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Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Custody Issues (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 18:39 by reggie

My ex and I broke up because he was not treating me right or doing the right thing for our son. When my son was a baby he bought a boat and spent all his time and money fixing it up. Meanwhile we live in a small apartment and this a 33 year old man. My son is now two and my ex gets him most Fridays over night and two days during the week he brings him back in the evening. He is constantly telling me he wants more time but brings him home early often. I ask if he can take our son to a birthday party because I have to work and he's says he doesn't like doing things like that. Its suppose to be f...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Give Him A Chance (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 16:04 by Peb123

Ive got the chance to meet a bloke from a dating site. Says hes still living with his wife and two kids but they only stay together because of the kids. Told him why is he cheating if he is genuine as he says he is, told me he would rather meet tell me then instead of in text or he would call me and tell me if i wanted to know. I asked him if he wanted a relationship with someone then how could that person trust he isnt sleeping with his wife. Said it would make sense to go into details, about our situations, what we want on meeting face to face. He also said with meeting we will see if we hav...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Will I Ever Be Okay? (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 13:22 by BillyJoe2

I had know this girl since about 8th grade, Im now going into 11th grade and will be a junior in high school. I will just start from the beginning. Sorry, this will probably just be a rant to help me with this, and I know this seems like im just being a pussy or I'm just worrying about nothing, but it has been eating me away, so feel free to call me a wimp. It started when I was in 8th grade, my last year of middle school. I had started off the year pretty well, I knew where all my classes were, got straight A's my whole life, had lots of friends and was kinda popular, I was living the drea...

Violence & Crime advice forum category advice forum category Radio Bully,family Bully,work Bully And Domestic Violence (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 05:14 by Dj chi

Hi! Im a Victim of Radio bully from Philippine radio station.It started out like this...Im a big fan of radio and i love mixing music and listening to it as a hobby.I enjoy drawing also like manga style and make story out of it.When i post my story and drawing they start to criticise and saying rude and humiliate my drawing over the radio because i refused to draw them in sex scene and in bed scene. I got mad and fight back verbally just to make them stop.But they continously bullying me and recruiting every filipinos that they know,including broadcasting all over philippines. It only s...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Commitment Issues?? (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 20:39 by dna

Okay so, i've barely had serious relationships, and this is due to to fact that when i get too attached i get frustrated, i become antsy, overly emotional, a bit irrational, i get upset over nothing,i feel like i trust the person, but my expectations of them are quite low, like i expect them to be unfaithful etc, and it drives me crazy. i hate feeling so attached because of how ansty i get,but its ruining my relationships i've tried talking to my significant other, trying to give my all but i still end up feeling stressed how can i stop feeling this way? ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Fellow Spouses Affexted By Xbox Addiction (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 03:33 by Lonelywife2016

Ok start from beginning we will be married 2 years next month. We have 3 kids two from previous relationship of mine one is disabled then we have a son together. We were doing great till he quit his job due to find a dead inmate at the local prison he got on Xbox and never got off then he got another job and it got better again. Then his Kim passed in October of last year I planned the funeral paid for it and her headstone by myself. He didn't go to funeral I did in his stead. He got hooked on Xbox again then a month exactly after his moms passing my brother committed suicide. My dad an me fou...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Any Advices For My Friends With Broken Relationship To Fix It? (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Jun 16 2016 at 12:52 by Just a User Here

I'm 15 years old. and I have two friends Ronald (15 years old too) and Emily (13 years old) Ronald and Emily are couple actually. But in long distance relationship. Because Ronald is in Philippines, Emily is in United Kingdom. So they just chat using Skype. But they are in war actually which leads them to breakup to their relationship. This war is yet unfixed which is started at March 2016. And I want them to reconcile again. What I ask is how will I going to fix this war between them. I'm in nobody's side. I'm in neither Ronald's side nor Emily's side. I'm in the middle and I want to bring th...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category A Broken Relationship (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 20:27 by JustAnotherGirl15 RESPONDENTS: Obvious answer / Obvious choice / a2345pposl / Bright LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 15:25

