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Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Help! I Need Some Serious Advice And I Want Opinions! (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Aug 24 2016 at 21:43 by Swaters3162

I'm not really sure where to begin and I apologize for the length of this, but I need to tell the whole story and there's a lot of background to my problem. I hope someone will read it through even though it's long. I've got a major problem. I'm 20 years old and my world was turned upside-down last November when I lost my best friend and soulmate. I'm not over it and I can't get over it (for reasons I will explain) and each day is becoming more difficult. I need to make some decisions in my life and although I have a choice, I feel I have no choice. I am scared, lonely, frustrated, beat down, ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Emptiness (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Aug 24 2016 at 20:03 by kbk27

I have never been in an actual relationship even I'm almost 26. I'm not sure what wrong with me. Of course, I like guys. I like a guy who is mature, funny and caring. As I get older by time, I don't need a good looking guy, just ok is enough. I like to start up a relationship where I know the guy enough to accept his personality of who he is, but as the same time, I'm afraid that if things don't work, I can lose a good friendship. I tried to meet many guys online, hanged out few months, however, I realized that I didn't have any feeling for them. They started to like me, but I don't know why I...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My Girlfriend And Animals Issue. Help. (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Aug 24 2016 at 16:44 by Grimes84

So I have a situation i would like some comments on. I have a gf (5months) a dog 8 yrs. he sleeps on my bed, but on the foot of the bed and on my side. ( causing no distribution to anyone) 3 months in after knowing this my gf flips out into rages, of uncontrollable anger, saying one time when the dog was laying next to me that thags her space he shouldn't be there. She's had horrible thoughts she said about the dog and me due to my not understanding of her rages bc the dog was not causing any disruption to our sleep. She later came at me saying its psychological and medical that she can't even...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Afraid To Tell Him I Want To Go To School.. Across The Country. (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Aug 23 2016 at 22:24 by anonuser777

My boyfriend is wanting to go into the military, and I support him very much. I would support him no matter what, because it is his life and "his choice." Now, I am afraid he isn't going to support me... I want to move from the East to the West to go to school, and that's thousands of miles away from here. How should I tell him? He gets upset easily and might even try and stop me... or even break-up with me for it.. How should I go about this?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category Three Years Together; One Child Together; She Has Two More Kids Living With Us (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 22 2016 at 20:17 by blazer RESPONDENTS: The Truth / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 14:51

Been living with my now fiancé for three years we have a beautiful 10-month-old baby boy together also we have her two boys ages six and four living with us full-time they call me dad. Which I excepted open arms from the day I met them. I got to say I wouldn't change anything in the world they are awesome I love kids and I make me happy. This last 10 months is been a really long and hard for us was a lot going on in courts between her and her ex and the kids; he's a deadbeat and wants absolutely no involvement whatsoever I say this because he never spends the time with the kids at all an...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Why Do I Keep Blaming Myself Even Though He Treated Me Bad? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 24 2016 at 04:33 by reggie RESPONDENTS: The Truth / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 14:43

I was with my sons father for over five years. Our son is 2 and we broke up six months ago. When I was pregnant I told him I did not want the pregnancy to be the reason we would get married but I would want us to get married so we could be a real family and he agreed that we would get married but not right away. Well that never happened and he made it clear many times that he had not intention of ever marrying me. A few months after my son was born he went back to the way he used to be. He would talk down to me(even in front of people), tell me it was my job to clean the apartment(meanwhi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Problem With Family (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 18 2016 at 07:59 by calm2016 RESPONDENTS: wintersun LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 11:03

I was born good, but made submissive and silent by bunch of men & women. Main issue started when i was 3 where i was taken to a bathroom by my aunt to show me her bathing. Then started series of events to my family that are unspeakable in public. I want to get into details of the issues faced by my family, which in turn has affected me emotionally, financially and socially. Most of the dealings outside my family was done without my knowledge, but my guess for it is there is a motive behind all the dealings. The motive of betraying family being extract money and home from my Grand father...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category What Is This Feeling? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 23 2016 at 04:05 by Sealgirl19 RESPONDENTS: The Truth LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 06:13

