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Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relatively Typical Teenage Crush Problem, Thing... (Posts: 9)

CREATED: Jul 26 2016 at 23:33 by CheekyBugger RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 27 2016 at 05:37

I'm 17, have had only one serious relationship so far, that thing ended badly. Since then, i kissed 3 girls, but that's it, tbh i don't know if it was because i wasn't interested enough, or if they weren't interested enough, but those 3 kisses never got any further. Finally, a month ago i went on a trip with several dozen people to Greece and met this incredibly hot girl that lives a few kilometers away from me. I only creepily looked at her for the first few days, until she approached me and introduced herself, the following 8 days i spent hanging out with her. Unlike 90% of the women i know,...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Problems With Past Mistakes (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 27 2016 at 01:33 by Koolar1 RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 27 2016 at 02:14

Hi, I'm a 19 y/o and so is my boyfriend weve been dating for almost a year now and friends for 4. Into our 3rd year of friendship our relationship went really south, and I still seem to have problems getting over it. He always had a crush on me since we met and I kinda knew it but wasn't interested for awhile. And I know its partially my fault for taking so long but right when I started to warm up to the idea he got his girlfriend (his first ever) and I was floored. She was not his type and wasn't exactly modest. Once he lost it to her he stopped talking to me. And when he stopped talking to ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Builders Bum (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jul 25 2016 at 21:48 by motodm RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Koolar1 LAST POST: Jul 27 2016 at 02:02

Hey guys, so like a lot people I like to wear jeans, but unfortunately I have this problem. Whenever I sit down or bend over my butt crack shows. I don't always "feel the breeze" but when I do I try to pull up my pants but they end up revealing my crack again as I continue to move around. I enjoy wearing jeans so if anyone can relate or help me out let me know. I appreciate the help!...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Please Tell Me I Am Not Being Unreasonable. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 26 2016 at 18:54 by willowherb RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 26 2016 at 23:59

I have been in a relationship with my fiance for twenty years, we have two children. My car is in the garage for repairs so fiance (f) had said he would pick me up from my night shift. I finish at 4am. His mom said she would stay over incase kids woke up. I call him at the end of my shift, he said to carry on walking and he would drive down to me. So I did. It is almost impossible to get a taxi at that time of night in the town I live in unless you prebook. Had he said he was too tired before I left, I could have booked a taxi. I texted him three times but ended walking a 30 minute jo...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category My Child Has Changed Completely! (Posts: 17)

CREATED: Jul 25 2016 at 22:56 by ConfusedBride2B RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / luvbird / Ninalola LAST POST: Jul 26 2016 at 17:12

I desperate for help! My 9 year old daughter who I raised alone for 7 years was the best and most well behaved child. I felt so lucky, she never disrespected me or acted out until the past year. I got engaged a year ago and we bought a house and my daughter's life has improved greatly. She has her own room, gets spoiled by my parent's, my fiance's and her biological father's family. We got her a dog and she has a house instead of a crappy apartment for the first time ever. At first she loved my fiance and now she makes our lives hell! She MUST be entertained 24/7, we both work full time a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Help. I've Become Insanely Clingy (Posts: 13)

CREATED: Jul 23 2016 at 19:17 by Lunar RESPONDENTS: luvbird / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 26 2016 at 17:04

Where to begin..I have been single for just under 2years now and have dated now and again since my last relationship, however since my last relationship (which didn't end to well) I have become so clingy with my potential partners that i am driving them away and in the process driving myself into an anxious state and getting very down about it. It all started when my ex left me with no real reason, he just left and ignored and blocked me from any form of contact and i found it very hard to get over this. However i did and got back out there. I met a guy whilst out with my girlfriends and...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category To Break Up Or Not To. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 25 2016 at 16:07 by daydreams RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jul 26 2016 at 14:23

Hi everyone, I wanted to ask some of your advice regarding my current relationship and whether to keep it. I feel I´m currently not equipped with enough knowledge to confidently make this decision. I posted this in the general discussion page as I felt it to be more fitting, hope it is the correct place. We have been together for three and a half years now, we had very good times and not so good times (long-distance relation, periods of unemployment, moving to a new city / country three times). All in all we have gotten to know the other person quite well. I’m 25, she is 29. Rec...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Married Less Than One Month And Wife Moves Out (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 26 2016 at 08:52 by Broken1988 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 26 2016 at 13:57

