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Need Advice ?? Real Rough Patch In My Relationship At The Minute (Awaiting first response)|
Basically I have been with this girl for over a year a year now she's still in her teens (I'm 20). Recently she has had a lot of stuff going on one thing upsetting her has been her ex who cheated and made her feel like complete crap to put it briefly. Anyway she ha some other things going on and recently she has been so distant she will ignore my messages and we hardly speak. When we do speak it like everything is normal we are still how we was with each other before all this stuff happened and got dragged up. I just need some help with, what should I do ? Because...
Topic created Mar 10 2014 at 21:01 by Kdoyle
Wife Cheating (Posts: 2)|
I recently found out that my wife is cheating on me. But it's not as straight forward as confronting her and ending it. We have a young child 18 months old who has just been diagnosed with leukaemia. My wife and I also work together and the guy she's cheating with also works there. I am stuck on what to do. For the sake of my child and to be strong for her at this time and not cause any friction that might harm her recovery do I say anything and end it or carry on for the sake of my child...
Topic created Mar 10 2014 at 20:52 by wolfy - Last post Mar 10 2014
Cheating Husband... (Posts: 9)|
Ok I'm married 10yrs we have 6 children our relationship has been good but always not much trust ... But this New Years I found out he tried to cheat on me.. Since this we tried to work it through but I'm finding myself check his Facebook I just can't trust him he has been talking to girls on Facebook nothing major but I am so paranoid he found out I checked his page and changed his password which has made me more paranoid ... Please can any one help I've no friends I can talk too...
Topic created Mar 8 2014 at 11:16 by Headsamess - Last post Mar 10 2014
Need Some Honest Opinions (Posts: 8)|
My husband and I have been in counseling for a year. During the course of therapy, it has come out that my husband is wanting to experience all sorts of sexual things. A threesome with 2 girls...which I assume is most guys fantasy ;) but he also wants to try other things like being with a man and being involved in, for lack of a better term, an orgy where there's a lot of people just having sex. Through counseling we've determined that he is not bisexual or homosexual. He just sees "parts" and wants the sex act with a part. He is not attracted to men and does...
Topic created Mar 9 2014 at 05:28 by kenna37 - Last post Mar 10 2014
8 Years And Still Trying (Posts: 3)|
So this is going to be a long post but i feel like i so badly just need to get it all out and have some advice from an outside perspective. My fiance and I have been together for 8 years and have a 6 year old child. Things from the start have never been easy for us. We started dating when we were young, had a baby young, finances have never been easy and then our daughter got chronically ill around her 3rd birthday. I know I have not always been the easiest person to deal with but neither has he. He has always had a weird drinking problem and by weird I mean he do...
Topic created Mar 10 2014 at 16:43 by amyc1085 - Last post Mar 10 2014
Does He See Me As A Friend Or Is He Not Used In Relationships? (Posts: 4)|
So I have been dating my boyfriend for 7-8 months now. He told me that he barely had any serious relationships before, mostly casual and none lasted long. He said I'm his first proper relationship and that he's done things with and for me that he hasn't done for his exes. The problem is that because of his lack of experience and maybe his age (28) he panics about the intimacy and his decreasing desire to do it. The truth is that all these months we barely had any intimacy anyway (and I mean u can count the times with your fingers) due to circums...
Topic created Mar 10 2014 at 15:33 by Ladyyenna - Last post Mar 10 2014
Someone Please Help (Posts: 2)|
Ok, I need some honest opinions. I have been dating a guy for four months. We went to high school together but never really talked. We went out early last year a couple times but I didn't really like him. Later last year he asked me out and we really hit it off. In the beginning he was everything I wanted .. and more. He made me feel like the prettiest and only girl in the world. Recently, I feel like he is just changing. We are very different. He is a lot more outgoing than I am but I feel that opposites attract so its not really a problem. We have different opin...
Topic created Mar 10 2014 at 14:45 by Nikki91 - Last post Mar 10 2014
Do I Need To Break Up (Posts: 4)|
i am in a relationship with a girl sice 2010. initially i was floored by her. but after some time it feels the spark has gone. i dont njoy talkin to her at all, whereas she desperately waits for my call.i keep finding faults with her , like her underconfidence , introvert nature. she loves me a lot. i kw wat i m doing is wrong but i need to think about myself also. i dont think that i will be proud of her at any point of time after marriage. we are from india , where parents take a big decision for marriage. both our parents have problems with each other. sometim...
Topic created Mar 9 2014 at 08:06 by funfunjaguar - Last post Mar 10 2014
Wife Wants Children Someday, Husband Doesn't = Both Unhappy (Posts: 6)|
Hello, I will try to explain as much as I can without waffling. Please when reading this don't jump to the instant conclusion that I am a turd, or if you do then respectfully keep it to yourself. I know the situation that we are in is less than ideal for both if us and it's just a sad place to be. I met my now wife 4 years ago at uni, our relationship was a rush of romance, meals out and piss ups with mates, we have lit was amazing. We got married a couple of years ago, before we married we had a sort of discussion about kids but we obviously weren't clear enough...
Topic created Mar 4 2014 at 15:52 by anon111 - Last post Mar 10 2014
Letter To My Mother (Posts: 11)|
I have drafted the following letter to my Mother, its self-explanatory really just need some views and opinions before I post it!". My Dear Lovely Mother...
I have been thinking about this letter for some considerable and significant time now, my problem has been trying to write it in the right frame of mind, and of course to minimize any unnecessary and mangled hurt (not easy at all).
I do appreciate, that you will need someone to read it to you, which may be a good thing; you should not be on you're own when the contents are revealed in full, and of cours...
Topic created Mar 4 2014 at 17:23 by jim58 - Last post Mar 10 2014
Stalking (Posts: 5)|
hi,why do some people stalk others,is it harmless or should be taken very seriously,what should be the course of action with a male stalker thanks...
Topic created Mar 9 2014 at 14:12 by Peace - Last post Mar 10 2014
Non Supportive Partner (Posts: 2)|
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and we've had our ups and downs. He has put on a lot of weight and blames it on being comfortable. I am a dedicated gym goer and want to get out of my childcare job and into the fitness industry. He knows I hate my job but he was made redundant a few months ago (with a good payout) and is struggling to find work. We are not going broke with money in the bank yet he does not support my dreams at all. He thinks I am being stupid trying to follow my passions. I intend on keeping my current full time job while stud...
Topic created Mar 10 2014 at 09:49 by Arabella211 - Last post Mar 10 2014
Im In Love With Previous Boyfriend But Not With My Current One (Posts: 5)|
I am still in love with my previous boyfriend, who's wife had left cos she has bipolar, with mood swings, demeaning manner, and impulsivity borne out of confusion, ie: she's not happy with herself (I've met her and had character references from his family) and then she went back to him. We are such close friends and have an emotional relationship, but with boundaries. The problem I now have is that an old boyfriend who has come back on the scene, has seeked me out, and I was eager to rekindle the relationship, yet I know now that although he is great and has a ...