I've been feeling really useless lately. Mostly I've been just feeling like I'm there. I have no luck in finding a job, I feel like people are either too nervous to approach me or maybe I give off a vibe of "don't talk to me." and I haven't really had anyone knowly flirt with me. I've just been a mental wreck lately and it has me feeling ugly on that inside. I feel like I'm undeserving of love or maybe I've cursed myself because of my last relationship. Whatever these feelings are I just want them to go away soon....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category How To Eliminate Romance? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 23 2016 at 23:20 by 7yearsleft RESPONDENTS: The Truth LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 06:04

What are some hacks to eliminate romantic feelings in general? How can I live a life without wanting to be with a woman romantically? At 31, I've come to the conclusion that, that aspect of my life is not for me. The media doesn't help, social media definitely doesn't help, and just overall society doesn't help. I am constantly reminded everyday that I am not good enough. The unrealistic standards women have is just beyond me. I once cared, but not anymore. But not caring doesn't eliminate the feeling alone...What can I do? ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category How To Get A College Boyfriend (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 24 2016 at 02:26 by songbird53 RESPONDENTS: The Truth LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 05:34

I'm going off to a big public college in a few months and my studies are my main focus but I'd like begin a relationship if possible. I have some but quite minimal relationship experience. I suffer from pretty bad anxiety so I'm not the best at opening up to people. Also, although I'm pretty and friendly, I'm not necessarily the type of girl who stands out. I fear that I'll be lost in the crowd and ultimately end up alone or that nobody will find me worthwhile. I know that a relationship will come along eventually and I can't force it, but at this point I'm tired of waiting. Given the...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Need Some Advice (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 24 2016 at 03:13 by Sanak RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 04:03

First of all, dorry for my bad english its not my first language. Ok, i do not have a single friend that give a damn about my problems, and my family got biggers problems. So, i was deeply in love with that girl, we were in relationship for a years and the love was fadding. I got some attention from an other girl that was really sweet to me and then i fall i fake love with her (for attention that i didnt get from my girlfriend). I left my girlfriend because i wasnt able to play on her back, now im in a relationship with the second girl. But only because i didnt want to break her heart. Beca...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Not Sure If To Stay Or Break Up (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 22 2016 at 01:38 by littleraven RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 03:59

Hello, I'm a 25 year old who has had a relationship for almost three years with the most wonderful guy. He's kind, smart, supportive, loving, caring and a very good person and we mostly share the same values. Three years in, I don't know what I feel anymore, the "honeymoon", the 'in love' stage ended, for me, six months into the relationship. I shortly after begun questioning my feelings for him, and if he is someone I can be with until I die. I think I love him though, but it rarely surfaces. I haven had that love feeling for him in a loooooooong time. I've had it two times in one year......

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category He Gets Mad When I Say No.. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 23 2016 at 22:15 by anonuser777 RESPONDENTS: Sanak LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 03:23

My current boyfriend gets very upset or mad when I say no to him. Whether it'd be to sex, or hanging out with him (I do almost every single day), he gets mad. He's also very big on guilt-tripping me. What can I do or say to stop this?...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What To Do? Really Need Some Advice. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 24 2016 at 01:09 by wherewegoing RESPONDENTS: songbird53 LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 02:01

Hey guys. Hope you all good. Got a bit of a problem here and i could really use your help. I'll try to get straight to it. To start i met my ex in 2012, first relationship for both of us we were in college. we got together and had a really great relationship for about 3 years. We loved each other very much and became the closest you could imagine 2 people getting, we shared and talked about everything and it was amazing. We were best friends, just incredible. Problem came after college, we couldnt see each other much like we use to in school and at the end we grew apart and that was wh...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category I Can't Stop Thinking About Him.... (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 23 2016 at 18:25 by vanquish75 RESPONDENTS: Scopes LAST POST: Aug 23 2016 at 23:00

Hi I'm looking for advice on how to get someone off my mind...I'm married have been for 10+ years and have never strayed or even thought about it. But lately I can't seem to get a friend off my mind. He's always in my thoughts in my dreams I just can't seem to let it go. He and I work in the same establishment we don't work together often but always seem to be in each other's orbit. We have worked at the same place for many years together but lately it seems were together all the time... It just seems that he spends way to much to time in my "bubble" always kinda hovering. And for so...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Is It Enough For Us To Continue Together? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 22 2016 at 05:01 by littleraven RESPONDENTS: Love Story / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 23 2016 at 14:35