Okay, i was recently married on July 2nd 2016, my wife moved out on july 19th. Shd did basically all fhe planning and was very excifed about our marriage. But we have had alot of issues with her boss messaging her 100-150xs a day asking personal questions sending rainbow heart emojis, sending pictures complaining about her weight almost as fishing for complaiments. I ended up losing my job because we both worked at the same facility and during the same week during our sons birthday party tried convincing her into leaving me. At this point the line was extremely crossed and i felt like my feeli...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Mbbs Or Marriage (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 25 2016 at 22:11 by Amms RESPONDENTS: Johnn LAST POST: Jul 26 2016 at 08:33

I am 24 , by time i I start my mbbs I will be 25 or 26 ...i did masters in an arts subject becoz i could not aford mbbs but my bf of two yrs loves me insanely and we can pay our mbbs bills together- however my boyfriend wants to get married soon and after hearing my dream he got angry and said ok fulfil your wish we will get married after complting ur mbbs- becoz he think our marital life and sexual life after marriage will be at stake- but along wid my mbbs I want to get married soon and give birth to my baby - and cant delay mbbs as well becoz already i am Late and have 2 apply as a non tra...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Stupid Topic-i Hate Shots?!!!! (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jul 24 2016 at 21:40 by Akiko_Mia RESPONDENTS: CMcS / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 16:33

I have to get one tomorrow, or maybe two... And I looked it up, the hpv shot hurts ALOT. I may also have to get another shot to register in my school. I'm acting pretty babyish but I'm serious I hate hate hate shots so much! Ugh! Tomorrow morning I will have to get the shots then I have to go to swim practice, it will be sore. If you're wondering, yes, i hate pain and am probably making a fool of myself right now. -.-...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Moving In Together After Online/long Distance.. (Posts: 214)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 10:48 by nana RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / staceyjones079 LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 16:05

first of all hello and thx for having me here..i kinda feel bad for not getting more info and looking through other articles before my bf moved to my country..so my questions is, what if we fucked it all up? i dont even know where to start.. 1.for me it was waaay to quick with the physical part so i felt extremly overwhelmed for not setting boudaries which made me very mad because i didnt tell him on time and when i did (took me some time to figure it out) he took it way too personally 2. the paperwork took us extremly long, we didnt rly take care of anything before he came to here..we ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Haveing Trouble With This Boy (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 24 2016 at 19:13 by walkerss RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 15:06

just after some advise really .im really not sure what im getting my self into.. ive meeting this guy for last three weeks couple times a week ..anyway i do know him from works too hes been work collegue for about erm 8 years our more but ive not really had anything to do with him outside work until i ask him about something to do with a computer program i was looking for because i remeber he was into computers and knew alot them and it started from there really he would invite me around to his for few games and chat a coffee and it went on for few weeks like this..any way i began to start to ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Wife Rejects Me Constantly (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jul 25 2016 at 02:19 by Ksd RESPONDENTS: manalone / luvbird / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 14:55

So I work hard, as does my wife. I try hard to get her everything and to provide for the family. I book weekend trips, try to do something different often. I work long hours, often getting home at 8 or 9pm if not later. Career wise I am doing great, as is she. I would like to know if I am being unreasonable.... My wife NEVER wants sex. If I touch her, I can feel her wince. I'm no stud, I am often tired and probably go for 5 minutes or so, but I am tired of this non stop, never ending rejection. I personally feel that a few minutes for me every now and then really shouldn't be too much to ask f...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category No Love In My Luck (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 25 2016 at 05:48 by BlissfulAngel RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 14:52

I have found my relationships to never work out the way I want them to. I have made improvements over the years but I never got very far in the love department. Recently, I found someone who I feel connected with and isn't either touchy nor emotionalless. However, he is leaving fairly soon out of the city to follow his practice and make a career out of it. Thinking about it just makes me extremely down and alittle scared of what will happen. In the past, I was betrayed by certain male friends and am now entirely resentful of dates. I feel like I am safe with him but I can't tell him I am scare...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category 38 Year Old Virgin (Posts: 9)

CREATED: Jul 24 2016 at 09:02 by Chuck427 RESPONDENTS: Rooper321 / Ninalola / Bball32 / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 13:28