Topic created Mar 9 2014 at 20:03 by Kat123 - Last post Mar 10 2014
Should I Sleep With Other Couple? (Posts: 6)|
I've been with my boyfriend for over 10 years now. 2 years ago I found out he had cheated on me, having a 6 month affair with a girl he used to work with. This very nearly destroyed me, I took an overdose and started self-harming again, feeling worthless. We decided to stay together and try to work things out, and it's taken 2 years for me to get any confidence back and to a stage where we are friends again, but we have no sex life. I have tried to engage but he never returns my affections and I'm terrified of being rejected again so I back off. Recently I started...
Topic created Mar 5 2014 at 18:23 by Specs - Last post Mar 10 2014
Bad Start??? (Posts: 4)|
hi , i am in a dilemma of sorts with a guy. The facts are that we know each other 5 years or so . We met in college , we always seemed to get along and banter flirtation , i was newly single from a 9 year relationship so I was kinda overwhelmed by new beginnings it was a positive time. We just clicked, thought he was gorgeous really cute. I call him my Buddha, because he looks like buddha. After masters finished we remained friends, we met a good few times for lunch. We text up and down just having a laugh. He had a girlfriend which I didn't know about , it simpl...
Topic created Mar 8 2014 at 17:43 by Mountain - Last post Mar 10 2014
Help! It's Been 10 Years And We Can't Move On! (Posts: 2)|
This is the first time I've done anything remotely like this and I know this is going to be one heck of a story but I feel I have to tell someone the WHOLE story, even if it is a novel, usually I'd ask my best mate but she's actually terrible at advice and even worse now she's married, that and she doesn't understand as she wasn't around when all this went down. I need some help in understanding what is going on and what people think of the situation themselves (I hope you understand but I'm gonna use fake names here, it will be made clear). About 10 years ago whe...
Topic created Mar 10 2014 at 02:07 by Faithlily - Last post Mar 10 2014
Need Helpful Advice (Posts: 4)|
I was dating a women that I knew from work. It was going extremely well the first several months. We were always on the same page. Then I got a really good job offer out of state. Anyway, we discussed it and said we would try the long distance relationship method. Neither of us have ever tried it before. We said if we could make it through this, we could make it through anything. So here's it is. Our relationship started getting rocky because of my mood swings I guess you can say. I did tell her that I had this problem before we started dating. The first few times...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 05:57 by Scarface80 - Last post Mar 10 2014
Should I Leave Or Keep Pushing On? (Posts: 4)|
Okay so here's my issue! I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now. We met through a mutual friend. When we met it was love at first sight. I mean like crazy ridiculous love! I'm 32 he's 30. We both have children from previous relationships.he use to have drug problems but I helped him get clean and enroll in school full time.So here's the issue. His ex is CRAZY!!! I mean to the point that she calls me names curses me up and down. Yesterday she texted him calling me a "fucking pig" a whore and much much more . He didn't defend me..... Which really upsets me ...
Topic created Mar 5 2014 at 20:59 by Help902 - Last post Mar 9 2014
Should I Tell My Best Friend About His Girlfriend And My Brother?? (Posts: 1)|
I have a HUGE problem need advice ASAP!! I came home to see my brother (3 days ago) and seeing where he was at I went to his room to see if he was asleep and walked in on him and my best friend (been knowing since I was 2 years old) girl friend having sex. My mouth dropped now I am stuck in between a rock they begged me not to tell Franklin (my best friend) what was going on the past 3 months, 3 MONTHS this been going on, my brother also said if I was a real brother then I wouldn't tell Franklin and his girl friend begged me to the point where she had tears, tell...
Topic created Mar 9 2014 at 14:38 by livingfreealways - Last post Mar 9 2014
Boyfriend Doesnt Have Sex With Me But Watches Porn :( (Posts: 5)|
So heres the thing, I have been living with my boyfriend for just over a month now, 19 and he is 22 and we have been together 13 months. but since i have lived here we have had sex once! he is my first sexual partner and i am young and feel like im in a marriage. I cant say it started when i moved in it happened before that, he just isnt interested in me, i always initiate and then get rejected, i have been waiting in my underwear for him or sent him sexy messages etc but he always says no. I cant help but take it as a personal attack, it really makes me feel rubb...
Topic created Mar 6 2014 at 16:28 by Marie19 - Last post Mar 9 2014
Attraction Of A Friend (Posts: 3)|
Currently, I have a friend who is also my coworker. To many people the dynamics of our relationship seem to be on the lines of a brother and sister relationship(meaning we pick on each other and joke around alot about how we hate each others guts). Eventually this relationship developed further and we exchanged numbers and began to text back and forth as friends nothing intimate. My girlfriend became uncomfortable with the amount of texting between us so I reduced it out of respect of her. Later, My coworkers and I planned a dinner and I brought my girlfriend with...
Topic created Mar 8 2014 at 03:42 by starter2003 - Last post Mar 9 2014
Ex Partner. (Posts: 3)|
hi there, so I just not long turned 23 I have a little boy with my ex and split up with my partner 1 year ago but since then we have been on and off in a relationship with each other. the reason we split after 6 years together is that he had chosen drugs, and hanging around with the wrong group of friends, I love him so much and feel like I cant move on, he however has been with a lot of girls but always comes back to me and I seem to take him back all the time. when im not with him I feel so sad and I cant be myself as we where so close and like best friends, now...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 22:23 by kimmyx - Last post Mar 9 2014
He's Torturing Me (Posts: 3)|
Please help, I'm in emotional turmoil. So, long story short, me and this man have been talking for a little over two months and were seeing each other for about a month. We had great times and although we don't see eye to eye on too many things we enjoyed each other's time together. The greatest problem was that we are in two different places. He's 22 and I am 17, him never having much going onand my time heavily consumed by family and school and work. Two weeks ago it finally weighed him down and he said it would be the most responsible thing to do, that he could...
Topic created Mar 8 2014 at 23:22 by mollydolly - Last post Mar 9 2014
Early Problems (Posts: 2)|
Hi! I have been dating my guy for 2 months, and officially together for one. I now am having doubts about the relationship that have come from no where! We are quite different people- I am always out and socializing, where as he is happy to stay home. I almost feel like we are at different stages of our lives. I can see myself with him in the future (5 years when I want to settle down etc) but i don't know if hes right for me now. I am so confused and honestly have no clue what to do about it! Any help would be greatly appreciated :)...
