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Heartbroken (Posts: 18)

CREATED: Sep 16 2014 at 05:27 by mj4life26 RESPONDENTS: susiedq / K / ColdSnowBunny LAST POST: Oct 25 2014 at 23:44
Just joined this forum in hope of getting advice from people outside the messed up situation I am in. Where do I start? Ok before I continue let me say I no what I've done is wrong and I am accountable for what I have done, and I deeply regret the choices I have made, but I just don't no how to move forward. I met this guy 3 years ago. We were going out for a year and half. We were incredibly close, we loved each other insanely, we spoke all day ...

My Wife Is Taking Stress Out On Me And Killing Our Marriage (Posts: 81)

CREATED: Oct 6 2014 at 22:46 by Ilovebooks RESPONDENTS: Everlasting / susiedq / Soulmate / Shivangi LAST POST: Oct 25 2014 at 18:50
I have been married to my wife for 11 year. For most of the time she has had an inability to deal with any stress. In our courting stage it seemed to be simple complaining, and never got out of hand. I wasn't around her 24/7 and she seemed to have other outlets. As our like together moved forward I became her sole outlet for all stress. She works a good job, and has since we have been together. So it expected that there will be situations t...

Confused And Hurt (Posts: 21)

CREATED: Oct 17 2014 at 04:45 by EBdiver RESPONDENTS: susiedq / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 25 2014 at 18:31
My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and we have a very strong relationship outside of the bedroom. We've talked about it, and realized I have a normal/slightly above average sex drive, and he has a low sex drive. I've explained that sex doesn't make a relationship, but it is a part of a relationship I'd like to have. During the first few months, he seemed like every chance he got, he wanted to. It has slowly decreased until...

Emotional Affair With Coworker (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Oct 23 2014 at 09:25 by chrsha63 RESPONDENTS: susiedq / manalone LAST POST: Oct 25 2014 at 13:46
I have work with this man for 19 years, he is 48 and married, and I am 51 and divorced. During this time we have been good friends and never has there been any attraction between the two of us at anytime (that was known). I recently added him to my FB friends, thinking as a coworker/friends as I have done with several others I work with. Just a friendly chat with him one night a few months ago, he started telling me how beautiful he has always...

Back With My Ex, Was It A Mistake? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 25 2014 at 05:47 by Castellano RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 25 2014 at 13:43
Hello everybody, I don't know what to do anymore, I hope some people here could give me their opinion, it would help me alot... About 1,5 year ago the girl I loved broke up with me after a long relationship. I could not understand why because she didn't give a clear reason for it. I was devastated. She was going to a far away country at the time for her education. When she broke up with me she said that if it was "real" love, that we would ge...

Wavering And Lost Trust (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 25 2014 at 11:17 by WildBlueYonder RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 25 2014 at 13:35
Hello All, I am a young women in the military (a reservist), I have been displaced a lot in the last year thanks to some intensive military training and being called to active duty service away from home. This Spring my boyfriend of 4 years proposed. The same weekend he had come across the country to visit me at my remote training location I was looking for pictures on his phone (selfies we had just taken) and came across an App I was fami...

Boyfriends Secrets (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Oct 24 2014 at 06:22 by olivekevin2012 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Lipzsealed / susiedq / n032213 LAST POST: Oct 25 2014 at 06:13
so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now and I lost my virginity to him and cosider him my first love. sex is extremely important to me as I am a devoted Catholic and he knows how I feel about it. we are cometely honest and open with eachother or so I thought until I recently found out he had sex with someone a few years ago but never told me that. I'm not sure how to go about confronting him but it pains me so much I j...

Confused (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 24 2014 at 19:19 by crazylady RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 25 2014 at 00:18
I met my husband four years ago when I was finishing college. He did not have a job or any motivation, except to smoke marijuana. I helped him get on his feet & move out of his parent's house. He eventually secured a construction job- same one he has today. Meanwhile, I worked 2 part-time jobs, volunteered & took curses for graduate school. We historically fought over money & the division of labor in our relationship. I now have a good job & am ...

