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A Long Story... But Really Need Some Help!! (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Dec 17 2014 at 16:03 by emmzz5
So tomorrow evening I am going to my boyfriend's mums house, what for festive cheer you might think? Well the complete opposite actually! I found messages on his Facebook account discussing with his work colleagues their Christmas party and whether he had any hopes with getting off with any of the girls; well two in particular. Considering I was meant to be attending my own works Christmas party that evening but didn’t go, I was stuck in by my...

I Can't Let Him Go. (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Dec 17 2014 at 14:11 by KibaDash
Ok, so long story short, I met this guy who was absolutely lovely and ticked every single box. He was kind, sensitive, considerate, caring, SO good looking and we had loads in common. Both die-hard musicians and singers. He was in a relationship when we started talking but he said it was as good as dead and told me how unhappy he was. Anyway, he ended that, we started seeing each other about a month later, got together, had an amazing few months ...

Destroyed Lives, Destroyed Family, Thanks Chevy (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Dec 17 2014 at 10:11 by BrokenClover
A bit of background- I'm married and a mother of 3. My husband is my best friend and I have known him since I was 4. I was a stay at home mom. Our family has always been very close and rarely argue. I have suffered with depression for as long as I can remember but I try to keep it in check as much as possible. I also have a few ongoing health problems, but such is life. My husband lost his job about a year ago. His severance was enough to keep us...

Dissapearing Act??? (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Dec 17 2014 at 04:17 by vegas21
Ok not sure if this should be in this category, Im just looking to get some insite on my situation. So i met a guy through a mutual friend and he is actually this friends boss at work. We met the first time and automatically hit it off... the day we met he told me he hadnt had a connection with someone like this in a long time. He took my number texted me everyday telling me he liked me.. we hung out a few times and it was great he even asked me ...

I Believe My Wife Needs Counselling (Posts: 56)

CREATED: Nov 25 2014 at 12:12 by moody_one RESPONDENTS: Susieq / Shivangi / Bets / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 17 2014 at 10:28
Married 50 years and I have given her a hard life, with various affairs in the 70s into 80s all found out and admitted, one was her best friend. I have not tried any more since early 1980 and she has forgiven me as much as she can. We were happily living and doing everything together although we have some different interests, her gardening and WI and me hobby painting and sport. We have two adult children with grandchildren living within 3 miles...

Am I Being Paranoid?? (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Dec 15 2014 at 03:27 by grumpybear3 RESPONDENTS: hinata / susiedqqq / Dominic Wild / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 17 2014 at 04:46
I posted a question earlier, but low and behold after I log out this question pops in my head so please forgive me. I'm so tired of being called crazy, paranoid, and stupid for asking myself and others if this is ok or right so I'm gonna ask u guys and I'd love to hear ur opinions. If you've been married for 23yrs and ur husband has had many affairs during that time, is it ok for ur husband to go to other women's homes to hang out? Even if he ...

Separated And Confused (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 16 2014 at 18:01 by kray RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 17 2014 at 02:03
My husband and I separated 10 months ago after 9 years of marriage. My husband started chatting with other women online and it turned into sexting. We had been having problems for a LONG time and had tried marriage counseling and he was talking to other women through it all. After we separated I started seeing someone. Now he wants to get back together and work things out but thinks because I started seeing someone in person and not just online t...

Less Communication (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Dec 15 2014 at 16:09 by doll RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 17 2014 at 01:46
i have been with my boyfriend for over 3years now we have had ups and downs and breakups almost every week.He has proved he loves me though its a distant relationship.when we first met he didnt tel me details abt himself after almost a year and a half,he told me he is a son to a senator.His dad passed away and the mom raised him as a single parent.The problem comes in that somebody i could refer to as a mother-in-law,is against us.Her main reason...