Topic created Mar 8 2014 at 21:28 by joddles92 - Last post Mar 8 2014
How Do I Move On? (Posts: 6)|
Here goes... I met a guy about 6 years ago, instant attraction. I tried not to fall for him, but I did. In a big way. Since then we have had an off again on again long term casual thing, always on his terms. By this I mean that whenever I saw him, it was always him wanting to see me. I would contact him and sometimes not get a reply for days, whereas he expected a response in minutes. I know that for part of this time he was in a relationship - I'm not sure if I saw him whilst he was. I could never understand why we had nothing more than we did - we got on...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 20:02 by Becka_C - Last post Mar 8 2014
Severe Relationship Anxiety (Posts: 3)|
I suffer from depression and OCD (lucky me!) With medication I am generally OK, but like all people my moods dip and rise every now and then. This week has been particularly difficult for me:
Two weeks ago I met a lovely girl and we have seen each other a few times. All this week I have felt severe anxiety about the direction the relationship is heading in - and for no apparent reason whatsoever. In normal circumstances (to a 'normal' person), I assume these thoughts wouldn't even arise, but I have a lot of respect for her, so it's consuming my every min...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 21:01 by RonRabbit - Last post Mar 8 2014
Intrusive Friend On Facebook (Posts: 4)|
Hello! Thanks for listening to my problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 3 years. We have a great relationship in many ways EXCEPT he has a friend who is very intrusive on facebook, and it affects our relationship badly. Almost every fight we've had was because of her behavior on facebook as the catalyst - for over three years! I don't know what to do. We've talked about breaking up over this, and we almost did, several times. The thing is that he was involved with her before me - they had a non-relationship relationship - emotional/mental but no sex an...
Topic created Mar 8 2014 at 04:53 by Song - Last post Mar 8 2014
Its Been 2 Months Since No Contact (Posts: 7)|
So i believe there is some hope between my ex girlfriend who broke up with me because she was unhappy. Reason why she broke up with me was because she felt like things got repetitive and she did not like the fact that she would always chose the places to eat. Also, the breakup took place during finals week and her grandfather unfortunately was ill at the time. We both go to school, she goes to a UC and myself a community college getting ready to transfer next semester to a State school which is pretty close to her school. I met her at work and we made good friends...
Topic created Mar 5 2014 at 20:32 by klassic - Last post Mar 8 2014
Lack Of Sex (Posts: 3)|
My boyfriend and I used to have a healthy sex life, but then I started hurting. I have random uterine cramps, on and off my period. It hurts during inter course when it never has before and intercourse increases the uterine pain afterwards. Consequently, we have been having less and less sex. My boyfriend is constantly mad at me when I say no because I know it is going to hurt. When I do say yes, and he knows I'm in pain he just keeps going. We've been fighting more and more about it and I haven't yet gotten it checked out due to financial and time issues. Shouldn...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 07:38 by Redneckjuliet - Last post Mar 8 2014
I'm 17, She's 15 (Posts: 2)|
I've only had one girlfriend before. We were 8 years old when we started dating. Typically I'd be the first to say that it doesn't count because we were so young, but we were together for 4 years so I count it haha. Anyways, I only said all that to explain that i'm serious about relationships. More importantly, i'm serious about this girl I met about a year ago. The thing is that she's 15 and i'm 17. I know that later in life those 2 years won't mean much, but I feel like right now they mean a lot. Specifically to her parents. My birthday is march 25th, hers is Oc...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 00:27 by Daniel4 - Last post Mar 7 2014
Should I Divorce (Posts: 12)|
Married for almost 40 years. Three kidsâ€”all grown. Own businessâ€”reasonably secure financially. Wife excellent homemaker and helps with the business. Not a lazy person. She is reasonably attractive and in shape. I am an engineer-inventor
1. Wife decided our sex life was over 7 years ago.
2. She will not so much as kiss me
3. Never uses a term of endearment
4 sleeps in another room
5 obtained a dog though we had never had one before despite my objections
7 routinely mocks me- makes fun of my forgetfulnessâ€”I have always been.
6 Other women find me attr...
Topic created Mar 4 2014 at 06:23 by Bnovus - Last post Mar 7 2014
Its Been 10 Years...do We Get Back? (Posts: 2)|
I have recently gotten back in touch with a long term (couple years) ex from 10 years ago. We were young, 19/20, when we dated. Above all else, we were truly best friends. When things were good, it was by far the BEST relationship I have had. (I have had several, and know what I am looking for now). When we're together it feels like it was yesterday that we dated. Not that its been 10 years since we were even in touch.
I am aware and have kept in mind the reasons that made the relationship fail the first time. He has grown up since then. I want to ...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 01:24 by WhatToDo? - Last post Mar 7 2014
Him Or Her (Posts: 3)|
My boyfriend's mom has recently been blaming me for all of my boyfriend's moods, attitude, and actions. Neither him nor I believe it has anything to do with me but only with the fact that his parents get on his nerves constantly. I am seriously debating leaving him after 2.5 years of dating because I can't deal with the way she treats me. Do I listen to my head saying that I should leave so I don't continue to be hurt or do I listen to my heart telling me to stay with the guy I love? I honestly have no clue what to do......
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 02:19 by daddy's_girl - Last post Mar 7 2014
Was My Wife Cheating? (Posts: 4)|
Me and my wife had an arguement one night that hasd nothing to me with us. Her daughter 22 yrs old started an arguement by yelling at me and when i lashed back at her her mother started argueing with me. It led to her going to stay 3 nights with her sister with her daughter who was pregnant. When i went over there one day they wouldnt alow me to come in which i thought was strange and my wife who had just came from a 3 hour drive with me to talk things out wouldnt come outside. She comes back home the next morning and her daughter stayed there and fell out with my...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 03:10 by allonmyown11 - Last post Mar 7 2014
Mum's Wishes (Posts: 1)|
I'm 16 weeks pregnant and have a problem that is breaking up my family and as this is my first pregnancy I don't want this friction as want my family involved. As this is so personal I would appreciate some advice as because of the nature of it I do not want to talk to my friends. Here goes..
Basically my mum and dad were separated for 12 years and he left her and moved in with someone. They continued to own our house jointly and did so throughout their separation. However my mother always stated to my sister and I that if anything were to happen to her that sh...
Topic created Mar 7 2014 at 07:47 by Msdetermined - Last post Mar 7 2014
We Had Sex And I Have Feelings For Him. (Posts: 4)|
So I went on this trip with my school. When I was there this guy who goes to my school kept asking if I wanted to hang out with him and I said yes. So we have sex but it wasn't like meaningless sex because after he held my hand walked me down the hall way, bought me dinner, kissed me on the cheek in front of everyone! But we got back to school Monday and I really really really like this guy like a lot! And I wanna tell him but I don't know how because I feel like I'm not his type. Everytime I see him I go crazy and I can't find the words to say to him. I know that...
Topic created Mar 6 2014 at 21:37 by Towilove - Last post Mar 7 2014
Did He Reject Me? (Posts: 2)|
I've been emailing with this guy for a while and I finally had the guts to ask him out for coffee. This is what he answered: "Coffee will be problematic seeing as I work way too much. Also, I have a bet with my dad that I WILL win and that takes up a lot of my time. Work and bets are done in June. Who knows what will happen then?:)" Was it a plain rejection or does he actually want to wait until June? ...
