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Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Is He Breaking Up With Me? (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Feb 8 2016 at 00:10 by lollywolly

Hi I'm 40 ish been dating a guy for 6 months long distance so have only seen on average twice a month. We met for swimming the other night and dinner whilst he was down working near me (work is always busy!). He said I don't expect you to come back but I have a single hotel room tonight (which sort of hit a nerve with me). Then he said "you are so lovely ... I just need to get through ..." and then feeling insecure from the previous comments I butted in and started talking rubbish. I have not heard from him since ... that was over a week ago ... no reply to my two texts and a call. We are...

Relationships - Long Distance advice forum category advice forum category In Love With A Woman More Than Twice Of My Age (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Feb 5 2016 at 19:51 by edwardrun

I'm living in India. Around 8 months ago, while playing clash of clans, I found a player.. I got too friendly to her, shared numbers to plan strategy for clan wars. But now it has grown to a relationship. I'm 18 years old where as she is 41. I love her, she's single. No marriage before. I know I'm going the wrong way, but I can't live without chatting with her. Please someone share their ideas how should I move further. she lives in Singapore. and me in India...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Secrets In A Relationship (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Feb 4 2016 at 02:12 by

I will begin by telling the story from the beginning to give some insight on the history of the relationship. You can skip to the star (*) to see the actual problem. My relationship with him began after I broke up with my ex, who is now my best friend. I usually know right away if people have feelings for me, but this time I didn't know. He sent terribly mixed signals and the fact that we lived in different states and have never really seen each other made it more difficult. I eventually got my thoughts together and told him I loved him thinking that I got nothing to lose. Surprisingly f...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category My Aunt Is Annoying (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Feb 2 2016 at 15:45 by AntiDelwa

First things first, in the African community there's no reasoning with family members as long as they are older than You and You are under their roof. Now this woman of an Aunt takes devoted Christian to a whole new level. Let me explain: I'm not religious myself however I'm forced to go to church or else I'll be accused of being a Satanist. I'm quiet, like to keep to myself and quite frankly with the kinda family I have , I really don't enjoy spending time with them. So according to my Aunt when I : Sleep too much Serve the tea wrong Don't talk much Show no interest in the neighbou...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Is It Worth It (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jan 30 2016 at 21:00 by !!!

Here's the way it went. I helped a family come here from abroad to an in human extent. We lived together 8 years. The mother who is a nut told her kids lies so she would not respect me and I turned a blind eye for years. But her oldest daughter believed her and was really abusive to me. My sister who was desperate for friends supported her and I said f--k the bunch. If this is a losing game there is nothing I can do. Well their mother is sorry and wanted to make it up by doing my roof. She is not my servant and this is not a way to make up for this we need to talk. My sister kept inviting me t...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Feeling Foolish!! (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jan 29 2016 at 16:40 by feelingblue

so it has been almost a year since my ex and I broke up. I have been casually seeing people. lately been stuck on one guy and it is ridiculous and I know it is. He was seeing one of my friends, casually of course, and then me, then her and ya, my friend and I aren't talking right now. I don't know what it is, I just want him. I told myself, wait for a guy that wants to be your boyfriend, and thought I was doing a pretty good job about it, then I catch myself at the bar, having a drink, hoping he will stop by haha. Last night that is what I did, had a drink, he walks in and I just can't help...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Cheating From Both Ends (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 16:22 by Donald RESPONDENTS: salvator here / dummydum LAST POST: Feb 8 2016 at 03:15

I was in a relationship which lasted about 10-11 months and then ended because my partner says that i cheated. Agreed i did and i did not disclose the fact that i had done that, my partner got to know from someone else who apparently i am not told about. All things said and done we still talked and do at times now as well but my partner shouts at me and shows a lot of anger as and when they fell like. I only have one thing to say that We shouldn't talk to each other like this because its bad on our part and i personally hate fighting with my partner. I want to say that my partner also chea...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Am I In An Emotionally/verbally Abusive Relationship? (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Feb 3 2016 at 19:16 by JaquieCousteau RESPONDENTS: Tory / Soulmate / almostoutofhope / dummydum LAST POST: Feb 8 2016 at 02:22