Hello, I'm a 25 year old who has had a relationship for almost three years with the most wonderful guy. He's kind, smart, supportive, loving, caring and a very good person and we mostly share the same values. Three years in, I don't know what I feel anymore. The "honeymoon", the 'in love' stage ended, for me, six months into the relationship. I shortly after this six month honeymoon phase begun questioning my feelings for him, and if he is someone I can be with until I die. I think I love him though, but it rarely surfaces. I haven had that love feeling for him in a loooooooong ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What To Do? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 23 2016 at 08:37 by chris-6519 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 23 2016 at 14:32

So, I am finally willing to I except that I am still in love with my ex and that I want her back. After dating for 3 months it has become clear that I am not over her yet. I started texting her 2 weeks ago. She called me back to see if she could get her stuff from my house. We met and talked for about 15 minutes by her car. We hugged and she left. I sent her a few texts since but her reply mostly consist of; lol...i hope all is well, thank you and have a good night. There is nothing in her replies that would make me think she's interested. She's friendly but distant. At first she wanted to be ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Can A Never-ending Relationship Come To An End? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 21 2016 at 14:36 by tinatina RESPONDENTS: NewJack LAST POST: Aug 23 2016 at 13:50

Two years ago I’ve had incredible, earthshaking sex with a married man. The very next thing he did was to disappear. The problem is, he is a big part of my life since he is my very first lover, we’ve known each other for 20 years now. When we were young we split up but never stopped seeing each other, although we had relationships with different people. He once told me that all the other came and went, but I was the actual long lasting relationship in his life. Funny thing is, I felt the same way. At one point he developed a heroine addiction but rehabilitated rather fast. These year...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Lost In My Marriage/relationship (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 21 2016 at 16:42 by Evan RESPONDENTS: Scopes LAST POST: Aug 23 2016 at 04:27

Still marriage but I fear not for long. My wife and I been together for 9years married for 4years. Everything was going fine until couple nights ago I did not respect her decision to stay home and went out to watch football. Long story short she felt disrespected which I can understand and have now excuse. No cheating or abuse or anything like that, I just ignored her feeling about going out in this particular night. The dirvorce conversation came about when she told me the next night that she going to in her words "do her". Divorce has come up in the past but with counseling and communication...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Did Her Message Really Mean It's Not You, It's Me Which Means It Is Me.. (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 21 2016 at 03:37 by JamesBrewny RESPONDENTS: NewJack LAST POST: Aug 23 2016 at 03:31

For the last month and a half, I had been in steady contact with a girl from tinder that had similar interests to me and was beautiful. We effortlessly chatted for a day before I asked and received her phone number. I was vacationing in Las Vegas when I initially we initially started talking, but we are both from the same city elsewhere. After vacationing in Vegas for a week, I went to Maui for 2 more weeks. We were talking semi regularly for the entire duration of the trip. We had some flirting moments over text but nothing sexual. For example things like "You look beautiful" she responds "yo...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Let Her Go And Move On? Mixed Signals! (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 22 2016 at 23:07 by JamesBrewny RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Aug 23 2016 at 01:50

Background story: There is a girl I met from tinder that I had been in steady pleasant occasionally romantic contact with for a month prior to us meeting ((we couldn't meet sooner because I was out of town for 3.5 weeks)). Anyways, just prior to us meeting she had mentioned that she had had multiple breakdowns at work because of her boss. So when she flaked the first meeting, I didn't take it personal because I figured she has shit going on. Besides when she texted me after mentioning her work stress and problems she still showed an interest in me just in the way she texted me. We met up und...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Girlfriend Is Pregnant, Don't Know What To Do.... (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 12 2016 at 20:06 by pragmaster RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Soulmate / wintersun LAST POST: Aug 22 2016 at 22:28

