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If Iwould (Awaiting first response)|
if iwould hav 2kids at age of 25 would be a bad thing igot 6 year old boy his on school im asking coz ithink im pregnant me and my bf we both working...
Topic created Aug 22 2014 at 14:11 by puff
Confuses (Awaiting first response)|
hi how do ipost my topic coz when ipost my topic it does not go through...
Topic created Aug 22 2014 at 06:28 by puff
Confused (Awaiting first response)|
Topic created Aug 21 2014 at 19:55 by puff
Work And Wellbeing - Your Involvement Needed (Awaiting first response)|
Hi all, I've messaged one of your moderators (Richard) who gave me the go-ahead to post this here. A project based in the University College Cork School of Applied Psychology is looking for those who would be interested in aiding in the evaluation of an online resource for managing wellbeing at work. This would involve interacting with and experiencing a prototype website for a few minutes, and then filling out a very short (< 5 mins) survey which asks some basic questions about your experience with the site. The site contains a lot of helpful information on how t...
Topic created Aug 18 2014 at 10:27 by WorkWellbeing
Confused Affair (Posts: 3)|
Married having an affair with married woman for 8 yrs. Fell deeply in love with mistress but we both agreed not to leave our families. She started having trouble in her marriage and her husband cheated on her and left a year and half ago. I helped her thru willing to leave to let her work on it but she wanted us to stay together. She had a tough time letting go of the idea of staying married even though she could not trust him anymore or love him as much as me. He moved out and stayed with his mistress off and on. She hid that she went away with him overnigh...
Topic created Aug 21 2014 at 22:21 by Love2 - Last post Aug 22 2014
Help Pls (Posts: 3)|
hi my bf lies to me his 20 and he said his 23 iwil be 25 soon isaw his id book idid not tell him ihate the age gap should ileave him we luv each other...
Topic created Aug 22 2014 at 06:44 by puff - Last post Aug 22 2014
I Got Dumped For Nothing (Posts: 4)|
Well my boyfriend now ex boyfriend heard from his mate that i was sayin stuff to him about my boyfriend but i didnt said what he said annnd he dumpd me for no reason and i want to get him back but he dont know what he feels now about it :( and im depressed and i jus cba with life anymore :( ...
Topic created Jan 20 2011 at 18:25 by Can'tTrustOrLove - Last post Aug 22 2014
Bother Or Not (Posts: 1)|
I met a man through on line dating only once so far. We had a hour talking then he went away sent me a texted an hour later to say it was nuce meeting and if I want to meet again to let him know. I said I did and did he and he said yes then the next day he sent a message asking how I was and I said when did he want to meet and he said yes he did then the next day he sent a message saying did I want to meet i said yes, he said we will make an arrangement and he was going shopping then I heard nothing. I went back on the dating site and he was on it late at night,...
Topic created Aug 22 2014 at 12:43 by pibb - Last post Aug 22 2014
Friendship (Posts: 2)|
I have a friend whose in the early stages of a messy divorce.
The husband has a mistress and has ran away with her.
But now he has the cheek to want half the house.
Anyway my dilemma is that my friend needs a large amount of cash to pay for solicitor's fees.
I have enough money to spare to lend it to her but I also fancy her.
I want to give her the money but I don't want to give her the wrong impression that she feels obliged to go out with me.
I'm being realistic and understand she's vulnerable. But I also honestly don't think I have chance anyway, but I d...
Topic created Aug 21 2014 at 23:12 by Sol - Last post Aug 22 2014
My Family Is Killing My Life (Posts: 1)|
First sorry for my bad English, I am not a native English speaker.
I am 26 years old, an engineer. I have a sister.
My problem is that my father and mother are turning my life to hell.
I will told you this long story.
Since I was kid, my father and mother keep fighting. They didn’t get married because they have loved each other at all, but because their parents knew each other and they were living in a small village (this village now becomes a city). We are living in an extremely underdeveloped community.
