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Relationships - Long Distance advice forum category Girlfriend From The Philippines (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 23:15 by Northern Guy123

I am sorry if my story gets very long, but I hope you will read it anyway and comment it :-) Almost 3 years ago, during a 3-week vacation in the Philippines, I met a Filipina girl and we fell deeply in love. I´m from Northern Europe myself. She had a job as an assistant chef in a restaurant, was a single mother, with 3 children from a previous relationship. I already knew at that time that this could be a quite a challenge, considering that af...

Relationships advice forum category Help. Need Advice. Am I Wrong To Feel This Way? (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 03:41 by agnes1103

My husband and I have been together 6 years. He has two teenage sons from previous marriage. He is a great father and wants to be with his sons all the time. I understood that coming into the marriage, but I guess I expected things to be different than they have turned out to be. The first 4 years the kids came every weekend from Friday to Sunday, so we never went out, ever. On a few occasions I asked if he could wait to get the kids on Satur...

Relationships advice forum category The Most Confusing Relationship Of All Time (Awaiting first response)

CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 21:09 by Dmu

Hello everyone, I posted something like this in the past, yet I figured I'd provide more of an updated version so everyone can get the basis of the situation. I appreciate any support and advise you can give me. I'm sorry for the massive amount of text, but it's the best way I can convey this situation to y'all. My life hasn't been the best in the past, but someone changed that for me. I met the most wonderful guy and I was able to spend tw...

Relationships advice forum category Help (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 21:23 by MrsGomez2206 RESPONDENTS: Sandy D LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 21:57

I am in desperate need of help with my marriage. I need advice and someone who is willing to listen or read I guess I've been with my husband for 12 years married for 4. We have gone through so much. I've always caught my husband talking and texting with other women. I haven't trusted my husband in years and honestly can't even remember when I had any trust in him. 2 years ago he cheated on me during my pregnancy, we talked, I left and we got bac...

Relationships advice forum category Want Out Of Relationship But Scared (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 02:16 by staystrongmum RESPONDENTS: CaliGoldfish / PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 20:36

I've been with my boyfriend off and on for 4 years. I have a 16 year old daughter from a previous relationship and just had a baby with my current partner. When I was 3 months pregnant he made it clear that he was unhappy about the pregnancy. He has been verbally and emotionally abusive to me and my daughter since just before the pregnancy. I would have left already but financially am unable to do so. I'm on maternity leave and my job is minim wa...

Relationships advice forum category My Ex (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 15:38 by Stressy RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 16:11

I have a serious issue for myself now, We had been broke up 6 months ago, we promised each other we will still be friend even when we broke up. I am really hurted when we broke up with her and im still glad able to be her friend, So we still talk to each other on whatsapp everyday, we are still close to each other, we promised we will be inseparable still. But, After a while i noticed she get more guy friends and hangout with them, I...

Relationships - Long Distance advice forum category Am I In Love, Or Am I Just Used To Him? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 21:49 by adelaide RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 15:30

Hi, my boyfriend and and have been in a relationship for over a course of around 4 years. We started in High school, stayed together for 1 and a half years, and we broke up when I decided to go to college in NY. We went a year without communication then got back together and he came to visit me up there. He lives in Florida. Everything was doing fine and at that point I still felt the way I did about him as I did years ago, completely in love wit...

Relationships advice forum category Crazy Ex, Controlling, Bored In My Relationship.... (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 16:59 by Bubbles_88 RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 14:33

I've been in a relationship with my bf for a year. The relationship started off in the wrong direction because he was going through a divorce. Basically his ex has made my life a living hell.she would constantly call, text, and email me about him. She would leave five minute voice mail talking about what he has done and how he still wants her back. She even began to send me messengers on facebook. I constantly tell her to stop and she continues t...

Emotional advice forum category I Feel Alone And Unable To Communicate With People Anymore. (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 15:09 by MIchaelXander RESPONDENTS: Bubbles_88 / mariposa LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 07:08

I am currently in my first year of university but the mental picture that I had before entering has crumbled. I don't have a lot of friends. Ever since my best friend stabbed me in the back, I had this problem making friends, like I can never fully trust anyone new again. It's this dark voice within me that has been whispering negative thoughts into me, causing me to put on a mask. I have been told that when the mask comes off with famili...

Emotional advice forum category Everyone Needs Goals And Dreams (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 14:10 by nionthrie RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 22:58

I love my Mum. She's helped me through so much but recently she's started falling in to depression as her life-plan crumbled one weekend. Originally, she'd planned to move to this beautiful sea-side village that she loved and set up a business there but during a recent visit, she fell out of love with the village and the dream that she had held for years. Now she's lost and I don't know how she can find a new path. Please help me to help my Mum!...