I am 38 years old, I have never had sex and I have never had a girlfriend. I've tried going out to clubs, I've tried online dating, but women never choose me. I don't want to be single and I would like an abundant sex life. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused What To Do (work Colleague) (Posts: 32)

CREATED: Apr 23 2016 at 22:09 by needadvice90 RESPONDENTS: thisisStar / Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 11:53

Hi, I can’t stop thinking about this girl from work. First off, she’s 19, I’m 25, I’ve never heard her mention a boyfriend either. I’m very shy in nature (always have been), and have never had a girlfriend! The girl is also fairly shy, and fairly quiet. She’s worked in the shop i work for about 6 months now, at first we really only said hello and smiled at each other. More recently however I’ve been working alongside her more and we’ve started chatting more about various things and we also have a laugh about some of the more interesting customers that come in! I tend to be t...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Need Help - I Feel Like I Ruined My Relationship (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 24 2016 at 23:26 by jwallace1783 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 00:11

Hi Everyone I am hoping to get some sound advice since I have spent the entire weekend bawling my eyes out. I have been dating a guy for 4 months that is a coworker. He expressed interest in me for a year before but I was devastated over a previous relationship so I was always very scared. Four months ago we finally started dating and it started out great. He planned a trip for us and was very affectionate. Over time I noticed that he was a bit young (3 years younger than me) in terms of relationships. He is a workaholic so little things started to bother me. It would be hard to get t...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Narcissistic Personality Disorder Husband (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 24 2016 at 20:03 by Azrak RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 24 2016 at 23:38

have recently discovered the traits of how my husband has been with me over the past 2 years (completed 4 yrs in May) to narcissistic personality disorder. anyone can help me how to deal with him as seeing a NPD husband is very hard and its an emotional abuse when you are given the silent treatment, disconnect, disinterested, self centered, egotistical, chauvinistic. i don't want to leave him, but don't know how to deal with him and help him as he won't agree if i tell him to show a psychiatrist, so what do i do next. my world is coming crashing down, it was a love marriage and now ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Is Love? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 24 2016 at 17:15 by luvbird LAST POST: Jul 24 2016 at 17:46

A lot of people are having relationship problems and I believe that when we have something defined...we live within that definition. When we know what love is... it is easy to know what love isn't. We are protected by our own definition. WHAT IS LOVE HOW SHOULD LOVE MAKE US FEEL LOVE IS NOT LIMITED TO RELATIONSHIPS... WHAT DO YOU LOVE MADONNA... In her incredible and extensive career created a CD and tour based on this definition that she knows is misunderstood and not maximized to power our lives. LIVING FOR LOVE. So I put the question out there to collect answers.... WHAT ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Issues Trusting My Spouse To Be, Warranted Or Not? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jul 24 2016 at 04:17 by Curlygirl90 RESPONDENTS: Rooper321 / susiedqq / Ninalola / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 24 2016 at 17:00

Hi there, thanks for looking at this thread. It's a bit long, so bear with me, any insights you could give me would be super appreciated, I'm at a loss about how to handle this and move on. So a bit of back story for context. I'm currently engaged to my boyfriend of almost five years. I'm 26 and he's 23. He's my first serious relationship and the only person I've been intimate with. I have trust issues regarding him that stem from insecurities about myself, but also from some things he's done in the past during our relationship. I don't know whether I'm letting him off to easily regarding t...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Hey What''s Up Hello (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 23 2016 at 23:57 by Bball32 RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfr LAST POST: Jul 24 2016 at 02:31

hey what's up hello...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Strong Feelings For A Long Time Friend And Unsure What I Should Do? (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Jul 15 2016 at 18:23 by Vrokar RESPONDENTS: Ansie / susiedqq / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 23 2016 at 23:22

I've never been good at dating. It’s easier for me now, but it’s always been hard for me to "sack up" and ask a girl out, or to determine how she feels about me. So often if they send mixed messages or play coy, I'm left in the cold not knowing what to do. That brings me to Leslie, a friend I’ve considered one of my best friends for 12 years now. We met online playing games 12 years ago, back then she was dating a friend named John. They broke up after about a year and Leslie and I kept talking, playing games and just became closer friends. Over the years we always had a rather teasing a...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Help I Am 42 And Have Only Ever Had Sex With 1 Man!!! (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 23 2016 at 17:05 by Jane-jane RESPONDENTS: luvbird / anon1990 LAST POST: Jul 23 2016 at 18:06

