had 4 girls after me and cheated on one of them with me. I didn't realize until I got home and saw his facebook. I'm not sure if I should believe him or not....
Topic created Apr 18 2014 at 18:05 by Alex2005 - Last post Apr 19 2014
Addendum-is It Love (Posts: 4)
Guys, after your views, I talked with the girl...she says that i cn be her bst frnd but she would never love me...i am in a dilemma...I love her and she knws it...still c is replying in such manner....what to do now ???? Help me please......
Topic created Apr 18 2014 at 08:48 by swanapaul - Last post Apr 19 2014
He Says Its My Fault. (Posts: 8)
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 almost 11 months and we have been living together for 6 months. in the last 2 months we have been fighting allot but usually it is little things like me telling him to calm down or putting something in the wrong place. but in the last couple weeks it has gotten worse now he says things like he wants me to leave and not talk to him or he will say he doesn't know if he wants to be with me. I understand that this is because I'm home allot, I only have school 2 days a week (if i can get there) and i only have 3 friends who...
Topic created Apr 15 2014 at 20:17 by GroovyKat - Last post Apr 19 2014
Calling Me By Another Name? (Posts: 4)
My boyfriend, who I've been with now for six months, keeps calling me by another woman's name. I am not talking about him accidentally calling me someone else's name during sex. He has done this since day one and I've expressed numerous times that I don't like, not to do it, and to ask why he does it. He's still doing it. He almost says it in the way that you would have a pet name for your partner, only why would my pet name be another woman's name? For example, if my name is Gina, then why does he jokingly call me Penelope? For example, if we were getting ready ...
Topic created Apr 17 2014 at 19:48 by tpasunshine - Last post Apr 18 2014
Musicians Girlfriend (Posts: 6)
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now, and he is a musician. I have always done my best to support him through all the different bands he's gone through and the times when he didn't have a band at all, etc. However, a little over a year ago a group of him and his friends started a band and now they are REALLY popular around where we live. They have a gig almost every weekend, and on top of that my boyfriend plays as a guest for a lot of other bands as well. He's always at a gig or practicing. It's just been hitting me really hard lately that I defin...
Topic created Apr 15 2014 at 18:12 by SweetBottom - Last post Apr 18 2014
Unsure Right Now (Posts: 4)
K so I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and really care about him. I guess you could say I'm on the jealous side just a wee bit. Usually on Saturdays we hang out together, along with other days during the week... But Always Saturday. This evening he asked what my plans are and I told him I have an Easter event I have to go to with my family at 330 that will last an hour or so but that's it. He said him and his best friend are going hiking to a waterfall about an hour away. I told him I couldn't come and he asked several times because he really wanted me to g...
Topic created Apr 18 2014 at 04:59 by KJGirl90 - Last post Apr 18 2014
Stuck In A Vicious Love Cycle (Posts: 16)
Dear friends, I need an advice on my relationship that is getting on my nerves. I am in a two years old relationship with a guy who has been a friend earlier. The problem is that he has cheated on me a couple of times. I have seen some messages in his cell phone and also caught him with some girl at some cafe when he had told me he was just busy in office. I forgave him and we moved on but of course it affected our relationship very negatively. Now those issues are sorted somewhat but most of our fights are due to his undue appreciation of other women which someti...
Topic created Apr 16 2014 at 22:39 by Discontented Tuna - Last post Apr 18 2014
The Player (Posts: 3)
(This is going to be a long post guys) So there's this boy who I used to talk to a lot and in a flirty way last summer up until October time when my friend told me he was trouble and would only hurt me because everyone knows that he's a lad and a bit of a player so I listened to her and a few weeks later I found out they had been talking in a flirty way a week before I stopped speaking to him. So my friend basically warned me of him for her own benefit and I got mad at her and didn't speak to her for a while, but eventually I let it go and they're still talking no...
Topic created Apr 18 2014 at 00:14 by emilyrickerby_ - Last post Apr 18 2014
Friends And Ex (Posts: 1)
Ok so i went out with a lad for 3 months and month ago he broke up with me, he told me it was because he cared too much about me then he told people it was because we didn't go out anymore and i changed and that he didn't love me anymore and that i said stuff which he knew i didn't mean so when i was going out with him, we all knew my best friend at the time liked him so like a couple of days before me and him broke up she told people that me and him were.... you know but it wasn't one bit true so then a couple days later he broke up with me and then he started li...
Topic created Apr 17 2014 at 23:58 by Ned - Last post Apr 18 2014
I Need An Outside Opinion (Posts: 6)
my bf and I have been together for almost 3 years and have a wonderful baby boy.... we met at the bar I worked at and we both had a significant other at the time...I know that it was wrong for us to do this but we cheated on our others to be with each other. then i left my ex an he divorced his wife an we moved in together. we found out that I was Prego about 2 months after we moved in together. from about 3 months after we moved in together he has accused me of cheating on him with just about everyone around us. he even went as far to put a recorder in our house ...
Topic created Apr 17 2014 at 06:18 by lilmonkey13 - Last post Apr 18 2014
Was There Actually Anything Going On? (Posts: 2)
I know a girl who i quite like. We knew each other for a while, as she is best mates with my housemate’s girlfriend. But it’s only a couple months ago when we got to know each other better. The housemate’s girlfriend kind of set us up, as she had apparently been interested in me for a while, but to “shy” to ask or do anything on her own. When we first got together we were quite chatty and close. Although I keep doubting myself as if she is actually interested in talking to me, or just being polite. We have "hooked up" so to speak a couple of times. But...