Single Mom (Posts: 53)

CREATED: Nov 14 2014 at 06:47 by Lorri.m RESPONDENTS: Swapnilaskingyou / Anonym / Soulmate / susiedqqq / Gwendolini / Bmm17 LAST POST: Dec 17 2014 at 01:22
I'm a single mom and have been dating a guy for a year. We never have any alone time because I have two teenagers that are almost always home when we are. I'm getting very frustrated not being able to be alone with him and he verbalized that but acts like there is no solution. What should I do? I don't want to just get a hotel room every night!...

A Decade Of Regret (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 14 2014 at 23:41 by Confused232 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 16 2014 at 15:46
Almost ten years ago i had a very intense and passionate relationship while in college. We were so in love, inseparable, rarely fought, adored eachother. We shared the same interests and we were both easygoing. We could talk for hours and even nicknamed our "world" (just us being together and so blissfully happy). We called it "bubbletopia oasis." About a year and a half into our relationship, i received a lot of pressure from my family (whom wer...

Love Triangle - Struggle (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Dec 15 2014 at 19:20 by lily_17 RESPONDENTS: Kikigirl99 / susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 16 2014 at 15:26
So Im going to briefly start way back to give some background to my situation. I dated this guy in highschool and his dad was Navy, so he ended up having to move away across country from me. We continued to date, but being so young it ended - but we kept in touch and have been the best of friends since, eachothers rock. Fast forward about 5 years - he is in love with me, but I was dating someone else, whom I loved whole heartedly - but this...

Boyfriend Dilemma (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 16 2014 at 02:37 by Kikigirl99 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 16 2014 at 15:21
I'd been dating this guy for a few months and things were really wonderful. Every morning when I got up he would send me a text message saying, "good morning beautiful have a good day'". And every night before bed he would send me a text saying, "goodnight beautiful, hope you sleep good." He always texted me during the day to see how my day was, we spent nearly every day together for 3 months. We got along perfectly, we laughed, would hold hands...

I Am Smothering My Boyfriend (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 16 2014 at 13:55 by HarleyQuinn03 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 16 2014 at 15:06
It has just been brought to my attention that I am smothering my boyfriend. I didnt realize that this is what I was doing, I thought I was just showing him affection. We love eachother, but I get so jealous when he talks to his female friends its crazy! I know that it should not bother me as much as it does, and I dont know how to stop. We have talked about how it is healthy for us to both have our own space, but I just cant seem to let go. ...

Partner Admits He Sleeps With Other Woman. (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Dec 15 2014 at 03:43 by sarah-73 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Doll LAST POST: Dec 16 2014 at 00:09
I have been with my partner now for 10 years we have 3 children and recently suffered a miscarriage of our very wanted 4th child. My partner unlike me had never been in a long term relationship before me and in his early years suffered from impotence and had limited sexual experience in his younger years. When we met he was travelling around the world having fun and sleeping around as much as possible. I knew this I wasn't stupid but we starte...

Confused About Feelings For Friend (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 15 2014 at 20:21 by UniGirl78 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 15 2014 at 21:39
Firstly I would like to provide some background. I am a 19yo female and have only ever had 1 boyfriend. We broke up a year ago but are still very close friends. This year I met a girl and we get along great. She and him are the two people closest to me in my life. About a month ago my female friend came over to keep me company while my parents were away for the weekend. We had a bit too much wine during the evening. She told me that sh...

Quick Question For Some Advice Please!! (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Dec 15 2014 at 03:06 by grumpybear3 RESPONDENTS: hinata / susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 15 2014 at 21:33
I'm new to this site but am very happy I found it. My husband and I got married when we were 18 and we just had our 23rd wedding anniversary in Sept. I need to know if the fact that we basically grew up together, might lead my husband to start loving me in more of a sisterly way than a wife? There's so much more that I'll be asking and telling u guys about, but I would like to know what u all think about that question. I need serious help bcuz I...

To Divorce Or Not- Abused And Tired (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Dec 12 2014 at 09:27 by Dilemma-mama RESPONDENTS: Shivangi / Violette LAST POST: Dec 15 2014 at 05:15
Hi. I am new to this site. I hope to find answers to my problems..or atleast to have someone offload this burden I'm carrying. My husband and I dated for two years prior to our marriage. We've been married for two years now and I have not known peace ever since.From a distance, he is a quiet, calm and collected man. We have a child together who is 1year 4months old.My husband is a responsible man as he has a job and takes care of the family's n...