Emotional advice forum category Should I Ask My Doctor? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 23 2015 at 05:32 by mistysketches99 RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 / thesame LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 21:02

I have been dealing with what I think is depression for 6 years now. It started in highschool. I had had suicidal thoughts, and in result of that I was a cutter. My doctor at the time told me that it was normal for a teenager to go through this. Thankfully I stopped cutting 3 years ago. Now I'm an adult and I am still going through this. I have lost all drive to do anything. I find very few reasons to wake up in the morning. All I want to do is...

Relationships advice forum category I Love My Younger Friend, But He Sends Me Mixed Signals (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 27 2015 at 04:27 by susperialover RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 20:47

So small back story about my self. I'm 24, I was previously engaged. That ended horribly, and I've been single for 2 years now. It's been hard but great learning to be alone and love my self. I'm also bipolar among other things, and have finally started therapy and medication. So pretty much my life has been hard and i'm slowly making my life stable on my own and working my way towards a career I love. Now you have a little information about m...

Emotional advice forum category I Believe My Wife Needs Counselling (Posts: 342)

CREATED: Nov 25 2014 at 12:12 by moody_one RESPONDENTS: Susieq / Shivangi / Bets / susiedqqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 16:18

Married 50 years and I have given her a hard life, with various affairs in the 70s into 80s all found out and admitted, one was her best friend. I have not tried any more since early 1980 and she has forgiven me as much as she can. We were happily living and doing everything together although we have some different interests, her gardening and WI and me hobby painting and sport. We have two adult children with grandchildren living within 3 miles...

Relationships advice forum category Marriage Loneliness (Posts: 8)

CREATED: Aug 24 2015 at 05:45 by HappyOnTheOutside RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / susiedqqq / PJVL9 / Bluemel / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 12:48

I always act happy. I'm good at that. But I really am very sad. And very alone. I think it's because my troubles aren't as bad as they could be. And I am very grateful for so many things, that I don't feel like my feelings matter. I am so alone in my marriage. And parenting. It is exhausting. I could list reasons but I don't think it would help. I think just letting people know that I am going through a hard time mentally, will help. Because I'm ...

Relationships advice forum category Don't Know What To Do Anymore! (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 28 2015 at 16:50 by J.william RESPONDENTS: Lakota / rasperr / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 12:20

Hi I have been with my girlfriend 2 and a half years now and we have a kid together I also have a kid from a previous relationship that I see often, since the birth of the youngest my girlfriend just seems to dispise my other child, I have been signed of work since the beginning of the year with a foot injury which means I am unable to pay any maintenance which the previous partner understands but every time I go to buy something which is needed ...

Relationships advice forum category Silent Break Up... (Posts: 111)

CREATED: Jun 16 2015 at 02:39 by xjterry RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqqq / Super Sarah LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 12:00

I broke up with my fiancee. I am 33 and he is 35. We were together for 6 years and the last 2 we were engaged. I was the one that left the house because the last months he was has pressure from his job and also he was telling me that I was putting pressure on him. He didn;t want to talk with me and when I was trying to make conversations he was telling that I was nagging and he was leaving. The day that I left I was calling him to bring some stu...

Relationships advice forum category I Don't Know If He Likes Me. (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 28 2015 at 09:46 by Persephone RESPONDENTS: Swim LAST POST: Aug 28 2015 at 17:08

Hi! First, I want to say that English isn't my mother language, so forgive me if I write something wrong. Ok, now let's begin. I'm 24 and I live in Brazil. In March I met a guy who's 24 too and he's basically everything I've ever wanted. We've been seeing each other every week since then. I already know some of his friends, he takes me to cool places and sometimes we just stay at home. Last month he started to pay for everything (we used to spl...

S-e-x advice forum category I Don't Know What To Do Anymore (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 22 2015 at 03:40 by mrs.martin RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / somesunnyday / IHeartPsychosis / cle LAST POST: Aug 28 2015 at 10:56

I have been with my husband for 11 years and married for just over a year. He has been on antidepressants for 3 years now and he can't have sex anymore. maybe once every 3-4 months if he really tries. We weren't even "together " on the night we got married. I love him very much but as a woman I have needs. I don't bring it up to him because I don't want him to feel bad, he says he wants to stop taking them but he won't talk to his doctor. What sh...

