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Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is It Me??? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 21:32 by Vickylou RESPONDENTS: Christine / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 01:40

I think my husband has a totally different idea of what marriage means. I have 4 kids, 2 with first husband 2 with current husband. I work 30 hours a week but husband wants me to go back to 37 hours. He works 40 miles away so spends about 3 hours a day driving. When he gets home from work he has his tea (which I cook) then falls asleep in front of the telly. I get myself up in the mornings, get me and the kids up and ready for school then drop off at school. Husband gets up after me and goes to work. And the cycle continues. Then at the weekend he stays in bed until late afternoon or teatime. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Feeling Extremely Hurt And Need Advice. His Physical Wants While I'm Ill! (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 06:00 by Bananas RESPONDENTS: Sinbad / whatislife / OnTheRoad / Scopes / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 01:39

I'm feeling really hurt and disrespected right now. My partner of nearly 4 yrs and I are in a huge disagreement. Currently I have been sick. Multiple illnesses, and now I need oral surgery. My face is swollen and infected. Hurts to eat, move my jaw, talk, everything. And this is during and after other illness. The antibiotics I have taken have also given me a personal woman problem. That requires that awesome expensive medicine no woman likes to go buy. Cause purchasing a box of monistat isnt exactly discreet. I'm in horrible pain until this surgery with the lovely itchy side effects of anti...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Lost (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 00:44 by Lost & Confused RESPONDENTS: anicole / Scopes LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 00:56

A week ago my husband told me that he and one of his female co workers had sex about a week or so before Christmas 2016. He told me that him and her had pre planned 24 hours in advance to have sex after they got off work the following night. That following night he said they got off work and he followed her to an empty parking lot and had sex in the back of her car. Now he says it only happened that one time and that he felt guilty and that he wanted to be with me and that I was the only woman for him and that he was sorry and would do anything to make our marraige work but what I cant seem to...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Babysitting Help (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 05:10 by Sup1234 RESPONDENTS: manalone / wintersun / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 00:53

I'm older than your average babysitter (20s) and I've been babysitting for this really nice family for a couple years. The only issue I have with them is the dad gets a little innapropriate when he gets drunk (usually every time he comes home). My last time babysitting for them he was already drunk when I got there and was extremely inappropriate towards me telling me he'd have sex with me if I weren't the babysitter and getting far too close to me. It made me feel very uncomfortable but I didn't mention anything as it was a crazy night and that's just how he gets when he drinks. Howev...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Don't Know What To Do, Please Help (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 10:06 by JordanL103 RESPONDENTS: nicknametaken LAST POST: Jan 15 2017 at 12:10

So this morning I just had an argument with my mother. I know, it was my fault starting it and I was being a ignorant person again and pissed her off. I had made my mom angry so constantly and frequently that she obviously had ENOUGH. I can tell. And she got really mad and out of control and said some really nasty and disgusting stuff. It's more nasty than you can imagine. I am a 17 year old guy, almost 18. that is a little bit shy and what you call flamboyant but it's only my personality and she made fun of me and called me a word which basically is a serious insult about someone that looks l...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I His Wife Or His Mother (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 18:20 by whatislife RESPONDENTS: heatherrk13 / OnTheRoad / susiedqq / Altreal LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 22:36

My husband is honestly the person I connect with most in this world - best friend, soul mate, all that crap. He's a wonderful person and I know he wants to be a good husband. But I often feel more like a parent than a spouse. If I don't see the big picture, make the right choices on both our behalf, take responsibility for finances and the future, make more money, help him with school, etc., then I know that we will suffer in the long-term. He wants to do well and he tries, but I just don't know if he is capable. He is always there for me, he puts me first, he genuinely loves me. I always ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Fundamental Disagreement With My Husband Makes Me Sad (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 10:04 by Shauna RESPONDENTS: royalblood / Altreal LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 22:15

I am pro-life. My husband is not. Some time ago he made reference to abortion in a callous comment: "It's going to come in so you may as well get used to the idea." I have had serious difficulty in talking to him about any real subject apart from kids and timetables since. When I said I didn't want to shop in Tesco anymore because of their stance on Every Life Counts, we ended up in a flaming row. I am avoiding talking about it with him because I hate confrontation but I feel like our relationship is disintegrating since he so clearly doesn't care about how I feel on this sensitive issue....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category A Long Time Relationship (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 14:00 by Nan RESPONDENTS: Royalblood LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 14:31