She's Gone From Us (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 14 2014 at 00:45 by bikerider RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Shivangi LAST POST: Dec 15 2014 at 04:01
Am with my open minded wife for 17 yrs but at least last 4 yrs she lost to the net and her iphone .I bought Her an expensive camera and helped Her join a camera club but a year later she's spending more time online editing pics and excluding Herself from Us ( husband and 3 kids) and immersing herself in social media sites and now Her camera club. What to do? 9 year old has cut the bond and now highlights Her Mums flaws and social short comings . ...

What Is Wrong With Me? (Posts: 30)

CREATED: Dec 9 2014 at 00:42 by 1Jean RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Shivangi / susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 14 2014 at 22:15
Please don't laugh I really need to know the truth. I am 48 years old and will be 49 in January. I got married to my high school sweetheart when I was 18 and was divorced at 26. I had four children so I stayed by myself to raise my children. Three of my children is by my ex-husband and one is out of a rape. I have had six relationships in my whole life. Five have left me when they got caught cheating and the last one I break it off because I ...

Need Advise On What To Do (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 14 2014 at 17:40 by NJ2000 LAST POST: Dec 14 2014 at 17:46
Hi, I need advice on this matter, and I'll explain the details, a lot of which may be immaterial to this, so please stick with it. Okay, a little background; so I have met a girl on a site called VK (like Facebook) in April of this year and we got to talking and got to know each over really well. We then started Skyping almost everyday. I met her in Germany in August and then again in November. Now, I consider her to be my very best a...

Sad (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 14 2014 at 06:29 by pamt108 RESPONDENTS: NJ2000 LAST POST: Dec 14 2014 at 17:43
Hi-im depressed and need a listening ear...

She Found Her Twin Flame, But Still Calls Me (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Dec 2 2014 at 23:15 by Blockbuster RESPONDENTS: hinata / susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 14 2014 at 17:42
I met this girl in August of 2011. She was 19, I 20. Summer, seashore hometown, perfect. The first date we had was something out of this world. We talked the whole day straight, there were stars around us literally after some hours of talking. We were the happiest people on earth, and at the end of that day, I kissed her and she was the one. Afterwards we did a lot of beautiful things, 3 weeks later had our first sexual encounter, etc. We have be...

Long Distance Relationship Or Break It Off Before It Happens? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 14 2014 at 02:18 by E1066Red RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 14 2014 at 16:37
Been dating a girl for a few months now & it's been amazing. She has an opportunity to move far away with her work soon & I'm unsure how to deal with it..... The last few months have been a whirlwind of pleasure & I'm not looking forward to the prospect of losing her. We have recently gone from "just seeing each other" to "almost at relationship" stage & it's made things even better. We are so compatible, we laugh at the same jokes/have the sa...

She Needs Time? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Dec 14 2014 at 10:24 by FouganzaAn RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 14 2014 at 16:32
Hi! I am so confused and I hoped somehow you could help me.. There is a girl, it's been, like, a month now that I know her.. We met at coffee bar where she works and everything was great until last two days. We both had been recently in relationships and anyway "had a deal" to just hang out and have fun, so.."anything could happen.." Well, we talked few times, and even more via mobile phone..twice went for a walk with her dog, once she came to ...

Do I Get My Sister A Present? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 14 2014 at 07:04 by BananaBelle RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 14 2014 at 13:26
Sorry if this seems trivial and silly (it is, I know).. but I was looking for some advice on my relationship with my sister. She and I do not get along, she is 37 and still living with my mother. She is emotionally undeveloped in many ways, only has my mother and father in her life, doesn't work and doesn't have any friends. I tried for many years to have a relationship with her but she is very difficult and I have found as she gets older she ...