Topic created Mar 6 2014 at 21:18 by Lyla - Last post Mar 6 2014
How Would You Take This Message? (Posts: 1)|
K. So I like this guy and we have been doing really good but hes impossible to read into. He took another girl with him for lunch and I asked him about it. He said it was just lunch and nothing else so I said okay and he asked what else it would be. I said I was hoping it was nothing else. Then he I said sorry maybe I shouldnt have asked about it and he said "Haha thats ok... Just for future referencee... U dont have to be worrying about me or anything... Just be chill dawg.. I talk to people and everything and stuff like that... I mean all imm saying is u shouldn...
Topic created Mar 6 2014 at 18:36 by Blondie - Last post Mar 6 2014
Heavy Heart (Posts: 7)|
Hi I'm a newcomer, in my 40's, in a long term relationship. I was skinny & geeky from the age of 10 to 14 & longed to be beautiful, I blossomed & now everywhere I go people say I'm stunning The problem is that my partner says he loves me most, calls me sexy & lovely, fab figure etc but refers to some of his exes as beautiful, very stunning & never describes me as such. He even admitted others are better looking than me but he only wants me. I feel devastated, he says I'm being shallow but this hurts sooo much! Any advice would be greatly welcomed x...
Topic created Mar 5 2014 at 21:43 by MissyChrissy - Last post Mar 6 2014
I Cheated On My Boyfriend... (Posts: 5)|
I feel like the most horrible person on the planet right now...I'm currently dating the man of my dreams. He's sweet, intelligent, and I'm absolutely, head-over-heels in love with him. We were together for six months (seems like a short time, probably, but I can honestly say that I've fallen madly in love with this man) before I left the country to work abroad. So, we're currently doing the long-distance relationship thing. It's really hard to keep in touch with him (there's a fourteen hour time difference between us), and whenever I message him he's either busy a...
Topic created Mar 6 2014 at 06:42 by hopelesslyinlove - Last post Mar 6 2014
Lonely He Is Never Home (Posts: 1)|
My live in boyfriend is a traveling tattoo artist and mostly works nights. At first this was fine... But there were times he was gone for two or three days at a time. Now instead he comes home for maybe 4 hours tops. He tells me he's gonna go tattoo and he proves that by sending pics of his finished work. He tells me he's on his way home, but he won't show up till 4 or 5 hours later. Sometimes not till the evening then comes home and takes a shower and goes again. I have tried talking to him. We have even fought about it a lot lately. He says it's only temporary. ...
Topic created Mar 6 2014 at 10:33 by Twistedredhead - Last post Mar 6 2014
Emotional Problems (Posts: 2)|
Recently me wife and I found out we were expecting our first child (9weeks along). It was a long process using IVF etc and was very taxing on us but now that we found out that it worked relief temporarily set in. However, in the last two weeks we have had two fights like we have never had before lasting for days (the latest is currently ongoing). My wife has expressed many times over the course of our 4 year marriage that I do not express my feelings and this hurts her. I try to be sympathetic to this statement and I think I am making attempts to express my f...
Topic created Mar 5 2014 at 14:33 by inNYnow - Last post Mar 6 2014
Pregnant?? (Posts: 1)|
I never know when my period will come. My boyfriend and I wanted to see what sex was like so we started. He thrusted like 5 times max and then we stopped he never ejaculated and he wasn't wearing a condom. This was about a month ago. I'm super nervous. I just need to know if you can really get pregnant from precum and I want to know if it really sounds as bad as I think. HELP...
Topic created Mar 6 2014 at 02:17 by Haleyhalls93 - Last post Mar 6 2014
To Let Go Or Not To Let Go (Posts: 1)|
Heyy! Okay, so I am an Indian, who had lived in japan till 5th grade. After I moved to India, I fell in love in 6th grade. I know most of you would say "Puppy Love", and i want to think it is..but it isnt. We were together till 9th grade mid, and relationships for me are aways intense. I though tI would marry him, and never stop loving him, and would marry my first love. The fantasy I had gotten from incessantly reading Nora Roberts novels, and wanting a sense of stability because I come from a family in which my brother is emtionally unavailable, and parents fig...
Topic created Mar 6 2014 at 01:32 by lazysoul - Last post Mar 6 2014
Felt Betrayed. (Posts: 2)|
I wasn't sure how to turn to anyone else for this. Nor do I still feel comfortable with asking this question out of all of the people who will consciously try to make it worse. But I have a friend, and she's been like that for so long. Eventually, I believe I started to fall in love with her. Neither of us have been flirty with one another out of fear of what might come between us. I don't know if she was completely oblivious about how I felt towards her because honestly, I want to be with her. One night, she was with a bunch of her friends at an ice skating rink...
Topic created Mar 5 2014 at 21:04 by Sparrow - Last post Mar 5 2014
Expectations Too High? (Posts: 5)|
My boyfriend us not really the sensitive type and he doesn't really do sweet things and express his emotions . I try not to day nothing because I don't want to change him to make me happy but some times I just feel certain things should be done. I feel like he should call me everyday no matter what even if it's just to say good night. If IM sick I feel like he should check on me or see if I need anything. If IM excited about something or IM really into something I think he should Atleast care and he does non of these things. Are my expectations too high or is he i...
Topic created Mar 5 2014 at 05:02 by keynilla - Last post Mar 5 2014
Troubles With Roommates (Posts: 3)|
Where to start... I am in college and live with three other students. We started living together freshman year, and have gotten pretty close. I guess I should mention that I'm a serious introvert, and my roommates have become my closest friends. I would be really lonely if I didn't live with them. However, there have always been problems. One roommate has a very Type A personality; she can be bossy and immature, but is generally the one to maintain order in the house. Another roommate is also a bit uptight in her own way, but her biggest issue is being too loud wi...
Topic created Mar 5 2014 at 02:28 by Beehive - Last post Mar 5 2014
Wife Had An Affair (Posts: 6)|
So I actually just wrote a post last night about how my wife and I have been separated for over a month now and recently its been getting better since I have distanced myself from her...we have been hanging out more and she wants to take things slow and work on us...well this all started as we got in financial problems and had to move in with my parents..it was suppose to be for a short period of time but I was in school and financial problems got even tougher so we ended up staying at my parents way longer than expected..well a month or two into living there my w...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 05:39 by jm5811 - Last post Mar 5 2014
Failure To Progress In Relationship...is It Time To Give Up? (Posts: 3)|
I'm not sure where to start to give background without blabbering on too long. I'm a disabled mother of 3 and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years has 2 children of his own. We have both been married before though him only once. My first husband cheated multiple times and the last I left because he developed a drug addiction. His wife left him for another man. His sister introduced us. We talked via text and online for months before I agreed to go out with him. It was difficult for me to get someone to watch the kids and really his persistent attempts all hours of t...