When in high school, I confessed to girl that I had feelings for her, and she agreed to start a relationship with me. We were both fine together,not obsessed, but stayed together when we could. At that time both of us were seeing other men, which means it was more of an open relationship. I didn't take it seriously until years later I can't but think of her, I called her back but she changed, she also moved to another country. I have a crush on guys regularly but it never seems to work out. I don't think of her that much either, but some days I can't help the thought that I want us back togeth...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Does Anyone Else Feel Like Their Marriage Has Suffered After Having Kids? (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jan 13 2017 at 04:41 by luvmybabies1617 RESPONDENTS: ladder666 / Scopes / Anamica / Shauna LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 11:12

I have a beautiful baby boy and another one on the way. Yay! Only problem is, my husband and are growing further and further apart! It's a lot of things that are contributing to our distance. 1. He spends tons of time at the gym, which I used to do, but don't have time to do now. 2. He doesn't help around the house much with cooking, cleaning or yard work. 3. He never compliments me, but instead recently told me how "huge" my belly is. I'm 20 weeks pregnant! 4. He is jealous of my part time work schedule and makes me feel guilty for staying home with the baby. Hello.. childcare is expensi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Toxic Relationship?? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jan 7 2017 at 02:14 by Hampsterbrain40 RESPONDENTS: Royalblood / Tek / cath LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 10:00

I met this woman over a year ago. we hit it off good as friends. We kept in contact and then in the summer she made the "pass" at me by giving me a kiss on the lips. I know the relationship was quite odd and I was in a vulnarable situation but let it progress. She was separating from her bf at this time. We never officially got together and she ended up back with her bf. She kept contacting me as a friend does who is "concerned" and I reply with small talk. 3 weeks ago she calls me and tells me there is a lot of little things that remind her of me and that she loves me still. Last week she m...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Never Met Anyone In My Situation. (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jan 3 2017 at 04:11 by pinknova RESPONDENTS: Royalblood / Soulmate / cath LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 09:36

I'm a 20 year old girl and I'm new here. I really need some sort of advice. My story is a tad crazy so I'll try to be brief/concise. I'm extremely frustrated with my life, cannot find a creative solution, and am losing hope. For background- my last two years of high school I was going to a trade school for graphic design. But, halfway through my junior year at age 16 I became a victim of sex trafficking to a violent drug kingpin. Went through the trial, testified, all of that. Was put in a psychiatric care facility one month into my senior year for a couple months. I had pretty bad PTSD for ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Wife To Be Serviced By Another Man (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 09:10 by Sid196 RESPONDENTS: royalblood / Scopes LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 08:49

I have a fantasy to wear something of my wife's then for her to tie me to a chair and lock me in a closet while I listen to her having sex with another man.I've talked this over with her and she is up for it.I am a decent bloke but just have this one fantasy to be locked away in her clothes and made to listen to her getting hot and having sex with someone else.Should I go for it or get help....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Think Something Is Wrong With Me And I'm Not Entirely Sure What To Do About It (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jan 9 2017 at 09:25 by Anonymous Notes RESPONDENTS: Royalblood / Soulmate / Mumbles555 / cath LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 08:42

I think I'm going through an existential crisis. I wish I could be everything that I'm not, but at the same time I don't Such as gender. I really want to be nothing, but I know that some people think that its an attention thing or whatever. I really don't care what I am, but sometimes I do. I don't even like people of any anything, and so that makes me believe that there is something wrong with me. I don't want to give off the impression that I am some sort of special snowflake, that is not my goal. I just want to know if there's anybody out there that feels the same way. I've spent my e...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Sad And Confused (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 10 2017 at 22:10 by Simbad RESPONDENTS: Royalblood LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 07:41

Me and my family migrated to Australia couple of years back. Before migrating we always had plans to sponsor our both parents on permanent migration so they can live with us. Since me and my wife are the only child in the family there is no one else to look after them. Parent migration (sponsored) costs a lot of money. We don't have that kind of money, I am reluctant to use the little savings we have in hand because I have to think about our kids and our future too. Nothing is free in Australia, so have to plan the retirement as well which is not so far. If we are to sponsor all four of ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category How To Get Over A Break Up When He Says He Needs To Find Himself (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 02:58 by heatherrk13 RESPONDENTS: Nice Guy / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 13 2017 at 18:59