I am 15 years old. In the beginning of my freshman year, I met this guy, lets call him N. He is 17 now, and he is going into his senior year and I am going into my sophmore. We have been together for 9 months now, and he is someone that has changed my life in some of the craziest ways. He is the only guy I've ever met that I am completely myself around. I can truly say that I love him, and he loves me, as he says. He lies a lot, he keeps a lot of secrets, and he isn't the most loyal guy around. I always give him second chances, always forgiving him, but I'm getting to the point where I'm fe...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category My Best Friend Has Refused To Come To My Wedding Because Her Ex Is Invited (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 13:43 by Moomin2016 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 09:19

Hello, I'm new here! Really need some advice please. My partner and I have been engaged a while and want to plan our wedding within the next year. My best friend got wind of this and asked me if her ex boyfriend would be invited, to which I said yes. My friend was in a relationship with him for 4 years and it ended nearly 3 years ago now. She has nothing to do with him or mutual friends anymore (this includes most of my friends). My partner and I are still friends with her ex and he is in our long time friendship group. His attendance on the day is important to my fiancée as he ranks him ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category My Mom Will Tell Everyone What A Nasty Person I Truly Am ;( Does She Still Care? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 19:13 by Akiko_Mia RESPONDENTS: Dj chi LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 05:30

So I've been a mean and nasty person since i was a toddler. I've scratched my mom many times relentlessly and left many scars over stupid things because I was such a spoiled, nasty brute. I've been so mean and she's been so tolerable. But not anymore. Shes been taking videos of me and pictures of her cuts. She said if i scratched her one more time she's going to call the cops. She's telling all my friends. I know. It's all my fault and i deserve it. She told all my closest friends already. Soon I will have no friends, and i'm going into middle school in a month. Is this my punishment? ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Wife Wants To Leave After 20+ Years (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Jun 21 2016 at 20:45 by MyWitsEnd RESPONDENTS: Bob920 / ProblemSurfer / Briana266 / Briana LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 04:20

This post may seem incomplete, as it's founded on a complex series of issues, and may read as incoherent. If you need me to fill in some gaps, let me know. I may also fill in gaps as I discover them. I am composing this on a mobile phone, so... grammer and all. Several weeks ago, my wife told me she was going to start taking steps to leave the relationship. We are married over 20 years. Our last child just graduated high school. The next day, she gave me the notice. So, on with the details... First, I thought things were going well enough with us. Sure, the relationship is quite se...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Husband And I Are Always Fighting (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 20:45 by Briana266 RESPONDENTS: Same boat LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 04:11

I just don't know what to do anymore about this arguring/ fighting I'm just fed up! Anyone else in this situation? ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Can I Trust My Husband Again? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 16:37 by tiredwife RESPONDENTS: Briana266 LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 03:54

My husband and I have been married for 4 years and I don't trust him anymore causing me to lose any attraction towards him. I often feel like I am the only adult in this marriage and have 3 kids not just 2. I talk to him and he says the right things and it gets better for a little while but it goes back to the same old same old. This is both of ours first marriage and he didn't grow up with the same love and support I did. But how long can he expect to use his past as an excuse? Or maybe he doesn't and just doesn't know how to be honest with me? I've gotten to a point where I'm not attract...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Whether To Pursue A Relationship Or Not (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 06:36 by jbaseman1 RESPONDENTS: thisisStar LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 03:20

I feel as though I am in an awkward situation and I don't know where to go. There is this girl that I talk with everyday constantly and I have grown very close with her. I have gotten to the point where I wish to have a relationship with her but I don't know if I should. I have just recently graduated highschool and she will be entering her sophomore year of high school. We are only three years apart in age but I feel like it may be a factor that would discourage the relationship. Also we are best friends and she told one of my friends that she wasn't sure about a relationship because she'...