Topic created Mar 4 2014 at 00:14 by Tygg - Last post Mar 4 2014
Financial Planning (Posts: 1)|
hello,i want to know what are some of the easiest ways of saving money and investing properly thanks...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 13:51 by Peace - Last post Mar 4 2014
I'm Desperate (Posts: 2)|
I have a few issues that I need help with. First of all my financial problems. I am currently insolvent and have a trust deed that I am on a six month break from but that ends soon and I am lost. I have no employment, I am trapped in a country I don't want to be in but cannot return home because I have no where to go to any more. It is an impossible situation. I can't get a rental property because my credit rating is now ruined, I don't have work in my country of birth and I won't be able to get employment without a place to live. I get very little from the countr...
Topic created Mar 3 2014 at 21:05 by Ferdiad - Last post Mar 4 2014
Lots Of Issues (Posts: 4)|
Married for 20 years, sober the last 5. Desire is no longer in realtionship and unsure that it was ever there. I have found new relationships that I wan't to explore but I feel guilty and my marriage feels like it's been at a dead end for a very long time. I don't even feel like I want to try, did I ever really love my wife while being an alcoholic? It's unfair to her, she helped me get sober and I understand this. I could try counseling but I honestly cannot say that I want to participate. I'm trying to discover if I should follow my heart or my head, do the righ...
Topic created Mar 3 2014 at 18:16 by stuckinlife - Last post Mar 4 2014
Why Do Wives Stop Having Sex With Their Husbands? (Posts: 22)|
I am a 40 year old male, married now for 12 years to a woman I have known a long time. When we met at college I found her to be intelligent and kind. She was never what you would call "hot" but that was not important to me, she was nice to me and we shared a lot of laughs.
Well, I started to see changes after a few years of marriage. She seemed to distance herself emotionally and then we had our first and only child. After she was born, we completely stopped having sex. But not just that we seemed to be living as roommates more than husband and wife and nothing...
Topic created Dec 29 2011 at 06:59 by Johnny 5 - Last post Mar 4 2014
Best Friend Is Jealous? (Posts: 1)|
Okay first off I don't want this to come off as conceited. Well one of my friends was telling me how my best friend basically feels jealous of me. I don't really know where to begin but there's this program in my school where smart students who have a high average get into this program. I got invited to join this program but my best friend didn't. Yes I was excited I got into it, but I didn't go rubbing it in my best friends face because I know how that would feel. I didn't want to make her feel bad, so I didn't even mention it. My friend had said that my best f...
Topic created Mar 4 2014 at 01:31 by Mary_za93 - Last post Mar 4 2014
Men Trouble (Posts: 1)|
I'm 21yrs old, and I've never been in an actual relationship or had a one night stand. I'm pretty put off with boys in my age group cause most of them just want one night stands,party ,drink or smoke .I just realised that since from the age of 15 only guys 9yrs and above older than me that ask me out. I don't have a problem with an 11yrs age difference.But they either have girlfriend's, married or divorced with children. I really don't know what's wrong with me. my friends tell me it is because I act more mature than people my age and I hang out with girls 3-10...
Topic created Mar 3 2014 at 23:58 by lovely - Last post Mar 4 2014
Lost The 3 Most Important People In My Life. (Posts: 3)|
Before I left for Uni in another town, I had some friends back here who were alright. When I was at Uni however, I had a group of friends there who I really connected to and liked a lot more. My friends back home kinda treat me like I'm 'dumb' so I don't speak as much around them or tell them my opinions on music/films etc because they normally insult me. I have became very quiet and withdrawn around them, but with my Uni friends I was always outgoing and relaxed. However, I had one friend back home who is my oldest and best, and she likes me for who I am, so I re...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 10:53 by Midori - Last post Mar 4 2014
Boy Confusion. (Posts: 1)|
Hi, my name is Jane. I'll tell you a bit about myself, to gain an understanding off the situation. I am 17 years old and I have never been in a relationship. I've had many like 'one night flings' but i just get awkward the next day and they never amount to anything and any person who I actually like I literally fall for them and can't stop thinking about them (happened around 3 times,) and even if I know they like me and want something to happen between us for some reason I never let myself do anything about it.
Anyway here's the problem there's this guy, le...
Topic created Mar 3 2014 at 20:07 by janejane - Last post Mar 3 2014
Colleague Crush (Posts: 6)|
I have had a crush on an older work colleague for over a year now. However I am in a long term relationship as is he (he also has a family) so nothing can come of these feelings. Recently we went on a works trip together and I told him how I felt. He admitted to also having feelings for me and having been tempted but that he can't act on these because of his responsibilities. We agreed we would try to distance ourselves from each other. Anyway, a few days later one thing lead to another and we ended up sleeping together as a no strings kind of thing. Since then...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 12:30 by Lucy-Anne - Last post Mar 3 2014
Ex Is Trying To Take Our Daughter (Posts: 4)|
My ex who i currently live with ended our relationship we have a 3 year old daughter who we both love when our relationship ended we aggreed to joint and equal access i suggested medeation and she did not want to do that but now she has got advice and we are now going through medeation that is hard enough but today i find out she is planing to move out and take our daughter with her and change her school i dont want more than my ex i just want equal rights have no idea what to do hence me doing this at 1:45am because im worried she will take our daughter. ...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 01:48 by markdance - Last post Mar 3 2014
Bad Home Situation Continued (Posts: 1)|
Hello so my family problem hasn't resolved. My brother's wife and her kids continue to live with us. But i feel this is so unfair-every time my brother stuffs up financially, etc she expects my parents to look after her. I don't understand why she wont leave; i mean no one should force others to live with another family should they? They ask too much of a favour like this and still continue to act like its their house. They don't seem to understand the effect it must have on our daily lives. I can't even leave my room anymore. Its been 9 months and i have tolerate...