Hi everybody, I need help with an issue I am facing. I don't know what to do. Basically I got a nasty divorce two years ago and about a year later I met a wonderful woman. We dated for about 5 months and when I was going to break-up with her she told me she was pregnant. I went to the ultra-sound with her and yup she's 6-7 weeks preggo. She is pretty damn amazing and for sure I would want her as the mother of my child over anybody else. I am 27 and she's 40. That part is okay, but the real issue is me. We were going to break up because she time after time she lashes out at me for not...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Should I Continue? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 21 2016 at 15:29 by mama T RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 22 2016 at 19:05

in a relationship whereby he doesn't appreciate me,been dating more than a year now but yet he hasn't bought a single thing for me,he keeps promising and failing,his attention has drastically reduced,sometimes when I call he says he is busy ,sometimes he doesn't call me at all,am d kind of person that wants to feel love even when am going through a lot(I av sickle cell anaemia) and the relationship is a distance one I love him and I know he loves me in his own way or am I asking for too much what do I do pls. ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Moving In Together After Online/long Distance.. (Posts: 222)

CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 10:48 by nana RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / staceyjones079 / luvbird LAST POST: Aug 22 2016 at 18:42

first of all hello and thx for having me here..i kinda feel bad for not getting more info and looking through other articles before my bf moved to my country..so my questions is, what if we fucked it all up? i dont even know where to start.. 1.for me it was waaay to quick with the physical part so i felt extremly overwhelmed for not setting boudaries which made me very mad because i didnt tell him on time and when i did (took me some time to figure it out) he took it way too personally 2. the paperwork took us extremly long, we didnt rly take care of anything before he came to here..we ...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Feeling Down (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Aug 21 2016 at 17:00 by MeMyselfAndHim RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 22 2016 at 17:50

Hy there I came across this page yesterday when I was feeling really down. My mum has been having some problems in her speech and in one leg and the neurologist wanted a head tomography. We already know something is wrong, because they saw smth on it, but not sure what it is exactly since they did use contrast this time. They'll have to repeat it. I feel very lonely, even though I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters and we are close, but my dad died in january, and one of my brothers almost died of a ruptured aneurism. My dad died of a brain tumor, so everything related to the brain... now that...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Marriage Confusion. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 22 2016 at 02:03 by doggiesarebest RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Love Story LAST POST: Aug 22 2016 at 15:48

Hi, First post ever here and new to website entirely. I just am feeling so lost and confused that I am looking for new eyes/ears to hear me out and hopefully give me new insight as I feel that my family/friends are probably tired of me going back and forth with my thoughts/problems. To summarize: I have been having recurring doubts about my marriage, and it's bugging the crap out of me. I have been married three years. We dated for 1.5 before we married so have known each other for about 4.5 years. When I met my now husband, I had just spent about a year getting over someone. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category The Joker (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 21 2016 at 21:35 by anonuser777 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 22:58

So, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. We met over Facebook (although we went to the same high school together). I remember seeing him once before we actually started talking, and he was in another relationship with this girl in my physics class. It was graduation day, and I was looking for my parents. My eyes scanned the crowd, and then I met his eyes. He stared at me from afar, while standing next to his girlfriend. I thought it was odd, and I looked away to continue searching for my parents. He wasn't wearing a cap and gown, so I assumed he was either a g...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Family Problem (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 14 2016 at 16:57 by PamParamPamPam RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 15:18

i have lived for 21 years. most people will probably shrug a problem when someone cant endure their family as a baby crying over a split milk and i am fine with that... i just wish to share a bit of my problem here. i grow up in a family of 8, which consist of 2 parents, 2 elder brothers and 3 elder sisters and me. My father loves to gamble a lot once, and only cease doing it until we reach a break point in our economy. when he was finally stop gambling he reach a fairly old age of 50++ and stop working. he boss everyone around inside the house and will be angry if he was denied something...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category To Stay Or To Go (Posts: 16)

CREATED: Aug 14 2016 at 02:34 by arkahle RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 13:30