Long Distant Difficult Relationship (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 14 2014 at 06:18 by belz RESPONDENTS: hinata LAST POST: Dec 14 2014 at 06:53
I've been dating this guy for awhile now were from the opposite sides of the world and totally from different backgrounds when we first strted dating everything was amazing we could talk for hours and i would look forward to his messages and calls everyday we could confide in each other in any situation but lately i feel like im still supporting him through everything and being there for him emotionally but with him i feel like he doesn't care an...

Grandmother Is Putting Drugs In The Coffee. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 8 2014 at 08:48 by marsanchez RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 13 2014 at 23:22
My son graduated with his Masters recently and had to move back home , he had resided with roommates for the last 4 yrs. Their lease was up and he does not need to live so close to campus anymore. He also went through a bad break-up and his job ended. He is a little lost as to what he wants to do next. At 24 yrs old, he is the oldest of my four sons and has always been very driven until now. My mom (his grandmother) feels he just needs a little...

Resentful (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 13 2014 at 18:27 by Courage RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Keeks LAST POST: Dec 13 2014 at 19:25
My husband and I have been married for 21 years. We have two beautiful sons 19 and 17. I have always been the main earner in our family and have taken care of the mortgage etc mainly on my own. My husband has had many jobs over the years but none of them ever lasted longer than 5 years or so. Recently, last year he found a job that he loves which involves him poisoning pests in the bush. He's away from home every week from Monday to Friday, home ...

My Husband Changed After Taking Testosterone Injections (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 13 2014 at 06:39 by sj RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Keeks LAST POST: Dec 13 2014 at 18:49
My husband started self dosing testosterone injections when he disagreed with the doctors dosing. I really believe this is when his behavior started becoming so different. I don't even know this man. He went from a great fun loving guy to a man who calls me names and belittles me, mood swing. I recently found he is having online sex and even met up with one woman. His sex drive isn't just high its odd. When I busted him with what I found online ...

Could Really Use Some Help (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 02:51 by the hulk RESPONDENTS: Shivangi / susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 13 2014 at 17:26
Ok here we go... about 5 months ago, i had gotten out of a 3 and a half year relationship. I was extremely dumb and pushed the love of my life away from me (long story short, i messed up big time). She was madly in love with me, and i was too blind to see the wonderful woman i had. I would constantly break up with her (over petty little things) and she would always take me back! Until one day she had had enough. She said she was done and couldnt ...

What Do I Do ? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 13 2014 at 08:28 by froggy1234 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 13 2014 at 17:15
recently i haven't been doing too well at varsity , and have been focusing on my studies and pushing really hard , my girlfriend starts fighting with me because i am not giving her time , when in actual fact i was going to campus just to sit next to her while i was studying. soon after my grandfather passed away , so i had to go about 400 km away for the funeral and she demanded that i be back before her paper the next day, i did not make that an...

Road To Redemption (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 12 2014 at 04:34 by simplystephh RESPONDENTS: Keeks / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 13 2014 at 05:27
I have been talking to this guy for about 6 months. It is not the most traditional relationship we are in college after all but anyway we don't have any titles. But he is not the easiest person to talk to and we never had a conversation about where this was going. So about a month ago I started talking to this other guy because he was giving me the everyday conversation that my original guy wasn't. Long story short I ended up sleeping with the ne...

Hard Situation (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Dec 12 2014 at 14:34 by rr1113 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 13 2014 at 03:48
Okay so I looked up different articles and advice from different sources and came across this website. I read the articles and to be honest, my situation doesn't seem to fit anywhere. Maybe it's my denial and my thinking that none of this fit with us. Or maybe I am blind and think that none of the advice or articles work for me. I looked up different things like how to tell he stopped loving you or how to get him back and truly nothing fits for u...

Wife Had Sex With Old Boyfriend (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 12 2014 at 19:58 by fujimo50 RESPONDENTS: ihearu / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 13 2014 at 02:33
My wife came home one night with giant hickeys on her neck and other smaller ones all over her body. She told me a story that she had met a beautiful woman at the gym and they had wild sex. I didn't believe her but she insisted it was true. Later when I would question her she would say it never happened and I was making it all up. I loved her so much I put up with it for 37 years. When I asked her about it last year she finally admitted it was he...