My father’s work was in a far city, where I have...
Topic created Aug 21 2014 at 22:07 by ProblemTired - Last post Aug 22 2014
I'm So Confused And Frustrated! (Posts: 2)|
Hey everyone :)
I met a guy last week and we went on a date the next day (Saturday). it was an extremely pleasant date and we appeared to click. He sent me a text asking if I got home safe, I replied saying I did and that I enjoyed his company and would like to meet again etc. He agreed and was very eager to fix up another date, I offered the following weekend but he said he would like to do a weeknight if possible. We fixed up a date for Tuesday, but he warned me he wouldn't know what time because of work and asked to play it by ear.
Tuesday afternoon he t...
Topic created Aug 21 2014 at 19:27 by Littlemissprivate - Last post Aug 22 2014
Please Help Me I'm In A Deep Shit :( (Posts: 4)|
In my country less than two weeks from now the results of the first period are coming out.In the education system here we have marks are from 20(the mark/20) well i chose this year or better saying that my parents obliged me to choose mathematics as the most important subject along with physics; The lessons are extremly tough and difficult; Well for me . The worst it's that've got 9/20 in the general mark of maths the same things for physics
The biggest problem is that my parents are expecting me to have one of the highest marks in the class this is why i'm nev...
Topic created Jan 17 2012 at 11:49 by han-sohee - Last post Aug 21 2014
Confused (Posts: 1)|
I am engaged to a guy I have been with for seven years. WE have been living together and I have helped raise his two daughters. We had a son together who passed away about two years ago. This was a special time for me and my boyfriend. We worked really well as a couple and grew really close. However, for the last couple of months, we have grown apart. He has been talking to a girl through facebook and text a lot as if they were in a relationship. He hasn't physically cheated on me since she lives seven hours away but he has an emotional connection with her, I gues...
Topic created Aug 20 2014 at 23:37 by Jaded_Jillian - Last post Aug 21 2014
She Asks Questions In A Way That Disturbs/bothers Me, Anyone Help Or Understand? (Posts: 3)|
My loved one keeps asking questions that disturb/bother me, can anyone help?
For short form skip to number 1. read the sentence, then skip to number 2. read that sentence, etc. this will give you the gist of what I am saying and asking.
A problem with questions:
1. She reverses every question I ask her, even simple ones.
Ex: Are you okay?
Her: Yes I'm fine, are you okay?
She doesn't ask it with an attitude but as if she's also asking the same question. But there is a disconnect because I am asking it in a situation where I ...
Topic created Aug 20 2014 at 21:13 by NeedHelpGuy - Last post Aug 20 2014
Should I Tell Him? (Posts: 3)|
Two months ago my boyfriend broke up with me a week before our one year anniversary. He said it was due the stress of a long distance relationship. He lived three hours away from me. We were sexually active, but I knew it was because we were in love.
Since the breakup I have thought about him every moment of every day and miss him all the time. I haven't slept well since the breakup and constantly find myself crying for no particular reason except that I miss him. My friends say it'll pass but I've never been this heartbroken before, and he wasn't my first serio...
Topic created Aug 20 2014 at 14:23 by Micheala0524 - Last post Aug 20 2014
Needing Advice (Posts: 2)|
I moved to a new state in February and met this guy the same day I moved. We hit it off instantly and began texting and calling each other off and on all day every day. We found that we had so much in common that it was like we were twins. We fell hard and fast. Well he had been separated from his wife since October of the previous year. She had kicked him and his 12 year old daughter out. We'll she figured out we were talking and then she decided she wanted him back so she started making a stink. He chose to quit talking to me until he resolved things with her. W...
Topic created Aug 20 2014 at 19:34 by luv546 - Last post Aug 20 2014
Cheating Pastor (Posts: 6)|
I have been married 20 yrs. Last year I caught my husband with a married woman from our congregacion at her house. It was dark when I walked in, but I heard him pulling up his pants (belt buckle and keys made noice). She was in a long shirt, no pants. I pushed her out of the way and then I started beating on him. He finally got up and left. I left after him and took the vehicle he had drove. I took everything from him. I told two elders of the church that I thought I could trust. I just need to mention that my husband and I did not live together for almost a year ...