I have been dating a "great guy" for several months. We moved in together, and he's been amazing about helping me through a career transition (unemployed for a few months, starting a new job). Everything seems perfect.....except for when there is even a slight issue in our relationship. Any time I bring up even the slightest thing that bothers me or I find hurtful, he reacts with sarcasm or is demeaning of how I feel. He tells me I constantly complain and bitch, that I'm a negative person, and that I'm never happy. I don't think any of these statements are accurate. I do think if there is ...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Concerning Behavior Of 22 Year Old Daughter No Motivation (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Feb 7 2016 at 01:32 by Polly1 RESPONDENTS: Ody / salvator here LAST POST: Feb 8 2016 at 00:59

My 22 year old daughter dropped out of college 2 years ago. She did start taking 1-2 classes online this semester but has no desire to interact with people. She works avg 15 hrs a week in a small business. Most of her time is spent playing video games, sleeping, drinking wine. She seems content with this lifestyle but I am concerned that she is spending too much time alone and doesn't have any motivation or desire to do something better with her life. How can I help her? Thank you ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Scared About Moving Back To Home State (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Feb 4 2016 at 18:46 by CaliMomof2 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Feb 8 2016 at 00:17

My husband, myself and our two small children are getting ready to move back to my hometown in SoCal this spring. We have been living out of state for almost 6 years. Both of our children were born in Texas and as expected we have gone through a lot of different things in our life here. Typical up and downs of life, so many things that have changed the people we are in certain ways. I am really looking forward to being around all of my family and friends again, so is my husband. We know we are going to be facing many changes and challenges with our move but there is only one aspect that re...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Is My Ex Stalking Me? (Posts: 71)

CREATED: Dec 31 2015 at 08:51 by shannon63 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate / PJVL9 LAST POST: Feb 7 2016 at 20:04

Last February I began dating a man I have known for 42 years, we were best of friends growing up. We lost track of each other through the years, we both married, had families, etc. I was on Facebook and saw his pic under people you may know. I sent him a message, he immediately accepted the friend request. While talking to each other I learned that he was also now divorced. He asked if I would like to get together for dinner and catch up, I accepted. We went out for dinner and we hit it off great, began dating. We dated for 6 months, his ex girlfriend started texting him while I was the...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Is It Normal For Me To Be Feeling The Way I Am? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Feb 7 2016 at 11:24 by An0nym0us LAST POST: Feb 7 2016 at 19:44

Before I begin on my problem, I have to tell some background information. About a year and a half ago, a long time friend of mine (friends since the 3rd grade) had his mother pass away from cancer, and before she passed, she and my parents agreed that he would live with us since the rest of his family was out of state (this was all in the 10th grade). He has been living with me ever since, and we consider each other step-brothers. Also a year and a half ago, my mom had a work friend who wasn't home often because of work, and his oldest child was harmful to the 3 younger children...

Education advice forum category advice forum category Saving My Life (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Feb 6 2016 at 19:42 by Levant RESPONDENTS: Ody / john2020 LAST POST: Feb 7 2016 at 03:16

hi. i am a 17 year old boy looking forward for a better future but i am stuck in between. i started my journey very enthusiastucally buy somehow i have lost all my interest in studies .I was very good at studies but now i dont even touch my books. the worst part is i have my exams (20 days left).but i know that even if i revise properly i ll get good marks but i dont feel moyivated , i.always feel low ,dont eat properly , fight with my parents , and i have totally lost my dreams . i dont how i.pass my days . another problem is i am a porn addict and i think it to be as the root cause of all...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category I'm Married, But Kissed Another Man (Posts: 9)

CREATED: Jan 31 2015 at 06:56 by TillyBops RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqqq / Hikari / Mee LAST POST: Feb 6 2016 at 22:46

I'm 5 years married to my best friend. We are together 12 years altogether and although I had boyfriends before him, it was never serious, and he is the only man I've ever slept with. He is a good person and a good husband and I love him very much. For the last few years we have been trying for a baby and are currently going through tests to try find out why it's not happening. A couple of nights ago I went out to a work function. It was a real dress up affair, and the drink flowed freely all night long. I hadn't been out drinking for about 3 months beforehand, so think the excitement of...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Moving In Together After Online/long Distance.. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 10:48 by nana RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 6 2016 at 19:30

first of all hello and thx for having me here..i kinda feel bad for not getting more info and looking through other articles before my bf moved to my country..so my questions is, what if we fucked it all up? i dont even know where to start.. 1.for me it was waaay to quick with the physical part so i felt extremly overwhelmed for not setting boudaries which made me very mad because i didnt tell him on time and when i did (took me some time to figure it out) he took it way too personally 2. the paperwork took us extremly long, we didnt rly take care of anything before he came to here..we ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category High School Mess Up (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Feb 4 2016 at 06:45 by Bored RESPONDENTS: almostoutofhope LAST POST: Feb 6 2016 at 18:04