I AM 42 MARRIED WITH 3 CHILDREN TO MY FIRST PROPER BOYFRIEND WHO I MET AT AGE 16. WE BEEN TOGETHER NOW FOR 26YRS, MARRIED FOR 15YRS HAPPLIY. HE IS THE ONLY PERSON I HAVE EVER MADE LOVE TO. HE IS EVERTHING TO ME AND MORE WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD A GOOD SEX LIFE, NEVER ANY BREAKS IN THE REALTIONSHIP SINCE WE MET ..... BUT I AM INCREASINGLY CURIOUS ABOUT WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER MAN. THERE IS A HANDSOME GUY AT WORK WHO I STARTED FLIRTING WITH AND I AM SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING HIM THOUGH I AM TERRIFIED EVEN TO REALLY EVEN IMAGINE BEING NAKED IN FTONT OF ANOTHER MAN. WHAT SHOULD I DO; PL...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Newly Wedded : ??? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 23 2016 at 08:42 by Anuradha RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 23 2016 at 17:48

Hello, Our is a arrange marriage. Its been four months now to the marriage. Husband stays in UK. Our Engagement took place One and half year back. There was a complete one year gap between we committed for marriage to each other and our marriage took place. Initially husband delayed the marriage because he was seeing other proposals even after committing me for marriage and doing a small engagement in presence of both side parents. When I came to know he is talking to other girls for marriage I questioned him and said leave me so he married me. There is some past relationship we both had we ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Dead Bedroom (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jul 21 2016 at 22:14 by Rm321432 RESPONDENTS: luvbird / MamaBear LAST POST: Jul 23 2016 at 17:17

I'm realizing my marriage is faltering, and I don't know whether I want it to succeed. How do you balance hurting kids, your SO, families etc vs my needs and wants? I'm a 35wife to a 34man who iskibd, amiable, a good Dad. He is just incredibly lazy, with certain things, that effects every aspect of our lives. I do everything: not kidding. Clean, kids, meals, yes but also all finances, all outside work, all repairs in the house, all arrangements for the kids, all meals-everything. It's incredible unbalanced and has been for years. In fact in our pre marriage counseling from the minister wh...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Dilemma (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 23 2016 at 00:38 by Looper321 RESPONDENTS: MamaBear LAST POST: Jul 23 2016 at 11:03

Okay, I'll start off sharp. I'm in a 3 year relationship, I live at his and I'm unhappy. I've been unhappy for a while now and I keep trying to make things work by planning something and thinking this will make things better - when it never, ever goes to plan. So my expectations get crushed so badly. And I'll think why did I fall for this again and then I'll plan something else. So it's a huge cycle. I can have a really short period of time where things seem great and I'm laughing and i'm very content and then he'll do something and it just ruins it all. For example, we both have time off ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Friend Issue (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 22 2016 at 23:31 by Krispy528 RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 23 2016 at 00:54

I am 33 years old and have been married and with the same woman for 10 years. My issue is my circle of friends and I am not sure where to go or what to do. I had good friends in High school and kept those friends through College but we all sort of went our own ways. When I started dating my wife I became friends with her sisters husband. We knew each other before I started dating his sister in law. We have a group of 3 other guys that we go on Trips with. Different sporting events, golf trips, social trips etc, etc. Over the years he has cheated on his wife non stop. He is also very...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Boyfriend Cheated With A Male, Now He Is Seeing A Transgender Woman. Confused (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 22 2016 at 22:11 by f-airlight RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 22 2016 at 22:35

This is a long and complicated situation so I appreciate anyone who takes the time. So I was with the same boyfriend for about 4 years, It started very young and kept getting better as time went on, we grew together and cared for each other, we would work through anything and I knew in my heart that it was worth it. To get right to the end of things, we had a home together, I was at this point mainly paying for us to live but he had done more than his part in the past and I didn't feel used or under appreciated once. What's some money when you feel safe, content, cared for, eager to move f...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Cheated On (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 22 2016 at 19:19 by momoftwo RESPONDENTS: luvbird / bbailey LAST POST: Jul 22 2016 at 20:49