Topic created Mar 3 2014 at 04:29 by kyiasha - Last post Mar 3 2014
Not Sure. (Posts: 1)|
I need some advice on how to proceed with this. I have lost my marriage of 32 years about 5 weeks ago with my husband and a bout a week ago a man was kind enough to sit with me and have a beer whilst i was upset. He likes me and itis such a good distraction after i have been devastastated, crying, feeling like taking a overdose etc. He quickly admitted to likeing me and invited me over the next night for a few drinks with some friends and i ended up staying till very late and had sex with him on his request. He is a very decent sort of 49 year old man that has...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 22:29 by singei - Last post Mar 3 2014
I Seem To Always Be Accused Of Staring At Others, Even When I'm Absolutely Not. (Posts: 1)|
It seems that I am accused of staring at other people...often...when I'm not. Most of the time I am totally oblivious to whether or not that person was even in the room. If I'm looking at a restaurant menu and someone just happens to be in the direction of the menu, that person would accuse me of staring at them. If I'm at work and am looking at my computer monitor and someone is standing behind the monitor a distance away (try to picture that), I'll be accused of looking at them. My thing is, if you notice someone looking at you, don't you have to look at them. ...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 20:44 by grahamcookie - Last post Mar 2 2014
I Miss My Baby! (Posts: 2)|
Can anyone, preferably a mature female give any advice to me on how I may be able to get my girl back or ease her heart from a terrible thing I've done. I do want everyone to know I do love this girl and care for her a lot. And she does know this. I have said some really nasty terrible things to her only after responding to something hurtful from her. I admit I should have been a much bigger man but now I regret so much for the things I said that hurt her so much "BADLY". Now she won't talk to me and its been two months now. Shoe claims she never want to talk to m...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 06:49 by Gmac - Last post Mar 2 2014
Anxiety Hindering My Love Life? (Posts: 1)|
I am 17 and have been diagnosed a year ago with OCD. For those of you who don't know, OCD in a nutshell is an anxiety disorder where a person has intrusive and disturbing thoughts, that are allayed by compulsions (everyone thinks of hand washing, but for me a common compulsion is checking my hair and making sure it is perfect, otherwise I feel as if something bad will happen. I have gone through a lot of therapy and have come a very long way. I am becoming a much more confident, happy, and independent individual. There is a girl that I have had a crush on for a fe...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 09:04 by Abnormal teen - Last post Mar 2 2014
Got Myself Involved In A Love Triangle - Now What? (Posts: 1)|
About 3ish years ago I had a brief - but amazing - relationship with a girl we'll call Lexi. I still remember the first time we kissed. It was absolute bliss. But she lived kind of far away and neither of us had very reliable transportation, so it didn't end up working out. We went on with our lives, keeping in touch as friends and visiting occasionally. Fast forward to now. I have had a major relationship since then, and Lexi is engaged to someone we'll call Jim. Last week, she came up to visit me for no specific reason, just to visit. We watched some movies, and...
Topic created Mar 2 2014 at 19:10 by D2T - Last post Mar 2 2014
My Wife Caught Me, Now She's Mad. (Posts: 10)|
Long story short, my wife and I have been together for almost 3 1/2 years, married for just over 8 months. a couple of weeks ago, she caught me masturbating and claims I wasn't thinking of her while doing it. I have tried to explain to her that I'm always thinking of her, but she doesn't believe me. She says she doesn't want my excuses anymore, but I've been truthful in my explanations. I just don't know what to do. Can someone help, please? What should I do?...
Topic created Mar 1 2014 at 03:52 by Vyper82 - Last post Mar 2 2014
Confused In Love And All That Stufffff (Posts: 2)|
well I like this girl. both juniors. known her for two years by coed sports. the first year I knew her we talked together a lot at the coed games we were in. we shared food,she pinched my cheeks and called me cute, I think her friend was trying to give me hints that my crush likes me. we texted a lot. brung her food. then near end of the season of sport I told her I had feeling for her yet didn't give her a chance to say yes or no. this is the second year and I don't text her as much or talk as much b/c then wouldmiss my company, I flirted with other girls in team...
Topic created Mar 1 2014 at 22:37 by whitkid - Last post Mar 2 2014
Need Help To Convince My Parents To Marry My Rakhi Brother (Posts: 14)|
I love a boy very much and he loves me too but the problem is that when i was in 11th and 12th (i.e.past 4 years) i tied him rakhi in front of my whole family. But when we realized that we are in love we stopped celebrating rakhi with each other but his elder sister ties rakhi to my elder brother every year. Now the problem is my boyfriend's elder brother(he has 2 elder brothers and one elder sister and i have one elder brother) got to know about our relationship and he is forcing my boyfriend to leave me because of society fear as he thinks that both of our famil...
Topic created Feb 22 2014 at 16:21 by @ngie - Last post Mar 2 2014
Chronic Concerns Research (Posts: 1)|
Hello, my name is Raymond Tucker. I am graduate student in Psychology at Oklahoma State University. I am currently conducting a research study with Dr. Tony Wells aimed at understanding how people cope with chronic problems such as relationship stress. This research will hopefully help people understand how they may feel if their problem changes, and how to be ready for these consequences if they occur.
If you are above the age of 18 and are currently struggling with concerns related to relationship stress. I would be grateful if you participated in this study...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 17:36 by ChronicConcerns201 - Last post Mar 2 2014
Lost Pets (Posts: 1)|
hi,should i still look for my lost pets a lovebird and a cat after six mths,are there any chances of their survival and coming back thanks...
Topic created Mar 1 2014 at 13:56 by Peace - Last post Mar 1 2014
Update On Seperation (Posts: 2)|
So I have written a few times on here about my separation with my wife...Its been going on for a little over a month now and one day it seems like we have a chance together then the next day it seems like it is truly over...Well I listened to a lot advice I received on here like distancing myself from her and avoid talking about our separation. Well I did that and then all of a sudden she began to text me more call me more..i started going to the gym again going out with friends and just trying to be happy through this hard time...it seemed when I did that she wa...
Topic created Mar 1 2014 at 05:32 by jm5811 - Last post Mar 1 2014
Help , I'm Lost (Posts: 3)|
So my boyfriend and I have been together for about a 15 months, but before that - we were dating for a year. he is the love of my life. Before him, I was in two "long term" relationships. One for 11 months and another for 2 years. But I know that this is THE ONE. This is the relationship I have put the most work into, simply because I'm completely in love with him. I can't even begin to explain what we've been through in one year. I thought that meant we could get through anything. Recently, we decided that we are going to go to college in separate states and he e...
Topic created Feb 28 2014 at 11:47 by Mariahh - Last post Mar 1 2014
I Have Nothing Left?? (Posts: 2)|
I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years. 1st 18 months he had a married girlfriend. I caught him, and continued to lie, so there was trust broken from day one in our relationship, and that stunk. Then he decided it fun to go to bars on a consistent basis. we never really lived together but stayed at my house at will never paying rent (and I never asked). Last March I had enough, and told him it was the bars or me. He proceeded with the bars and this friend of his who hates me (and I hate him). He then had pictures of numerous women as well as ended up sle...
Topic created Feb 28 2014 at 22:12 by Steph1414 - Last post Mar 1 2014
Lost, No One To Talk To, Just Need To Get It Out (Posts: 3)|
My life as I knew it has been effectively ruined. The life I know now is on a downward spiral and I just don't know how to keep picking myself up.... I quit my job and moved from CT to CA to take over my fathers business. He was tired of the cops raiding it all the time due to him being on probation and wanted me to take over. Like an idiot I believed he could pay me the desired amount. I believed him when he said he was opening up another store and that it would be mine. He is greedy and only cares about himself and his own payment. He didn't care that I couldn't...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 03:51 by faedominae - Last post Feb 28 2014
What Did He Think About Me (Posts: 2)|
I have a friend but we are not actually boy friend and girl friend. He told I am his very good friend and he has nothing to hide to me .