Topic created Aug 18 2014 at 22:00 by Clown - Last post Aug 20 2014
Refusing To Help Siblings (Posts: 3)|
My sister said she would send my kids to college and went from being a vet to a physician as it paid 5 times as much. Now her husband says they have to save for retirement and told the children to pay their own college bills. They make 350,000 a year. My daughter went to medical school married another doctor, and now say she needs a 500,000 dollar house and will not pay for the student loans of her brothers and sisters who are making far less. Like 30 times less. The excuse is we must all live within our means. I went to jail and live hand to mouth but previously...
Topic created Aug 20 2014 at 11:21 by !!! - Last post Aug 20 2014
Do I Really Love Him Or Am I Just Lonely? (Posts: 2)|
My ex and I had been best friends since freshman year of high school. He wanted to start dating then but I was the one that fell easily into peer pressure and since he wasnt one of the popular crowd, didnt date him. He began dating someone else and she forbade him to see me so we didnt talk for almost a year (at this point we were in our sophomore/junior college years). They broke up and we began dating some time after and fell in love. I knew I only wanted to be with him, I thought he was perfect. 10 months into the relationship he made advance on my best girlfri...
Topic created Aug 20 2014 at 00:36 by hopelessinlove - Last post Aug 20 2014
I Need Your Relationship Advice (Posts: 3)|
I don't even know where to begin but me and my boyfriend have been together about 4 1/2 years. He has 2 daughters and I have 1 son. We lived together before and I ended up moving out but we just moved in together again. We are having problems daily and the biggest problem I am having is the weird way he acts with his 1 daughter. Understand I don't suspect any foul play so please don't comment with things like that but very weird how his 1 daughter pretty much gets away with everything, she is 7 and he either babys her too much or treats her too much like a ad...
Topic created Aug 17 2014 at 20:21 by Jasmine87 - Last post Aug 20 2014
Motivation For Studying Hard (Posts: 2)|
I've been trying hard to keep myself motivated to study hard for my upcoming exam series....i've read several motivational tips, tried to apply various methods but mostly they all go in vain after 2 days.....My upcoming exams are very important for my career but until and unless I win myself into concentrating well and study consistently I won't succeed. Is any of you here having similar situation and is willing to have a mutual study regime so that we may help each other by motivating, encouraging one another and also try study commitments to get over procrastina...
Topic created Aug 17 2014 at 08:48 by drmdin - Last post Aug 20 2014
Don't Know What To Do. (Posts: 2)|
I am still in love with her ex. We met in the 8th grade, and dated through to the 11th. He was very insecure, but good to me and matched my mindsets with everything. i adored him and he adored me. In the 10th grade, i started to feel isolated, everyone else had friends and more people in their lives, while he kept everyone away from me so he could have all my time. i didnt realise that was the issue until later, but at that time. i was confused and felt a drive for a change in my life. i kept trying to end relations with him to figure out what was going up with me...
Topic created Aug 20 2014 at 08:11 by stephie77 - Last post Aug 20 2014
All My Fault? (Posts: 3)|
I went to bed and I mentioned about having sex to my husband. He said, do you want it then but we didnt have it in the end. We had had a little read first and he was rawning alot so I knew he was tired and im sorry I suggested to have it in the first place. I ended up arguing with him ssying it is always me who suggest to have it never him. I feel he doesnt want me or find me attractive because I always mention to have it never him. He is 48 I am 43, he says hes getting older and cant do it like he did when he was younger but I think this is rubbish and a excuse....