Can I Be Second Best? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 24 2014 at 15:08 by redpoppy RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 24 2014 at 16:19
I really hope that i can get some clarity from putting this post up, i feel like im going crazy somtimes and am at constand battle with my emotions. Hears my story I met My Partner 14 years ago, i was 18 - he was 20. At this time we were both into going out alot and dabbling in drugs, we both go serious very quickly and althought our party days had not ended, we did calm down alot, to going out on weekends and smoking weed. we were together 6 a...

Open Relationship (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Oct 24 2014 at 00:15 by LivingConfused RESPONDENTS: Poet / manalone / Lipzsealed / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 24 2014 at 12:56
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years, and the topic of open relationships/experimenting/threesomes has come up periodically, mainly his idea but I'm open to it as well under certain conditions that we've discussed. 2 years ago, we both joined a dating site to meet new people who might be interested. My boyfriend ended up telling me that it wasn't a big deal to him and that he wasn't talking to anyone on the site. I later found out that...

Need To Give An Answer (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 19:10 by Aloke RESPONDENTS: susiedq / MYSTERY MISTRESS LAST POST: Oct 24 2014 at 05:12
Hi All, I am an IT Professional and have faced a problem with my girlfriend whom I proposed long back in my 8th standard. When I proposed to her, she told me to continue with studies and she also told me that it is better that we think of our career first. Listening to her, I concentrated on my career and went on to become an IT professional. Once I achieved my goals, I went back to her. However, I found out that she, by that time is already eng...

What To Leave On Someone's Grave On Their Birthday (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 22 2014 at 00:06 by Stems1987 RESPONDENTS: susiedq / Mike LAST POST: Oct 24 2014 at 03:39
Long story short, this family I know had an infant son die at birth. I visit his grave on occasion and leave him flowers, but Thursday will be the first birthday of his that I will leave him anything. I'd leave flowers on his grave, but I've already done so recently and I want to leave him something birthday-ish. Any ideas?...

Sad... (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Oct 23 2014 at 17:10 by Very-Sad-Man RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedq / luckbyanonymous LAST POST: Oct 23 2014 at 23:06
I have been with my wife now for 20 years. Married for 4 years now. we have 2 children 14 and 10. over the last year my wife has been drinking and it has got a hell of a lot worse over the last 6 months. just recently i came home to find her passed out in the kitchen. right to start from the beginning... I am no angel. I done a few stupid things over the years which caused my wife and i to separate for 7 months. but when we got back together we b...

Does He Like Me Or Is He Just Annoyed (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Oct 20 2014 at 22:58 by spidy6789 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / John Alex Clark LAST POST: Oct 23 2014 at 22:00
I was kinda seeing this guy. We had both agreed it was only a bit of fun. But then he started to annoy me by not always replying to messages, and when he did sometimes he would be flirty and other times just weird. I called him on it and basically told him that I wouldn't chase him and it was too much hard work and we should leave it there. He agreed I think. I wasn't the reaction that I wanted but I figured that I had done it to get a reaction ...

Hopeless (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Oct 23 2014 at 04:49 by Sydddvannny RESPONDENTS: KatChrysanthemum / susiedq / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 23 2014 at 18:54
Hello. I've never really done this before so I'm not really sure how this goes. I guess this is a cry for help. Lately I've been feeling sad and empty inside. I feel as though I'm a zombie walking around with no purpose. I live day by day with no emotions. The best thing in the world could happen to me and I would feel nothing. Recently, I was dumped by my boyfriend that I had been dating for a long time. Which my inability to get over him drov...

Complicated House Mate (Posts: 10)

CREATED: Oct 20 2014 at 14:44 by DukeofMalborough RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedq / LipzSealed LAST POST: Oct 23 2014 at 18:20
Okay all here's my problem. I'm back in college a month and the first night I had sex with my housemate across the hall. We got on very well and had been sleeping together for 3 weeks. She confuses me terribly though. She was a virgin before we got together and at times I feel real affection from her though I worry it is only because of this. While she can be very sincere and affectionate she can quickly joke about going out and kissing another...

Stuck In The Past. Help! (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 23 2014 at 04:53 by KatChrysanthemum RESPONDENTS: John Alex Clark / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 23 2014 at 14:50
I seem to be stuck on a past experience... It's driving me crazy and I think that sharing it with people who are not part of the situation may help me get some objective advice. Here's what's up: When I was a Freshman in high school over a decade ago, I met a guy we'll call Ken. I thought Ken and I were just really good friends, Ken wanted to be more than friends. Over the 4 years of high school, I dated his friends and he dated other girls, but...