Topic created Apr 17 2014 at 22:03 by Vildar - Last post Apr 18 2014
Any Answer For This Problem,relationship (Posts: 6)
doe anyone have a good anwser.because i,m about to walk away.just have to find strengh.first problem is sex.i don,t ask much maybe 1 or two times a month.when i do it,s a aeguement.she can,t open her legs or get in a postition.so i can do my thing.it,s always hell.are if i say so .stop asking me then.are you need to stop looking at porn.i do that because i can,t ask my wife.the secong problem is her son.he,s 30 something.don,t pay bills.i always have to pick up after them both.can,t buy his own food,don,t want to work onlyrap,to me that,s playing with kids.if i sa...
Topic created Apr 16 2014 at 20:31 by oldman1960 - Last post Apr 17 2014
Dunno What To Do (Posts: 6)
Maybe I can find some answers here. My boyfriend and I have been together 4.5 months. We have been very happy. We are different in some ways but make each other very happy. He is perfect to me in many ways, although he annoys me sometimes and although he ha has talked to many girls over the years (talked, not dated…hes picky), he says none have made him is happy as I do. Anyway, to the point. I’m 22..and a virgin. He’s not. He’s slept with one girl, whom he dated a long time. He does not that I am a virgin. Sometimes I wonder if he wonders why I haven’t ...
Topic created Apr 15 2014 at 20:47 by KJGirl90 - Last post Apr 17 2014
My Ex Cheated On Me (Posts: 2)
I was in a relationship for 4 years and was shocked to hear that my fiance has cheated on me with an older woman. He confessed to me. I was so heart broken cz he is my first love and I trusted him so much. We kind of stopped contacting each other but we were checking on each other on and off. We were in a long distance relationship and we were in two different countries. we were planning to settle down in the same country and this problem just ruined everything. After I returned to my country ( two months after his confession), he has started chatting to a 19 yea...
Topic created Apr 17 2014 at 17:34 by Ginz - Last post Apr 17 2014
Is It Love (Posts: 4)
I love a girl a lot. I proposed her last May and she agreed to me. It continued for 2 months after which she said that she didnt love me anymore.After few months, in December she came to me and asked for a patchup...I agreed to it but after 2 months she said that she cant be in a relationship and she does not love anyone. I felt very bad and started avoiding her. But everytime she wants to talk to me or stands in front of me staring and pretending to talk with her friends. I still love the girl. What should I do now ?...
Topic created Apr 17 2014 at 05:43 by swanapaul - Last post Apr 17 2014
He Is Staying All Day Long In The Chat Room (Posts: 11)
Hi everyone, I am so damn confused that I will appreciate every idea how to change things. I met a guy online, maybe a month ago or a little bit more, we got emotionally close very soon, we talked every evening after work...he is even planning to travel very long distance to see me very soon, talking about marriage and children... And then the surprise, he has almost no time to talk with me for days. I know his work is extremely demanding but at the same time, I can see his profile active almost regularly and that drives me crazy. I already deleted my profile lon...
Topic created Apr 16 2014 at 13:53 by losty - Last post Apr 17 2014
33 Year Marriage, Wife Confessed To An Affair 15 Years Ago (Posts: 3)
Try to make this short as I could babble about this forever.Wife and I confessed any secrets we had from each other over 33 years. Prob not something I would quickly suggest for others....but anyway, I confessed to a short term affair with a married female employee about 21 years ago and she immediately retorted that she had given her boss, I guy I met and iived not far from) fellatio in his office and then tried to call him a couple of times but gave up when he did not return her call. I was dumbfounded. Yes, you are prob. thinking what the hell is HIS compl...
Topic created Apr 15 2014 at 21:48 by randy - Last post Apr 17 2014
So Sad Inside... Torn On What To Do:'( (Posts: 4)
Ok so I am dating a guy I really care about. He cares about me and tells me he loves me and we are happy together. I posted to the forum a whole back about him making comments about hot celebrities in movies And how it hurt me so much. I'm jealous. I know celebs are hot but don't want to hear him talk about them. Tonight we hung out and had a great time. When I got on Facebook it popped up on the newfeed he'd liked a funny meme with a half naked girl. Was it funny? Sure. Was it ok for him to think it's funny? But of course. Should he have liked it? NO . Not in my ...
Topic created Apr 16 2014 at 04:36 by Juno912 - Last post Apr 16 2014
Marrying A Divorced Man With 2 Kids. (Posts: 5)
Hi, I am 28 and I met a divorced man recently with 2 kids which he confessed later. He is in his 40s and his marriage broke mostly because of financial issues and his wife not paying or supporting for anything and sending lot of money to his brother. He had this doubt of his ex wife being physically, mentally, emotionally too close to his brother of which he was taking advantage. He says he is done with that woman and she is not for him. Its she who left and took huge money for claim for herself and kids. Custody of both kids is with her who are 10 and 15 yrs old....