Um Idk what to do anymore I'll explain this girl I almost never talked to at school or at all in fact messaged me on new years ok and needless to say she saved my life and she's so pretty and so amazing in every way I could not believe a girl like her even talked to me I fell for her she's been unhappy lately and told me she really likes my best friend I saw this as a opportunity to try and make her happy so I talked to him and now they are dating and at first I was happy but now it's killing me seeing her with my best friend taking about him like I wish she would me the bad thing is they both...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category How Can I Love Someone So Much, Who Clearly Doesnt Love Me Back? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Feb 5 2016 at 06:01 by Tory RESPONDENTS: patty / almostoutofhope LAST POST: Feb 6 2016 at 17:57

Ill try to make this short, but please read the whole thing. I really need advice. I met Josh back in August of 2015. He seemed perfect. We would talk on facebook all day long, and then later texted each other all day everyday. He was incredibly goodlooking, funny, and gave me constant attention. He was also very open about his past with the mother of his child, *Kayla. He told me that they dated for 6 years, and that they both cheated on each other and always fought and that he had moved back and forth between two states multiple times when she asked him to, only to get his heart broken ov...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum category Suffering In Silence And Could Sure Use A Friend! (Posts: 15)

CREATED: Jan 30 2016 at 06:47 by salvator here RESPONDENTS: Anika / !!! / Richard B LAST POST: Feb 6 2016 at 08:40

Hello; and thank you in advance for reading :) I found my way to this forum in hopes to connect with people anywhere in the world for honest friendship. I am 42 years old and a gay man. I am having trouble fining open minded people in real life which is why I'm look towards the internet now. I'm very lonely and really hope to meet guys that I could possibly become good friends with and enjoy/share good times. I'm a kind and sincere friend; and will never turn my back on my friends if they are having a rough day. I can be casual at times; serious and thoughtful other times as well. I'm always u...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Feeling Alone (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Feb 1 2016 at 15:19 by maryam RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / don't LAST POST: Feb 6 2016 at 07:37

Sorry i am using proper english here now so that u ppl fully understnd my post.. ***Hi I am Maryam I am in 4 year mbbs now...I like my cousin a lot ...he also likes me....when I was in 3 rd year Mbbs his famly sent proposal for me....but my parents said to wait for 2 year....he was already 29 he didn't wait and is now married with someone else....now I feel alone and depressed often as I was v much attach with him.....I have to face that cousin again and again often which I don't want to as it recalls me all those past memories....now guide me how should I behave in front of him..I feel alon...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Constant Disappointment In Relationship (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Feb 5 2016 at 11:08 by Estef624 RESPONDENTS: katnms LAST POST: Feb 5 2016 at 23:48

My longest relationship is with my current boyfriend. We've been together for almost a year. He's younger than me (by 7 years) and has a lower income. I really like who I am when I'm with him, we make each other better. I guess that's why I'm constantly disappointed when I don't see him. You see, we live not so far away, but our jobs and our live styles keep us apart. Yesterday he was supposed to come to my apartment and sleep over, but in the end decided not not to, and that we could only see each other on the weekends. I had a fit. I felt that he's not into this as much as I am. I don't know...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category I Pushed My Best Friend Away (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Feb 1 2016 at 16:43 by katnms RESPONDENTS: salvator here LAST POST: Feb 5 2016 at 23:43

I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and, since then, I've felt so alone. I struggled with feelings of depression and solitude all throughout high school. Over time, I just became numb to the feeling, and it eventually turned into a security blanket. I spent so much time with my boyfriend that after the breakup, I had all this free time and no one to spend it with, and those feelings of loneliness came back in full. I wanted to spend time with my best friend as a way to help me cope, but we no longer have any classes together. He's so busy with his classes, other friends, and other person...