Am I Paranoid Or Is It Intuition (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 23 2014 at 13:26 by redone RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 23 2014 at 14:41
so started seeing this guy in February, his ex of three years ago is still visiting him and texting quite frequently as in first thing in the morning and at lunchtimes etc. he said they where just friends, but for friends I see a lot of texts on his records all different times of days. They where supposed to break contact in april which could be true as I can see a phone call. Previous to all this if she was just a friend her boyfriend of near...

I'm Finding It Impossible To Move On (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 22 2014 at 18:40 by Justalittleconfuse RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 23 2014 at 01:23
So this is slightly long winded so i apologise in advance. At the start of last year I started talking to a boy in the year above,I'm not going to be cringey or cliche and say he was my soul mate because he probably isn't,but he's the closest I've come to one. We spoke and instantly clicked, online we could speak for hours on end about nothing and it would never get awkward,I saw him at school and we always used to smile at one another but I find...

15 Years And Countingcounting (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 22 2014 at 20:08 by Lovingme RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 23 2014 at 01:14
I have been in a faithful relationship with my children father for 15 years. We have our share of ups and downs. Recently we became homeless as both if us lost our jobs. We are now living apart. I havehave found myself enjoying the space. Well long story short I have reconnected with an exboyfriend and I realize how much I miss him. I have been unhappy with my current relationship for over two years now. I love him as the father of my children, b...

Third Relationship - Commitment Issues? (Posts: 9)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 17:29 by Rainbowgirl RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedq / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 22 2014 at 15:02
I am in my 3rd long term relationship, having been married at 21, had 2 children, divorced at 37, second marriage lasted 13 years, found myself single at 51. I have been in this relationship for 5 years, met him on a dating site. There was 60 miles distance between us, so it was weekends only up until this June.(we are living in my house at the moment while the renovation is going on) We had a break in 2011, as he had commitment issues at the beg...

How To Forgive Myself For Mistakes? How To Move On? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Oct 21 2014 at 05:01 by JonasD RESPONDENTS: John Alex Clark / LipzSealed / Red55 LAST POST: Oct 22 2014 at 02:54
Hello everyone! Thank you for helping! I've made many, many mistakes in my personal life in the past and (although I never hurt anyone but myself) I feel myself being defeated by the weight of all those years and opportunities that I've wasted. No matter how much I tell myself that past is past, I just can't let go of a specific time in my life when I was really happy, and I just can't seem to forgive myself for wasting so many opportunities. ...

Am I A Plan B? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 20 2014 at 21:30 by Gretchen13 RESPONDENTS: John Alex Clark / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 21 2014 at 21:40
My boyfriend and I are in our late 30's and have what I thought was a happy and secure relationship. We moved in together about 9 months ago, and I take care of paying our bills and our finances. We recently changed internet service providers, and when I got the first bill I went online to register the account to pay the bill. The provider said the account number had already been registered. I asked him for the log in info, and he couldn't rememb...

Was I Deluded? Am I Lost? Help (Posts: 76)

CREATED: Sep 15 2014 at 17:24 by stonetemple RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Hopingfor / RandomGaymer LAST POST: Oct 21 2014 at 11:54
Hey all. Me and a guy are friends for at least two years..... we text every couple of days we met a good few times for coffee, drinks as mates. He has a girlfriend I always new this and liked him as a friend. developed care for him but not in any other way other then a mate. I moved to a different town we still talk things are not going well in the relationship it is on and off. He has been to my new place and we were just mates doing what w...

Insecurities Over Porn (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 20 2014 at 16:49 by chill1981 RESPONDENTS: John Alex Clark / puff LAST POST: Oct 21 2014 at 06:53
Hi everyone, i don't really have anyone to get advice from so here seemed like a good idea. I have been with my partner on and off for 4 years we have an 16 month old daughter, at the beginning it was great, but his mum lives in spain and is sick so over the years its seemed like he's spent more time there than here. whilst in spain hes gotten quite lazy and put on quite a bit of weight. Despite all this i still love him with all my heart and ...