Workplace advice forum category advice forum category An Office Affair. Maybe. (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jun 26 2016 at 02:25 by Leenick RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq / Leenick1 LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 02:39

I'm going to dispense with the backstory since I have already had to write this two other times. I lost it both times due to technical issues. Basically. I am married for 10+ years. Kids. But it has been an emotional black hole for 7+ years. We have only ever had sex with each other. High school sweethearts. It's just as bad as everything else in out marriage. I haven't been happy in so long I can't remember. I have had a crush on my married coworker for a couple of months now, even though we have been working together for a year. I can't contol the attraction. I don't know why. I find...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Do I Like Fighting Physically With My Mom??! How To Fix Help (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 19:07 by Akiko_Mia RESPONDENTS: thisisstar / heythisisstar LAST POST: Jun 27 2016 at 20:31

Okay, so it was over something extremely stupid, and all my fault.So it began with yelling then she tried to throw away my stuff. When she does that, it irritates me and I wanted to show her what would happen if she did that to me. The fighting began in my room. She grabbed my arms and dug her nails into me and threw me onto the bed. My instincts saw opportunity and I reached up and kicked her in the stomach, making sure it was below the chest and not hard because i didn't want to do serious damage. My dad is a wimp, and he came in to block the fight. TO me, hes just a useless wall that I h...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Is It Actually This Big Of A Deal??? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 02:12 by Bluehues RESPONDENTS: thisisStar LAST POST: Jun 27 2016 at 09:27

Hey guys im new here Im in 2 nd yr of uni rn and I've been stressing over my masters degree that will obviously start after I complete uni in the next two years. So from where I come from, it’s extremely hard for females to live without a man. Everyday chores become a big hell because people just don't consider females equal so they make a fool out of us. I swear I can't even get my car fixed. Mechanics are always cheating and taking money without fixing the car I've been thinking about moving to somewhere in EU. Actually the main reason is my mother. She has sacrificed every single min...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Hurt And Confused. (Posts: 85)

CREATED: Jun 4 2016 at 07:36 by Loyal Girl RESPONDENTS: CRYSTAL Rxs / Soulmate / Scopes LAST POST: Jun 26 2016 at 07:50

My fiance and I have been together for four years. We are best friends and have an amazing connection. He had a promiscuous past but I seen past all that. Loyalty and not cheating were a foundation of our love and trust. I loved him so much despite my damaged past that I had a baby with him. When the baby was 8 weeks old he won a trip through work and went to France for a week. He knew no one on the trip. And suffers a drinking problem that has gotten worse over the last twelve months. A woman on the same trip (nationwide prize so people from different branches were going) started ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Does My Boyfriend Still Love His Ex? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 06:20 by MariaS RESPONDENTS: Akiko_Mia / manalone LAST POST: Jun 26 2016 at 06:57

Hi, I need help with a situation I am in, I have been with my boyfriend for around 3 years now & the beginning of our relationship wasn't the best the first year & a half wasn't really good but I didn't think of cheating & I still don't think he cheated at that point, however his ex did text time a few years ago just after new year saying very sarcastically "HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU TO" and when he didn't text back she got really cheeky but he didn't text back then the message was "need help got man trouble" after that a few months later I was using his phone and saw that he had called her I ask...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Who Is Right, Me Or Him? (Posts: 11)

CREATED: May 24 2016 at 00:29 by atalosssometimes RESPONDENTS: Quiet / Linneyfye / Soulmate / Skinnygirl / male28 / Safe444 LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 16:28

My husband and I have a single female friend who, by her own admission,only sleeps with married men. We were at her house this weekend and my husband was outside grilling while the women were inside. The female friend went outside and down the steps with my husband. Later when I walked outside and over to the side of the upper deck, they were talking low (which is unlike either of them) and then she looked up and saw me and said ummm you have someone listening. They both stopped talking and changed the subject to involve me. I was a bit upset but husband says that I shouldn't be. What do you t...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category You Drank Too Much Hator-rade (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 12:13 by Bob920 RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 16:20

I explained in my prior post on this site titled "Growing pains About how my father was physically abusive but never shined light on his verbal abuse and for the record im not solely on here to bash my father in general but to clarify the root problems of my feelings. My parents use to get into domestic disputes more often then not through out the years as I was growing up so I began writing lyrics to express my feelings on paper I'd fill up 5 star note books and began collecting music equipment and started recording and producing music for myself and others,I even did CD co...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Fell In Love With A Friend Who's In A Relationship (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 01:23 by Helena3087 RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 16:08