He talked me about all thing even his sexual expectation .
Everyday he called me over phone and gave attention than other to me.
Sometimes he said sweet words, such as he likes my smiling face all time .
But after meeting his new girlfriend he stop talking with me . He called me over phone before one day ago he meet his girlfriend.Within one day he is totally changed . He don't do any contact with me. I am really shocked in h...
Topic created Feb 28 2014 at 06:10 by muna - Last post Feb 28 2014
Confused Wife (Posts: 3)|
My husband told me 4 years ago there was another women in his life. He told me who. He works with her. Soon after he told me he lied about the whole thing to get my attention. I have been unable to trust him ever since. I worry all the time and question everything he does. I just can't get over it. How do I move on with him? How do I know what is really the truth? ...
Topic created Feb 28 2014 at 00:01 by DJGooo - Last post Feb 28 2014
Issues (Posts: 6)|
My wife and I have been married for 2 years and together for 4 all together. We were both single parents when we met each having one child. Things seemed great in the beginning and we had talked a few times about having a baby after we got married and settled down. I remember right before the wedding she told me she wanted one right away and that made me feel good. Problems began after we were married as she was then saying she wasn't sure about having a baby then about a year ago she had mentioned she didn't want any more kids because she doesn't have the mother ...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 03:29 by lessonslearned23 - Last post Feb 28 2014
Should I Give It A Try? (Posts: 2)|
I met a guy online and I found out he went to the same high school as me but graduated 2 years before I did. We started talking and I started to really like him but yesterday I found out that he has a 6 month old daughter. I'm only 18 and I don't know if I should continue to pursue a relationship with him or not. At times I don't feel like I'm ready to be "Daddy's girlfriend" but then I can also see myself being with him, child and all. I'd really appreciate it if someone could give me advice on what I should do or how I should make up my mind....
Topic created Feb 28 2014 at 01:42 by beabolin - Last post Feb 28 2014
Bad Communication? (Posts: 2)|
Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. In the beginning, everything was great! We got along so great I couldn't believe it. About 6 months ago, things started going downhill. He moved back in with his parents in May, who made him get a job and he went back to school. This is great, but he started having changes. He moved out before in high school because they made him stay home all the time to watch his sister. Ever since then, he has been angry towards me. I have tried to help him but he just seems to get upset. He wont tell his parents how h...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 00:01 by LoveandHappiness - Last post Feb 27 2014
Why Cant I Get It Right? (Posts: 3)|
In 1 month it will have been a year since I met "HIM". We were introduced, I didnt give him a second look. Then I found out the "friend" that was trying to get it going.. was his ex! My morals, & values instilled in me,, well i DO NOT MESS WITH friends boyfriends much less EX'S. She reassured me over & over. So the time came to go hang with him. I HAD THE BEST TIME! We went in to it w/agreeing he would be Capt. Beat it up & I : ms. See ya later. Well after 3 weeks of thoroughly enjoying each other.... I felt myself catchin feelins. I made it my mis...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 09:14 by stupid?dumb? - Last post Feb 27 2014
He Doesn't Have Time For Me :( (Posts: 2)|
I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy from my college... The first 6 months it was wonderful... We both were happy... He used to spend lots of time with me... He was very serious in the relationship... But recently he found that his grades were being greatly affected due to this... he says he's not able to manage with the studies and the love life... We have constant fights... I want to meet him... I want to go on long walks like we used to go earlier... But understanding his problem i controlled myself... He says he's controlling a lot... All his urges to dea...
Topic created Feb 27 2014 at 14:11 by Somu - Last post Feb 27 2014
Depression, Anxiety And Crazy (Posts: 2)|
Okay so I have been suffering from a very light depression for a year where I just started losing interest in sports etc, but when my brother committed suicide this summer, my depression escalated to extreme. It eventually went down a bit but its definitely worse then before. A couple months ago I started getting anxiety whenever something (clothing, necklace) is too tight on my or when anything touched my neck. I get numb all over, have trouble breathing, start crying and panicking and can't move. It happens pretty often now. And just recently, I've started feeli...
Topic created Feb 27 2014 at 05:44 by khugee - Last post Feb 27 2014
Brothers (Posts: 2)|
This is very difficult for me I was with my ex for 17 yrs about 2 yrs ago I had breakdown something I m not proud of I has lost my confidence my ex kept telling me that I shouldn't put myself down all the the and start doing more for myself and not for less for others he always said I was a good kind person he's been gone about 7 weeks and since then I have found out he is in a relationship with his brothers ex wife my ex is there uncle we were very close knit family but now it been ripped apart my ex parents r very angry with him his mum refuses to talk to him t...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 22:13 by Ruby63 - Last post Feb 27 2014
Let Go Or Not ? (Posts: 3)|
I was involved romantically with a girl for a month, eventhough I was going to study abroad, I didnt plant for it to happen but it happened and I had a strong connection with her, and after I traveled we maintained contact for the next two weeks and after a video call that went amazing the next couple of days she didnt talk anymore. so after about a month I sent her a a letter and asked her why did this happen, an she said that I'm a perfect man for her but she was not ready to go into a relationship from the first place and she tried that maybe she will, but she ...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 02:14 by DoctorLove - Last post Feb 27 2014
Boyfriend Of 1 Year Lying To Me...just Found Out!! (Posts: 2)|
I am 39, My soon 'was' to be fiancee is 42. We had a great partnership until i discovered last night he has been lying ....he has been using drugs behi d my back recreationally and going online talking to women and looking at pictures. I feel betrayed and like i do not know who he is anymore. Do i support and help and stay with him, or do i walk away? I need help....cant sleep, cant eat....i am a mess....
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 08:24 by jesslo777 - Last post Feb 26 2014
Wondering If Things Should Continue (Posts: 3)|
I met my fiancĂ© (lets call him Malik) 1 1/2 years ago. He was a friend of my daughters boyfriend (Tony) and helped us move. Malik had something about him that I was drawn to. Nothing was said at this time. about 6 months later Tony told me that his friend was into me and I started smiling and said I said the same thing. Anyway, about a week later the two guys ended up at our house to hang out. This became a regular thing. Malik and I started talking and getting to know each other. We both agreed that all this was going to be was a friend with benefits situation, ...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 03:10 by tryingmybest - Last post Feb 26 2014
Simply Confused (Posts: 1)|
I love my man, we've been dating for close to 11 months now. I lied to him from the start cause I couldn't bear losing him for who I was. But after a lot of pressure I told him he hated me. He still can't get used to the idea that I have slept me over 50 people and that i still keep my exes(they are in other countries and the only friends i have.) He has said he can never get married to someone like me . We broke up , but we still see each other. When i talk to other guys on phone, he still gets kinda jealous. is it wise to still keep seeing him or having sex with...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 14:42 by coywolfsadcat - Last post Feb 26 2014
Guys Who Keep Distant (Posts: 2)|
I have a group of online artist friends. I met their mutual online friend, a curator at a festival over a year ago. We had chemistry. I added him on fb he had a girlfriend. Disappointed. He flirted online & our mutual online friend (a guy he's worked with) shared private info about me which exasperated me. Almost a year past, he breaks up, and adds all (including a vampy girl on-top of him) on social networks EXCEPT ME (I follow) even though, he still occasionally flirts with me online and has met me several times since (I'm not a stranger). On occasion, not all t...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 23:10 by NagSki - Last post Feb 26 2014
Just Had To Get This Out. (Posts: 2)|
This may be a long topic. When I was little I never really learned how to talk to people or to make friends because we always moved around. So when I did get into school I kept to myself. I've always been the outcast kid no matter where I go. I was constantly bullied in school. I was fine, I made it through. Until I hit highschool. Sophomore year. I was always told no one loves me. Go kill myself. Go cut myself some more. One kid even tried to push me into a saw in shop class. I couldn't handle it once my parents left. My parents left to go trucking because there ...
