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Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Miss My Best Friend (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: May 2 2016 at 05:52 by ReinaRM

I'm currently considering trying to get back in touch with my ex best friend. We were friends from kindergarten all the way up til our sophomore/junior year. I relationship declined almost immediately going into high school. I made a new friend and she wasn't happy about it and started spending alot more time with a mutual friend of ours and even begin to consider her the best friend. I kind of just let that pass she was still my BFF and I didn't want to start a conflict so I held it in. I finally started dated my now husband sophomore year and she didn't approve but we kept in contact until ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Need Advice To Regain A Friend And Restore The Connection We Had (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: May 2 2016 at 01:22 by lepa12

I was in a relationship with a girl and things were wonderful at first, like sex back and forth, most of all effort in treating me with respect and being a wonderful person with me. Like i started to see changes in her way of doing things started to change and like we almost broke up a few times because of her effort and her lack of maturity. Why do i say lack of maturity? because her mother would tell her to take me the family gatherings and she would be like make gestures telling me not to engage on the topic.She would come to my house all of the time and say hi to my mother and i prese...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Are These Valid Reasons To Leave? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: May 2 2016 at 03:26 by crazycatlady RESPONDENTS: ReinaRM / Skinnygirl / naturevalleylevel LAST POST: May 2 2016 at 13:13

I have been married for 10 years. The last 4 years haven't been so great. My husband got addicted to pain pills (but that was more like 5-6 years ago.) And it resulted in him losing his job. So for two years, I stood by his side as the loving, supportive wife just knowing that things would get better again. We, it still hasn't. He hasn't kept a job for more than 6 months since then and any job he has kept, he didn't go often enough (which is why he was always let go) and he would be let go. Its been a year since he last a job, and 6 months since the unemployment ended. I stay home with ...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category I'm Stuck In An Abusive Family And I Need Out (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 2 2016 at 01:24 by Dandelion Clocks RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: May 2 2016 at 11:12

Hello everybody, I'm relatively new to this forum and would like to begin by thanking you all for taking the time to read this. I don't know any of you, but I also don't know who else to turn to, and I don't now if anyone will listen to me. I'm a fifteen-year-old sophomore going into junior year, but I bring with me a heavy burden as I transition. Before I begin to delve into the situation of my present, I will unravel my past. Since I was five years of age, I was always a bit troublesome. This was mainly attributed to the behavior of my parents. I learned from a very early...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Does He Want Me? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Apr 29 2016 at 10:36 by Myth RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 18:07

I met and married my husband quickly. I love him completely and everything would be perfect except he doesn't seem to want me sexually. He has had lovers in the past before me, a few I know as we live in small town. And when we met I thought his reluctance to sex was due to illness, he has thyroid problems however am now thinking its me. He turns me on immensely and has no problem responding to stimulation by me and me performing oral on him( something I never liked till him). But I can count on one hand the times he has touched me intimately and we have made love twice in the 8 months...

Money advice forum category advice forum category I Don't Belong Here (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Apr 29 2016 at 02:25 by Sealgirl19 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 17:47

I've been wanting to leave from where I am from quite some time. I have plenty of great skills and experience to have a nice job but I have no luck getting one. Before my fall into unemployment I have a nice paying Full-time job with benefits. I lost my job near the end of last year and have been having trouble finding one since I was let go.Along with the stress of job loss I have to come up with rent each month so I can take care of myself. The city I live is nearly impossible to find a job unless a friend works there or you move to the suburbs. I'm struggling and I'm tired. It's getting har...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Attractive Girl Magic Tricks (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 30 2016 at 17:43 by Jon12345 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 17:38

Hello i started a new job 6 weeks ago and i was sat in canteen one afternoon and a girl sat with her friends caught my eye.So as im a magician i went across and asked if they would like to see a few tricks anyway this girl that i had my eye on was really up for it wow yh i love magic she said,after i had done my tricks one girl asked my name and what floor i work on and i thought they wont remember me again. The next day the girl i like walks past me in canteen and says hi how are you she then turned to her friends and said i did magic tricks so i went and sat next to her,after i had done s...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Lost In What Was A Promising Future (Posts: 38)

CREATED: Apr 15 2016 at 21:32 by ALAYNALYNN RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / susiedqq / Soulmate / Mama Bear LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 17:33