A few months ago I realized I was in love with one of my really good friends from college who is in a previous relationship. We've known each other for over two years and really became close this past year. The last month of our time at college we texted 24/7 and hung out as often as we could, but always in a group setting. We finished up school for good in April but have continued texting 24/7. He lives 3 hours away from me now so we haven't gotten together. Its not that far but the fact that he has a girlfriend makes it too awkward to make the drive. I've never been in love so I'm not e...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Figuring Out How To Have A Sex Life With Husband After Having Three Kids (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 06:09 by dobb RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 15:53

I've been with the same guy for 16 yrs and we have three children and at the beginning of relationship we was having sex 5 to 7 times a day! I got pregnant with our first child 2 months later. we had hard times but got back together and things was looking up. We had issues which I may talk about if I feel comfortable later on and I got pregnant with 2 child 4 years later and at the time my husband was wrapped up in a situation which once again I may talk about it if II feel comfortable later on. We really wasent getting along and when I had to have him early due to toxciemea we both almost die...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Problem? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 20:33 by MariaS RESPONDENTS: MyWitsEnd LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 02:50

My bf and I have been together a few years, he had a drug problem and our relationship wasn't good at all. He is now on medication however our sex life is .... there isn't one he says it's because of his medication, I think he's been looking at porn but I'm not sure when watching movies online alot of adds pop up & it could be that but I'm not sure, something seems strange we don't really have quality time together and it seems like we are in a relationship going nowhere am I just overthinking it or not? He doesn't communicate with me & when I try talking to him about our issues he says "I'm w...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Breaking-up Over Lack Of Intense Physical Attraction? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jun 23 2016 at 12:37 by Zauberer RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 23:44

Hi all, Apologies for the length of this post I tried to write this down for the first time in the hope it will bring clarity to the thoughts that have been plaguing me. The situation: I [28 M] have been with her [24 F] for 5 years. Everything is great in theory. We have a lot of fun together and a real “mature” and stable relationship. We enjoy doing the same things and spend nearly all our time together. We have talked about the future and we are aligned on all the usual major topics. There is just one issue: I am just not that physically attracted to her. We still enjoy being in...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Cheating Ex-boyfriend May Spread Lies About Me (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 21:30 by anw20 RESPONDENTS: J.Ellison / Akiko_Mia LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 19:33

Hey all. I'm new to this site, but this has entire situation is tearing me apart inside and I need some insight on how to go about handling this. I was in a relationship with a guy in the military for 4 years, 3 of those years being long distance.I will call him Joe. We went to high school together and that is where our dating relationship started. we were best friends. We were extremely happy together and from early on we were certain that we were going to marry each other. In December 2014, he proposed to me and of course I was elated. We set the wedding date for December 2015 and we star...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Moving In Together After Online/long Distance.. (Posts: 209)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 10:48 by nana RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / staceyjones079 LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 19:15

first of all hello and thx for having me here..i kinda feel bad for not getting more info and looking through other articles before my bf moved to my country..so my questions is, what if we fucked it all up? i dont even know where to start.. 1.for me it was waaay to quick with the physical part so i felt extremly overwhelmed for not setting boudaries which made me very mad because i didnt tell him on time and when i did (took me some time to figure it out) he took it way too personally 2. the paperwork took us extremly long, we didnt rly take care of anything before he came to here..we ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Depression In Your Spouse (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 01:27 by Bean2p RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 15:57

Hey I am at a loss of what to do or feel at this point. I love my partner with all my heart and in fact unconditionally but his depression is not only hurting me its making me so damn angry. The thing is I KNOW how he is feeling, 7 years ago I attempted suicide and had a 2 month stay in a Psychiatric ward. We have been together for over 10. So he knows that I understand, but being the person on the other end is very foriegn for me. I have worked at being mentally healthy, I have BPD ( Borderline Personality Disorder) and knowing this and working on myself, i no longer need medication. ...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Is He Interested? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 21 2016 at 22:35 by Ltdcg RESPONDENTS: Bob920 LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 13:15