I'm having a sort of crisis at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years this month when out of nowhere he says the past two months have been a lie and he is feeling tied down? We agreed to break up and find ourselves with the hopes that we might get back together. But when I asked him before we took our break if he loves me and wants to be with me he can only reply "I don't know." Which is why I decided to end things. The night that I decided to end things he broke down in front of me (Most emotion he's shown in front of me before) and tried to bring up every option we cou...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Parents Split Up (Posts: 97)

CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 13 2017 at 15:15

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Partner Cheated How To Get Over Thinking About It (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Jan 9 2017 at 19:19 by Chez49 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / whatislife / OnTheRoad LAST POST: Jan 13 2017 at 08:22

My boyfriend is not the type to cheat at all and hates the idea of it. We have been together 3 years and own a house together. He lost his job and put on a lot of weight whereas I was working 80 hours a week. Me rarely had sex anymore and never talked about it. He went on a night out with his single friends and ended up back at his friends house with his friend and 3 girls. 2 of his friends ended up in the other bedrooms with 2 of the girls and my boyfriend stayed to talk to this girl as she was on her own apparently in the living room. They were very drunk and I remember he was when he got ho...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Sexual Dysfunction (Posts: 33)

CREATED: Dec 29 2016 at 05:28 by Irina RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate / susiedqq / honestruth / Saffron / Wesley40 / OnTheRoad LAST POST: Jan 13 2017 at 03:11

Thankyou for taking the time and reading my story. I need to share this unique situation I find myself in. I am married for the last 8 years. Married in 2009. Husband has sexual problems. He has erectile dis function. Cannot keep it hard. We could not consummate our marriage for good 6 years of our marriage. The little sex we've had is using Viagra but even that doesn't help much. He is a great guy otherwise, someone I love care about and respect . Quite a gem really. He is nice to me. Sometimes I feel he is compensating for this deficiency. I feel very dissatisfied with my sex life which is n...

Workplace advice forum category advice forum category Required To Dress As A Female At Work (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 15:52 by Sid196 RESPONDENTS: whatislife / OnTheRoad LAST POST: Jan 12 2017 at 21:35

I have been offered a job which I really want but I'm required to wear a uniform like the other staff but it is a female uniform.I will be cleaning rooms in a hotel so will have to wear a housekeeing dress and apron.I need the job, should I just take it.I am a man and the manageress won't compromise on this...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Stubborn (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jan 6 2017 at 22:04 by pragmaster RESPONDENTS: nez / Altreal / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 12 2017 at 00:07

Hi everybody, I need some insight on my situation please. I'm at a loss here. I met a woman a year ago and our relationship snowballed very quickly. I made the mistake of believing I wanted a family with her and now she is pregnant and fully invested in me. She moved in with me a month ago and the lack of freedom is already getting to me hard and it's starting to impact her too. I am grateful for her and the baby but I have come to realization that either I am not capable of a) truly loving another more then myself, or b) I do not love her or c) I am simply not a person fit for rel...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused About Relationship And Beat Down In Life (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 20:53 by Wesley40 RESPONDENTS: whatislife LAST POST: Jan 11 2017 at 23:29

I am really feeling low today. I have to make this fast with a follow up later. I just want people to read since I have not really told anyone my whole story. I was almost a graduate with my IT degree from WGU B.S. For me this was a real self esteem boost, but I felt overstressed and alone. I had neglected what friends I had and hadn't had a gf for about 6 years. my confidence is a bit shaky there. I attract women, but I don't really think very well of myself. I met a Filipino woman on a Christian dating site, and went over there for a month, came back got kicked out of school my friend...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Love My Wife, But I'm In Love With Another Woman (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 3 2017 at 17:49 by sk8rdude RESPONDENTS: Jackdor / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 22:44