Hi. I’ve been contemplating this for a while so now I would like to get it all out in hopes that someone could help give me some insight. I’ve been married for three years and with my husband for five. We’ve always been good friends and I’ve known him for most of my life. I’ve always known he had a strong desire to be married and to be a father. It was something myself and other women found so appealing about him. I knew he was never very good in his relationships though and put it down to the women he was with. Some would drive by his place to see if he was home rather than calling ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Moving In Together After Online/long Distance.. (Posts: 149)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 10:48 by nana RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 17:06

first of all hello and thx for having me here..i kinda feel bad for not getting more info and looking through other articles before my bf moved to my country..so my questions is, what if we fucked it all up? i dont even know where to start.. 1.for me it was waaay to quick with the physical part so i felt extremly overwhelmed for not setting boudaries which made me very mad because i didnt tell him on time and when i did (took me some time to figure it out) he took it way too personally 2. the paperwork took us extremly long, we didnt rly take care of anything before he came to here..we ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category I Don't Know Whatnormal Is Anymore. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 30 2016 at 12:37 by A-little-lost RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 16:41

I've been through 10 years of hell. My ex was controlling, manipulative, abusive, and a cheater. Needless to say, I have trust issues. I am in a relationship now (nearly 2 years) with a man who is very different. However, I still have issues. Something happened recently and I honestly don't know if this is normal and I'm over reacting or if this is a red flag. There's a girl at his job that he talks to/about often. I've met her and I got a weird feeling from her. I've tried talking to him about it, but he says he thinks of her a little sister and nothing more, that my doubts make him fee...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Problem, Help Me (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 1 2016 at 13:03 by dennis RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 13:52

I was engaged to a woman we were together for 3 years i Broke up with her a week ago . she argue lot lot and doubt all time even i proved my love and everything by actions not just words we were always together all time like already married, but always argue even about small things until i started using anti stress but same her all time. Last few weeks i was sick and stressed and have guests so seriously busy . she Want me to be romantic 24/7 if i dont for one day then im unloving uncaring bad man she called me that. Last week she was arguing then i sent her a link about something to help he...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Am I Becoming A Little To Insecure? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Apr 30 2016 at 06:57 by lovelybones1 RESPONDENTS: dennis LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 13:11

I have a boyfriend, we have been together for 4 years, we have a son together and a few months back we took a break. Normal right? Well he's a big game freak he's always playing black ops. But he has this girl on there which he met by going to support his friend with his new band, and i dont know her obviously but i noticed that every morning when we would wake up he would text someone. i thought it was just his boss. so i didnt really pay much attention. til recently that i found out his password i decided to look at his messages and i noticed it was someone with a weird name that i have neve...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Am I Crazy??? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: May 1 2016 at 10:35 by brooksk599 RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 11:09

I have to know if I'm being crazy or not! My boyfriend and I have been in a turbulent relationship on and off for 4 years. When I say turbulent, I mean he has broken up with me in some form or another at least 30 times. The last big time (Jan 2015) he moved out of our house and back in with his mom. A few months later, he was back asking to work it out again. We did. He began talking to an old flame of his for months. I found out, we tried to work it out again to no avail. I moved out this time, last Nov after he said he didn't want to be with me anymore. Ok fine. Again he comes back, tries to...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Unsupportive Partner (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 30 2016 at 06:48 by Confused_giraffe RESPONDENTS: bummed LAST POST: May 1 2016 at 10:32

Hi, My partner and I have a very up and down relationship. We have been together almost 6 years and have 2 kids aged 3 and 6 months. I have an ongoing issue with him that he is not supportive and appreciative of me. He has depression and anxiety which he refuses to have treatment for. He expects me to always be there for him but on the rare occasion that I need his support he is never there, he even seems to be angry at me that I have a problem. I find that this is a major flaw in his personality and it is something I cannot accept. If I try to raise it with him he cannot see that he ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category I Really Need Help In Deciphering If I Should Move On Or Wait For The Love Of My (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 30 2016 at 17:55 by apepalace RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 21:10

I want to keep this short as possible because most people don't like reading and I need people to help me Me and my ex gf broke up 1 year ago from what was a 3 year long relationship. She broke up with me for going to a party with my friends instead of hanging out with her even though I was always faithful. Throughout the next 8 months she kept begging for me back and I would always deny her. The reason I use to deny is because I didn't know what I wanted I always loved her but I didn't know if we were right for each other. Regardless of me denying her we use to talk and hangout as if we ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Jealous Of Husband's Therapist (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Apr 30 2016 at 03:19 by heartsick226 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 16:21