S-e-x advice forum category Marriage, Minimal Sex, Major Age Difference... (Posts: 9)

CREATED: Aug 9 2015 at 01:13 by ramsey RESPONDENTS: Mynickname / BearinBlue / knot2loud / susiedqqq / SilviaGirl / Altreal / clement LAST POST: Aug 28 2015 at 10:12

my husband is almost 26 years older than me. I'm in my mid 20's. We have been together since I was 18 for 8 years so far. Married for 5 1/2 of the 8 years. He was only the second person I've been with. 2nd person I had sex with. Right before we got married he started having issues with getting erections. I thought that it was just because of stress. Well he has had issues our whole marriage. I have an extremely high libido. Last year he encourage...

Relationships advice forum category Boyfriend Adding And Following Random Women On Facebook (Posts: 11)

CREATED: Oct 29 2012 at 05:18 by Sashak RESPONDENTS: Madison / Wallflower / Saddened / Qua / Skinnygirl / susiedqqq / Ebonyrockchic / manalone LAST POST: Aug 28 2015 at 00:05

My boyfriend and I have been having some rough patches in the past few weeks where I would confront him with the fact that I don't like that he is following models and pornstars on Instagram because I see it as emotional cheating when you are lustfully looking at other women... He replied that one of his interests are women and that looking at these women does not mean that he is talking to them or has any contact with them, which is understandab...

Other advice forum category Where Do I Start? (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 23:12 by iK3V RESPONDENTS: Spent / Soulmate / PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 27 2015 at 22:16

I'm at my wits end. Where do I start? Well, my stepdad molested me when I was young. I was burned in a house fire at the age of 9. Teased for it at school. Im on disability. Then my mom died 2 years ago of an overdose. A few months later my gf of 9 years left me and turns out she cheated on me with a few of my "friends". I got passed all these things, but I also think im an alcoholic. Which does not help keep me from doing dumb shit. I got in a f...

Other advice forum category Habits Habits Habits Grrr (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 27 2015 at 10:24 by loisgriffin RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 27 2015 at 19:24

I moved in with my partner. He has two adult children one of whom still lives at home when he is not at university. My problem is that the son is incredibly lazy and has some pretty revolting habits. I find it hard to confront him as he has gone running home to mommy's in the past and has stirred up a whole lot of problems. I don't want to be seen as the evil stepmother here. I have spoken to his dad about it who totally agrees with me. He has sp...

Other advice forum category Beach Trip (Posts: 12)

CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 16:50 by tarheelmlv RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / PJVL9 / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 27 2015 at 19:16

I am a stay at home mom with three young children. We haven't lived in this city very long, but I have become great friends with my next door neighbor (Denise). She's a stay at home mom too. Our kids play together and she and I get a along great and have gotten really close. Her best friend (Pat), however, who comes over quite regularly is somewhat domineering and belligerent. Frankly, I think she is jealous of how close Denise and I have be...

Other advice forum category Lost Love (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 26 2015 at 05:54 by lupita956 RESPONDENTS: Sadako / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 27 2015 at 02:43

Ive been with my bf 6 years. We have an 18 month old child. He found a job out of state and has been gone for 5 months straight. One month before he came home to visit he said he needed time and he has no feelings for me. It was hard for me i begged i cried i did everything and he just didnt change his mind. Month later tired of doing as much as i can to get him back i said to him ok im tired of fighting for your love do what you want and be happ...

Relationships advice forum category Does My Husband Still Want Me? (Posts: 10)

CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 16:56 by Scaredandalone RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / tarheelmlv / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 21:34

I've been married 10 years. My husband has always been very loving and attentive. I was going through a difficult time last year. I had become addicted to my pain medication which led to methadone treatment. I knew my husband didn't support that route but I felt it was best for me. Last August I decided I didn't want to take methadone anymore so I quit cold turkey. I was just 3 months into withdrawal and sobriety when I looked at my husbands phon...

Relationships advice forum category Loving A Married Man, Is It Wrong? (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Aug 21 2015 at 18:37 by daygirl5 RESPONDENTS: knot2loud / susiedqqq / somesunnyday / IHeartPsychosis / Lscjccea / HappyOnTheOutside LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 20:28

It started out as a friendship, but has gotten so much more deep. It's wrong, I know. He is in a really bad marriage and is coping with a wife who has chemical dependency issues. I am in a bad live in relationship with a man who cheats. The married man and myself, have never even kissed or held hands... but we spend hours together talking, laughing, crying. And have recently told each other we love each other. but still, no crossing lines. I am...