Housing advice forum category advice forum category I Want To Move Out But I'm Not Sure What To Do. (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Feb 3 2016 at 01:17 by tayumi90 RESPONDENTS: Jasonwexperience LAST POST: Feb 5 2016 at 21:26

Backstory: My mom died in March 2014, a couple months before I graduated high school. She owned a house but I've still had to make mortgage payments. She didn't have a will. I've had a job at the local library since the beginning of that school year, so 2.5 years now, 10 hours a week. The house is a duplex, and my mom had a renter on the other side. He had been paying rent to help with the mortgage, and my overall income was $900. My boyfriend graduated a year after me, and we've also been together for 2 years (our anniversary is in 6 days ^.^). I encouraged him to get a job because he kept...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Emotionally Numb: Can You Really Get Better Relationships After Abuse? (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 11:26 by AntiDelwa RESPONDENTS: angelina / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 5 2016 at 18:59

nyone I'm bored or simply trying to fill a void but after physical abuse is it really possible to find love again and do any of You have stories to share about that? I'm 22 and have scars and stretch marks from my last pregnancy. I'm also worried that noone will want me withall my scars.. or rather the kind of guys I go for. I'm even sceptical that love exists because all my experiences with men either bored me or hurt me as it's always been about sex. And they've always dated Me for my looks- now I don't even have that and I'm terrified that I won't have a choice but to be alone. I miss...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category His Email, His Ex, My Nosy Brain, My Broken Heart (Posts: 29)

CREATED: Dec 9 2015 at 13:05 by VictoriaS RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / Soulmate / Thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Feb 5 2016 at 17:46

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years now. Last night he was over at my house, on my computer, and we were emailing someone back and forth and he wanted me to write for him. After he left for the night, I got on my computer to shut everything down and I noticed his email was still open in another tab. I did what I shouldn't have, and what is not me.... I opened it. I don't think my boyfriend would ever cheat on me, but in the past few week I had been getting weird texts from him like a random "I love you too". I'd kinda make light of it and he would say he's just use...

Legal advice forum category advice forum category Killer Family (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Feb 4 2016 at 17:03 by Nephew RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Feb 5 2016 at 11:23

Hi Since my grandfather died in 1999, my family is making my life an living hell. They try to kill me because my grandfathers left me a fortune and they want to inherit everything. They didn't gave me the documents. They pay people to cause me trouble. I can't go to work because they pay colleagues to cause me trouble. Everywhere i go, they pay people to cause me trouble. My father died but my sister and my mother are still alive and they don't let me live my life. My grandfather always promised me that he will give me a lot of lands so i will open a farm....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Problem. How To End This Relationship? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Feb 3 2016 at 06:18 by rmhjn RESPONDENTS: shadowwalker96 LAST POST: Feb 5 2016 at 05:55

i am 24 year old girl. i am a teacher. before 2.5 years my real brother got married. his brother in law contacted me through facebook. slowly slowly we got committed with each other. in the very first year of our relation he was not much caring and was also flirty with other girls. we had lot of fights. then after 1 year i started talking to his best friend just as friend he started getting jealous as i expected and wanted. then a good point in our relation came. he started caring me and also giving me time. i was happy that our relation has come to right track but it was not at all at right t...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Tired Of Being Lonely (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jan 30 2016 at 16:32 by Anika RESPONDENTS: salvator here LAST POST: Feb 5 2016 at 02:58

I have found that recently my partner of 15years has become damn near a mute. They barely speak and are always into the tv and has no time to talk. They also tend to tell me to go out and mingle but when I am out they call non-stop asking when I will get home and what am I doing that is more important than being home. I am beginning to feel confined and lonely as well as a bit controlled. I have addressed the issue but they say that they are just being protective and they worry that something bad may happen since the world is not what it used to be. Any advice or suggestions....? ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Am I In The Wrong For Being Mad At My Best Friend? (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jan 28 2016 at 05:25 by zoeyfray RESPONDENTS: brizo / PJVL9 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 4 2016 at 21:06

Couple months ago I was assaulted and raped by two strangers. I have anxiety and panic attacks, flashbacks,thoughts of suicide, and started cutting myself( I am not going to kill myself i just simply don't want to be here). I have told her this and anytime I try to talk to her about any of it she immediately changes topics. A couple weeks after I was assaulted I would try and call her several times to talk (she lived 3 hours away) She would talk about a guy she met and how she liked him. Eventually her and the guy started dating and that was all she talked about the few times we talked which ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category First Time Called Crazy (Posts: 285)

