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Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Leave? (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Dec 2 2016 at 16:20 by clairdelune

I have been dating a man for the past year and four months. We actually dated before that, but it ended because I found out he was talking to another woman - flirting, calling her beautiful, talking to her on the phone for hours. Basically, he was acting single. Anyhway, months passed and we reunited after seeing each other while shopping. Things were okay at first. I asked him if he had slept with anyone while we were apart, but he denied it. Though we were having protected sex, I somehow contracted an STI from him. He finally admitted to sleeping around while we were broken up. I told him t...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is Vacationing With Her Ex Ok?? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 2 2016 at 06:47 by Bmac RESPONDENTS: clairdelune LAST POST: Dec 2 2016 at 19:24

OK, I am hoping it is not as bad as it sounds...but here goes. I have been dating a woman for about 9 months and in the beginning she told me that she is still married but has been separated for over 9 years. At first it didn't matter but now my feelings for her have grown and hers have grown for me. Her "ex" comes to all family gatherings and I can understand that. Birthdays,weddings, that sort of thing. They get along and I think that is nice but she has just told me that their whole family is spending Christmas in a cabin up in the mountains near by. It is just her, her husband, their 3 chi...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Wife Is Willing To Leave Me For A Women (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Nov 24 2016 at 22:47 by Tritty RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 2 2016 at 19:00

So here's the problem. My wife recently made a new friend at work who she has come very close with, very close. It's to the point my wife is willing to leave me because she wants to do "stuff" with her but I don't really like the thought of it. For some reason she is all confused now, she has all these feelings for this women, we have been together for four years and share 2 kids (one is not mine) and I'm jut confused. I told her I maybe willing to let her aslong as I can join or watch, but if I let her do it I'm scared she will leave me for good. She says she loves me to death, and I beli...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category No Love (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 30 2016 at 23:56 by astravan RESPONDENTS: Anniegirl23 / Bmac LAST POST: Dec 2 2016 at 07:34

I love my gf to bits but she very rarly gives me any loving only when she wants it which is approx twice a month if im lucky, its always on her terms and its a routine same every time, ive noticed when in bed and she thinks im asleep she masturbates every night and at least 3 times min i ve confronted her and she denies it, it makes me horny but frustrated i dont no how much more i can handle what should i do...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category How To Make The Best Out Of Living In Florida? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Dec 1 2016 at 00:49 by katie0908 RESPONDENTS: dom549 / Bmac LAST POST: Dec 2 2016 at 07:27

Hi, I'm 16 years old and I just moved to Florida. All I've heard is how awful it is, how the education is bad, how the people are bad, etc. How can I make the best out of staying here if it's as terrible as everyone says?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Relationship Without Trust (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Dec 1 2016 at 01:06 by dom549 RESPONDENTS: Anniegirl23 / Bmac LAST POST: Dec 2 2016 at 07:22

Hi, so the story is that im in a relationship for now 2 years and its great we knew each other long before its a strong bond we have. But before 1 month i have some bad fellings and i tought she was cheeting on me and as every guy i tried to find out if i can prove that, (my computer skills came in play and lets say i just got everything I needed by that) so i found out that my gf was talking and flirting whit multiple guys, most of them were her ex-s and i also found out that she cheeted on me on the summer but thats where i stoped and i told her what I saw... but im stupidly in love an...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Control Of Sex In My Marriage? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Dec 1 2016 at 03:52 by Hopeless1 RESPONDENTS: harry888 LAST POST: Dec 2 2016 at 06:21

Hey everyone this is my first time doing something like this. I just don't know where else I can let off some frustration. It's a long story and I need some help. I was married a year ago. My husband and I had always had a great sex life up until we got married. It then slowly started to fade out. A few months into our marriage I found out he had been watching a lot of porn. So naturally I addressed this with him. We fought a lot as a matter of fact I was ready to end the marriage because he had also been on some chat sites. I didn't end it. As a matter of fact at about that time I found out...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Advice On How To Make This Better Before I Leave For Good.... (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 2 2016 at 04:00 by HarryPotterMom RESPONDENTS: Scopes LAST POST: Dec 2 2016 at 05:21