Legal advice forum category Tested Positive For Illegal Drug... Whats Next? (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 26 2015 at 03:03 by justbreathe RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 17:34

Last week I was at a friends house where we both drank heavily and we both used cocaine. Instead of driving home I wanted to sleep it off in my car. Someone called either the fire department or the police, but because I wasn't driving I was sent to the hospital in a ambulance and was kept in the ER over night. My blood alcohol level was very high and my urine test came back positive for cocaine use. I did not cause any harm and I'm extrem...

Relationships advice forum category 2 Married Women Have My Heart (Posts: 46)

CREATED: May 19 2015 at 21:47 by Flynn RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Soulmate / rasperrr / somesunnyday LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 17:06

This is my first time sharing this kind of honesty... In elementary school I was bullied....severly. I changed schools in eighth grade to escape the bullying. In the new school, my goal was to get in good with the in crowd so as not to suffer the same fate. There will always be a pecking order no matter where you go. I was asked to be a girls partner for a drill teem dance routine in 9th grade. The girl that asked me was a "bottom feeder...

Relationships advice forum category Falling Out Of Love (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 24 2015 at 22:38 by September91 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 12:07

I am here to talk about my husband and this issue that we are going through. Honestly this is a little weird for me but I don't wanna talk to people on my life because I don't want to be judged or for them to know the issues of my life behind walls. I have a husband we have been married 3 years and together for 5. Last week I received a text message from a coworkers son and he didn't give me a reason why he was texting me but I assumed it was bec...

Relationships advice forum category 20 Year Friends With Benefits. Just Sex? Or Love? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 07:28 by scj74 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 10:50

Do you really think that the relationship I've been having off and on for 20 years(known him for 28)is just sexual with no feelings? He even named one of his sons that he had with his girlfriend the same name as my son. I am confused.We've seen eachother through 2 relationships he's had and 2 that I have had. I'm thinking about laying it on the line and asking that we do something more or stop 100%. I could be happy with this guy for the rest of ...

Other advice forum category I Am New To The Group I Have Had A Hard Life (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 22 2015 at 20:29 by Sazza RESPONDENTS: somesunnyday / Sadako LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 01:19

Where do i start? im 26 years old, i live in a small town that everybody somehow finds out everything and anything about me even if i keep it private. i am a solo mum of 3 beautiful children, 2 of my children are in the day to day care of my ex partners mother, i have day to day care of my youngest. my mum passed away when i was 16, she passed away to cancer, she also suffered from mental illness, i have a younger sister who also suffers from men...

Relationships advice forum category I'm So Screwed Up.... (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 01:41 by Stonecrest22 RESPONDENTS: Lilbigfish / susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 25 2015 at 23:53

12 years ago, I met a girl in high school after she transferred from a different school. We became friends during that time and after I graduated, (she was a grade under me), she called me out of the wild blue to ask me to go to her Senior Prom with her. Her date had ditched her and I had always told her if she ever needed anything, to just call. To my surprise, she did, and I was more than honored for the request, of which I obliged. I took ...

Relationships advice forum category How Do I Make Things Right? (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 04:16 by Julixe RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 25 2015 at 13:12

First, a little bit of background. When I was 14, I started dating this girl, and we dated for 7 years, I was 21 when we broke up. I think for the most part, it was a high school relationship that just lasted too long because we were too afraid to try new things. I was much more driven by my education, I transferred to a big university about 80 miles away. I lived in the dorms, but I never actually met anyone, because I’d go home every single w...

Relationships advice forum category How Can I Tell The Love Of My Life? Please Help (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 24 2015 at 18:55 by Hopelessnomore RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 25 2015 at 13:04

Ok, I'm going to try to make this as short as possible, and I hope that some of you wiser and more experienced can share your insight with me. I've been in a relationship for many years now and I love my boyfriend to bits. Due to academic/ job reasons, we have not been able to live together or even in the same city for a few years, although we've taken breaks from the long-distance thing and everything works perfectly when we live together and ...

Emotional advice forum category Can't Seem To Get Motivated (Posts: 7)

CREATED: Aug 17 2015 at 07:10 by Yup RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 / susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 25 2015 at 02:51

I am 15 years old and have been battling depression since I was 4 years old. In 5th grade I started contemplating suicide, but didn't go through with it because I was afraid that my dog would be sad every time the door opened and I wasn't back. I Sincerely thought that every single person hated me with every thread of their being. In middle school, I struggled with my sexuality. I prayed to god that I wasn't a lesbian every single day for 3 years...