Hi. I recently discovered that my husband of 11 years was having an online (and at least one time physical) affair that lasted at least 18 months. I caught him in lie after lie until there was nothing left to lie about. He has shown remorse, has been transparent, and we are both attempting therapy. Independently and together. We have reached a point where until he does internal discovery about what caused this to happen, I won't feel safe continuing the relationship so his therapy is necessary for us to move forward. The challenge for me is that he has spent the last 18 months talkin...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category As Complicated As Can Be (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Apr 30 2016 at 02:42 by Superchick RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 15:09

Let me start by saying I've been in a relationship for roughly 6 years. We have 2 young children together and he has a child from a previous relationship (my stepson hasn't seen his mom since he was 2 and he will be 15 this summer. there is no relationship between him and his biological mom but there is a beautiful relationship between the 2 of us). My boyfriend and I recently signed the deed to a new house and both work full time jobs. My relationship feels as though it is in a stagnant mess. My boyfriend no longer makes me consistently happy. I understand relationships all have problems bu...

Relationships - Long Distance advice forum category advice forum category Red Flags Or Mixed Signals? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Apr 29 2016 at 04:27 by molgengirl RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 14:49

Hello all, I have been in a relationship for 4.5 years and plan on getting engaged to this man next week. Throughout the entirety of the relationship, his family has treated me less than appropriately for a long term girlfriend. On top of this, they constantly ask him if he remembers his previous girlfriends and whether or not he misses them. As if I'm not even part of his life. Meanwhile, there was an incident where he did not cheat, but he lied to me about a girl he was texting. I suppose I should clarify that I'm unsure whether or not he had cheated. It was a year after he had moved ...

Relationships - Long Distance advice forum category advice forum category Has My Wife Become To Independent (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Apr 29 2016 at 07:57 by vasilies RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / PJVL9 / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 14:12

Well we have been married close to 17 years but in the last few years work has taken me a away from home long period of time, this has left my wife to look after most day to day things around the house as she works 2 days a week, What I have noticed latelly is that when I vist home she still likes to do her own thing as I want to spened as much time with her but she says that with her being alone so much of the time she has setup a way of filling void left with me being not there. My concern has resian from the fact she has become friendly with some male friends from her school days, and al...

Education advice forum category advice forum category Failure (Posts: 11)

CREATED: Apr 26 2016 at 18:54 by Sheen RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / PJVL9 / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 07:13

I've got a big problem, my parents and relatives are expecting me to graduate this year (college) ,but I can't. I have not finished some requirements.I just can't help it but I'm very disappointed with myself right now. I don't wanna fail their expectations. I don't know how to tell them about my situation. I'm afraid they would get angry and be disappointed. What would I do now? Graduation day is fast approaching :(.....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category I Am Addicted To My Girlfriend. Need Advice. (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Apr 25 2016 at 16:55 by Addictinsforum RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / emptyyourcup4me / PJVL9 / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 01:49

I have had many relationships, some good, others bad. But the woman who i am hoping to marry is kind, sweet, nurturing and everything i am wanting. i love her, but when she is not around I feel sick. Physically. I feel like crying and no matter what , I cant seem to understand. I love her with all of my soul. I know i cant live without her. Even without much sexual intimacy, I just need her. All i yearn for is her to be within sight of me. just her being around me is enough to fuel my high. I dont know how to cope. I need some advice or someone to talk to about this. Please....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Confused About The Next Move... (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 27 2016 at 16:06 by Scoop RESPONDENTS: Bear0161 / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 01:45

I'm with my girlfriend for a little over a year, For the past while we've been having some fights with the last one almost ending our relationship. The last fight was due to my jealousy as I was protesting about her going out socializing with other guys while I'm away for work, one of which she met on the same dating website as we met. I trust her completely but was feeling insecure at the time. Since I got back she has told me that she's not sure anymore about us and needs to see if she can fall back in love with me. I'm terrified of loosing her as I can't imagine my life without her. I...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Sexually Incompatible And Feeling Trapped (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 28 2016 at 19:53 by banananana RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 01:30