For the past two years my now husband and I have had quite a rough patch, fighting arguing name calling.. about two years ago he cheated on me and I'm not quite sure I ever got over it but I have kept trying and stayed because I love him very much. He hasn't ever cheated again since, but I think I involuntarily still take it out on him and unpurposefully act uninterested and make no effort according to him. I also feel this way about him too but he seems to think I should be the first one to do anything to change any of this. Today was an important day and we had a decent day until this evenin...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category My Parents Made Me Lose A Friend :/ (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Dec 1 2016 at 14:10 by Theboredone RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 1 2016 at 23:42

I'm homeschooled and my parents don't allow me to have alot of friends. This was one of my only friends really. We usually hang out maybe twice every month at my house. My dad ordered us a pizza, after my friend left he went through the garage. I asked my parents if they would mind closing the garage because I was going to bring the trash upstairs and I didn't want to forget as the last time I forgot to close the garage someone came into during the night and stole some of our things. So, when I went upstairs to tell them, my mom walked down(this was before I threw the trash out). She started y...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Life Situation; Dealing With Depression And Breakup. (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Nov 30 2016 at 16:22 by TeaHorse RESPONDENTS: Anniegirl23 / Scopes LAST POST: Dec 1 2016 at 22:59

Hey guys, I'm new here. I came here since I'm dealing with certain things in reallife and I have no idea whom to talk to anymore, so I came to you for advice. Do note, there's a whole lot of things involved, I'll try to be as brief as possible, so if things aren't clear enough just ask and I'll clarify. Note: I've been diagnosed with A.D.D. and asperger. They only told me about my asperger diagnosis about a year ago. I'm not sure if this is relevant to my story but I figured I should point it out anyway. So my life has never been too great and I was first diagnosed with clinical depressi...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Not Important (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Nov 25 2016 at 21:06 by Greenree420 RESPONDENTS: Scopes LAST POST: Dec 1 2016 at 21:54

My bf of 4 years... And he is selfish in the bedroom.. he always expects me to go above and beyond... And I do I want to please him... He never takes time to work on me... It sux... Sex sucks.. im left high and dry every single time.... I have toys... But I feel unimportant...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Love Life (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 29 2016 at 18:10 by vipzi RESPONDENTS: dom549 LAST POST: Dec 1 2016 at 17:17

I'm in love with a girl. It's one side. I want her. What can I do?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I'm In Love But There's A Big Problem (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 30 2016 at 16:51 by Desperate times RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Nov 30 2016 at 20:04

There's a girl in my school and I really like her. She is so beautiful and I think I might be in love with her. We used to sit next to each other during maths lessons and every lesson was so fun and entertaining because it was the only time I could spend time with her. Everyone in my school really think we would make a great couple but im terrible with confrontation so I keep saying to everyone that "I don't like her, we're just friend's that soy next to each other and have a laugh", when truthfully i do like her alot. Apart from Maths lessons, I had no communication with her and I didn't r...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is This Kid Crushing On Me? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 30 2016 at 04:39 by MissyMarguerite RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Nov 30 2016 at 09:52

So I met this kid and all my friends are teasing me about him because they're convinced he likes me. (I'm just calling him "kid" 'cause I happen to be two and a half years older. He's not really a child.) Anyways, we spent a weekend together (with loads of other people) and he was really sweet when I talked to him one on one, but in group conversations/gatherings, he was a bit show off/seeking attention. Nevertheless, nice guy & I enjoyed taking with him. At one point, he wrote a song and sort of leaned real close while he sang it to me. Then he was drawing stuff in his notebook and kept looki...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Nausea And Vomiting From Protein Shake (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Nov 28 2016 at 05:49 by Yoxern RESPONDENTS: harry888 / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 30 2016 at 07:36

I am 14 years old, 4'11", 90 lbs. My parents have started giving me a protein shake every day so I can gain weight. I prefer to call it sludge due to the consistency. They consist of 4 scoops(1 1/3 cups) of Muscle Milk Gainer powder(chocolate flavor) and 20 ounces of water. Its been going on for about a week. 4 scoops of the powder contain 32 grams of protein and 650 calories. I'm beginning to wonder if that's a bit much considering my size but I know nothing about this kind of thing. I don't work out. The most exercise I get is running to avoid people in the hallway of my school or waving...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Space W/ Contact (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Nov 29 2016 at 10:05 by mik RESPONDENTS: anniegirl23 / susiedqq / manalone LAST POST: Nov 29 2016 at 23:20