My husband and I have been married for 9 months, together 5 years and have 2 children. I just recently went through his phone because of a gut feeling and discovered that he cheated on me. He had a threesome with two friends of mine(1 guy, 1 girl) while I was pregnant(2 months ago). I took pictures of the texts and confronted him about it. But he quickly lied to my face multiple times as I asked, and deleted the messages saying that I was crazy because there wasn't any texts. The next day we didn't talk at all until bed time when he finally admitted to it. Not only did I discover that the ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Crumbling Marriage - Together 9 Years - Married 2 (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 22 2016 at 15:16 by CLR RESPONDENTS: Ninalola / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 22 2016 at 20:05

First, a little history: I have been with my husband for almost 9 years. Of those 9 years, we've been married for 2. My husband has a child from a previous relationship, and has full custody. We also have a 5-month old child together. We've gone through a lot in the 9 years we've been together. In the beginning he was struggling with job loss, and I was in college. We temporarily separated a couple of times only for him to realize he missed me and wanted me back. After I finished college, we moved out of the town we were in. About a year and a half after moving, he cheated on me with a previ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Live-in Boyfriend Trading Chores For Rent? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jul 21 2016 at 15:53 by Unsure2016 RESPONDENTS: luvbird / susiedqq / manalone LAST POST: Jul 22 2016 at 07:57

I have a problem I hope someone can help out with. Its a question of what is financially fair in a live-in relationship. In my head its complicated but will try to keep it simple. Here is the background: I am a divorced mom of 3 school aged kids and have a live-in boyfriend of 4 years. The first 6 months after he moved in, he was very generous financially because he had the funds from a large settlement he had recently received. He bought me a $3500 car and gave the kids a great Christmas (about $2500), bought the kids a pool ($800) so I did not ask him to contribute to the household financ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Friend Stays Too Long! (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jul 12 2016 at 21:36 by jan58 RESPONDENTS: manalone / luvbird / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 22 2016 at 02:03

A friend from abroad comes to stay with my partner and me each year. He sorts out his own food etc. and only uses our house as a base to catch up on his old friends. He's perfectly ok, but sleeps in till noon in his room which is normally my hobby room. I can manage with that for a week or so, but last year he stayed for over two weeks and my partner thinks that's too long. So do I. How do I tell him "Yes, you're welcome to stay but only for 10 days or so this time" without giving him the impression he's no longer welcome. He is, but just not for so long. I realise this is a trivial m...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Wife Doesn't Want Sex Anymore (Posts: 35)

CREATED: May 16 2015 at 18:25 by spooky RESPONDENTS: LatinaBlossom / psyduck / Misstoofresh / fivefingers / Maggie79 / susiedqqq / abc / Theshouldertocryon / El / Skinnygirl / Lixi / thedynamicsofsoul / Jess41 / AnnieBlue / Danielbbp LAST POST: Jul 22 2016 at 00:41

I love my wife. We got married in December of last year. I think she’s beautiful. She has gorgeous dark curly hair. Brown eyes. Tan skin. A perfect figure. She’s delicious. I think about having sex with her, I CRAVE her body, every single day. Making love to her feels incredible. For the first year that we were together, we fucked multiple times a week. When we would go days without each other, we’d miss it terribly. She told me that I was one of the few men who’d ever given her an orgasm-- she squirts too when she comes. She was embarrassed by that despite how much I told her that...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Failing Marriage (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 21 2016 at 20:15 by Azrak RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 21 2016 at 20:36

Husband doesn't want to make it work. I've done everything to change but he always blames me for things i did in the past. is cold, dent want to make love, said he will take time to get over things. forgave him for sexting a random woman he met at a bar and met few times. broken my trust but doesn't want to win it back. the end of any discussion is the same, useless. fighting against myself of loving the same person who doesn't care about my emotions and acts cold and heartless. He doest like expressing, but even in actions he is doing nothing to make this marriage work. don't want to ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category My Inlaws Rule My Marriage (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jul 21 2016 at 01:33 by Theo82 RESPONDENTS: luvird / luvbird / Ninalola / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 21 2016 at 13:15

My wife constantly puts her parents before her family and it's starting to really affect our marriage. She says it's all in my head I would like some help please. I will give you some examples of this and I would like people to comment on whether I have a point or if its in my head 1: my wife and her parents booked a holiday without finding out if I could get time off work first which I couldn't so she took the kids and left me at home. 2: my wife and father went out for coffee and even though I was in the room didn't even tell me that they were going 3 she changed shifts to go to ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Need Help With Sort Of Mil (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jul 20 2016 at 21:21 by MissS.A.M RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jul 21 2016 at 04:19