I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years, we got together in the first month of uni and have had a very intense relationship, having the same group of friends and living together in our first year. Over the last couple years he has been bringing to light the fact our libidos are so mismatched. He would like to have sex at least 3 times a week whereas I only once a week. It is an issue he keeps bringing up because he is feeling so frustrated and is a topic that makes me incredibly emotional. He claims I just say I'm sorry and don't try to do anything to fix it but I guess I get so...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Would You Have A Destination Wedding Without Your Sibling? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Apr 27 2016 at 15:56 by HeyBub RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 01:28

I need to vent... Am I off my rocker? Or am I somewhat in the right? [keyword, somewhat… read on]. I should probably seek professional advice, as this particular issue has caused me more stress in my life than getting laid off or moving. It has created this intense rage in me, a person who, normally, is just calm. I don’t hold grudges, I’m not a hater, I get over things and I move on with my life. This particular issue, has caused grief, hurt, strife between my wife, my family and I. . .it’s a mess. Is it all the proper route, or ‘normal’? I don’t know. I’ve got nobody...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Should We Break Up? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 27 2016 at 08:22 by MessyLife RESPONDENTS: been there / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 01:14

Hello. So I've been in this relationship for almost 4 years. It was my first real relationship and its all I've really known. It's been really rocky lately, but this story is from my downer point of view so it is not all negative. I just don't feel wanted anymore. They never want to invite me to hang out with friends, doesn't mention me anytime. And when we are together, we do all the boring stuff, never anything fun. They talk to a lot of people on the side and I always try to confront them but it never goes anywhere. I don't think anything on the side is serious. I've grown used to all these...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Go For Ivf Or Not? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 27 2016 at 18:12 by rosie10 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 01:10

We have been struggling with infertility for 9 years. We have lost 3 babies over the years. Finally we got refered to an IVF clinic. Over the 9 years I have been through so many tests and appointments. Spent money seeing dietions and consults with homeopathic professionals. I've done herbal and medication regiments. I am totally ready for IVF. My doctors and specialists have helped me from cholesterol control to regulation of hormones. I've done everything I can do to get to IVF Ready. Here is the problem. While my husband says he wants children, He hasn't changed anything. He knows no...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Wife And I Split Up But I Dont Want A Divorce (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Apr 28 2016 at 06:14 by wikedzx6r RESPONDENTS: Anonymous1101 / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 00:51

hi there im trying to get advice it has been a month and a half since me and my wife split up, i have tried for this whole time everything to get her to come back but she just rejects me constantly. this all started about two years ago she caught me texting another girl nothing ever happened between us she would just text me to see how my day was going but other than that that was it. i admit i made a mistake talking to her and i promised i would never do it again.. three months later i caught her doing the same thing it hurt but i couldnt say anything since i had done the same we let it go ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Felling Very Down (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Apr 28 2016 at 07:31 by nessa215 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Anonymous1101 / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 00:13

I have been feeling so down lately. The sad part is that I'm going true all of this alone. I suffer from depression and anxiety. Been in a mentally abuse relationship for like 12 yr. Not sure why I'm in this toxic thing. I was always mentally abuse by everyone in my life. From my family on down. It seems to me that that is all i know. Ia to be hurt by the people that are suppose love me n be there for me. ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category My Relationship Is In A Crisis (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Apr 29 2016 at 00:41 by Anonymous1101 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 29 2016 at 23:48

My fiancee and I have been having issues. Anytime we get into some argument about something he brings up past events for example a person I had intercourse with before I was with him an he says hurtful things an call me names. Everytime he gets mad he starts digging in my past and it's getting worse he somehow is able to find old messages from yrs ago that I may have texted a friend or message on facebook. I permanently deleted my Facebook so I don't know how he continues to find messages. These messages are like from yrs ago not even recent and he thinks just because I had conversations...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Newly Single Mom (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Apr 27 2016 at 15:55 by reggie RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 29 2016 at 23:27

Hi I am a newly single mom of a two year old boy. I was very badly emotionally abused by my ex boyfriend. I tried my hardest to make it work with him so we could all be a family and so that my son would not have to have a broken home. All my efforts failed because I could no longer take being treated poorly and talked down to like I was nothing. I have done everything I could for my son and i put him first. My ex on the other hand has other priorities that come before him. I would ask him to come to things so we could do things as a family and he would rarely go. I take my son to library...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Confused What To Do (work Colleague) (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Apr 23 2016 at 22:09 by needadvice90 RESPONDENTS: thisisStar / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 29 2016 at 23:20