I recently found a facebook message sent from my live in girlfriend to another man. The message reads "Hiya...I tried texting you after practice but for whatever reason it didn't go through. Happy Tuesday!" the next message was sent the following day one hour before I was home from work. It read "Was going to see if you were up for some afternoon delight, but then I realized 2 things: 1. I just got outa work and I'm a sweaty mess, and 2. that's just downright devilish." With a little devil icon. We have lived together for the last 4 years. She has a six year old son that lives full time with u...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Co Worker, Strange Motives?? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 10 2016 at 22:24 by hippieluv RESPONDENTS: manalone / NewJack LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 12:59

I don't really know where to start...Well I have been working with a married colleague for about two years now, and the last month or so I have noticed that he has been more and more around wherever I'm working and talking to me. If I'm doing something, he'll come over and be in the same area where I am and start talking to me. Whenever I pass him, he says my name and talks to me, and a lot of times he will "accidentally" brush up against me (coincidence???) He is always super friendly to me, even when you can tell he is in a bad mood, and always gets upset when work is done for the day and I ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Growing Resentful Of Lazy Husband (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Aug 20 2016 at 13:15 by Michelle1030 RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / susiedqq / NewJack LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 12:58

I have been married for 10 years and have 2 beautiful daughters. My marriage has been filled with many ups and downs (infidelity, intimacy issues, money troubles). Nonetheless,and with the help of a lot of prayer and counseling, I have chosen to stay with him despite these things. I have no doubt that he really loves me.I would venture to say that he loves me more than I love him. Throughout most of our marriage, I have been the primary bread winner at times making 2-3 times as much as he does. I was recently laid off my job and am looking for employment. He, however, seems to be content wi...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category I Feel Lost (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 21 2016 at 12:44 by MotorBourne RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 12:53

I've been talking to this girl for over a year now, we established a relationship only for it to crumble away slowly..It's tearing me apart, she said we are just friends now..then she asked me if it's okay for her to go on dates with other guys and I lost it, I just couldn't look at her or think about her without crying..I just don't know what to do anymore....

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category What Should I Do (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 21 2016 at 00:27 by AlessiRocks RESPONDENTS: JamesBrewny LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 12:35

I met this girl a few weeks back and since I can not get her of my mind. She just looks like the perfect one and it's making me go nuts because I know that a relationship would be very hard since she lives far away, I have only spoken with her once and she speaks another language. Even though I like her im not sure if I will be able to make anything happen from this. I try and forget her but she just keeps coming back and everyday I notice signs that relate to something but I keep thinking that its just my mind playing tricks on me. For a bit of story we met online and spoke and I myself in...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Unhappily Married ,trapped And Crave Happiness With Someone New (Posts: 6)

CREATED: Aug 20 2016 at 22:03 by Lucky48 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / manalone / NewJack / viola / comfortablynumb / Scopes LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 06:02

Ive been married 27 years ,had 4 children now grown , my husband became possesive,aggressive,controlling ,abusive,voilent to me as soon as we had our own house.He has made my life hell,i covered most of to everyone ,avoided having friends and became isolated.We have no relationship,looking at him makes me feel sick ,we dont have sex we just basically live in the same house.He wouldnt ever leave as i work and pay all the bills he has epilipsy and plays on it for sympathy. I dont love him , i know i have nver loved anyone and feel now i really want to.I found myself looking at guys ,wearing ma...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Are We Done After 20 Years + (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 11 2016 at 11:35 by London111 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Axeman LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 04:41

Hello everyone and thank you for allowing me to post and for your reading and thoughts. I guess my relationship fits the model of so many and after 20 years + together, I feel the end maybe near. We are both 55 and have recently retired from our jobs to work together as self-employed. It really is a 24 / 7 scenario. If the truth be told, our intimate relationship ended 10 years ago and we became like brother and sister. Our love of companionship was still there. We have no children and are not married. We legally own 50 % each of the house. We did begin to bicker over the Years and ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Try Or Give Up? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 20 2016 at 15:58 by Leigh228 RESPONDENTS: viola LAST POST: Aug 21 2016 at 03:37

Me and this boy have been talking for a few weeks now and we just clicked instantly, when we're together time seems to fly past and i feel like ive known him my whole life. Committment scares me and the thought of someone bringing so much happiness into my life scares me too. Ive told him that im starting to gain feelings for him and he says that he feels the same. Last night i found out that he not only speaks to me but also speaks to a couple of other girls aswell, i confronted him with this and he replied with "I dont speak to them how we speak, their just temporary" however he seems to spe...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category He Said I Will Be Happy Without You (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 20 2016 at 13:53 by Amms RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 20 2016 at 19:47