Topic created Apr 16 2014 at 12:23 by Anu0001 - Last post Apr 16 2014
I Need Help On How To Not Talk To My Parents As Much (Posts: 17)
Hello, At first I might seem like a bad child for not wanting to talk to my parents, but I assure you that if you knew them you would think differently. I will not bother you with all the details about their personalities and the reasons why I don't want to talk to them. Instead I will tell you why I shouldn't. I live in a different country from them, which makes them forget how poorly we got along when we had each other every day. At the minute, I am an almost-thirty PhD candidate looking to graduate in August. This means I am old and busy, but they do not se...
Topic created Apr 15 2014 at 20:51 by cecypdel - Last post Apr 16 2014
Stray For Sex (Posts: 4)
Happily married 35 years to older husband who tries every method to achieve and maintain an erection but it's not working...Anyone have safe sex outside of marriage and be happy? It does not sound like me BUT......
Topic created Aug 8 2013 at 14:49 by 8533185032 - Last post Apr 16 2014
Overthinking Or Do I Have A Problem Here? (Posts: 3)
Can anyone help me? Please, I’m feeling so sad right now. Maybe I’m just having a pity party for myself, who knows. Ive been with a guy for five months almost. Used to, we would see each other 4-5 days a week; however, due to our very busy schedules, now we are seeing each other 2-3 at most. I really miss him when we aren’t together. He will message me all the time saying he misses me and loves me, however, I always doubt his love for some reason, especially since he’s been acting a little differently. Maybe you all will say I read too much into things but...
Topic created Apr 15 2014 at 14:22 by Juno912 - Last post Apr 15 2014
I Won't Ever Fall In Love Again (Posts: 3)
I'm 25. I'm chubby. I think I'm cute (at least I get attention from men), but I've never ever in my life had a boyfriend. My only record was 3 days when I dated my close friend but he told me it was a misunderstanding and confusion and I looked so pitiful he couldn't bring himself to tell me about it, and I ended up falling in love with him and it sure dragged on for a long time, it happened back in college. I have one issue I can't get over with no matter what - my breasts are not beautiful. They sag, have big dark areola, are look more triangular than round and ...
Topic created Apr 14 2014 at 11:22 by Amanda_1 - Last post Apr 15 2014
Is It A Problem Or Not (Posts: 4)
I have been married 18 years together 22. My husband never asked me to get engaged I suggested the idea after 6 months which was mad of me as it was way to soon and immature of me and he said if you want to. I wished I had waited for him to of asked me if he would of done. He said he would of probably asked after 2 years because of his confidence. I am the second woman to of asked him as his ex did as well so he must of been pleased knowing two woman asked. No one as ever asked me. It bothers me all these years later because I rushed things and should of waited a...
Topic created Apr 15 2014 at 00:14 by Sunshinelove - Last post Apr 15 2014
I'm Beginning To Feel Sick Over My Thoughts (Posts: 4)
I'm a good person. Up till last year I looked like crap, but after that summer my image changed. People started calling me attractive and the consensus was that I was "cute" from all girls I knew and others as well. My levels of confidence grew. In the time I spent before this happened I never had a girlfriend due to my own inferiority and now that I believe I'm "worth it" I don't know what to do or how to do it. I'm 18. Sadly, that isn't the worst part. As of recently I've been talking to women online to help with my problem,but another one has risen. I've been a...
Topic created Apr 14 2014 at 17:20 by guy584 - Last post Apr 15 2014
Parent's Divorce (Posts: 3)
I am 15 years old and my parents are getting a divorce. My dad is a great person and he looked at porn a couple times which made my mom want ot get a divorce, after 15 years. I would think you either do it early to spare the child, or wait untill they are in college, but my mom thought i would be grea to do it when we were teenagers ( It's still in progress). My mom got a job, and her boss decided to play office matchmaker, so she's met 2 guys: 1 that didnt click and one that she fucked on the first date("whore"). she denies this but my fragile family all knows wh...
Topic created Apr 13 2014 at 16:28 by BuckyBarnes - Last post Apr 15 2014
Confused!!!! (Posts: 3)
I have been married to my husband since March of 2012. We have a 3 yr old son and I am 6 months pregnant with a little girl. I work full time and go to school part time and will be in nursing school come august. I found out in February of 2013 that my husband had cheated on me with two different girls January of 2012, just two months before we got married. I also found out that he had done some coke with some of his friends. I decided not to tell him that I knew about it. Then I caught him drinking and doing come with his friends in December of 2013 and I blew up ...
Topic created Apr 14 2014 at 06:56 by Hmt11 - Last post Apr 15 2014
Can't Go My Away (Posts: 4)
I went away to go to school, while I was there I met a girl, we had a relationship. Well I messed up and I drop the ball and made her upset for many reasons. On spring break, she calls me up and we broke up. l I told my parents I thought we broke up was for a certain reason over a misunderstanding with her daughter. After graduation I move back home and I am still living there because of the poor economy I can't get a job in my field (my degree is business administration). Well fast forward two years we reconnected and we talk about our problems, but many things h...
Topic created Apr 10 2014 at 16:56 by oakolo - Last post Apr 15 2014
Is My Long Marriage Over? (Posts: 4)
Ok this is going to be a long post but will try to keep it short my marriage is in trouble and I need help!! I know this is going to be a bit one sided but I am going to try to put in both point of views of the relationship. First my husband and I have been married 24 yrs. this August and dated 3 years prior we have been together since I was 15 yrs old he is a year older than myself. After I graduated we married and he was already in the Navy. While in the Navy I went to school and stayed with my sister in law and took care of their small child and went to school ...