Topic created Aug 19 2014 at 00:30 by sunset333 - Last post Aug 20 2014
He Lied About His Age By 9years For 5 Years (Posts: 3)|
I met a guy 5 years ago when I was 19 and he said he was 24. Two years into the relationship after not having seen any of his official (or identity) documents of his I became suspicious of his age and asked him several times 9over the years but he maintained he was only 5 years older. After some digging 5 years into the relationship I just found out he lied about his age by 9 years making him 14 years older than me.
I am angry with him and hurt by the fact that he lied over and over especially considering the difference between his real age and the one he tol...
Topic created Aug 11 2014 at 11:06 by Q-Bella91 - Last post Aug 20 2014
Loss Of A Parent - Sex - Relationship (Posts: 3)|
i'll try not to write a wall of text and I must say "sorry" in advance, because my english is a bit dusty.
I've been with my girl for more than 4 years and before the death of her mother everything was perfect. Almost no fights, good sex and perfect communication.
1 year ago her mother died and we have been having problems ever since. The first 4-5 months were pretty rough ofcourse and we had a lot of fights because she was always nervous. With the time the fights stopped and everything got better....everything but the sex. For the last y...
Topic created Aug 19 2014 at 12:42 by waitwhat - Last post Aug 20 2014
Love Is Blind? (Posts: 2)|
So my boyfriend and I have been together a year now, and have been living together for 10 months. I have a son and he has a daughter. When we first started dating, I was talking to another guy but I ended it when I realized I wanted to get serious with my boyfriend. A month after I ended it, my boyfriend found the texts. He was upset, but we got over it..or so I thought. Now, almost 6months later I opened his facebook for the first time and saw he was messaging at least 5 different girls hitting on them and trying to make lunch plans.. I could tell some had been d...
Topic created Aug 19 2014 at 19:49 by kfeekes - Last post Aug 20 2014
Still Lost (Posts: 3)|
The happiest feelings I've ever had were with my ex bf, and the saddest ones, too...but, i'd let him humiliate me, make a fool of me abuse me, cheat on me and even spit in my face again if I could feel one of those happy feelings once more...if there was ever a deal where I could feel one of the happy feelings I felt for just one more time, and in exchange I'd have to take my own life, I'd take the deal in a heartbeat, no questions asked.
It's difficult enough to get thru life day after day and night after night with out any joy or happiness or tenderness or lo...
Topic created Aug 18 2014 at 11:09 by Rocksann - Last post Aug 18 2014
Transgender Or Did? (Posts: 1)|
My boyfriend recently told me he was transgender. I decided to stick by him, however his behavior is worrysome.
Firstly, he's always told me he feels as though there are three of him.He referred to these "others" in the third person. He does this as well when speaking of his female half.
Secondly, he really truly wanted to pursuit becoming a woman then out of nowhere he tells me that he realizes he's a man and maybe he needs to honor the female part of him, but not always.
He told me all of his male features were forced and he didn't feel male at ...
Topic created Aug 18 2014 at 05:58 by Elley - Last post Aug 18 2014
Spark Lost? (Posts: 4)|
Hi. So, I've been dating a girl I met online for a little over a year now. We used to talk late into the night every night last summer. We're both in university. During the semester, I didn't hear from her much, and she didn't respond often to my skype messages. I've heard from her family, though, that she would skip classes and many other things to be around for when I got back from class and waited for me often. She never told me about it, but I recently discovered she failed the school year waiting on me.
During the school year, it was very difficult to talk...
Topic created Aug 18 2014 at 00:30 by TexasCoder - Last post Aug 18 2014
Seperation Advice Please (Posts: 3)|
My wife and I have been together for 14 years. Her husband left her with three young boys. I fell in love with her. Together we became a family and the ex husband was nowhere to be found for the boys. In 2007 she told me she was pregnant. We have a beautiful daughter. Boys are over 18 now and our daughter is now 7.In May she started to change when she switched hair salons. Late nights, lots of drinking, shady characters. I didnt mind. Im a teacher and she has her profession. She then started violently accusing me of having an affair. First a picture on my phone of...