Hi, I can’t stop thinking about this girl from work. First off, she’s 19, I’m 25, I’ve never heard her mention a boyfriend either. I’m very shy in nature (always have been), and have never had a girlfriend! The girl is also fairly shy, and fairly quiet. She’s worked in the shop i work for about 6 months now, at first we really only said hello and smiled at each other. More recently however I’ve been working alongside her more and we’ve started chatting more about various things and we also have a laugh about some of the more interesting customers that come in! I tend to be t...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Angry Relationship Makes Me Ill (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Apr 28 2016 at 17:11 by monica40 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 29 2016 at 22:57

Hi all, i have been with my partner for about 11 yrs and we have one child - to be honest our relationship has always been a bit of a roller coaster, when its good its amazing and when its bad it virtually destroys me!. My partner is a contradiction in terms as he can be the most romantic and thoughtful person ever (not so much the past 6 mths though) or when he perceives that things are not going his way or i say something that somehow rattles him, he can be absolutely cruel and vile in his behaviour towards me. We seem to be falling into one dispute after another lately and if i try to s...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Feel Helpless Finding A Job (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Apr 29 2016 at 00:36 by rubygem RESPONDENTS: Anonymous1101 LAST POST: Apr 29 2016 at 00:49

After I graduated from college with a teaching degree, it took me 5 years to finally find a job because I was told their were 100 applicants for every job posting. I have worked at my current school for 3 years and have loved every minute of it. I am truly happy teaching. I found out a few months ago that the school district is closing down my school and I will have to find a new job. I have been looking for a job since I found out. I have went on one interview and have not been asked to interview anywhere else. I am currently competing with my own co-workers for every job opening. I am...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category When Is Platonic Love Something More? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 28 2016 at 20:52 by AntiDelwa RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 28 2016 at 23:37

I don't know what it is but.. When I think of Love I think of My male friends, particularly one who might get creeped out that I'm posting this. I actually cried last night when I realised I hadn't seen him in 6 years. We're in contact every day but I'm scared I'll never see Him again because he's so far away. I think I even choked a bit. I have never felt so much pain in a while , it's incredible actually. I stayed up all night bawling my eyes out thinking up disastrous situations that might get in the way. I was also sad because I'll never find a person who's just like Him. Maybe I'...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Confused And Very Scared! (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Apr 28 2016 at 17:33 by Beach_Guy RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 28 2016 at 23:30

Hi, So to try and make this a short story, I am married (6 years) and have 2 little boys (3,1). I have been with my wife for 12 years and it has been wonderful. I love this women with all my heart. I have the best family! She is hard working, great mother and is for the most part a great wife! But.... We have absolutely NO sexual relation. It's embarrassing! I don't know why, I ask if it me... I ask what I can do to change it. I know with the two little ones it is very tough and exhausting, but what we have is my healthy. So on to my problem. I was away a week ago and met a girl, now I...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category My 13 Year Relationship Is Destroyed By Porn And I Feel Like A Fool (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 28 2016 at 19:01 by Daletri RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Apr 28 2016 at 22:53

My partner and I have been in a committed, 13 year relationship. We live together in our home. Approx. 2 years ago sex dried up, almost completely. My partner rarely, if ever initiated sex and when I did it was met with excuses. Literally sex was 8 - 10 months apart. I nearly lost my mind. I entertained every rational. I tried speaking about it and my partner had no interest in talking. In fact he told me to NEVER ask for sex again. Those were troubling times in deed. Fast forward I decided to start an exercise routine and while I was not really overweight, my appearance and buil...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category How Can I Trust People More? Or Am I Just Introverted? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 27 2016 at 06:58 by MavisBeacon RESPONDENTS: sheen / PJVL9 LAST POST: Apr 28 2016 at 22:09

I dunno. This is kinda weird to talk about. I'd always thought I was trusting, but... Alright, let me give you some context. There was this girl, sort of a friend, but not particularly, and she was dumped by some guy last week. He wasn't a particularly good guy, and it wasn't a particularly long relationship, but still she was sobbing constantly and hugging everyone in her vantage, seeking all the validation she could get. I thought, almost reflexively, that she was going to be ignored. Horrible right? I was genuinely surprised when people (several! not all even her friends! some of whom ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category The Soul Contract Theory And Other Questions (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Apr 22 2016 at 21:11 by AntiDelwa RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Apr 28 2016 at 20:34