I've been with my wife for 19 years. We got divorced in Feb of 07. While we were divorced, I met and fell in love with another woman. SHe was wonderful and we had a lot in common, unlike me and my wife (we had nothing in common, and still don't). This woman had 4 kids, and I loved them like they were mine. Her husband died, the year before,from cancer. In 08, my wife and I started back talking, then going out, then she was spending the weekend with me. We got remarried October 31, 2008. I never stopped thinking or loving the other woman. I eventually, called her one day and we started talking....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Choosing Between Friends (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 10 2017 at 17:04 by Elijah301 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 20:46

Back in September on a night out I kissed this guy and everything was fine wasn't looking for anything and he later got back together with his ex so that was great. Just before new year's I went to the club and met him and his best friend. I ended up kissing his best friend that night but didn't feel too bad because he was at that point still with his girlfriend. However later that night they split up. so a few days go by and we go out to the club again and I kiss them both again which they both knew. we then hung out the next day. My best friend decided to tell me that they both real...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Male Cousin Sexually Obsessed With Me?? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jan 9 2017 at 12:32 by Chrissie RESPONDENTS: Royalblood / Soulmate / Altreal LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 18:40

I have a cousin, which isn't by blood. Our mother's were very close friends so naturally my siblings and my mother's friends siblings being so close in age we would be around each other all the time, as time went on we considered each other like family, like cousins. I am 23, my male cousin is 25 or 26. His feelings for me which seem to be very sexual came about around the age I was 16. I don't see him this way at all and told him this numerous times so it's quite puzzling! From the age of 16 he would frequently get in contact with me, trying to "hang" out, ask if I could ever see myself in...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship End? (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Jan 3 2017 at 15:18 by Woozy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / honestruth LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 17:47

Well, im 28 and my girlfriend is 22. We have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and started to live together after 2 months meeting. Everything was great till 2 weeks ago, when we had a horrible fight. I know i haven't been a perfect guy but we always have had a jelousy problem. She doesn't trust me most likely at all. But for her, i even stoped talking to other females long time ago, cus i love her so much and that's not a problem for me. But every time someone contacted me, there was a problem, so i think i was getting distant cus lack of trust. That was wrong of me. Looking back i wa...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category A Bad Relationship (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 7 2017 at 20:55 by Wallace RESPONDENTS: Royalblood / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 15:41

Hi I didn't know it was going to come to this but I can't take anymore anoths anoth what am I meant to do next. Well here it goes I been in a relationship for 11 years now am 28 with to kids to this man. I need to sort it coz it's unfair on my kids everything's a argument th he starts with me. Am so up set coz of th was he speaks to me like am a door mate I do everything I possibly can but he don't seem to see it. When he argues with me he says th most hurtful things to me like am fat thick in th head I make his skin cruel am a bad mum that's y he's with me coz I can't look after th kids. The...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Looking For Some Advice From Separated Fathers Or Anyone Really (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 10 2017 at 05:47 by Lostandconfuseddad RESPONDENTS: Royalblood / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 15:06

Hi, I've been separated from my ex partner for roughly 4 or 5 years now, I have two kids to her 10 and 12, currently I live 3 hours away from them, I drive 1200ks every second weekend to pick them up and bring them to my house and then back home again, I have been offered an awesome job opportunity, problem is it's 12 hours away from them, which means I wouldn't see them on the weekends anymore, I know I can Skype etc and I would get them school holidays. I've talked to them about it, understandably they're upset. I guess I'm just after some advice from people that may have been through somet...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Best Friend Is Mad At Me And Is Refusing To Talk To Me. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 4 2017 at 22:36 by Ink-Covered-Quail RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 12:32

I have two main friends, we all talk sh*t about each other on occasion, however we have mostly stopped. Recently we've been trying to be more honest with each other and try to resolve arguments instead of just holding a grudge. However, recently one of my friends has cut me completely out of her life. With nothing more than a vague notion of something I did having hurt her. I tried to talk it out, but she told me that I wouldn't be able to understand. I asked what I could do to help and heal our friendship, and she only told me to wait. I can't see her, and I fear I've completely burned a ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Spouse Won't Stop Smoking Marijuana To Save Marriage And Family (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 10 2017 at 08:35 by smh RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 12:26