My guy recently said that he wants some space because he said that he wants to go back to his old self and I fought about it but later agreed to it. He gave me his jacket and shirt for me to keep. He said that he just wants to find himself and eventually we'll get back together. Then the day after the "space" thing he texted me a lot of time even if I'm not replying(ex. Good morning, Hey you need to wake up, Have you eaten yet?). Then he texted me that he will be with his girl bestfriend like asking me for permission. I don't know what to do he said he wanted space but why keep acting like tha...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Im Pregnant, And Baby Mama Is Stressing Me Out (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Nov 19 2016 at 21:30 by Catmom RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / hisgracealone LAST POST: Nov 29 2016 at 15:58

My husband has 1 son with a filipino woman, it was a fling while he was in the philippines for 2 months(drunk n drunk n drunk), n then he met me and we dated for few months and he find out that she was pregnant, and want to be part of the baby life and be responsible for expenses and everything, and we both decided to get married, n now the boy is already 3years old and baby mama never stop acting out since baby was a newborn untill now, she demands more money, and keep on being mean, telling me all kinds of lies, i can deal with it before and now that i am prgnant, she constantly remindin...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Forced To Share Gamse With Little Brother And Getting A Shorter Game Time. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 28 2016 at 13:11 by the problem guy RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / lily31 LAST POST: Nov 29 2016 at 15:11

I have a little brother who is anoying. We both love to play on our ps4 and playing the same game. He is about 9 years old. Whenever* i come home from school he is always playing. When i ask i get to play about 1 hour and then Its his turn again. We bought this new game and now my twin also wants to play. So we share times playing. 1 hour for me and the 1 hour for my twin brother and 1 hour for my little brother. this makes a 2 hour gap that makes me have to wait. In my age All my friends get to play ps4 a very long time and i never get to play with them. It also makes me and my little brothe...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Acceptance (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 29 2016 at 08:51 by EmptyViking RESPONDENTS: anniegirl23 / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 29 2016 at 14:18

I'm newly married and after 5 months it is a sexless marriage. Why do women complain that they do everything for the man? Maybe they should try being emotionally available and not play so many games. Everyone needs that intimacy but men seem to be the whipping post for every problem in the world. I must be missing something. But I have accepted there is no sex but for how long will this last? I crave a partner who is intetested in intimacy on all levels but we might have went wrong here. I've even looked into surrogate sex partners before the acceptance. Too much hassle. What I'd like...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Nearing The Line, But Not Crossing It (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 29 2016 at 13:17 by HelgaAlex RESPONDENTS: harry888 LAST POST: Nov 29 2016 at 14:02

Hello, I am newly married and in need of some advice or thoughts in general. My husband and I have been together since high school. When we graduated, I attended college in another state and he stayed in the town where we grew up. We decided to stay together, with the knowledge that it might not work out and that was ok. However, it did work out and we stayed together while I was in school. After I graduated we got married. There is one small problem in our marriage. While I was in school, he made new friends and I became very jealous of one in particular. He would sometimes post pictures ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Emotional Cheating Spouse (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 23 2016 at 17:39 by Natta RESPONDENTS: Scopes / anniegirl23 LAST POST: Nov 29 2016 at 10:50

We recently married in july. My husband keeps everything on lock including phone, laptops and tablets. He lef one open accidentally and I saw he and coworker text. Mostly her texting on the company website asking him to meet her...offering a room at her home etc. Note that my husband and I were having some personal problems that he claimed to have shared with this lady. I don't trust him and have been very depressed. He says the whole thing with this woman texting was nothing and he appologized for sharing then appologized to her if he crossed any lines. Really!! I want to leave. T...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Parents Split Up (Posts: 49)

CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 28 2016 at 23:27

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together watching tv both happy. I came home from school to find my mum inconsolable saying that my dad had left, she was too upset to say why. I didn't hear from my dad for more then 12 hours ( it's was a very sleepl...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category The Best Friend That Won't Go Away (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 28 2016 at 02:38 by emmaberryboo RESPONDENTS: manalone / your friend LAST POST: Nov 28 2016 at 22:35