Topic created Apr 13 2014 at 20:13 by Clover - Last post Apr 14 2014
Met This Guy Through Matrimonial Site (Posts: 10)
Hi, I am 28 and met a guy through a matrimonial site after talking to him over the phone since 3-4 months. He came from US to India to meet me but insisted to go to goa with him to make it memorable for both of us. We went there spent some time together then he came to delhi to see me off. Earlier he said he will meet my parents but when i asked him he wasn't completely ready i guess. We were quite compatible and happy when we met and he financed everything and treated me like a princess. He came back again after 15 days to meet me for a business trip. Now its 4...
Topic created Apr 12 2014 at 07:00 by Anu0001 - Last post Apr 14 2014
Where To Go From Here (Posts: 1)
Okay so there is a women from work that i have been close to these last few months, when i first met her she was in a relationship with a man for 2 years, however,once we started getting closer and speaking more and more she decided to call a break between them which then caused their break up. From the start I have said that i just want her to be happy. She has been through a lot lately and i have been there all the way. Last week she told me that she loved me, of course i told her the same, however she has said that she still feels something for her ex, which i...
Topic created Apr 14 2014 at 12:14 by dino - Last post Apr 14 2014
Hiding Things (Posts: 4)
Hello, I am writing because of a recent situation I have noticed. Let me preface this was some history. I have been with my fiancée for almost 6 years now. We used to live in a major city and we moved to a suburb of a small city a year and a half ago. We moved out here to help take care of a relative who has ALS. I think we both are experiencing some mild depression with being out here, I know I was for a while because of how hard it was for me to find a job. I think my fiancée has some mild depression for a few reason. She is generally not happy here, we tak...
Topic created Apr 12 2014 at 23:14 by RS1985 - Last post Apr 14 2014
I Donno. (Posts: 3)
I have been with my boyfriend a little over a year now, he makes me happy and we tell each other we love one another often. But when I am alone I begin to start doubting us and if what we have is "true love" and whether I am actually in love with him or just the thought of him. Our relationship already has a messy history too. The incidents are: I have made out with 2 guys on 2 different occasions both where I was very drunk. I told him about both times and he forgave me each time, but I still and always will feel like a terrible person for doing that to him...
Topic created Apr 13 2014 at 23:52 by MX36 - Last post Apr 14 2014
Head Or Heart (Posts: 10)
I have a big problem, please help. So I never ask for advice but I think I'm stuck now, Im only 21yrs old and have a kid, have no parents and live by my self, PLEASE HELP. My ex boyfriend and I have a kid together, we dated for 4.5years and broke up last year September. I met a new guy thinking he was a rebound but turned out hes really great and we've been dating for 5 months and I am so inlove with him. Now since my ex and I broke up I've been waiting for the day he asks me to take him back 'cause I really still love my ex, I mean we share a kid. Now since me an...
Topic created Apr 2 2014 at 08:57 by Cloud7 - Last post Apr 14 2014
Couple Issues (Posts: 4)
Hi All, I need your advice on a personal issue. I have been married since 6 months now and I and my wife have kind of split right now. Although she wants to get back I have strong doubts that it will work out. Here’s the full story. Two months before our wedding we commonly bought a house coz she didn’t want to live with my parents (fair). Right from our wedding day, we couldn’t have intercourse coz she always felt pain. After that, regularly (very often – every 3 days or so) she got angry for petty things like she didn’t like what I cooked, that...
Topic created Apr 2 2014 at 08:24 by jamie - Last post Apr 13 2014
Should I Forget About Him? Please Answer (Posts: 3)
I began seeing this guy over a month ago. We had two great dates one weekend after another but we didn't meet for two weeks because he as family commitments which is fair enough. Last week we arranged to meet but he cancelled because he got a knee injury at training and even sent me a picture of the injury to show he was genuine. Last night he said he was going out with the lads after he match and asked me to meet him before hand for a drink, then he text last minute Said they changed their minds so me and my mate head out. Two hours later he said he convinced the...
Topic created Apr 13 2014 at 08:15 by MagicMary - Last post Apr 13 2014
Does He Like Me? Should I Backk Off? (Posts: 4)
I developed a crush on this boy. We began to talk, text, and flirt. I told my closest friends about my crush and one of my friends (male) asked him about it during a mutual class. He asked him: "So you and "myname."? "Do you like her" "Are you going to ask her out?". To my dismay he said no to all of the questions. My other friends told me that he might just be saying that cus he's afraid of rejection or doesn't want me to know. I want an opinion on if he likes me and if I should back off or keep pursuing him. ...
Topic created Apr 13 2014 at 03:35 by ColetteVandaver - Last post Apr 13 2014
I Miss And Love My Best Friend (Posts: 3)
I fell in love with my best friend, it started out as a crush from the first time I saw him he told me he had a crush on me since then to but he had a girlfriend we became friends and one day he kissed me a couple days later he dumped her and the next day I went to his we had sex and he said that me and him might start dating once hes ready I was whiling to wait but we argued about a vew things and he liked me a little less but still liked me, we fixed it and we havent seen each other in a while cause college is off he was suposed to come stay at mine and he cance...