Lost (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 20 2014 at 14:40 by Annoymous1 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / puff LAST POST: Oct 21 2014 at 06:45
I was speaking to this boy for about a year and a half, I really believes he was the one but obviously he wasn't. Everything was great at first but then his true colours slowly started creeping through, he use to disrespect me, call me name, he made me feel like I wasn't good for no one but I would always ignore it cause I really liked him, and I knew he was a good person deep down, my friends would tell me to stay away from him but that's cause...

Best Friend Has Broken My Heart (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Oct 19 2014 at 02:50 by brokensp82 RESPONDENTS: susiedq / MYSTERY MISTRESS LAST POST: Oct 21 2014 at 02:07
Hi, i was in a relationship with my best friend and work colleague (well we never officially classified it as a relationship) over 8 mnths last year. I spent all my free time with him and we were sleeping together. I then found out he went on a date with someone at work. My whole world crashed. He knew how i felt about him as i declared my feelings for him. He said he cared a great deal for me but we cant be together but gave me no reason why. H...

What To Do? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Oct 19 2014 at 21:24 by lonelyblueeys RESPONDENTS: John Alex Clark / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 21 2014 at 01:37
My boyfriend and I started dating July 2, 2014, and from the first time we met the connection we had was totally amazing, the called our relationship and connection "kindred spirits". Over the first few weeks of our relationship, we were able to talk about things in our past, really bad things, things we have never told anyone, and come to find out our lives, are very much alike. We spent more and more time together, we did everything together, ...

My Boyfriend Slapped Me. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 20 2014 at 11:11 by Halenfoo RESPONDENTS: susiedq / Shivangi LAST POST: Oct 20 2014 at 14:18
Ive Been with this guy for almost 2 years now and he's been great apart from one big thing. He wants sex a lot and I'm not saying that i don't like having sex at all either.We both work 6 days a week, sometimes im really tired.but ok, I don't mind having sex 2 times a week but he wants at least 5 times. When we started moving in together, that was one of the big issues we had to deal with.But at the end of the day I just compromised cos I underst...

Relationship (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Oct 20 2014 at 00:38 by Coolchick RESPONDENTS: John Alex Clark / annabelle8 / manalone / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 20 2014 at 13:23
Hi I caught my (ex) boyfriend on a singles meetup group. I ended the relationship and didn't even give him a chance to explain. I been down this road multiple times with my previous boyfriends, so I wasn't interested in his excuse. We have been together almost 4 years. I ended up getting off his phone plan and he told me that he loves me dearly. What are your thoughts? If I get back together with him, how am I supposed to trust him? How ...

Later Realisation Of His Career And He Broke Up (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 19 2014 at 10:18 by kiara RESPONDENTS: John Alex Clark LAST POST: Oct 20 2014 at 04:17
I hav a boyfriend or had a bf..v loved each odr n lately he thnks he doesnt have a future in career n he cnt spoil mine.. N forced us to brkup.. He brokeup I didnt I told him.. I wil wait.. I cnt move on n go with odr person I realy love him n I cnt move on.. I msg him each day coz I cnt Live without him n den he talks soo rudely it hurts me.. He's vry vry rude.. I want my bf back cn u help me how?? He aloso has family problms.. He has a step d...

Torn And Hurt (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 19 2014 at 09:33 by Broken.... RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 20 2014 at 02:55
Jim and John ( not the real names at all). I was dating jim for almost three years but I broke up with him because I started to crush over my freind, John. I have been friends with John for 7 years and he told me that he's been wanting to date me for that amount of time but I never gave him the chance. Things with Jim weren't going too well but he's realized the mistakes and is begging for me to come back to him. Jim knows I like John yet he stil...

Infidelity (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Oct 16 2014 at 16:59 by Pod RESPONDENTS: susiedq / Soulmate / LipzSealed LAST POST: Oct 20 2014 at 02:02
I have been with my partner for nearly a year and we had what appeared to be a blissful relationship.Until I moved in and his behaviour changed he was always on the internet. He said it was the best relationship hes ever had but I checked his internet history and there were awful websites I.e. sex contacts websites and websites for local escort agencies.I was heartbroken and checked the websites and was appalled by what I saw and informed the ...