When I was 4, I made this friend in kindergarten. I realized quickly that she was kinda rude and drifted away from her. I'd see her over the years in public but we never spoke. Fast forward 30 years and she found me on facebook. Sent me a friend request and gushed about how wonderful it was to have her best friend of 30 years back in her life. I am not full of myself but I do have a positive personality and tend to draw people in. I quickly found that my old/new "best friend" was still someone that would fit in my life but I did feel bad for her and tried during 2009 and 2010 to be a frien...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Advice On Something, What Are You Thoughts? Did I Do Something Wrong? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 28 2016 at 15:13 by Thalassa RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 28 2016 at 21:42

Until fairly recently, I used to go and visit my great Aunt every Tuesday and every third Sunday. I would shop for her, do things round the house, sort out the cat (when she had one i.e. clean the lit tray, deflea him and arrange for the vet if necessary). My Aunt is an elderly lady and her mind was beginning to go. I therefore took charge of her finances, I took out money for the Gardiner, the hairdresser etc all for her. I never ever abused her card or her trust. Ever. She would give me £50 when I went round which I would use on Amazon. It was a thank you gift from her to me, which she enjo...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Marriage Is On The Rocks. (Posts: 28)

CREATED: Oct 26 2016 at 12:06 by Lisaa.loo RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / helpneededplease / small view / OnTheRoad LAST POST: Nov 28 2016 at 21:26

Ok, won't go into to much detail.. Basically i had an affair 9 months ago. We both agreed to make a go of things, as we loved each other (but I wasn't in love with him) but he is completely in love with me. I have been trying my hardest to make things work, but don't seem to be getting anywhere.. I really don't know what to do, as he doesn't seem to be getting over it.. if anything it's getting worse.. hes absolutely heartbroken, and I feel so guilty for what I did ( there are reasons behind why I did do it) I feel he's pushing me away as he Keeps throwing it in my face all the time.....

Violence & Crime advice forum category advice forum category Am I Doing The Right Thing? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Nov 26 2016 at 17:17 by Kevinw RESPONDENTS: Scopes LAST POST: Nov 28 2016 at 08:35

I am 53. I never considered myself a father before, I have wanted my kids gone for 15 years. They've been in online school for 11 years they're 17 and 18. I have never gotten them a learners permit, license or a car. I refuse to teach them to drive. My parents taught me when I was 16. I just don't believe I should have to do the same for my son and daughter. Since I don't like them at all and don't care for their safety and welbeing. In your opinion would it be ok if I bought them a $100 or $200 dollar used junky car that has problems on Craigslist so they constantly have to worry if they moto...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Starting At A New Highschool On Monday (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 27 2016 at 07:57 by katie0908 RESPONDENTS: Yoxern LAST POST: Nov 28 2016 at 06:14

I have sever social anxiety. If I'm going to be honest, I don't care if I make friends. If they come up to me and talk with me, sure I'll talk to them and maybe make a friend. I'm more worried about how I'll react on the first day. 3 days ago I had a panic attack, so I'm worried about how I'll be Monday. Does anyone have any advice on how to cope with the first day or make it less awful? I mean, I'm worried about little things like where to sit in class, how lunch will be, etc. thank you!...

Bereavement advice forum category advice forum category Is What I Plan On Doing Reasonable? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 26 2016 at 16:48 by Dylan63 RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Nov 27 2016 at 19:53

I am 53. I never considered myself a father before, I have wanted my kids gone for 15 years. They've been in online school for 11 years they're 17 and 18. I have never gotten them a learners permit, license or a car. I refuse to teach them to drive. My parents taught me when I was 16. I just don't believe I should have to do the same for my son and daughter. Since I don't like them at all and don't care for their safety and welbeing. In your opinion would it be ok if I bought them a $100 or $200 dollar used junky car that has problems on Craigslist so they constantly have to worry if they moto...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Can A Married Man Be Best Friends With A Single Women? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Nov 25 2016 at 22:42 by Cinnamon girl RESPONDENTS: manalone / harry888 / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 26 2016 at 18:02

My husband of 10 years has best friend who I've known since she was kid, anyways they grew close and their friendship used to bother me because they would wrestle on the floor and to me it was unacceptable behavior. I told him and he stopped. However their friendship makes me uneasy. She's always texting him for help even when she has boyfriend and sometimes their text message are flirty. I've confronted him and he gets offensive and he swears he's never done anything but has thought about it. How am I suppose to feel about gat and trust them together?!? We have a solid relationship and I beli...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Found Out The Father Of My Child Is Bisexual (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 26 2016 at 06:06 by Maryland98 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 26 2016 at 15:46