My bf loves me to core- he has done extra ordinary things for me-but recently i m Disturbed by his behavior. He was the one who asked me not to work after graduation he was paying my all expenses then i was stuck between decision to study or do job (study was my love and even for job i had discussed or asked pernission several times but he never agreed-personally i didnt want to do it as well so i agreed).One day he said to me "you should do something.Even if u want to do job u can" .i got offended by this.i said do you think women at home are just useless they dont do anything? U should wo...

Health advice forum category advice forum category Psoriasis Sufferers. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 20 2016 at 18:59 by Lee249 RESPONDENTS: Richard B LAST POST: Aug 20 2016 at 19:08

I submitted a thread entitled this and it hasn't gone through. Thanks a lot! Only took me about half an hour. Not gonna re-send because it's not worth it. ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Trust Issues (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Aug 17 2016 at 23:42 by Blackie99 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 20 2016 at 16:50

I have problems trusting my husband. We are together 6 years, the first year was was do happy with absolute no trust issues. I was probably a little innocent really when I think back. First thing that happened was a naked woman on his laptop. I was so upset and hurt as I thought he only had eyes for me. I knewa girl had sent it to him as she had taken it on her phone. I felt sick. Second thing he did was contact his ex. We had a row when I found out he was watching porn. My previous boyfriends probably did it but I didn't care when I didn't know about it. Because I was suspicious I check...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum category Issues With Myself. (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 17 2016 at 05:02 by Winsons RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / meepers LAST POST: Aug 20 2016 at 15:12

So for the most part, I've always been an invert. I've always been that shy kid in the back of the class that no one really knew. I don't ever have the most friendly look on my face to where someone would just come up and talk to me. I've made a lot of strides since getting out of high school, I've opened up a lot more but yet I still have a huge.climb ahead of me. I just don't know how to start honestly. I really don't have any friends, more like aqquantencies. I spend most of my time at home or in the bar, when I'm drunk then that's when I open up of course. But when I'm sober I always get a...

Long Distance Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Am I Overreacting? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 20 2016 at 14:01 by meepers RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 20 2016 at 14:51

So, I've been dating my very first boyfriend for nearly half a year. We've been long distance for nearly three months, and I would like to say our relationship in that regard is pretty good: We have no worries about the other person cheating. And in person, our relationship is excellent! We're polar opposite people, but for some reason it just works. However, the thing is, along with being polar opposites, our communication styles are completely different. I want to talk to him frequently: calls, text, facebook, whatever. I want to continue the lovey-dovey thing we had going on in person. H...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Wife Wanting Friendship Outside Of Marriage (Posts: 24)

CREATED: Aug 10 2016 at 06:08 by Canadiangal RESPONDENTS: Scopes / RianaFinland / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 20 2016 at 14:46

Hi everyone, this is my first post, so bear with me. I'm in my late 20s and been married to my husband for 5 years, together for 10 years. We've been trying for a baby since last fall and it's just not in our cards right now and it's getting really frustrating. All my friends around me are on their 2nd kid now and I've only wanted to have a baby since I was 4 years old. Other little girls dreamed of weddings, I dreamt about babies! Especially my husband's now. For whatever reason though, I've been wanting to talk to other men and am attracted to other men a lot more so because of baby ...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category 35 Weeks Pregnant And Heartbroken (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 19 2016 at 14:10 by Shellyxm86 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 22:24

This is some story so ill try and keep it brief, Back to the start. My ex and father to my 3 children ages 12,11 and 8 i had been with him since i was 17 and for 12 years, id say we grew apart but there was things that happened within our relationship that added to the breakdown, he kissed my sister pretty early on and nothing was ever the same again, although we went on to have my current youngest child. The last few years of that relationship were not good, i was not happy and i dare say he wasn't either. So June 2013, i started talking to this man on a phone app at random, at first i wasn't...