Is He Truly Over His Ex? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 19 2014 at 17:53 by Lostinme RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 19 2014 at 18:35
Is he really over her? We've been dating for three months. We started a month after his previous relationship ended (he wasn't clear about who ended it), this relationship was ten months long and she was his first love. She cheated multiple times and lied constantly (he is not my only source on this). I told him it was okay to talk about it, because I figured the pain of the betrayal was hurting so, as his girlfriend, I wanted to be there for him...

Husband Obsessed With Cam Girl (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Oct 16 2014 at 06:07 by Had Enough RESPONDENTS: LipzSealed / susiedq / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 19 2014 at 10:12
Where do I start. My husband has been visiting cam sites for around 3 years now. I only found out about this a while ago and by accident. This particular site, he visits several cam girls and chats for hours on line. He spends money on them and in return some of these girls put on shows (sex) for their members. Some of these girls have over a 100 guys in their rooms at any one time, but my husband is totally obsessed with one of these girls. He s...

Me And My Bf Love Each Other But He Is Nt Ready To Accept Me (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 11:03 by devilfrne RESPONDENTS: susiedq / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 19 2014 at 09:59
Me and my boyfriend dated for 1 year.we are studying in an complicated university.here passing final exam is must to get to next year.he was having health problem during exams.i was there with him all those days taking care of him like a mother and not studying for exams which is my lyf.when i knew he cannot pass in the exam i decided to get fail so that i can b thr wit him.bt unfortunately i passed evn i didnt write well in exam.and he failed.th...

The Best Friend Boundaries (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 19:38 by ConfusedGirl07 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 19 2014 at 02:03
Hi.. im not really good at expressing my feelings much but this has got to me so much I find myself having nightmares waking up crying and desperately want answers. . So here goes... my partner and I have been together for 3 and a half years now, our relationship isnt perfect but we have been to hell and back together and have a very strong bond. About 12 months ago we decided to pack up and move to the city where he grew up, its a great city and...

Very Confused, Should I Stay With Him?? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 18:35 by Notsostronganymore RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 19 2014 at 01:48
Sorry this will be a long post, my boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years now. We live together and there's talk of engagement. Anyway, after the first few months it became obvious he had a brain lesion(AVM) and this was obviously very stressful for us both. I was very supportive and attended every consultation, dropped everything when he needed me, understood when he told me he suffered horrendous migraines when we had sex and therefore...

Mistress? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 03:45 by itaintalwayssimple RESPONDENTS: LipzSealed / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 18 2014 at 14:22
I wss seeing a man on and off (3 times) over the last year and a half. I should mention that I am 32 and he is 55. When we first met and started seeing eachother, I was under the impression that this man was available. He told me several months later that he was split up with a woman that he had been together with for 6 years. What he told me was that the door was still open with her, and that down the road, they might explore getting back toget...

Alone And Want To Impress A Guy To Make Relationship (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Oct 17 2014 at 20:13 by kitty07286 RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 18 2014 at 14:19
HI i am in love with a guy, its one sided. actually we had a marriage procedure but with some reasons it is broken. but i love that guy since i talk to him. i m talking to him via whatsapp and calling him few times. sometimes he responds very nicely but most of the times he is ignoring me. i like him and love him. i dont know what he is doing. how should i impress him. i am falling in love with him. once i talked to him he said he needs a work...

Alternative Sex (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 07:34 by 808rae RESPONDENTS: Devilfrne / susiedq LAST POST: Oct 18 2014 at 14:09
I'm 23, and my boyfriend is 33. We've been having sex for almost 2 years now, and have been pretty serious for the last year. He's very advanced sexually and spiritually. We recently got into a discussion about 3-ways and/or couple swapping. I'm not very keen on the idea right now because the thought of him having sex with someone else makes me cry, but he's completely fine with me sleeping with someone else. He says he's confident enough to know...

Relationships (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 06:53 by Cinderella86 RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 18 2014 at 14:04
IVE POSTED BEFORE BUT I WANT MORE FEED BACK BEFORE I JUST GIVE UP Ill try and make this short and sweet so you dont have to read a tom. Basically, ive been in love with this guy for over a year now. We dated for a bit last year, but he ended it. Hes had 2 girlfriends since then, but they broke up. He is currently single but i have a feeling he may like my bestfriend. I really do like him but im not so sure i should tell him or move on or som...