Hello, I am 18 years old and I'm currently due to give birth in less than a week now with my boyfriend who only just revealed to me a few days ago he is actually bisexual. I don't know if this should affect anything with us or my feelings for him because I do know I still love him and I don't know have no problem with gays or bisexuals, it's just te thought of the father of my child doing things with another guy kind of makes me feel sick inside. He says to me he's not bisexual "like that", whatever that's supposed to mean, but I know for a fact he's had sex with a guy once and I think it ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Trying To Get My Relationship To Work After A Depression Crisis (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 21 2016 at 09:54 by Raxamus RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 26 2016 at 15:39

I had a pretty tough time dealing with a relationship which ended up on a depression crisis for me, she lied and cheated on me after his father died of lung cancer. I was devastated, didn't went to school or a job for a whole year. Emotionally exhausted y sought and finally got put off all of it. I got into college and meet a girl on my class who was fond of me. we hang out and things got more serious, it is good and i feel good, most of the times. But others i feel she is using me for something, not quite sure why, but she says things like "I hope you dream about me" every night, she repla...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Fiancée Unhappy In My Country (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Nov 22 2016 at 03:02 by HH2018 RESPONDENTS: Claire MS / Soulmate / casper33 LAST POST: Nov 26 2016 at 15:28

Hi all, I'm new here, ever tried opening up for my "problems" in online forums. Anyway, here goes: I am a 32 year old girl. My fiancée and I have been together for 2.5 years approximately. Until recently we've had a "long distance" relationship. The reason for my "" is due to the fact that we've basically been seeing each other every month during the past 2 years, and every time we visited each other we stayed at the other persons country for 2/3/4 weeks (this was only possible because we both studied at the time and were flexible). 3.5 months ago we both graduated. We decided for him t...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum category Am I Gay? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 26 2016 at 08:00 by Nevergoodenough RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 26 2016 at 14:04

I've been friends with a guy for awhile and I don't necessarily feel a attraction besides a friend besides always wanting to be with him. He is gay but he has expressed that he has no feelings towards me but I'm not sure if that's true or simply just cause he assumes I may flip out if he says otherwise. I have wanted him to do oral to me but I don't see anything besides that. I'm pretty sure that would mean I'm bi. He talks about other guys by me which doesn't bother me and has actually blown a guy when I was with him and I didn't really care, I wasn't jealous or wish it was me. Any adv...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category High And Dry (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 26 2016 at 00:11 by Greenree420 RESPONDENTS: justadvise / Tritty LAST POST: Nov 26 2016 at 02:22

I want love, affection, praise... I want those things so badly. I have been with the same boyfriend.. for four years... The sex sucks so bad... He only focuses on himself. He will ask me to preform oral, and I wanting to please him, do it... Then he just wants to go straight to intercourse. I get no nothing. So I have been going weeks with out touching his penis. Leaving him craving my mouth, I want him to want me, touch my vagina,. He begs me to do oral, I say you do me I'll do you. He just doesn't care about pleasing me.. point of this is, he always gets his, and leaves me high and dry... A...

Workplace advice forum category advice forum category Why Were They So Rude To Me? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 24 2016 at 01:50 by Peter9 RESPONDENTS: Tritty LAST POST: Nov 26 2016 at 02:14

I am 39. I recently joined a new band. I am the oldest member. The other 2 members are 17 and 20. Neither of them own their own car(siblings) they have to share a car with parents. When I first went to play music with them, I asked them. "Why not come to my place next time to practice?" They said "We will have to see." I said "See what? Ya'll are 17 and 20, when I was your age I didn't have to see." They said, "No need to get defensive with us. We share a care with our parents. We don't have our own." I said "Why not? Ya'll moochers?" The 17 year old said "Dude, stop with the name calling." Th...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Uninviting Someone Over For Thanksgiving (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 23 2016 at 18:30 by Dylan63 RESPONDENTS: Scopes LAST POST: Nov 25 2016 at 18:42