Hi, I have had a crush on this guy sinsce OCtober 2015. We don't really know each other or talk to each other... He star working on the same floor as me and from the beginning it felt like he was interested but later his team (and him) moved to another floor. I wanted to talk to him but was too shy so I never did it and he dind't do it either. Around a month and ago or more I sent him a frend request whihc he never accepted but 3 weeks ago I was coming out of the ladies and I saw him and out of the blue he said hello to me for the first time; 3 or 4 days later he accepted my friend requ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Would You Consider This Cheating? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 23 2016 at 06:31 by Secondrodeo RESPONDENTS: Raye LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 06:41

Quick background : my 2nd marriage, his 1st, no kids together, married almost 6 yrs but have known each other for 30. We are really close with another couple, we are all best friends so we joke around a lot and can get pretty silly and crass without anyone thinking much of it. I'll call the woman in the couple "Tammy". Anyway, I was talking to Tammy on the phone, just a general girls talk & catching up when she mentioned my husband had messaged her and asked to see her nipples. Finished our convo and got to thinking about it, so I asked him what that was about. He said he had messaged her...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Stymied (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 21 2016 at 22:13 by Cookie2 RESPONDENTS: Somersetgirl72 LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 02:58

How many have toughed their situation knowing they should have left long ago. Head is not ruling even if feelings are long gone. Emotional abuse is finally getting to me after almost 50 years, picky, petty and immature things said. Would be better with a "Yes" wife than one with a mind of her own. I stand with and behind anyone with problems, won't wipe my feet on anyone and ask the same. This isn't working for me in this relationship. He's from dysfunctional family and doesn't acknowledge the differences. Anyone?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Children With A Married Man - What Is Next? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 23 2016 at 13:48 by Violett RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 23:01

I would like to know what others think: I had a 2 year relationship with a married man with kids who lied to me that his marriage was almost over. He left his family and we were together for the last 6 months, he suffered and missed his kids and eventually reconsiled with his wife and left me. Few weeks later he wanted to be in contact with me again as he missed me. At this time I considered having children on my own as I was getting too old. I was afraid to use donor sperm and after lots of doubts I asked my ex lover if he wants to be father of my baby and he agreed (I guess for the ch...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Son Won't Talk To Family (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Jun 21 2016 at 04:50 by Retired2016 RESPONDENTS: Bob920 / TylerH / Just a momma and student LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 20:47

Our adult son and his wife won't speak to us now for 2 years. They won't speak to anyone on his side of family. They claim we have started a war with them. Our son has a daughter from a previous marriage and he and mostly his wife claim we favor her over their 2 sons. Which is ridiculous and we are very offended they would accuse us of this. Angry words and accusations were thrown back and forth. Our granddaughter rebelled at 14 living with them. They sent her to group home for 6 months where she got in more trouble. She chose to live with us and we found out stepmother was hitting her and ca...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Confused What To Do (work Colleague) (Posts: 25)

CREATED: Apr 23 2016 at 22:09 by needadvice90 RESPONDENTS: thisisStar / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 18:08

Hi, I can’t stop thinking about this girl from work. First off, she’s 19, I’m 25, I’ve never heard her mention a boyfriend either. I’m very shy in nature (always have been), and have never had a girlfriend! The girl is also fairly shy, and fairly quiet. She’s worked in the shop i work for about 6 months now, at first we really only said hello and smiled at each other. More recently however I’ve been working alongside her more and we’ve started chatting more about various things and we also have a laugh about some of the more interesting customers that come in! I tend to be t...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Our 3 Years Relationship Is Over Because My Boyfriend's Parents Don't Accept Me. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 23 2016 at 04:27 by lizzylann RESPONDENTS: Raye LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 06:16

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we had all this plans for our future, getting married and such after i finished with nursing school. I am 25 years old and my boyfriend is 27. I am half vietnamese and half korean and my boyfriend is full korean. He recently told his dad about me and his dad doesn't accept me and already judging me because my family isn't wealthy and I am not korean. He has never met me once and will not accept me. At first, it was only a small issue for us but I realize that my boyfriend depends on his dad, he works for his dad so if he was to choose me ov...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationships (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 20:13 by baby blue RESPONDENTS: Raye LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 05:59