Topic created Aug 16 2014 at 07:23 by uppercut88 - Last post Aug 18 2014
Need Advice (Posts: 4)|
My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for 3. I have a 10 year old son and we have a 2 year old daughter together. My husband works like crazy and I am a stay at home mom. Lately, I feel like all he does is work, come home to sleep, and leave for work again. He comes home late from work more and more because he stays to "talk" to people after work. He kept getting messages from a woman from work but claims they are just friends. I am a very insecure person to begin with, but it seems like he would rather talk to people at work than spend time ...
Topic created Aug 17 2014 at 22:53 by Need advice - Last post Aug 18 2014
Hang In There Or Not? (Posts: 2)|
I'm 45 been dating a guy for almost two years. I've never been to his house or met his children. I've talked to his 20 year old son who swears his dad's not married. A few years back he got arrested on a huge drug bust. He ratted out some top guys and got paroled, but the cops keep making him set up more meetings so they can make more busts. He has one more year of parole and all he does is pray this is over with soon. He is so tired of this life and does not want me involved in any way. We have dinner, go for walks, meet for lunch and he comes to my house. My ...
Topic created Aug 17 2014 at 05:52 by Bell - Last post Aug 17 2014
Confused And Need Answers (Posts: 4)|
Hi I'm sure I'm not alone In my problem but still looking for some advice
. I have been married for two years my husband and I have 4 kids between us just one is ours together,9 month old baby girl.
We have a great life together n a great sex life. After the baby was born we used condoms 4/5 of them. Last sat I was putting away washing I noticed there was only two. Yes I worried I told myself I was worrying over nothing he dosent have time to cheat, we are v happy and we have just bought our dream home. It was niggling at me so on Wed I looked just to make sure...
Topic created Aug 16 2014 at 19:23 by Lisa0208 - Last post Aug 17 2014
Woman Following My Husband On Instagram (Posts: 6)|
A woman started following my husband on instagram whom we both know through business. We haven't seen this woman in years, but had heard she got divorced (we have several mutual friends with the woman). My husband followed the woman back, assuming she would follow me as well, but she never did. This bothers me, especially because the woman is in our orbit, I see her "likes" on his photos all the time. She obviously sees my "likes" on his instagram, as well as the tags and reposts of my stuff my husband puts up. I told my husband how much this upsets me, hoping he ...
Topic created Aug 16 2014 at 13:16 by mrs - Last post Aug 17 2014
My Marriage Is In Trouble (Posts: 13)|
Hi, I am a 50 year old husband who's been married to my wife for over 22 years now. We've had a great relationship, with 2 wonderful children, and she has loved me more than life it self...and for the most part, so have I. Unfortunately about 5 years ago I was unfaithful to her and she found out. She felt so hurt and betrayed, but for the family, she out on a good face and we continued on. I came to my senses and have been apologizing to her for 5 years. Right after the affair we sat down and made plans for the future. She started a great career as a consultant, a...
Topic created Aug 14 2014 at 20:02 by lococha - Last post Aug 16 2014
Need Some Advice Please (Posts: 2)|
I'm 20 years old, as well as my girlfriend. We are both lesbians. I've been with her for a year and two months. I've met her parents many times, but I'm having trouble believe her mom likes me. Her mother treats me very well. She is nice to me when I go and visit. I try and be polite, and conversate with her, but I'm not that talkative, and a shy person at times. Especially with her parents. However I try not to be. Recently, I've noticed that her mother treats me differently then the way she treats my girlfriends older sisters boyfriend. She'll hug him and talk t...
Topic created Aug 16 2014 at 01:35 by Thelovebug - Last post Aug 16 2014
Work Crush (Posts: 1)|
I am very confused by somebody who I work with abd would like peoples opinions. I have known this guy fir a couple of years, was close but drifted for a while when we worked in different departments, we are now back working together and getting close again. We are very playful and flirty (we hace water fights in work, he wipes his hands on me after he has washed them, if walking together we shove into each other, he never waves just screws his face in a funny way). We have very jokey conversations, can also be very dirty, never really anything serious. When he sen...