Relationship advice forum category advice forum category Men Confuse Me? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 18 2016 at 06:29 by Aidyn RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 16:53

I met a boy named Caleb 2 years ago, we immediately clicked and had obvious feelings for each other. We talked so much when we could, and I'd give him little drawings and he'd laugh and tell me they were cool. I was so happy to meet him, like it was destiny for some reason. Its like, how a boy so perfect, managed to live in the same state, and out of hundreds of schools, we attended the same one. It was surely destiny, or luck. After all, he does share multiple things with my family. Like how the first two letters of his name is the same as my moms name. His middle name is the same as my...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category So Confusion With Mixed Signals? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 19 2016 at 00:05 by Thisguyhelpneeded RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 16:50

Hi guys so I got a question. Nothing as serious as you would normally find just the usual romance type stuff. Anyway I have been talking to this girl on Tinder (I know). Now usually I don’t expect much from tinder but for the last week we have been talking quite a bit. She is a foreign girl who hasn’t made many friends here so is quite lonely. Anyway we start talking and after a while she starts asking questions that I find very strange, like my height, dating history and so on stuff that I don’t really find normal if you just want to ‘make friends’ that her profile st...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Online Dating-commitment (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Aug 15 2016 at 22:06 by anita4589 RESPONDENTS: KrissyRhae / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 15:52

Hello there who can help me with my situation? I am 41 years old and three years ago I met a nice guy online (now 51 years old). I was just playing around but it turned out he's such a wonderful person. We dated a while and later got intimate. I fell for him and him for me so he claimed. He was in a bitter divorce involving custody and money issues. After getting sexually involved he claimed he's not ready for a relationship because he has issues. A situation I was aware of when I met him. He said he feels he will contact other girls and he does not want to hurt him. I understood and gi...

Other advice forum category advice forum category Lost And Alone (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 14 2016 at 11:12 by lxa01 RESPONDENTS: Vivien / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 15:27

I don't know exactly what I expect to get out of this, but I hope that some good may come from it. I do have one request and that is to avoid mentioning Jesus or God. I have nothing against religion but all the advice I get mentions religion and I feel that doesn't work for me ( I am not an atheist however). I apologize if this post ends up being a little long. I am a 22 year old college student. I am at the point in my life where I feel uncertain about my future. I know many people my age feel this way as well, but I can't help but think my situation is a lot different than that of the ave...

Children & Young People advice forum category advice forum category Worst Day Of My Life (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 17 2016 at 15:02 by HelpD RESPONDENTS: momof13yrold / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 15:02

I am a 13 year old boy.Today I was cycling with a friend and I managed to get a flat tire, whilst trying to fix it, my phone fell in the water. After fixing it i went to the City centrcentre to see of my phone could be repaired. When i was there i realized i didnt have my wallet with me anymore. In the road back home my tire was flat again. My parents are now really mad, cause I broke my phone, my bike and lost my wallet. Wat dan I do to make amends???...

Disability advice forum category advice forum category How To Get People Past My Disabilty So I Can Integrate? (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Aug 1 2016 at 05:04 by ulrichburke2 RESPONDENTS: Hershell / ulrichburke / Cherie / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 14:59

Dear Anyone. This is a general problem which I could happily ramble on about, with examples, all day - but I'm not going to (Phew! They cry.) So the following's just tips of very large, lifelong icebergs - I've had this problem for nearly half a century. You see I'm disabled - Cerebral Palsy, Hydrocephalus, Dyspraxia, Asperger's, Caetextia (wonder I'm alive, let alone notin a wheelchair!) And the first thing people see is The Face. Yes, it's a little deformed. It gets me called 'Frankenstein', 'Notre Dame', 'Excuse Me They Just Wheelclamped Your Spaceship', 'Harpic (clean round the...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category Timewasters (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 18 2016 at 14:17 by nbjordan RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 14:26

I've been on dating site for awhile now talking to guys. You find a guy that you like and you attempt to meet him, 1 little thing doesn't sit right with them and they hit you with the "sorry I don't think this is going to work". It's happened to me many times now and I'm getting sick of my feelings being hurt and being let down. A guy turned me down because he didn't feel comfortable with me making the effort of traveling 30 minutes for a quick coffee. How do I avoid this?...

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