I am 43yrs old female.I moved in with my boyfriend (56 yrs old) last yr.I've become very confused lately.He seems to want to not do what we were doing at the beginning like ex:hold hands while driving,kiss me with his tongue,he used to start things in bed and now it seems like its a chore.I have to start and he makes excuses if it doesn't go like: must be medicine or my tooth started to throb.I told him of this and he says its all in my head.Well,its in my head that something is going on.Any suggestions?HELP...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category My Boyfriend Of 1.5 Years Wants Bjs But Rarely Wants Sex. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 19:41 by annab_2010 RESPONDENTS: Raye LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 05:51

I have made it clear from the beginning that sex is important to me. About 3 months after we started dating his desire for intercourse started to decline we would still have sex about once a week and I was ok with that because we still cuddled and spent a lot of quality time together and he still made me feel desired, but we started having sex less and less and we as a couple were starting to have problems which affected our quality time and by some miracle (due to me being deemed infertile and our lack of sex) I became pregnant and things started getting better until I started bleeding a...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Decisions... (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 19:36 by MJ RESPONDENTS: Raye LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 04:57

In my past I dated a horrible guy for a year and half and than I broke up with him and rebounded to an exboyfriend (Kyle). Kyle is a great guy that loves me but I couldn't reciprocate the same way. I tried to but ultimately I begun to be attracted to others guys. I then broke up with him because I realized my strong feelings for another guy (Dave). A week later I was dating that Dave. It was refreshing to be with shim since we both were not looking for anything serious. Also this was during a technical training in the military so I knew we would be going our separate ways shortly. He was motiv...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Expectations (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 19:41 by normalguy0930 RESPONDENTS: MJ LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 19:53

Is it wrong for me to expect for my wife to lose weight and get in better shape? I find myself looking at other, smaller women wishing my wife looked like that. She is about a size 18, but she always wears larger clothing to hide her fat. I want to see my wife in leggings, short shorts, and tight dresses. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife and I love seeing my wife naked, but I would like to see her be a little "sexier" with her dress and I know that won't happen until she loses weight. So what do I do? I've tried leading by example. I've tried shopping for groceries. I've tried going ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Love For Wife's Sister (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 20 2016 at 17:56 by Atoz RESPONDENTS: normalguy0930 LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 19:43

I love my wife's sister for 10 years but not expressed my love. But however my wife has come to know about it recently. But she is not angry. She wants me to express my love. She says if her sister accepts the love. My wife will be happy but wants that both us can have physical relation but occasionally not on regular terms ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Where Do I Go From Here? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 20 2016 at 05:46 by Lwade09 RESPONDENTS: MJ LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 19:43

So I've known this girl for a long time. She had been my older sisters best friend since as long as I can remember. She and my sister are both 5 years older than me. She's 29, I'm 24. Anyway, she still lives in the same town as I do and after my sis moved away we started hanging out a bit more and I found myself having feelings towards her. Unfortunately since she had this long background with my sis (who would absolutely shit if she knew I had feelings for her) I had never had the balls to tell her. On top of that she had been on and off with guys and I never really felt like I was up to par ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Help Me (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 11:46 by Unclecreepy93 RESPONDENTS: c123 / CCC LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 14:20

Ok idk how to start but were we go I'm 23 years old I've been with my girlfriend for ten years.she is 29 years old for the past 6 years I have started to have a drug problem meth,pills,anything with speed she ask way I started using and she hates that I use the reason I started was I'm unhappy with my life our sex life is out the window has been for 8 years and all we do is fight over everthing I use drugs to chase the happiness I once had I would walk away from the use if she would just show me the love I want and need she aways fights about the sex and how I'm cheating on her ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Cheating, Abusive Husband Of 15yrs (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Jun 16 2016 at 23:35 by Losteverything RESPONDENTS: Lexxi / Bob920 LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 06:31

My ex-husband to be soon, was always verbally and physically abusive...and I put up with it all hoping and wishing that one day we be that HAPPY family. My older son has witness his abuse on me..and now hates to be home. I don't blame my son...midst of the abuse I tell him to calm down or I go away to a room and lock it but it happens twice that he broke the doors and came in anyways...and continue his physical and verbal abuse. Just recently at his work, he is after this 19year old, and he is in his 40s. Well, she gave in and now they have sexual relationship...I put with his abuse thinki...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Growing Painz (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jun 21 2016 at 08:21 by Bob920 RESPONDENTS: J.Ellison LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 04:24