Topic created Apr 13 2014 at 03:06 by HarleyQuinn - Last post Apr 13 2014
How Do You Move On.... (Posts: 6)
Hey I know this guy he was my first love 16 lost virginity etc he was the same age. However during that time he treated me kind of bullying it was just sex , and I was really insecure as a young girl..... he was in a band Nirvanna was big at the time and everyone had a garage band!!!! I was like the girl who sat there in my doc martins and jeans with holes in them..... they let me sing once. The used me for smokes that kind of thing. I just wanted to belong, fit in , and I loved him. Sometimes after he would insult me Id sit there and just cry, while he just ignor...
Topic created Apr 12 2014 at 19:15 by stonetemple - Last post Apr 13 2014
I Might Not See Her For Years... (Posts: 5)
After a few months, I may not see my girlfriend until I a few years later, but I went into the relationship with the intention of marriage, and I can't simply let her go. I don't know what to do at this point....
Topic created Apr 13 2014 at 03:05 by Zeignerec - Last post Apr 13 2014
A Log With Legs Spread Wide (Posts: 2)
Hello, I invite you all to discuss the following questions. There is a short article called A Log With Legs Spread Wide. My employees and I invited a few people to read them and to express their opinions. Here are some of their responses (all quotations are Anonymous to respect responders' privacy): "Well i think the article is true but that was long time ago. Nowadays things have changed a bit, some men do respect woman. As for me, as long as i make my money and i can take care of myself, i can't allow a man to disrespect me." "Not interested." "i jus...
Topic created Apr 13 2014 at 06:38 by katebazilevsky - Last post Apr 13 2014
Wish He Would Just Stop It Already=( (Posts: 13)
Ok so here goes. My boyfriend and I haven’t been together a whole awful long time…a little over four months. IN the beginning, he would always tell me how beautiful I am and he thought I was the prettiest girl in the world. I would just laugh and not pay much attention to him; Im not good at taking compliments, as you may know from a previous post on confidence issues. Anyway, he knows I have these self esteem problems. It seems like this started out as a small problem but has gotten bigger over time…. When we watch a movie with a “hot” girl, he will sa...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 22:30 by Juno912 - Last post Apr 13 2014
She Can't Stop Looking At Other Men While We're Out Together (Posts: 6)
I'm in my late '30's and fairly good-looking with an athletic/ muscular build and I've been in a relationship for 10 months with a wonderful woman. We tell each other we love each other several times a day. We have discussed the ' M ' word on multiple occasions and are a genuinely close couple. But...throughout our time together my partner has been prone to letting her eyes wander. This is a source of great frustration to me. Almost every single time we are out in public as a couple she ' latches on ' to other men with her eyes. She does it time and time again, wi...
Topic created Apr 11 2014 at 18:57 by bluestar - Last post Apr 13 2014
My 3 Year Crush And I (Posts: 8)
Got a crush for 3 years. NEED SOME ADVICES First of all you must understand the situation. i've met someone 4 years ago and was totally into her. She breakup without any reason and broke me mentally by the way she has done things but kept me in chains as she left doubts before leaving. i was blinded by emotion at that and i promised her that ill wait for her. Being a man of my word i've done it. That is where my actual crush appears. Perfect match! ...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 19:07 by ivan90 - Last post Apr 13 2014
I Can't Say Goodbye...and I Miss Him Terribly. (Posts: 2)
Hi. I've had a long, long distance relationship (1 year and 6 months) to say the least. He helped me through my depression and made me feel loved. He was my rock, my everything. But, my mother "doesn't like him" (even though she has never talked to him or met him) and has made me lose every single bit of contact with him. And his mother probably made him do the same. My friend tried texting him and he did not reply, so I'm guessing he got his number changed as well. But, it just really bothers me that I didn't get to say goodbye...at all. I miss him terribly. I sl...
Topic created Apr 12 2014 at 22:32 by katie0908 - Last post Apr 13 2014
7 Years & Long Distance Love (Posts: 4)
I am 14 years old and my 'boyfriend' is 21 years old. We love eachother alot but age difference keeps getting to him badly. Other than that we dont have any other problems. Im always sending him paragraphs on what I think & he says they're really good but he doesnt respond to them. I would always tell him that its his choice to choose to keep this going or end it. But he doesn't tell me which one he decides. . The last thing he responded to me was "I love you too". & we are also long distance too. He hasnt chose between us to keep being together nor ending it. ...
Topic created Apr 12 2014 at 09:04 by Blossom - Last post Apr 12 2014
Don't Know What To Do!!!! (Posts: 8)
Ok, so I've got a problem and I'm not quite sure how to deal with it. So I'm really good friends with one of my co-workers. Honestly though I like him more than just a friend and I want to tell him but I don't know how to tell him and I don't know if he feels the same way.He's really nice and funny, and pretty cute lol, we flirt a lot too. Like we hug all the time, and when we high five we end up holding hands and just looking at each other for a while. He always touches me too, simple stuff like he touches my neck and my arms. The first problem is that he's ...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 18:14 by Countrygirl5294 - Last post Apr 12 2014
No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Wife (Posts: 12)
This is my first time talking about this, so please excuse me if I do something wrong. I've lost sexual attraction for my wife. She was always a little thick(I like a little thick), but she is now obese. I don't find obese attractive. She used to be very out going sexually, but now she sits on the couch all day and complains about everything, including her weight. I've tried helping her and tried to get her to do something physical to help her feel better about herself. She doesn't want to. She doesn't respond when i "make a move", then complains that we don't ...