Topic created Aug 16 2014 at 19:06 by lora14 - Last post Aug 16 2014
Feeling Like A Yoyo (Posts: 2)|
Hi guys and girls,
This is my first ever post so ill try and be as precise as possible.
Over 2 months ago I found out a girl I have fancied from a far liked me. One night we was having a drink after work ( I am a chef in the pub and she is a regular customer, she is also a friend of a former work colleague). We have a great night of chatting and getting to know each other yet neither one of u knows we fancy each other.
The next day i take my nephew to nursery and get a text from my former colleague asking if "Angel" can have my number. i got excited and s...
Topic created Aug 16 2014 at 12:25 by AdstheNads - Last post Aug 16 2014
Am I Too Insecure Or Is She Really Pushing Me Away? (Posts: 2)|
Hello. I am a 27 year old man with some insecurity issues. When i was 21 i was engaged only to find my fiancee cheating on me. It took me many years to even consider dating again. When i was almost 26 i met this new girl that literally was something from a dream to me. She had everything I ever wanted in a female. (this is not the first girl i attempted to have a relationship with after my fiancee broke my heart) As the story goes, i broke a promise to her. Though i never cheated (and was never even close or in a situation that could be misconstrued as such), it ...
Topic created Aug 15 2014 at 04:47 by tcw86 - Last post Aug 16 2014
In-laws And Family (Posts: 2)|
I am married and have two boys. I got on brilliantly with my wife's parents before my first son was born. When he was born and ever since, my father-in-law seems to have 'adopted' him as his own. He seems to have a special bond with him. He had plans for him, told us what presents to buy for his birthday, things like that. I didn't mind that much at first, but what started to get to me was that my opinions, or my wife's opinions didn't seem to count for anything. I didn't seem to have a say and no authority, in his eyes. On one occasion, when my son was quite youn...
Topic created Aug 15 2014 at 20:22 by MrInvisible - Last post Aug 16 2014
Help! (Posts: 5)|
My wife and I have been married for 43 years. About 12 years ago she was diagnosed with a fairly serious liver complaint. This causes her to have quite bad breath and also an unpleasant body odour. This has had a very negative impact on our relationship as I now find it very hard to be near her, because I am unable to cope with the smell(s). Unfortunately, it seems to have also affected her personality. She has had a number of episodes of hepatic encephalopathy which cause her to act as if she has dementia. She takes medication which seems to have reduced these ep...
Topic created Aug 14 2014 at 22:23 by blueace - Last post Aug 16 2014
Unfaithful Mind (Posts: 1)|
First off I just want to state that I don't want any judgement what so ever.
Here lately, and it has been getting worse, I've been wanting to be unfaithful and cheat with another man. I love my boyfriend more than anything and want us to be a happy family with our 3 year old son. But recently I've had guys from my past on my mind and thinking about the things that I miss with them. I know that there is no perfect relationship and that you have to compromise. Maybe I'm just weak because I know it might be ok to just think about things and go on with your life with...
Topic created Aug 15 2014 at 15:22 by MissBehavior - Last post Aug 15 2014
How Do You Love The Same Person Again And Again? (Posts: 8)|
Anyone of you here has an ongoing long-relationship, or had it before? I have serious doubts on love and relationship. I realized that we could NOT ABSOLUTELY put our love into one thing, or even a person. Yes, you may love that single person deeply, for a year, or maybe if you are really in love with that person, your love could go on for 10 or 20 years. WHAT happens after that? What if, you've fallen out of love? What would you do? I realize in the process of loving a person, you may have gotten a liking for someone else, but not love. You may like one or two ot...