CREATED: Sep 25 2015 at 16:19 by Amms RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / aliceking / Soulmate / maryam LAST POST: Feb 4 2016 at 19:00

My bf and i have an year and few month relation now.THough there are several times that we are being loud at each other but overall ita been great.We are loyal to each other.We exchange presents(mostly he gives expensive gifts). We do little good things for each other's families.But what happened last week has made me really worries.We were with our very close friend in university when during a joke he said in fun i am not your servant.While previously as frda we used to call each other names and i never minded. I told him its my insult now.He felt bad and left.After a while i saw him standing...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Down And Crying A Lot. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 12:17 by Dido RESPONDENTS: Mee / green LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 20:15

Feel rock bottom.. My good friend (soul mate female) was murdered by her son 6 years ago took 3 years for the trial which was awful , the son that was with her son who was with her when she died 16 yr old is now self medicating on weed and valium. woried sick about him > then my partners business callapsed and had to sell his house and move in with me. Then a year ago I had breast cancer that hadn't spread had one chemo and turned to alternatives..all ok so far but the raw food diet has left me at 45 kilo from 55 and I feel awful as can'tput weight on...I. have hit a very low place recently. I...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category My Partner Keeps Telling Me How Beautiful Other Women Are (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Jan 29 2016 at 10:40 by punkrockgirl72 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Skinnygirl / moody_one / green LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 20:01

This may sound silly but it's driving me MAD. I have a wonderful partner , we love each other very much and are getting married this year. But my partner has this habit of talking about how beautiful other women are and it really winds me up. I never do this to him, obviously I notice attractive men or I like certain goodlooking males but I never point it out to him as I find it disrespectful. He even repeatedly tells me how stunning his first ever girlfriend was. When he talks about another woman he'll say stuff like "she was an absolute stunner" or "she's a beautiful girl" I mean, seriousl...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Unhappy But Still In Love (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Feb 3 2016 at 00:33 by Pookytou RESPONDENTS: Carl Smith / Lost Wife LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 16:39

I got married right out of high school to my first love. We enjoyed a long honeymoon phase of marriage lasting close to 10 years before we had our first child. During this time, my husband was unfaithful to me twice. Life wasn't perfect, but I was happy for the most part. We had date night every Friday and spent hours talking. Things have changed dramatically between us. Recently, we've become more like roommates rather than husband and wife. Intimacy is virtually nonexistent- we barely hug, kiss, or even touch each other. Most nights he resorts to sleeping on the sofa rather than in the be...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category I Dont Want To Be With Him Anymore... (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Feb 3 2016 at 08:37 by shadowwalker96 RESPONDENTS: <3lipstick LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 15:27

This might be long, so bear with me. I have been with my fiancé for two years now coming up in March. We met when I was 18 and I was living with a foster family. I lived on a nice farm and lived a pretty satisfying life. At first he was such an awesome boyfriend. He would buy me flowers and generally make an effort to make me smile. It was nice... but the second time we hung out was when he came to visit me (he lived 60 miles away) and he wanted to "go for a ride in his car"... well, turned out he just wanted to have sex. He pulled off on a dirt road and we did our thing. Wasn't fu...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Sex Addiction And Ptsd (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 05:32 by McBeelah RESPONDENTS: Carl Smith / thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 13:12

I suffered a lot of trauma in my life. One of the side effects has been using sex as a band aid. I have no idea how many guys I have slept with. Triple digits for sure. I finally meet a great guy, but he has no experience with mental illness, and doesn't believe in sex without being a couple. Well we are unable to be together for lots of reasons. So now I feel sick when I think about sleeping with anybody else. But we can't be intimate. So I'm at this crazy empty place and nothing I do makes me feel better. Yeah stupid problem, but I don't want to bother my friends with my depressing crap any ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Opinion: Question That Upset My Wife (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Feb 3 2016 at 01:53 by Carl Smith RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 04:43

So I just got home after a long 10 hours shift. I go to the kitchen and I don't see any pots or pan and everything is clean. There was a dish of soup waiting for me. So I ask my wife ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Stressed Out (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Feb 1 2016 at 21:24 by feelingblue RESPONDENTS: tayumi90 LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 02:41