Has anyone heard of the soul contract theory? It's the idea that before You're born you choose your nationality, family, friends and some probable situations. I have a problem with that theory for a number of reasons: No1. I'm an atheist/sceptic/frantically curious, my entire family are religious and very judgemental so off course they don't know about my religious views. I'm a straight female but sometimes I wish to be lesbian to irritate them seeing as they're very homophobic. My family (as individuals , not because of religion) are my sworn enemies. Why would I choose to born to enemies...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Friendship Advice (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Apr 27 2016 at 23:45 by FidgetMonster RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 28 2016 at 20:27

Hi all. I'm 29 years old and suffer from anxiety and have a history of depression. I moved to a new town about 18 months ago and am still finding my way. I don't really trust other females as I've been bitten a few times, however I feel very lonely. I recently made a new female friend and she is great. We have a lot in common. The thing is, I feel strange about the friendship. It's hard to explain but it feels like we're dating and I'm desperate to keep her as a friend. I know she likes me a lot and we can talk about anything but I just feel like I want to impress her somehow, not by exagg...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Was I Right To Stay With My Boyfriend Who Cheated? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Apr 27 2016 at 18:28 by hufflepuff RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Apr 27 2016 at 22:13

A year ago I found out that my boyfriend had slept with someone else. It was only the once, so I'm told. I decided to stay with him because I convinced myself that it would never have happened if we weren't long distance; I'm currently at university and we only see each other once every two weeks unless I'm back for the holidays. He's also asked me to move in with him and he talks about marriage and children so casually that I am sure he does want to be with me, that the whole thing was a mistake. But I keep having meltdowns. I still can't handle it when I know that he's meeting up with ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category First Time Called Crazy (Posts: 308)

CREATED: Sep 25 2015 at 16:19 by Amms RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / aliceking / Soulmate / maryam LAST POST: Apr 27 2016 at 20:17

My bf and i have an year and few month relation now.THough there are several times that we are being loud at each other but overall ita been great.We are loyal to each other.We exchange presents(mostly he gives expensive gifts). We do little good things for each other's families.But what happened last week has made me really worries.We were with our very close friend in university when during a joke he said in fun i am not your servant.While previously as frda we used to call each other names and i never minded. I told him its my insult now.He felt bad and left.After a while i saw him standing...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Wife Cheating On Me Due Sexual Dissatisfaction. (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Apr 26 2016 at 01:20 by sirdarrick RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 27 2016 at 11:41

The woman I love with all of my tenderness and above everything, light of my life, has been sustaining an affair with another man due to sexual dissatisfaction. I had no idea of what she was doing until Istarted noticing she felt different during sex. It did not feel the way it used to. It felt more loosed and more stretched than usual. We've been married for almost two years. I love this woman above anything. I work for a highly prestigious firm of engineers and I earn a very good money. I've been able to purchase a highly elegant, highly luxurious manor in a highly wealthy residential ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category My Wife Has Changed After Swinging (Posts: 11)

CREATED: Jan 10 2014 at 15:08 by stevew RESPONDENTS: manalone / jason / whatsup / in trouble / Paul & Wifey / Soulmate / oxygen / JohnnySwing / Ratty! / Angryhusband LAST POST: Apr 27 2016 at 11:08

My wife and i are 27 and have been married for 5 years and together for 8. When we got married after a few months a found myself looking at swinging sites and open relationship forums etc. it had always fascinated me, from a teenager onwards. Me and my wife had always had a great sex life and one night during sex i asked her would she ever do swinging with me and she out right said no. A few months went by and i asked her again and she said no, and several other times she said no. ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Temprorary Ldr. Are We Broken Up? Seeing Him Soon (maybe) Plese Help (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 26 2016 at 14:53 by anxiouslover RESPONDENTS: thisisStar / unvcle LAST POST: Apr 27 2016 at 04:11