I will start out by saying I am at my wits end with my boyfriends mother and I am hoping to get some advice and or opinions on the matter. My boyfriend moved in with his mom upon her request. She needed help with the mortgage and he agreed to it to help her out so she didn't lose the family home. He has a son from a previous marriage that moved in there with him all well. Ever since my bofriends son was born she was very involved in her grandchilds life. So involved to the point that she believed she was the best thing for him and did how she thought things needed to be done with him, even tho...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Help!! I Can't Sleep My Girlfriend Is Too Fit!! (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 19 2016 at 12:56 by Buddy RESPONDENTS: Dancelot / Noveske LAST POST: Jul 21 2016 at 02:21

Hi I'm a 35year old male and my girlfriend is 26. She is the most beautiful person inside and out that I have ever met and we connect of a level that I never thought imaginable. We are both each other's true love and I for one have never loved before. I have never really enjoyed sex with anyone before, I've only ever done it because as a man that's what you are meant to do. But since meeting my girl over 1 1/2 ago I just love it, we do it everyday (at least once) and its unreal. We are both open to trying anything and everything, with her it is all just amazing. So I only have one problem, I c...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Family Problems (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 20 2016 at 22:11 by cheeks3214 RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 21 2016 at 01:21

I am 16 years old, will be 17 next month. When I was 7 almost 8, my father died from lung cancer. And after that my mother neglected my brothers and myself. She got a boyfriend not long after he died who she eventually married, which ended in divorce. Before and while she was with him, she barely bought food for the house, my brothers and I had torn and ripped clothes, while she and him would go out to eat all of the time and she'd always have new clothes. He cheated on her and she cheated on him with the man she is now married to. He used to be an alcoholic pill popper, I'm not sure if he sti...

Education advice forum category advice forum category Failure (Posts: 39)

CREATED: Apr 26 2016 at 18:54 by Sheen RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / PJVL9 / Soulmate / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 20 2016 at 23:43

I've got a big problem, my parents and relatives are expecting me to graduate this year (college) ,but I can't. I have not finished some requirements.I just can't help it but I'm very disappointed with myself right now. I don't wanna fail their expectations. I don't know how to tell them about my situation. I'm afraid they would get angry and be disappointed. What would I do now? Graduation day is fast approaching :(.....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Should I Continue This Relationship? (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jul 17 2016 at 23:46 by Alexander13 RESPONDENTS: luvbird / susiedqq / CoronaMan LAST POST: Jul 19 2016 at 15:05

Recently I met a lovely girl and we get on really well. On our fourth date she lent me her phone and I was shocked to see some sexually explicit photos of her. I asked her about them and she said she had sent them to a stranger on a dating website to gain attention as she suffers with low self esteem. Now, I'm not sure whether I should carry on seeing her or not. I would appreciate your advice. Thanks. ...

Workplace advice forum category advice forum category Looking For A Fresh Perspective (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jul 14 2016 at 07:06 by Kingman57 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 18 2016 at 16:28

Hi everyone, I apologize in advance for the length of this post. I’m hoping to get some advice on several options or at least a fresh perspective on my current “station” in life. For starters, I’m a 28 year old male, college grad, working full-time in a local government position (administrative in nature, ie low-level). I have no debt, money saved, investments, 401k, healthcare, a car (used and dying, hoping to replace soon), but I do live with my parents (at a heavily discounted rent rate compared to local rents. My hope is to advance to a higher, better compensated position or a new ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Abortion !!! Please Help (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jul 1 2016 at 09:46 by alexjohnson RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / KittenJoe / Elvina / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 18 2016 at 16:19

Hi Friends, I have a GF, and before some time we did protected intercourse, but I don't know she got pregnant... Now we want to terminate that pregnancy. Is there any way to for it... We are avoiding surgery.. Please help.......