Topic created Aug 13 2014 at 18:05 by FurryBall - Last post Aug 15 2014
Confused Over Recent Break Up - Please Advise (Posts: 1)|
Hi there, my gf and I recently split as she had a hard time with work, her friends and her housing situation. I supported her all the way giving her my advice and encouraging her to change jobs and house and to speak to her closest friend who she felt had no time for her. All a lot to bear for her over the last few months and it too it's toll on us and we weren't sleeping together as much which itself led her to believe we weren't as close and we drifted apart. Now I have to say that when I found myself always having to comfort or reassure her that wasn't exactly ...
Topic created Aug 15 2014 at 02:50 by Host14 - Last post Aug 15 2014
I Took Him Back. (Posts: 1)|
I dated John for two years before he broke up with me out of nowhere. We had been fine before. I loved him more than anything and everything in my life. When he was gone I was seriously sick. The depression was killing me. I had never been so consumed by darkness. And then one day, he showed up, saying all the right things, and I couldn't say no. Its been several months since he came back and I don't think I've developed an ounce of trust in him. We've been amazing, better than ever, but I am constantly worried I'll lose him again. The anxiety is making me bitter...
Topic created Aug 15 2014 at 02:38 by tiffyj - Last post Aug 15 2014
When Your Childs Grandmothers Hate Each Other What Do You Do? (Posts: 1)|
Help!! I have made an absolute hash of things! I feel like the piggy in the middle! my sons 5th birthday is tomorrow, I have booked at a childs party venue, my family and my sons fathers family don't get along, there have been some things in the past that make each dislike the other especially between my sons fathers mother and grandmother and my mother, the first time my mother and I met my sons fathers grandmother she insulted my mothers home, and was very rude. there were slight doubts as to my sons paternity and she was very demanding that I get my son dna tes...
Topic created Aug 14 2014 at 23:44 by frazzledmum - Last post Aug 15 2014
Wife (Posts: 3)|
Hi, I would love it if you could give me some feedback on the following situation.
I married a Ukrainian woman four months ago. She came to be with me in England a few weeks before we got married. It was very difficult to get her here as there was a lot of red tape and expensive visas to sort out. In the previous two years I visited her and we spoke daily on Skype. We were pretty crazy about each other and I never felt like this about anyone before and was confident she was the right one. I love her.
Now my wife has been living with me for 5 months in Engl...
Topic created Aug 14 2014 at 14:13 by dnic - Last post Aug 14 2014
Things Not Going Well - Feel Lost (Posts: 4)|
What do you do when the feelings are gone ?
I have been with my partner for 20 years with 2 children. I suppose from the start our relationship was not equal. When we started our family I went back to work part time. Before that all bills were split equally etc. I thought that a proportionate split would follow after my drop in income but no-I was still expected to pay my half. I have struggled on with this but it has left me somewhat resentful. The other big issue is around trust. I recently took up some team activities which I love. It has given me a great circ...
Topic created Aug 13 2014 at 09:06 by Ladylilly - Last post Aug 14 2014
Facebook And Exes (Posts: 5)|
I am a 40 year old who has been in a relationship with my partner for over a year now. I am in the process of moving in with him, some 500 miles from where I currently live. I am selling my home, rehomed my pets, resigned from my job and start a new job in the new location soon. I have two grown up children that I will be moving some distance from also. I am deeply in love with this man and I believe him to feel the same.
My problem is that he wont delete/block his ex from his facebook. I do not use facebook myself so I am not quite sure of how it ...
Topic created Aug 12 2014 at 23:05 by Arctic - Last post Aug 14 2014
Is He Cheating? (Posts: 2)|
I am 46 y/o and my boyfriend is 50 y/o, we live an hour apart only get to see each a couple times a month. I have had the feeling that since he has so much alone time that there is someone else he is seeing as well. He swears he isn't that only goes to his guy
friends house and hangs out in the "mancave". BUT early this year Match.com suddenly starts sending me "matches" from old profile that I had in 2010 and had forgotten about, well he was one of the matches. We broke up for 2 months right after that, we got back together because he came to my house and w...
Topic created Aug 13 2014 at 13:53 by mommakitty - Last post Aug 14 2014