My father was abusive to me and my mother and he knocked my mother down the steps I was later told that is why my brother and sister died from being premature cause of the complications from that. After they deid my mother was in and out of medical institutions because of her depression of the loss of her children,my mother and father stayed together till I was like 5 or 6 and then divorced. Not knowing because of me being a child what my dad did exactly to my mother and even thoe he abused us both me and my mother I wanted to live with him but my mother was still crowned custody of me s...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Healed & Happy ! (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 19 2016 at 09:51 by intrepidmale RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 03:55

Hello Friends – just wanted to share my experience . It was my First job after doing my masters. Extremely innocent did not realise how stress could spoil my entire life. My very first job involved a highly abusive boss and a deadline oriented stressful work. I knew within a month I should just quit but I never listened to my intuition & finally it was too late. Quit after 3 months – Totally Depressed & full of fear & lack of interest for life . Sat a home without working - living off my parents money. Took many many jobs but as soon as someone yelled at me – just quit ( within 3 mon...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category I Gained 130lbs While Pregnant (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Jun 10 2016 at 01:40 by NurseCaitlin RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / CraZyMe / Arice / Soulmate / Cookie2 LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 00:19

I took ritalin/adderall my entire life but stopped last year because my husband and I wanted a baby. I got pregnant almost immediately after. My metabolism was shot from the amphetamines. The weight packed on so fast. I was eating very little and still gaining tons of weight (40lbs). After 5 months the MD put me on bedrest, during 4 months of bedrest I gained 90lbs. I was so depressed and ashamed. I can't even look at myself in the mirror. Once the baby was born I made myself walk 15,000 steps a day. I've been working out for at least 45 minutes at the YMCA (they let you bring the ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category So Miserable In My Marriage (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 17 2016 at 03:21 by emotionallybroken RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Cookie2 LAST POST: Jun 21 2016 at 22:34

I hardly know where to start. I am so broken and depressed and confused, and really need to talk to someone. I don't have insurance to see a counselor right now either. I have been married about 9 years and together for about 12 and I may be over it. I find myself not enjoying being in his company and I don't like doing things for him. He is a hypocrite. It always seems to be okay for him to says things, act certain ways and do things, but if I do them all hell brakes lose. I feel that I am not allowed to disagree with him (which is most of the time) or he says stupid remarks like "g...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Incredible Sulk (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 21 2016 at 16:58 by anniem RESPONDENTS: Bob920 / Cookie2 LAST POST: Jun 21 2016 at 22:22

I am at the end of my tether, I am married to a man who has sulked for 50 years recently he has got much worse, his sulks now last for weeks sometimes months, I have left him to stew, tried to get him talking again, nothing works, what if anything can I do, any suggestions welcome...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Need Help To Regain The Girl I Want (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Jun 21 2016 at 15:34 by lepa12 RESPONDENTS: J.Ellison LAST POST: Jun 21 2016 at 19:04

I was in a relationship with a girl and things were wonderful at first, like sex back and forth, most of all effort in treating me with respect and being a wonderful person with me. Like i started to see changes in her way of doing things started to change and like we almost broke up a few times because of her effort and her lack of maturity. Why do i say lack of maturity? because her mother would tell her to take me the family gatherings and she would be like make gestures telling me not to engage on the topic.She would come to my house all of the time and say hi to my mother and i present...

Money advice forum category advice forum category Daughters Wedding - Should I Fund? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Jun 20 2016 at 14:08 by Kailee RESPONDENTS: pragmaster / manalone LAST POST: Jun 21 2016 at 05:13

My daughter aged 30 is having a wedding in FiJi. I am very worried about her and her soon to be husband finances - They both work very hard and appear to have no savings . I don't know what to regarding helping out financial with the Wedding. They have asked for a loan . At this stage we have gifted them 2 Thousand Dollars. Should I asked or have the right to know what they spend their wages on before agreeing to a loan . ...

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