So me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. I go to college and he works. I decided to go abroad for 4 months. So my boyfriend has emotional issues. He doesn't know how to express emotions. Instead he holds in anger and discomfort and as a result becomes resentful over time. He gets consumed in anger to the point where he makes no logical sense and blames me for things that arent soley my fault. At the same time I can be very controlling and come off as slightly manipulative. So over the first half of my trip we were fine. We would argue intensely about control issues like...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Lost In Love (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Apr 24 2016 at 09:31 by Dark days RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / emptyyourcup4me LAST POST: Apr 26 2016 at 15:05

Basically I'm in love with a married woman who is also my best friend and work colleague. She knows how I feel and I though she felt the same way. We have always been close and shared our secrets and thoughts. She is in a sexless marriage and when she needs affection she knows I'm there if needed. We have shared the odd moment but nothing to heavy until last week when she came onto me at work quite strong. She was all over me and I asked her if this what she wanted and she said yes. So we arranged to meet at mine the following night but she pulled at last minute and it was fine with me I only...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Should I Give Up? Or Should I Just Keep Chasing Pavements? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Apr 25 2016 at 11:08 by thisisStar RESPONDENTS: wintersun / emptyyourcup4me LAST POST: Apr 26 2016 at 00:44

So there's this friend of mine for three years now (and counting) whom I unfortunately fell inlove with. I dont know if he already knew because we're close. I sometimes think that maybe this person likes me back or am I just this assuming? We're close but I cant say we're best of friends because we're not. We tease each other, he makes fun outta me, we share laughs together, and he doesn't mind if I held his arms whenever I want. Which leads me to the conclusion that maybe he likes me back. But what if he dont? What if he's just that friendly? He sometimes share to me some things about h...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category I Need Advice..help Please (Posts: 32)

CREATED: Apr 6 2016 at 13:30 by browneyes117 RESPONDENTS: Bear0161 / Kimbo / Skinnygirl / Soulmate / thedynamicsofsoul / Changling LAST POST: Apr 25 2016 at 14:04

Hello everyone, I will try to keep it as short as possible and i would appreciate if you could give me your opinions. Like most people here, i have some problems in my relationship. I 've been with my partner for almost 4 years and he is 12 years older than me. Initially, we had an amazing relationship, where everyone could see that we were so inlove with each other and so content. we move in together after one year and the relationship started to go down the drains by month. If initially we would have amazing sex every day, now it has become something rare, and sometimes we go months wit...

Elderly advice forum category advice forum category I Hate Living With My Grandmother (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Apr 21 2016 at 16:00 by Morgan247 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate / wintersun LAST POST: Apr 25 2016 at 13:39

I'm 15 and live wth my grandmother and my little sister who is 13 years old and I hate it. My sister gets treated so differently. When i was my sisters age I never even had a phone and was shopping at Walmart and my grandma always says I get more than her when she is 13 with a really nice android and her whole closet is Victoria secret and she complains about everything. I never complain but get yelled at for everything small I do. I miss a day of brushing my teeth I get yelled at. I haven't seen my sister brush her teeth in months. They are yellow! My sister sneaks out at night to see boys an...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Should I Go To A Hen Party If I Wasn't Her First Choice? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Apr 23 2016 at 09:01 by tab RESPONDENTS: wintersun / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 25 2016 at 13:38

I have been asked to go on a hen do by a colleague at work, however, I wasn't her first choice. This colleague I have history with, I went to primary and secondary school with her. I would say we get on well but we don't meet socially outside of work very often, text etc. I found out a few weeks ago she was going to go away for a hen weekend, I wasn't asked but it did not bother me at all. Since then one girl has dropped out and she has asked me to go. She explained that there were only 10 spaces in the villa and she could only invite a max of 10 people. At first I wasn't bothered that I w...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Should I Forgive My In-laws Who Ignored Me While My Newbo Was In Icu For 2 Weeks (Posts: 10)

CREATED: Apr 19 2016 at 14:35 by k-arch RESPONDENTS: nikki / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 25 2016 at 12:28

Should I forgive my in-laws who ignored me while my newborn was in ICU for 2 weeks? Firstly - my in-laws have not apologised for this - they say that they were too busy at the time. My in-laws are my mother in-law, sister in-law and 4 brothers in-law; so if I forgive them, I am essentially moving on without any recognition to the pain and suffering this abandonment caused. Secondly; I really needed their support at the time. My husband and 1 year old had pneumonia, my 5 week old newborn twins had RSV; both were hospitalised in different cities. One was on life support in ICU; the other ...

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