Topic created Apr 10 2014 at 22:22 by NoOneAtAll - Last post Apr 12 2014
He Left Me And I Dnt Know How To Deal With It (Posts: 9)
i am 21 year old girl. my boyfriend is one year younger than me. we r madly in love with each other. we r soulmates, which makes all these age prblems irrelevant. but his mother is strict nd so r my parents. his mother came to know about us. she saw our private pictures in his laptop. d nude pics i sent to him. she saw it all. she was devastated. she gave him choice. me or her. and as he loves his mom a lot, he chosed her. he is in pain. and me too. he swear on his mom that he wud nt talk to me again. because he was afraid that she might show those pictures to my ...
Topic created Apr 11 2014 at 07:06 by lovetora - Last post Apr 12 2014
Story Of My Life? (Posts: 6)
Hello. I have a long distance relationship with this girl for almost four years and I know her for about six years. She is my first gf. Our anniversary is on 11th of April. Basically we grew up together, loved each other and supported each other in every harsh moment of our lives. Now, our relationship is starting to fall apart. She comes from a hostile household and all the stress generated by her parents combined with more stress from high school graduation exams got us some distanced. The rough part begins only now... Since our connection wasn't very strong lat...
Topic created Apr 10 2014 at 09:38 by alineshh - Last post Apr 12 2014
Trust Matters (Posts: 8)
hi I deeply value relationships in life. Be it family, friends or love. I was in a serious relationship with a guy sometime back. We both really loved each other. We belong to an Indian society and though things and people's perspective are changing with time, we were still a bit old fashioned and did not believe in casual dating and all. We chose to be together because everything seemed to be going right, be it between ourselves or the families (that matters a lot). We had strong intentions of not indulging in physical relationship before marriage. But things di...
Topic created Mar 29 2014 at 04:42 by Bubbly - Last post Apr 12 2014
Psycho Ex Girlfriend Won't Leave My Boyfriend Alone (Posts: 10)
I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months and there's a huge problem: his ex. They were dating for years, but their relationship was toxic. It doesn't help that she's also my worst enemy. They have remained friends and they've been broken up for a year, but she still calls him and he still keeps in contact with her. He says he never loved her and she's like a sister to him, but she still asks him what they're going to name their child etc. She calls him every day, still tells him she loves him. I asked him to please stop communication with her, so he said he ...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 18:46 by jacquiqui - Last post Apr 11 2014
Someway Alone In Life? (Posts: 5)
I am guy 25 years old, and in my college days from 17 Years age to 21 Years age i was shy guy and crook as well which didn't match up with girls and was not able to create good friendships with girls then college got over and i got job ,now i feel very lonely in life i want girl in my life but can't marry because of not having higher paying job , i want to fullfill my sexual needs as now it always lead to nightfall.I also think that it was very shamefull that i could not create good relationships with girls or made any girlfriends So what should i do??It hurts me ...
Topic created Apr 10 2014 at 19:40 by Rohit's - Last post Apr 11 2014
Dont Know What To Do!! (Posts: 4)
I'm 20 and I'm really unhappy with everything!! I hate my life, I hate my job and I hate myself. I have extremely low self confidence!! I was bullied as a child and when I was 15 I got into an abusive relationship which I found extremely hard to get out of! He constantly put me down, saying I looked like a rat with no make up on and asked why I couldn't look like other girls. He made me do things I wasn't ready for and I had to 'earn' things. He cheated on me all the time and he even cheated on me with my 'best friend' when I went away for a week. It ruined me! I ...
Topic created Apr 11 2014 at 00:54 by LuLuBug - Last post Apr 11 2014
Before We Resume Our Relationship Should We Lay All The Cards On The Table? (Posts: 4)
I have been with my partner for almost 7 years. We are both only in our early 20's so we got together at a very young age. We recently had a rocky moment, and currently are no longer together. I made a very big mistake that I regret deeply, and I do not want to be attack for what I am about to divulge I am aware of the mistake I made and am punishing myself. I kissed another guy while still with my partner, that is when I realized that there was either something was wrong in our relationship or with me. So I ended it with him, explaining that i needed some time, a...
Topic created Apr 11 2014 at 11:08 by Aba - Last post Apr 11 2014
How Often Do You See Your Significant Other? (Posts: 6)
Hi there. I'm new here. Just a question...how often have you been dating your significant other & how often do you see them? I have been with my bf for 3 months. We are both 38 & see each other only once a week. We live 30 min apart & he is raising 2 teen daughters & I'm raising 4 kids, also. His ex is not in the picture, but mine is. We both work full time. I get home at 430 & him at 600. Is it clingy if I ask to see him at least once during the week plus our Saturday that we are together? I will drive to him & meet him for a bite to eat since I get home earlier....
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 18:15 by momx4 - Last post Apr 11 2014
Help...i'm Clueless (Posts: 4)
Hi everyone, I'm Ruth..aka Ruthy, I am 25. I am a christian, well I grew up in a christian home with christian values and I generally lived a good moral life. about 3 years ago i met this really nice christian guy. We started talking, then i started visiting him at home and well we ended up having sex...since then we have been having sex. we are not in a relationship. when we are alone together he makes promises to me but in public will never admit we have anything not even to a small extent..i think he's ashamed of me and wants to keep his options open. It hurts ...