Topic created Feb 24 2014 at 01:15 by SadPanda - Last post Feb 26 2014
Am I And My Boyfriend Infatuated Or It's Love? (Posts: 2)|
I met my boyfriend online. We live in different countries. But we always speak and see each other on skype. We got along during the first 6 months of our relationship. he came to me twice. we had problems and misunderstandings but we were able to solve them. he's got depression issues and i always do my best to understand him. later he couldn't say i love you to me anymore. he told me that the idea of it pressures him and the fact that we're far from each other. so i decided to fly to him next month and in april as well. but now he said that these decisions pressu...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 22:31 by gioia - Last post Feb 26 2014
Boyfriend Addicted To Porn (Posts: 3)|
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 years. We have a 2, 10, and 11 year old. We both work full time. I discovered last night that he has been watching (taking care of himself) porn while he is at work on his company phone. He at first lied to me about it. We have had issues with this before. He said it is my fault because I don't "give it up." We probably have relations once a week. Not only does this make me mad, but it disgusts me. I don't even want to be beside him. I am talking about being over for good. Is this common and am I overreac...
Topic created Feb 26 2014 at 02:21 by blueandgreen - Last post Feb 26 2014
Correct My Marraige (Posts: 1)|
Me and my wife have been seperated for various reason adultry, is the main one I was first then she followed, now we both have trust issues, plus I've had problems in the past with drugs...
Topic created Feb 24 2014 at 20:02 by keving - Last post Feb 26 2014
Am I Doing The Right Thing? (Posts: 2)|
I'm going to give you fair warning and let you know that this is a bit of a long read, and that what follows is somewhat of a convoluted mess.
About 8 years ago I met the person who would become my best friend (up until recently, now I don't know). We'll call him Ronald.
Ronald and I had a simple, yet fun and effective friendship which ultimately had its flaws.
In summation, we basically had a fun, care-free friendship where we hung out, talked about interests and hobbies, played video games and went to movies and concerts. A normal friendship without anythin...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 23:08 by Harold13 - Last post Feb 26 2014
Is He A Swinger (Posts: 1)|
This is a problem from a few years ago but it is still on my mind now and i need advice please. i found a email that my husband received from a swingers site. i checked it out and the description part of the person sounded like my husband but the date of birth was wrong. he denied it was him and said his account must of been hacked. it said he was into men and couples and a and o. i felt sick of the thought that he could go with men never mind women. he said he was not into that sort of thing and we rang the web site up but couldn't get no help about it. i put it ...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 11:52 by skyhigh123 - Last post Feb 26 2014
Join The Army Or Stick With Girlfriend? (Posts: 1)|
I'm 22 years old. I've been together with a wonderful girl the past 3 years. We got together right before I had to do my service year in the army, and it worked out. I finished the year, went home and worked in a store for a year. Now we are studying in a bigger city, and we've moved in together a small apartment. Here's the thing: I really miss the army. I feel like I really belonged there. I've never been great at something, except being a soldier. It's my dream job. I'm really considering to enlist; considering starting a life as a professional soldier. But I h...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 13:33 by hogfed - Last post Feb 26 2014
How To Convince My Parents? (Posts: 2)|
we are in love for past 5 years. now me and him are at 26 & 27 and settled with good jobs. but when we decided for our marriage our parents are not giving us permission. we are trying to convince them for past 1 and half years, but still now they are not convinced and started searching groom for me in my caste. but i cant even imagine a life without him. still i cant leave my parents too. i dont know how to convince my parents. their main problem is horoscope. our horoscopes didnt match so my parents are not willing to get married to him. really am dpressed. he is...
Topic created May 10 2013 at 18:26 by cksv - Last post Feb 25 2014
Need Some Outside Advice! (Posts: 2)|
I'm not really sure what or why I'm doing this but I just needed to hear an opinion of someone that was unbiased of my situation. My bf and I have been together for almost a year and living together almost five months, we have struggled over the discipline of my kids, they can be a bit overbearing at times. And yes I take full responsibility for that, I'm learning how to get that under control now but nonetheless it has taken a toll on our relationship and my bf feels I have "stabbed" him in the back by disagreeing with him in front of the kids when he said it was...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 09:43 by Rrtgirl - Last post Feb 25 2014
Love Truly Gone? (Posts: 2)|
Carlos and I have been dating for 2 years, and were engaged, but a messy breakup in September ended that. We got back together a few weeks later, and for the most part I felt our relationship was better than ever. But last night, out of the blue, he told me he didn't love me anymore, not like he used to. I wanted to work things out and figure out why he feels this way and what we could do to fix it, and at first he was willing to stay open minded and do what we can to figure out why this is going on, but today he decided that instead he wants nothing to do with me...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 02:25 by angelicaspeaks - Last post Feb 25 2014
My Girl (Posts: 2)|
first of all, i met the most amazing girl online, we are in different country's but the love is so strong, im planning on moving to her country we talked of marriage, a family, the future! everytime i planned on going to her, she was like wait, for this or that, i kept saying she was making excuses but she insisted i was wrong that she was in love with me and wanted to be with me, for almost 2 years weve done the long distance relationship, well i stumbled on a picture of her and come to find out all the pictures she sent to me was someone else, ive tried to get h...
Topic created Feb 24 2014 at 17:38 by wolf - Last post Feb 25 2014
No Idea What To Do (Posts: 3)|
When my ex broke up with me, I went online trying to find someone to talk to and feel better, that's when I met a guy, for simplicity Ill call him Guy. Guy went on to become my best friend. He lives in the very north U.S while I live in very south. It got to the point where he wasn't happy just being my friend and he basically said he couldn't continue to be in my life if we weren't in a relationship, so against my better judgement, I agreed. We ended up fighting and now we're friends, but he made me promise exclusivity. I care about him very much, love him even, ...
Topic created Feb 25 2014 at 02:20 by tay3596 - Last post Feb 25 2014