Married 20 yrs. Been unhappy 13. Stayed for kids. Spouses habits have harmed relationships with each family member because they are emotionally, and mentally unavailable to them. Seems to put marijuana as a priority over feeding, clothing, supporting family. Leaves me to parenting by myself, making ends meet with food pantries and thrift store for family. Gambles on football pools and lottery. Smokes, drinks,passes out daily. I know this is not a normal marriage. Ready to get put since change has not occurred in the last 8 years to present. Has anyone dealt with this before? Any tops in how to...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Why Cant He Love Me? (Posts: 15)

CREATED: Jan 1 2017 at 10:45 by Lonelyheart864 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Soulmate / OnTheRoad / 40yroldproblems / Sad Tulip / SomeGirlSomewhere / Mommyx3 / honest ruth / Wallace / Scopes / Anomaly LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 12:04

I was recently married in July 2016, to a man who would do anything for me. But, he never does anything romantic, even on our honey moon. He never tells me I'm beautiful. All he says is if I weren't attracted to you then I wouldn't be with you. He buys me things constantly even though I tell him not to. Recently I've been very unhappy. He won't touch me like he used to. I found out he's been watching porn when I go to bed before him.all of this makes me feel worthless and not good enough.and when I say that I don't feel good enough he gets angry and tells me to stop and I need to changr b...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Troubles - Seeking Advice (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 4 2017 at 13:13 by EternalPatriot RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jan 9 2017 at 23:09

So my situation is mainly a two-part question where I’m not really sure where to turn or what action I should take at this point. I apologize up front for the length of my comments here but I wanted to not only make sure I covered everything for the best answer possible but also to help me focus on my feelings as well. With that, here goes… I’ve been married now for over 10 years and I’ll honestly state that most of that time has been great! Unfortunately, this all began to change about three years ago and now I I’m uncertain if life will ever go back to the way it used to be. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Having Trouble Getting Past The Cheating My Partner Did (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 9 2017 at 07:25 by Tamar96 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jan 9 2017 at 21:56

My partner cheated on me several times: texting girls, sex, meeting up with them, dating websites, photos. He claims he is faithful and trying to do right...but i find it so hard to believe. Alot of our problems stem from the cheating,and its preventing us from moving forward because i just have the hardest time trusting him again. I have trust issues now because of it... i want to move forward for the better so we can parent our child the best that we can. Im just not sure on how i can go about getting passed this to regain the love we once shared again. We dont have sex regularly anymore.....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category My Life As I See It. (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Dec 29 2016 at 05:42 by Most Royalblood RESPONDENTS: hopefuldoctor / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 9 2017 at 20:46

Next year 2017 makes it exactly 10years I left secondary school. Looking back on the years, can't really say I have achieved much. Currently in the university studying medicine. Just had my 2nd MBBS exam and I didn't pass, have to repeat the class. I must say, at 25yrs of age, still depending on family for tuition and allowances, its emotionally depressing. Don't just know how to cope with it all. The shame of repeating the class or the shame of disappointment on the faces of family and friends. I just need someone to talk true to me. Had people come around saying its well, it would get be...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Depressed And Hopeful (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jan 6 2017 at 11:52 by Martinah RESPONDENTS: Royalblood / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 9 2017 at 04:44

Hi I am new here, I have been online and looking for some advice of what I am in now, and found this website and thought of joining the forum. I am in a relationship, a long distance relationship with a guy for two years now. He is also working away from his home country, we met there when i was also working, been friends and later it goes beyond that. For some reason I had to come back home and will take time to get back and be with him, although i travel to see him twice a year. Through the help of social networks we talk endless everyday. He has a micro business with partner, and ...

Workplace advice forum category advice forum category Being Pushed Out - Newbie Favoritism (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 5 2017 at 20:31 by majesticyogi RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 9 2017 at 04:38

We have a new woman at work to manage our branch location. It is only seasonal so she comes back to the main location after it closes. The issue I'm having is the woman is rather lazy, doesn't want to be a team player (except kissing up to the owners) and gets paid as much as I do!!! The owners let her "do her own thing" over at the branch location even though it she isn't experienced in the retail business and knows very little of our specialized trade. Now that she's back at the main location with us it's been horrible. The owners left it up to me to train her because I ran that location...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Am Asking For A Psycoanalysis And Maybe Some Advice. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 8 2017 at 23:41 by Kyla RESPONDENTS: Habibi / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 9 2017 at 04:28