Topic created Apr 11 2014 at 02:18 by Ruthy - Last post Apr 11 2014
Relationship/disloyalty (Posts: 4)
Ok so I told my boyfriend I'd help him buy a car (we would go half on it) he picked out a cheap car and the day we were supposed to buy it I backed out bc I wasn't financially stable enough to help him out now he thinks I'm disloyal and won't answers calls or texts...will he ever get over this? Should I leave him alone? I tried apologizing he didn't wanna hear it tho...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 23:11 by Littlelady93 - Last post Apr 11 2014
Dont Want To Push Him Away =( (Posts: 8)
I am really hoping someone can help me. I feel like I have some major issues that I need to get worked out. Ok, so I have some MAJOR self esteem problems. My family has recently told me they have never in their life seen anyone with such low self esteem. The thing is, I have no reason to not have self esteem. Everyone tells me all the time how beautiful I am. Strangers on the street will walk up to me at random and tell my how beautiful I am. Guys ask me out all the time, sometimes the same guys repeatedly. I have an amazing family and amazing friends. I am smart ...
Topic created Apr 7 2014 at 15:29 by Juno912 - Last post Apr 10 2014
Guilty Of Jealousy (Posts: 4)
I'm with my first real girlfriend, or first girlfriend I've ever felt so strongly about. She has some friends I'm not so fond of, but generally get along with. One of them is a guy, and he has a friend, also a girl, who is dying of a heart condition. My girl friend is nice to everyone, and when she hugs him and comforts him, I feel a burning hatred for him. I always feel horrible afterwards, but the hatred remains. I do not know how to handle this....
Topic created Apr 10 2014 at 03:27 by JohnnyArcher - Last post Apr 10 2014
Can't Deny My Feelings No More (Posts: 6)
Me any my boyfriend have been together almost two years and lived together over a year. I am bisexual and he has known about this since the start of our relationship. I had a very close friend in college and gradually developed feelings for her at the time (she never found out). Then I met my current boyfriend and moved out of area. Recently we have moved into a new house back in that area. Naturally, I have got back in touch with my old friends. I have met up with my old crush (still as a best friend) only to find that my feelings for her have not disappeared. I ...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 21:29 by el95 - Last post Apr 10 2014
Drugs, Infidelity And Death...how Do We Get Past This? (Posts: 3)
After my husband and I discovered we couldn't have children, we also found out my father in law was terminal with a rare brain tumor. We had been married a little over a year and both were recovering drug addicts. These two events lead to us using again, our drug of choice was heroin. One day we get arrested, my husband loses his job immediately, and I get fired 3 days later. 2 weeks after our arrest, we lose our house and have no other option but to move in with my husbands mother and her boyfriend. They lived an hour away, and at least 20 min away from the ...
Topic created Apr 8 2014 at 07:31 by amp0516 - Last post Apr 10 2014
Am I Crazy Jealous? (Posts: 5)
I've been with my boyfriend about two months now, and he is absolutely perfect couldn't wish for anything more. However before he was with me he was in a relationship for about 2 and a half years. His ex lied and cheated on him with various men, and then she fell pregnant, told him she had never cheated and that the child was his. They moved in together, he was there throughout everything, the child was born, but he had suspicions..did a dna test and discovered the child wasn't his. So they split and this was about a year ago. The house they rented was under his n...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 12:17 by Jaz-4193 - Last post Apr 10 2014
Doubts And Confusion Lately (Posts: 4)
I feel sort of silly asking for help from people I don't even know, but I'm hoping I can get some answers. My boyfriend and I have been together 5 months. I feel like he's been acting really different lately. Used to we could see each other 4-6 days a week but lately, weve both been SUPER busy so some weeks we only get to see each other 2-3 at most. He has been stressed from work lately so maybe that is causing this. Then again, I overthink everything so maybe he hasn't been acting that differently. I overanalyze everything and I hate that about myself, but I'm st...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 16:13 by Juno912 - Last post Apr 9 2014
I Don't Think I Love My Boyfriend (Posts: 3)
I've been with my boyfriend now for 5 and a half years. We started going out when I was 15 and he was 17. We have a house and two children together, our son I had when I was 16, we'd been together 2 months before I got pregnant known each other 6 months. He stayed with me though and was there at the birth and would come round my mum and dad's house. Our second child is 2 months old now and all four of us live together. He's the only person I've told I love but I haven't said it for such a long time and before that there wasn't much feeling to it. We don't spend ti...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 14:33 by Canary - Last post Apr 9 2014
How To Get A Womans Attention Online (Posts: 2)
I wish to place an advertisment in the adult section of Friday Add. The purpose of the add is to find a lady who may want to have a sexual relationship with me. I am a 70 yr old retired man with all his bits in full working order. How do I word it to attract ladies who will respond?...