Things can get worse? Dealing with a family problem with my parent and sibling. I am caught in the middle and I don't know how to deal with it. I don't want to be in the middle of this, but I can't help but be. This is messing me up, its triggering all the self destruct patterns I am trying to avoid. I want to go cry, or run, or something to avoid feeling like this. It is so hard to get time for me, I work two jobs, and have three children, I am widowed. I try and be a great parent, but having two jobs takes me away from them when all I am trying to do is provide for them, the costs of l...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Dont Know (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Feb 2 2016 at 05:46 by sadcatnotradcat RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 / tayumi90 LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 02:10

well ive been struggling with maybe being bipolar. ive never gone to the doctor about it. ive been thinking for a long while that naybe i was because my emotions are so extreme and they change so quickly but i never thought it was that big of a deal but its been getting worse and worse and i sorta feel like i cant deal with it anymore. and to make it even more worse i started dating this guy and i didnt even tell him about it but he got this whole idea about how he thinks im bipolar and it makes me feel horrible. i just feel nus and i feel like im a burden to him like i dont even know why he w...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category An Embarrassing Event From A Long Time Ago That Has Been Secret But Need To Tell (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jan 30 2016 at 02:02 by MrsWrite RESPONDENTS: problemtolerance / Skinnygirl / PJVL9 LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 00:31

I am a middle aged woman now in my 40's. This happened a long time ago when I was in my mid-20's. I have always been embarrassed about what happened so hopefully getting it off my chest will get it out of my mind. I have never even told my best friend. It bothers me every time I think about it and I still think about it all the time. I showed up to an appointment at my hair solon. My stylist was running behind and apologized. They had just started offering a massage service and she told me that I could get a free massage while I waited for my appointment. I was in my 20's and had never had ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Wwyd? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Feb 2 2016 at 19:39 by lcross75 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Feb 2 2016 at 23:22

Ive been with the same man for almost 7 years now. he has always been the type to lie and the truth only comes to surface if i do detective work and confront him of my findings. he will only admit to what i find ..nothing more ..or he will say i am wrong and what i saw with my own eyes and on a web cam was false and he wont even come close to admission of guilt by that point. well we were arguing over the same crap as usual.. him hiding his stuff, sleeping fully clothed with his cell phone in his pockets etc etc ...and i am very very tired of hearing .."its mine , i aint hiding anything and i...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Overwhelmed (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jan 30 2016 at 06:37 by s0fi RESPONDENTS: MCarrion / katnms / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 2 2016 at 14:33

I am so stressed, I've never posted before but I feel is the only place I have now. I had an 11 month relationship with my boyfriend who I have known for 2 years. The thing started when he broke up with me over a text message when we had been almost a year together, we broke up and then he told me he was sorry he came to my house with presents and crying so I forgave him and we got back together, a week after that he cheated on me (we had had sex but with her it was just a kiss -still cheating for me-) so whatever I swore to myself that it was the end of us and shit and it was. When I found ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Am I Right? (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 16:57 by MCarrion RESPONDENTS: angelina / katnms / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 2 2016 at 13:41

Hey all, I love my granny two weeks ago. I can't begin to tell you how much she meant to me. She was a second mother and in the last few years I was involved heavily with her personal care. She passed away in her sleep while I sat at her side. My girlfriend of 5 years was in the house and supportive on the days of losing her and the funeral the week after. My girlfriend's mother has been given a terminal diagnosis for a rare cancer. It's a horrendous time for both families. She wanted everyone to go on holiday - the whole family. I expected that this would be in a few months time howeve...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Tension Of Job (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 10:38 by Xyzq123 RESPONDENTS: katnms LAST POST: Feb 1 2016 at 22:18

I am student of btech computer science. I have passed clge in 2015 Aug. I have tried so many places.but I didn't get a job. I m tenst... What to do?...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Wife Lied (Posts: 12)

CREATED: Jan 30 2016 at 21:33 by ConfusedHusband RESPONDENTS: angelina / susiedqq / confuseshusband LAST POST: Feb 1 2016 at 17:00