Paranoid & Insecure (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 18 2014 at 12:24 by Hayzh1985 RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 18 2014 at 13:55
Hi, this is my first time on this site, I've just gone into a new relationship for the first time in 3.5 years. We've been together for 2.5 months. In the past I've been hurt a lot and cheated on, lied to and generally treated like crap. The guy I've met seems nice but doesn't always say the right things. I have major insecurity issues and issues over the way I look. Anyway my question is how do I over comet insecurities of always thinking he's ...

Wife And Her Ex (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Oct 17 2014 at 13:17 by treetopflyer RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedq / LipzSealed LAST POST: Oct 18 2014 at 06:19
Long storie short. 3 1/2 yrs into our marriage. My wife has continued to stay in touch with ex that she has had an on and off agin relationship gor 16 yrs. Up until 2 months ago...they where spending 5 to 12 hrs a week on the phone with each other...she went behind my back and seen him once that I know of and ran around with him for 2 days when we where separated because of this issue. I found a text to Him with a heart attached to it which ...

My Boyfriend Feels Pressured To Sleep With Me (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Oct 15 2014 at 14:50 by MeowGoldCat RESPONDENTS: susiedq / Soulmate / Itaintalwayssimple LAST POST: Oct 18 2014 at 04:00
So my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and have been living together for the past 4 months. Things have been great but for the past month it's like he lost his sex drive. Being honest it has bothered me and I've been trying to initiate it by physically doing something or straight up asking for sex. when the relationship started it used to be sex daily, But as we gained an emotional attachment for each other we got a more balan...

Using Me? (Posts: 24)

CREATED: Oct 7 2014 at 08:29 by Betsyxx RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / susiedq / BETSYxx / Super Sarah / Bettyxxx LAST POST: Oct 18 2014 at 02:09
I met a guy from a on line dating site. It was instant attraction for me. I see he still visits the site. Ive met him six times now, we have slepted together. Should he still used the site because he told me he likes me and saying he misses me. I dont think he should be on it if what he says is true. I was with him yesterday I checked the site and he had been on it that night. Am I getting used? I told him I want more then sex and he wants the sa...

Extended Family Question (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 17 2014 at 18:26 by daisy777 RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 17 2014 at 22:04
Hi, a little background: my parents(father and step-mom who adopted me when they married when I was young) don't have a lot to do with our family. They might come to visit once a year although we let them know we'd love to see them. The last time we saw both of my parents was last Christmas when we did the traveling. Our children are still home. Stepmom always has excuses for why they can't come yet they travel to see their other 2 children, othe...

How To Get Over It (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Oct 17 2014 at 04:05 by milso23 RESPONDENTS: susiedq LAST POST: Oct 17 2014 at 04:51
My boyfriend is in the military and we have been in a long distance relationship for the past year and a half. I had never even thought about the chance that he might fool around with other people but when i went there to visit him i saw some messages in his phone to his guy friend talking very explicitly about a girl that works at the gym he goes to. I asked him about it and he said it was just jokes and that all men do it when they talk to thei...

Should I Have This Lump Removed? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Oct 17 2014 at 00:10 by Stems1987 RESPONDENTS: susiedq / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 17 2014 at 01:16
I have some kind of a cyst in my chest on the top left side of my rib cage. It drives me insane. I found it one night in the shower and, worried that it might be cancerous, I had it looked at. It drove me nuts for anyone to touch it and I can't let anyone do so unless they have to. I feel like such a baby, but it hurts to touch it or rub it against anything. I'm also worried that it might be growing, which could be problematic. I've been advis...

I Just Want This Guy To Leave Me Alone!!! (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Oct 15 2014 at 04:53 by Rabbit RESPONDENTS: John Alex Clark / susiedq / Stems1987 LAST POST: Oct 17 2014 at 01:11
I'll try to make this quick. Back in August, I started seeing a guy called RW. I thought he was great at first, but then he turned out to be not so nice. At least that's how I feel. I feel like there's a lot I'd like you to know about RW, but all you really need to know is that I wasn't very happy most of the time I was seeing him. I felt a lot better when I started thinking about breaking it off in September. Long story short, in September, t...

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