I realized today that I'm depressed and this is why. I am aware of how long the story is. There is no way to tell it shorter without expressing myself clearly. I'm 21 years old, in college and a girl. I'm sensitive by nature, but I think my self esteem is or used to be in a pretty good place. It started about two years ago. I started college. I was lonely and homesick. Within four months, I was in a serious relationship with a handsome guy my age who I wouldn't say is a bad guy, but was very particular and made some mistakes. It was clear that he loved me dearly and I loved him too, ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Sad And Confused (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 4 2017 at 21:32 by JR71 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 9 2017 at 04:22

I met my current boyfriend about 8 months ago and we became very serious about 5 months ago. In the past 5 months, I have been through his first ex wife and mother of 2 of his grown daughters (25 & 24) passing away, birth of his first grandchild, meeting his parents and siblings over the holidays, dealing with his 13 year old son's mom, etc. I feel like we have been through what it takes some couples years to go through in just 5 short months. We've practically moved in together and although I know he's just as committed to me as I am to him. I must say that I came into the relationship with z...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category To Stay And Keep Trying Or Give Up (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 7 2017 at 06:08 by Narrob RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jan 8 2017 at 00:23

Hi. I have been in a relationship for quite some time. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs but the last 12 months have been anything but easy. I found out quite by accident 12 months ago he was seeing someone else. And she's married. When I confronted him originally he told me she meant nothing and was just a fling. But its continued on a regular basis of 1 weekend with her about every month to 6 weeks. I tried to talk to him about what it was doing to me but he just got defensive and angry. He promised we'd do something special for new year but he never turned up. He spent it w...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Transferring Colleges... What To Do With The Girl I Love? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 3 2017 at 18:06 by Bball32 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / honestruth LAST POST: Jan 7 2017 at 04:53

Hi all, I'll be switching universities from the one my girlfriend and I currently attend in the Fall (about seven months from now.) I met her about a year ago and we've been dating for around nine months now. She's a great girl and I do feel that I love her, and I know she loves me. I can see myself marrying her. However, I will be attending a university about three hours away from her. My heart tells me it won't work out. I don't know if I can devote weekends to seeing her due to time & homework. I also feel like i would be more free as a single man on campus. She brings it up often ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Being Overly Controlling Or Am I Justifiably Trying To Heal (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jan 2 2017 at 21:24 by Lost in deceit RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 5 2017 at 01:29

My BF and I have been together for two years. Two very hard years without giving too much background. We moved in together in July of last year. Recently, before Christmas, I became very convinced he was cheating. I tricked him into giving me his iCloud password. I know deceiving on myself. I downloaded an app that allows you to see all texts and everything except other apps that are not traditionally on your phone like Snapchat and Facebook. I began reading texts messages and found that he was in fact cheating with the very woman I had questioned him about weeks and months prior. Alth...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Trapped In An Affair (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 4 2017 at 07:39 by Ms. J RESPONDENTS: ggwpggez / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 4 2017 at 14:59

This is my first time to be in here Ive been married 12 years and i have a daughter 6 yrs old, theres only one man i loved my whole life but for the 3 years we lost connection, he gained 60lbs and focused more on his own family parents siblings, he leaves us here at home all the time, and little by little i found myself falling outta love for him I met this guy online 2.5 years and hes the most beautiful person ive ever seen in my life, very handsome, policeman and saves people not too hooked on money his appearance and character made me see his soul, hes this very alpha male and everythin...

Other advice forum category advice forum category The 'xmas Party' Thread! (Posts: 37)

CREATED: Dec 24 2016 at 23:28 by Soulmate RESPONDENTS: manalone / Scopes / lily31 LAST POST: Jan 3 2017 at 21:20

Whether on your tod due to a rift or break-up - or deliberately on your tod (in the loo...to get away from the rellies for 5 minutes and let off steam, LOL) - or wanting to earn good Karma in contributing an input - this thread is for you. Feel free to just chew the fat and/or swap jokes, anecdotes, and funny film footage, but please try to remember (especially if you've had a few) to keep it as clean as poss., including asterisking your expletives in case any wandering kiddies find their way here. Regular poster Scopes is thread host and acting co-thread monitor (avec moi) for ensuring yo...

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