Family And Relationship Advice Please (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 12:40 by 86lunar RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Violette LAST POST: Dec 12 2014 at 16:42
Hi, I feel my problem(s) are silly but I cant seem to find an answer or a way to work it all out, not sure where to start so here goes, Since may my 4 year relationship with boyfriend and my relationship with family is slowly falling in on itself, it all started on my last holiday with my boyfriend where an item of ours been used and damaged, this had been stored at my mothers house where I have younger siblings, one of them obviously borrowed i...

23, And Still Mentally Glued To The Mother Nest (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 09:58 by StargazerLily2009 RESPONDENTS: Violette / susiedqqq / Arieschick420 LAST POST: Dec 12 2014 at 16:29
I am a 23 year old woman, with not much job experience. Back in high school, between 2006-2009, I was the quiet, shy wallflower with not much of a mindset growing up. I have low self-esteem due to my weight gain and my shy nature. When graduation day finally hit, I wasn't sure if I was ready or not, but I still hoped for the best, despite that I didn't know what I wanted to do with my life or what I wanted to major in. I decided Graphic Design, b...

Will I Ever Forgive Him And Can He Ever Change? (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 17:03 by Pheonix22 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Violette / HelenA / hinata LAST POST: Dec 12 2014 at 14:11
There are a few problems in my relationship and I don't know what to do. Me and my partner have been together for 3 years, we started off as friends but I knew he loved me just by the way he was around me, very thoughtful and affectionate. One day he asked for more and I said yes but I was quite anxious, my previous relationship had been very abusive and I didn't want a repeat of this. I explained to my partner that I needed a lot of reassuranc...

Affects Of Divorce In Family (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 21:43 by Kan RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Keeks LAST POST: Dec 12 2014 at 09:22
My brother was married and had 2 children. He is now divorced. I am married with 2 children. The problem is my brother was married to my wife's sister. We all live in the same house. He has been divorced 7 years and he and my parents continue to blame me and my wife for his divorce. We are not to blame but my family say that it is our fault because my brothers wife is my w...

Do Pregnant Mothers Ever Matter? (Posts: 59)

CREATED: Dec 1 2014 at 18:47 by Pero RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Shivangi / susiedqqq / RachLink / hinata LAST POST: Dec 12 2014 at 01:31
Or is that once a woman becomes pregnant, what she wants/desires/needs becomes forfeit? That's how my life seems right now. This fetus is more important than anything I could do or say and I have just become an incubator. It doesn't matter to anyone how it affects my life at all....

I Have A Cheater Problem And I Need Help (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 23:24 by JessicaQ RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 12 2014 at 00:14
Hi. I need some ones help, to help a friend. I have a friend who's boyfriend is cheating on her pretty bad. With lotts of girls and he's hit on me too. I never said anything before cause I felt wierd about it. Well now he's sleeping with another girl we know. He used to be really nice to her and now he's mean but won't let her go. She loves him but I guess she won't let him go. I saw him with this other girl myself so it's not 3rd person info...

Broken Relationship ... My Fault? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 00:55 by LouLou99 RESPONDENTS: vampiress LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 18:50
My 2 year relationship has pretty much ended around our 2 year anniversary, and I am in such a quandary about what to do. Things had been bad for a while, constant arguments, cheating accusations and my partner constantly pushing me away, when before we used to joke about never arguing. I have had a difficult year and over the last 6 months I slowly lost sight of myself and turned into a person I don't recognise. It seems my boyfriend didn't re...

When Can I Contact Him ?:( (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 00:20 by bbabyx3 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 18:21
Love Me and my ex been going back and forth for about 2 years and now he's done with me. he always said i was bitching but it's only cause the things he would do is unacceptable.. he said he din'r care and din't wanna be with me anymore.. he's never been so rude to me. he said he doesn't wanna talk to me. that night i found on his kik him and another girl kissing and i asked him wtf was this and he said "what part of "done" do you not understand....