Would it be rude of me to uninvite my neice and nephew over for Thanksgiving? Neither of them own a car, they would be coming along with my sibling. Is it wrong of me to tell my sibling not to bring my neice and nephew? Here is the situation as to why I do not want them coming along. I am wondering why my neice(17) and nephew(19) want to continue being gluttons for. My neice has a 26 inch waist, she weighs 56kg(126lbs) and she is 5'7. My nephew has a 28 inch waist he weighs 59kg(129lbs) and he is 5'6. They both eat 900 calories a day. Why are they gluttons? Should I uninvite them over fo...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Am I Really Just Not That Interesting? (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Nov 25 2016 at 18:13 by Claire MS LAST POST: Nov 25 2016 at 18:18

Throughout the years I've made friends, and lost friends and the usual experiences. In my own view, I see myself as a good friend. I just feel like most of the time I'm giving more than receiving. Usually someone will drift away. Or, I'll try to talk to them and I'll get a half hearted response, or the famous pet peeve, a ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I'm Starting At A New Highschool On Monday And I'm Terrified (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 24 2016 at 21:52 by katie0908 RESPONDENTS: Tritty LAST POST: Nov 25 2016 at 03:23

Before I even start, I'm going to point out that I have awful social anxiety. But we recently moved from New York to Florida, and I start 10th grade in a new highschool on Monday. I feel sick and terrified. Even the little things are freaking me out, sitting alone at lunch, having to ask the teacher where to sit, finding my classes, things like that (advice on how to not be nervous about these specific things would be helpful too lol). So bluntly, how do I not get sick on the first day? I have a lot to catch up on, and I'm not a very open person, so I don't make friends unless someone comes up...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category When Is Enough Enough? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 22 2016 at 21:49 by Elissa_Luna RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 23 2016 at 15:00

I have two children and got divorced a few years ago. During our separation/divorce, my ex came completely unglued. He's always suffered from depression and anxiety throughout our relationship and things had come to a point where it was too much. When I suggested a trial separation, he threatened to harm me. After his breakdown, he sought therapy and medication to help control his condition. He wanted to try to work things out for the same of the kids and because he still loved me. I cared about him and I wanted the kids to have their dad more involved since his condition seemed to have imp...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Will Things Ever Be More? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 22 2016 at 20:11 by BlissfulAngel RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 23 2016 at 14:56

I have currently been in a complex relationship that switches from friends with benefits to a loving and affectionate relationship. He has told me he loves me and this is the healthiest relationship he has ever been in...but then he talks about him still loving his ex and wonders if we are just rebounds for one another. I try not to say entirely how I feel when he says those things because I want him to stay open and connected with me. He doesn't like it when I talk about my exes and how they treated me and how I am afraid he could do the same...but he tends to say the same things and it hurts...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Ex Bf Keeps Contacting Me. Help! (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Nov 23 2016 at 06:30 by Chelsea18 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 23 2016 at 14:52

Long story short. I met my ex two years ago. We dated for 10 months. Things were ok and then went really down hill the last two months of the relationship. I broke up with my ex October of last year. He had lied to me the entire time about being an addict. He lied to my face about multiple things for 10 months. I am very anti drugs and I can still remember him talking about how drug addicts are gross and things like that. His family lied for him. Friends lied. He should have won an Emmy for his performance, truly. He brought drugs into my house without me knowing. Pretended he was mugged w...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Husband Said Co-worker Was Pretty (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 22 2016 at 23:42 by nella_SD RESPONDENTS: Chelsea18 LAST POST: Nov 23 2016 at 06:32

Am I crazy to be upset that my husband said he thinks a co-worker is pretty? He just started a new job, out of state, a month ago. He says it's nothing to be worried about and I'm sure it isn't, but I am upset. He thinks I shouldn't be and I want to know if I'm justified. If not, what do I do about my feelings and how do I let go of what he said about his co-worker?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is Friendship With The Opposite Sex Possible While Dating? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 22 2016 at 21:24 by Kikinha RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Nov 23 2016 at 00:30

I've been dating a guy for almost 8 years. As with everyone, although we have similar interests, there are still things one likes to do that the other does not like. We recently made friends with a guy that, as me, likes to surf, skate, discuss poetry, and other things that I otherwise wouldn't do alone. I hung out with him a few times, sometimes with my boyfriend, sometimes alone. I'm having a great time doing things that I hadn't done for such a long time, but now my boyfriend thinks I'm going to cheat on him or leave him for this other guy. That is entirely not the case, he is only a go...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Who Is In The Wrong? (Posts: 10)