Topic created Apr 8 2014 at 16:21 by Dick - Last post Apr 9 2014
My Boyfriend Acts Irrationally And I Think He May Be Mentally Unstable (Posts: 3)
Me and my boyfriend are otherwise very happy together, we've been together just under 2 years and love together in my student house, I'll be graduating soon and will be living together again next year with 2 friends. Recently however we've been having some really difficult problems with constant arguing, whilst I am sometimes at fault I have realised that I am often made to admit I am in the wrong when i'v acted completely naturally in order to avoid my boyfriend getting extremely angry/emotional, shouting (which is difficult because we love with other people and ...
Topic created Apr 9 2014 at 11:09 by Anon21 - Last post Apr 9 2014
I Don’t Know Me! (Posts: 6)
Well my problem is emotional! I don’t really know… 46 days ago I lost my father,36 days ago my boyfriend broke up with me after planning our wedding and everything. This isn’t the whole story! Well I really lost my father when I was 12, he had a brain stroke that lead him made him totally paralyzed that lasted for 12 years. He was the family caregiver, and due to his situation I had to start working at the age of 12, I only have one direct sister and an unstable mother. My mother tried to sell me so many times, busy with her own life and several me...
Topic created Apr 8 2014 at 14:16 by persa90 - Last post Apr 9 2014
2 Guys? (Posts: 4)
I have been with my current boyfriend for almost 3 years. My best friend (who is a guy as well) just moved back from out of state. He was only out there for 7 months. Recently we have confessed to each other that we like each other, and liked each other even before he moved. We have been hanging out a lot more and we get along so much better than me and my boyfriend do. My boyfriend acts like he doesn't care anymore. Ive been sick recently and he just gets mad. When I try to talk to him about something I want to talk about he usually doesnt listen or will change t...
Topic created Apr 8 2014 at 05:24 by dodgeneon1 - Last post Apr 9 2014
In Love With Ex, Theres More To It Than That (Posts: 4)
My ex and I dated off and on for a year and a half. His name is Dave. The 4 years we've known each other, we have never been just friends. Someone has always had feeling or we would meet up and stuff would happen. Everything leads back to him, its an endless cycle no matter how much I try to forget him. He always brokeup with me for stupid reasons, but now hes trying to get his life together. He was never good at expressing his emotions, but lately he tells me he wants me, he wants me in his life, he misses me. I forgot what I said, but he ends up saying no its mo...
Topic created Apr 7 2014 at 22:01 by Mess - Last post Apr 9 2014
Should I Just Walk Away (Posts: 9)
Ok so Iam a 30+ woman who got involve with someone from work the problem is we been hooking up off and on for 15 years now we are friends that seem to find our way to each other when we're having problems in our relationships' it seems to happen every 2 to 3 years. we'll hookup for about 1mon 2 being the most but we've been thru different things ova the years.i left the job and came back and so have he multiple times. i finally ended my 11 year relationship and he is still with his girlfriend. but we been hooking up for the last year he even chose to be with me se...
Topic created Apr 7 2014 at 05:24 by lovie35 - Last post Apr 9 2014
Should I Take A Break From Work? Need Guidance (Posts: 4)
I am a 24 year old girl and i am undecided on what to do. i have been in my current job for two years, I was living in dublin but moved back to Galway when my ex came home from Oz. 3 months after he came home I had an ectopic pregnancy and then became obsessed with my weight and got anorexia really bad. Only in the past few months I have been recovering-my menses returned and I was a healthy weight again but now feel i am relapsing again. Me and my boyfriend had a toxic relationship also, he was emotionally abusive and I am not sorry I am out of that. So it has...
Topic created Apr 6 2014 at 13:39 by MagicMary - Last post Apr 8 2014
Unsure What To Do (Posts: 2)
Alright my husband and I where together for 3 1/2 years our son just turned 2 the other day and we've been split up for six months. We broke up because I told him I felt like I wasn't in love with him, but the reality was I felt guilty because 8 months prior I had gotten drunk and cheated on him with his best friend, he doesn't know that though. About three months ago a new guy started working at my job and we became friends my son absolutely loves this guy and they are buddies. well on Valentines Day he bought me flowers and asked me out so I decided I'd give hi...
Topic created Apr 7 2014 at 15:28 by Krystal - Last post Apr 7 2014
My Relationship Is Going No Where (Posts: 3)
My boyfriend and i met on the internet 7 years back we became good friends. never stayed much in contact. i always liked him as a friend nothing more then that, in 2012 dec he and i decided to give each other a try. We both were recover ing from a bad breakup , lets just say we needed some one to forget the unpleasant past. I had no intention to be in love with him i honestly was just being with him for the sake of it. But i don't know when did i really started liking him he would always give me time. takes good care of me, values whats important for me... i just...
Topic created Apr 7 2014 at 09:57 by mysterious - Last post Apr 7 2014
My Ex Is Unintentionally Ruining My Relationship (Posts: 6)
Okay, so back in February was mine and my boyfriend's 2-year anniversary. We're both the same age and rediculously in love with the other. Biggest difference? I'm a virgin, he's not. I found out like 2 or 3 weeks ago and it kinda bothered me but I didn't say anything about it. I probably wouldn't even care if it wasn't for an ex of mine. My current is the second non-virgin I've been with, my ex the first. The only reason it affected me is because my ex tried to rape me, so now, I have a fear that my current will do the same. He's never teied to pressure me into it...
Topic created Apr 7 2014 at 09:39 by Yasmine Kali - Last post Apr 7 2014

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