Boyfriend Has Little To No Sex Drive... (Posts: 12)

CREATED: Dec 6 2014 at 08:24 by arieschick420 RESPONDENTS: Tiara / susiedqqq / Daydreamer 247 LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 15:31
My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 12 years. He is 30 and I am 33. We don't live together due to financial issues and family obligations but he does visit every Thurs.-Sun. He is supportive, trustworthy, and a good dad to my 12 yr. old daughter. At times it can be hard to find common-ground as we have different interests and there is difficulty trying to agree on things to do or places to go. Intimacy is a challenge as well. I...

Regrets And Depression (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 06:13 by NaoNao RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 15:03
In 2013, I met a man who was the greatest help to me in a very tough situation. I was living with an abusive ex and was kicked out of my parents' house at 18. Me and him were very close and soon we desired to be closer than friends. He asked me out on March 2, and drove to Virginia (where I lived) and brought me to South Carolina with him. I didn't live with him but was adopted as my friend's mom's daughter and enjoyed life with him. After severa...

Long Distance Relationships (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 05:26 by Rosie15 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 14:10
This is a long story... but I have a friend I've known for a few months. We met online on Omegle and have connected ever since. He's told me I'm one of few people he can open up to, and he tells me everything. I can tell him everything as well, and I've never connected with a person more. One problem; he lives on the other side of the country from me. He knows I love him and want a relationship, but he told me he can't handle a long distance rela...

Confused And Lonely (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 06:20 by Daydreamer247 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 13:59
This may seem like a minor problem, and I'm hoping it will fix itself, but I've been hoping for a long time. I am a 22-year-old college student and I am a little tired of myself. I've suffered from debilitating anxiety ever since I started college. I've actually had to withdraw from school twice and come back home because I was so miserable being away. I don't see anything great happening to me in the future, as I am always down on myself and I h...

Broken Relationship ... My Fault? 2 (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 11 2014 at 01:00 by LouLou99 RESPONDENTS: hinata LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 05:48
My 2 year relationship has pretty much ended around our 2 year anniversary, and I am in such a quandary about what to do. Things had been bad for a while, constant arguments, cheating accusations and my partner constantly pushing me away, when before we used to joke about never arguing. I have had a difficult year and over the last 6 months I slowly lost sight of myself and turned into a person I don't recognise. It seems my boyfriend didn't re...

Am I Being A Fool? (Posts: 15)

CREATED: Dec 7 2014 at 00:13 by 1Jean RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqqq LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 02:03
I am 48 years old and only once in my life has anybody been loyal and faithful to me but one person. My ex-husband was not even faithful you me and he has a baby by another woman that is three months younger than our son. Now there is a very nice gentleman which we have been friends for five years and the last 14 months we have been seeing each other ever since. He told me that he always knew my last relationship was not going to last and he ...

Swinging (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Dec 10 2014 at 19:19 by pattie RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / 1Jean LAST POST: Dec 10 2014 at 22:08
My partner and I have been together for 12 years now. Very early in our relationship he suggested we go swinging. I really did not want to do it, the thought made me feel physically sick. Despite this he pushed and pushed me until I agreed. I cried on my way to meet them and poured loads of alcohol down my throat. I did what he asked, it was awful, the worst experience of my life. I said I would never do it again but soon after the pressure ...

Marriage. Oh God... (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 10 2014 at 21:10 by JacksonPawlick RESPONDENTS: Arieschick420 LAST POST: Dec 10 2014 at 21:37
I'll keep this brief-- The Set up: 1. Myself and Lady-friend have been dating for a couple of years. She's a good communicator with strong intellect and is a very, very young looking 42. I'm 46 and neither of us have ever been married. 2. Last Christmas, she got me to move a ring that my father had given me many years ago to my "marriage finger,(which used to be my middle one, but I digress.) She then chose a piece of her rings and...

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