My wife lent money form the kids savings account to her sister. She transferred the money into her brother in laws account. when I found out I said its not right touching the kids saving for your sister and also it don't like you sending it to your brother in laws account. so eventually they paid us back She promised me she wont send anymore to his account. I saw her bank statements for the past six months and I saw her brother in law sent money to her which she withdrew and then sent over to india to her sister. We had agree since I don't like him that she shouldn't be receiving or sendi...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category My Girlfriend's Sex Drive Has Diminished (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 18:09 by Pokillo120 RESPONDENTS: angelina LAST POST: Feb 1 2016 at 03:37

Hi, first off, I'm not sure if this belongs here, however I have such an specific issue that it would be hard to find a specific area. So, here it goes... I am a 28 year old guy from Puerto Rico and I have a girlfriend which is 35. Here's the issue. I am very confused and desperate, because for the first 2 months (we've been together for almost five) the sex was normal, nothing too great or too bad. However in the past month we have only "been together" 3 times, and I wanted to know what was going on. So I talked to her, she told me that sex is not important to her... Which makes me confused a...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Is My Girlfriend Cheating On Me? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Feb 1 2016 at 00:11 by mk89 RESPONDENTS: confuseshusband / angelina LAST POST: Feb 1 2016 at 03:16

My girlfriend of 8 years now has recently started going out without me on the same night every week. She claims to be going to see the same band every week in the same bar. She goes out of her way to see this band. She also comes home very drunk which is odd because before this she wasnt a big drinker(maybe 1-2 drinks a night). But when I am out with her she refuses to drink. She also gets dropped home by the same band member every night which I find strange. If it was me she would most definately have a problem with it. Anytime I bring it up she picks a fight with me. In anybodies opinion am ...

Relationships - Long Distance advice forum category advice forum category Long Distance Relationship (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 03:01 by "Wolf" RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: Feb 1 2016 at 01:53

I'm 15 and this is my first time going to a forum I've been dating my girlfriend for 4 years now but she was only with me for 1 of them and we've been working out a long distance relationship since then. She just turned 14 in December. I have multiple reasons to think she is cheating on me with my best friend now and the feeling is suffocating. She's been the only one to be able to make me laugh these past few years and now she's the first to make me cry since I was 4 years old. Honestly I feel like I've explored all options besides putting my neck in a noose. I've tried talking to people abou...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Only My Kids Keeping Me From Ending It All. (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 23:14 by Wretchedloser58 RESPONDENTS: Pokillo120 / PJVL9 LAST POST: Feb 1 2016 at 01:06

Generally managing my depression ok with paroxetine and mindfulness. Extremely busy trying to support me and my wife of 4 years. But living with het is like walking on eggshells. The slightest thing wrong and she gets intensely angry with me. Makes me want to die. That dounds like Im really weak and so I am. I give up. ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category Only My Kids Keeping Me From Ending It All. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 20:13 by Wretchedloser58 RESPONDENTS: confuseshusband LAST POST: Feb 1 2016 at 00:52

Generally managing my depression ok with paroxetine and mindfulness. Extremely busy trying to support me and my wife of 4 years. But living with het is like walking on eggshells. The slightest thing wrong and she gets intensely angry with me. Makes me want to die. That dounds like Im really weak and so I am. I give up. ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category I Like A Girl And But She Is With A Wrong A Guy Who Is Cheating Over Her. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 28 2016 at 14:27 by miracleamy RESPONDENTS: mee LAST POST: Jan 31 2016 at 21:45

I like a girl very much and we met 20 days back for the first time and she also liked me and she had committed this in front of one of our common friend but after 15 days she told me that she likes someone else and they are into a relationship from last some days. then we again met for a movie and I came to know that they meet very occasionally as well as they also do not talk that much. I know earlier she was confused about me and that another guy but suddenly that guy proposed her and she accepted because it was obvious because they were known to each other from last 3 months and now suddenl...

Education advice forum category advice forum category College Freshman, Feeling Overwhelmed (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 08:08 by smm RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: Jan 31 2016 at 14:42

I just finished my first semester at a university, and it went well but this second semester is much harder and I'm having a hard time balancing everything. I'm currently enrolled in 14 credits and I work 25 hours a week and I just don't know if I can handle it. I'm a pre nursing major and I just failed my first microbiology exam, and I've never failed an exam before in my life. on top of that, I have a huge essay to write that I haven't started yet and it's due in a week. also, I've just started dating (I never really have before) and multiple guys are interested in me and I don't know how to...

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