CREATED: Nov 12 2016 at 01:29 by Dylan63 RESPONDENTS: catlady / Altreal / lily31 / LoveSap / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 22 2016 at 18:10

I am 53, when I was 16 my parents taught me how to drive and they also got me driving lessons. But, I do not want to do the same thing for my son and daughter. They are 17 and 18, I have wanted them both to leave for 15 years, I've had them in online schooling for 11 years, they can't walk places, as we live on a highway cars every where no side walks or areas to walk on. I never drive them places, but I want them to leave but I don't want to help them. I don't want to get them driving lessons and I don't want to teach them, and I don't want to get them an I.D so that they can work. I just don...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category When Is My Time Coming? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Nov 22 2016 at 10:54 by Claire MS RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 22 2016 at 17:27

As a thirteen year old girl, I have a constant anxiety. Varying, to I'm not feeling accepted, or I didn't finish my homework assignment from two weeks ago. Lately though, I've been restless. I guess I'll start with the fact that my parents are stone cold Italian. Both of them. Me too, I guess. But THAT doesnt really matter. Because I don't have any authority. They do. While most kids my age are able to have a certain extent of freedom. Mine is cut short. I love my mother with all of my heart but she is very overprotective. They're both strict. I'll probably thank them one day, but I'm f...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Brother In Law Ignores Me. Best Way To Deal With It (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 21 2016 at 07:57 by Sputnick123 RESPONDENTS: PINBALL6031 / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 22 2016 at 16:27

although we never really got along, the situation has gotten progressively worse. This guy is the husband of my wife's sister. He has a good job, nice house etc. We rarely meet other than birthdays for our kids. At a birthday party yesterday he completely ignored me and its isn't the first time. He will even go as far to address the person the left of right of me and still cut me dead. Now, I'm not totally broken up about this. Like I said, I rarely see him. However, In February we are going to a family wedding with them and we will no doubt be seated together. I am really not good at confront...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Risk It All, Or Live A Lie? (Posts: 11)

CREATED: Nov 16 2016 at 11:53 by Sam Shandi RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / OnTheRoad / Scopes LAST POST: Nov 22 2016 at 15:20

I'm pretty sure my wife is cheating on me. I was (for genuine reasons) holding her phone when someone sent an explicit text to her. Since then I've sneakily checked her phone (wrong I know but please don't judge me) and seen numerous messages between her and an ex practically confirming my suspicions. He seems to be doing the running but she is happily playing along I've got no evidence they've actually met but they certainly discussed it. I really don't know what to do, I love my wife and don't really want my marriage to end. But if I confront her what if that's what happens? (He'...

Other advice forum category advice forum category 65 Years Old And Not Ready To Give Up On Love. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 21 2016 at 03:11 by Murphy715 RESPONDENTS: another lonely gal / Scopes LAST POST: Nov 21 2016 at 06:31

You would think that a woman of my age would give up on finding TRUE love. I was married for seventeen years when he decided that I wasn't enough to keep him sexually satisfied. This was over seven years ago. Is it too late? I've lived alone a long time now and I tried dating a few times in the past three years and nothing seems to keep my interest. I am a pretty simple woman with simple pleasures. I feel like I want someone that will take care of me as I will them. I've never had that. Again I ask "Is it too late?"...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Moving To A New Highschool, Anxiety Through The Roof :( (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Nov 18 2016 at 03:20 by katie0908 RESPONDENTS: Jaffais1 / lily31 LAST POST: Nov 20 2016 at 14:33

Hi! I'm 16 years old and a sophomore. Firstly, I've always had bad social anxiety. I can't make myself go up to people and try to start a conversation (I've tried to push myself MANY times.) we had to give up my pets before the move (I'm heartbroken) so I'm already not in sound mind. I'm moving from ny to fl, and moving from a tiny school (500 kids) to a bigger one (1,300 kids). I'm freaking out. I don't know how to control my anxiety, and I've had a bunch of full blown panic attacks. How can I control my anxiety and possibly feel better about this move? Do you think there's a chance people wi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Married To Depression (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Nov 19 2016 at 04:12 by Jaffais1 RESPONDENTS: OnTheRoad LAST POST: Nov 20 2016 at 14:11

My wife was abused by a family member when young and is constantly dealing with depression. I am strong to deal with it most of the time, but its hard and I do have a lot of weak moments too. Any one else have experiance with depression....

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