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Feel Like It Is My Fault, Opinions? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 17 2016 at 23:52 by nikara RESPONDENTS: luvbird / manalone LAST POST: Jul 18 2016 at 05:47

I know this guy for some years. At the beginning he was in a reletionship and we were just friends. I was single and I did my own buisness. One year ago it happened something and we slept together. After a week he broke up with his girlfriend and it started a fwb relationship between us. At one point I realised that i was feeling something more about him, so I told him. He told me that he likes me a lot and he spends great time with me but he didn't want anything serious. I accepted this. In fact I knew for sure that he was still sleeping sometimes with his ex girlfriend and also other peop...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relying To Much On Him (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jul 13 2016 at 23:29 by Rosequeen RESPONDENTS: Ninalola / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 18 2016 at 00:53

My husband and myself used to go for a walk during the week now it's only at weekends. If it's raining we go to a castle or a house to visit. He works as a sales man I'm job hunting. He doesn't go far sometimes yet we won't have a walk in the week. I end up going five days a week by myself and it's no fun. I hate that I rely on his company because I'm by myself all day and get lonely. It would be nice he suggested a walk when he got home but he doesn't. I don't have any friends or bother with any family. I feel he doesn't need my company or even me and I want to be independent and show him I d...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Causing Problems? (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Jul 16 2016 at 01:12 by Lurch RESPONDENTS: luvbird / Altreal / Scopes / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 18 2016 at 00:14

My wife is on my opposite schedule now. We see each other for maybe 2-3 hours a night 7 days a week. During that time I think we should try to go out together or interact in a meaningful way, but I feel like the only one who is driving this. I end up feeling like I'm controlling her, always asking her to come hang with me and put down the cell. She does, but I'm always feeling like I'm redirecting her from what she would rather do. I stop driving it and we just don't interact (hangs out on cell). Then I get annoyed and we end up not getting along. It's making me feel like something is wron...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Wife Says She Wants Space (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 17 2016 at 20:10 by carpenter RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 17 2016 at 23:19

my wife and I have been married for 15 years. just within the last couple of days she told me she needed space. she has said I have not been affectionate enough towards her. she says the only time I do is when someone else shows an interest in her at embarrasses her. she feels like I am trying to mark my territory. how do I give her the space she needs and also show her the affection she needs. I am so scared...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Complicated Love Life (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jul 11 2016 at 10:34 by ts05 RESPONDENTS: Valerrie / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 17 2016 at 00:30

I have been romantically involved with my school friend past three years. The first year when we started he never told me he had a marriage commitment with someone. towards the end of first year he went ahead with the marriage and we broke up. three months later he started chasing me again saying it was a commitment he had to fulfill and couldn't break it. I did not give in because I saw the two having fun, clicking pictures, roaming around, and watching movies. He called continuously and messaged day and night for 6 months. Then one day I spoke to him and he told me that in the first month it...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Losing Time With Your Child After A Breakup (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jul 16 2016 at 22:50 by reggie RESPONDENTS: luvbird LAST POST: Jul 16 2016 at 23:41

Hi...I'm a newly single mom having a hard time dealing with the amount of time I am losing with my son. My son is two years old and me and his father did not work out. He treated me poorly, verbally abused me, made me feel like I had to do everything around the house, and I worked full time. He would time me I had to pay more money toward rent and other expenses meanwhile he would spend his money on fixing a boat, buying a jet ski and an old fire truck. He would spend his time fixing a boat or going on the boat rather that with his family. I would ask him to come to the park or library pr...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Problems (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jul 6 2016 at 17:56 by Missy12175 RESPONDENTS: manalone / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 16 2016 at 23:08

I found out last night that my husband posted an ad for gay sex. I confronted him and ask if he was gay and he said is was not just has urges to have gay sex. Our sex life is great but I am confused and sad by this.He did remove the ad and stated that he felt that he made a mistake as soon as he posted it. We have been married for 7 years and have two young children and that is the only thing that is keeping me from leaving him. I just want some advice or support. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I'm Not Sure If My Friend Is Joking Or Not? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jul 8 2016 at 04:05 by Akiko_Mia RESPONDENTS: Ninalola / susiedqq / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 16 2016 at 20:10

So my friend and I joke around a lot and pretend to insult eachother. But yesterday, I couldn't really tell if we were playfighting or not because we were "playfightingly" posting pictures of us making weird faces on instagram. I actually thought she wouldn't send the picture but she shared it with everyone. :P Which annoyed me, because I thought we ere just play-fighting. And today, I said I didn't want to facetime her and she kind of thought I was making up excuses to not facetime her (i was) but I kept on declining her calls and it kind of went downhill from that. Here's an example: H...

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