Relationships advice forum category Why Should Sex Always Be A Problem (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 23 2015 at 15:02 by Relationshipsuck RESPONDENTS: Daniel4 / somesunnyday / susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 24 2015 at 12:34

I just cant give him enough of sex. I dont know why or what to do. Any tips, pls help...

Relationships advice forum category I Seriously Don't Know What To Do With Her ! (Posts: 2)

CREATED: Aug 21 2015 at 17:45 by Stressy RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 24 2015 at 10:05

I met a girl around my ages on fb last year, we begin to chat with each others till we get into relationships in 3 months time. We both love each others, but slowly she told me that she was marriage and had been staying with her husband for 2 years! She told me that she didn't love him because the reason why she marriage him was because the man are able to provides her shelter and living needs only. I was really shocked when she told me this...

Relationships advice forum category Too Good To Be True (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 23 2015 at 00:02 by somesunnyday RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 / IHeartPsychosis / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 24 2015 at 09:47

I am ingaged and we live together. I have a few issues. Today I will focus on one of them. He got online and private messaged almost 20 women asking them to have a threesome with us. That same night he disapeared. And when morning came he refused to answer my calls and txts. He literally caused me to lose my job due to tye fact that some of tye girls were employees of mine. What would you have done? ...

Relationships advice forum category Marriage In Collapse (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 23 2015 at 04:56 by Dr. J RESPONDENTS: IHeartPsychosis / somesunnyday / HappyOnTheOutside LAST POST: Aug 24 2015 at 05:51

My wife isn't in love with me anymore. We attended Community College together, then she worked to support me in Undergrad. Now I am in Medical school and she suddenly just became distant. I asked if she was cheating, she said she wasn't. She feels like I am leaving her behind and there is a division between us b/c I am learning a lot. She doesn't understand anything when I talk to others about things anymore. Her son is in an advanced Biological ...

Relationships advice forum category Have Taken On More Than I Can Chew? - Please Advise (Posts: 5)

CREATED: Aug 20 2015 at 06:38 by Concernedgf23 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Skinnygirl / PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 24 2015 at 04:57

I have been seeing my girlfriend for over a year now and I'm a bit overwhelmed. This is her 2nd lesbian relationship (she is bisexual) and has 3 children ages 11, 17, and 20. At the start of us dating she told me that she had been sexually abused by her mother's boyfriend between ages 5-12. She told her mother about the abuse on a couple of occasions, once as a child and again as an adult but her mother did not believe her. I've encouraged her to...

Children & Young People advice forum category Childhood Is Stuuf Affceting Me But The Older I Get The Worse I Get (Posts: 9)

CREATED: Aug 20 2015 at 10:56 by Flame123 RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / PJVL9 / susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 24 2015 at 03:56

me and my brother got put into care when i was 4 years old but however hard i try i cant forget my past, when i was a child. Ive got depression, dyslexia, adhd and im epileptic. I started getting really angry quikly when i was about 4-5 after i was put in care but now im older when i get angry i lash out but its worse than it was. I feel i cant go near people and as an effect ive been isolating and was self harming. I just need some help really. ...

Relationships advice forum category He Won't Stick Up For Me (Posts: 4)

CREATED: Aug 23 2015 at 15:31 by Ahz1977 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 24 2015 at 01:00

I was bad and I had to come clean. I looked in my husbands phone and it was not because I thought he was cheating it was to confirm he was being neutral. He refuses to stick up for me under any circumstances. If there's ever an issue with another person he claims that I alone must figure it out and that he will remain neutral. He does not understand why after considerable amount of time I can't just let an issue go no matter how serious it was an...

Emotional advice forum category No Communication, No Happiness (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 23 2015 at 07:30 by kmae8680 RESPONDENTS: IHeartPsychosis LAST POST: Aug 23 2015 at 10:33

I've been married for almost 4 months, but we have been together for 4 years. This marriage thing has definitely started out wrong and it's causing me to feel hopeless about the whole thing. I won't bore you with the details of our past but long story short, he is a very closed off person...always has been. He doesn't like to express his feelings unless they are positive and about himself, and when anyone brings up anything negative he immediatel...

Relationships advice forum category Is It Real (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 23 2015 at 00:17 by somesunnyday RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 23 2015 at 03:33

I am a year into this new rekationship. He asked me to marry him while he was down and unemployed and now that he is back to the norm...he wont even talk about wedding plans and seems to be treating me a little different. While most days he acts attentive to my needs he essentially is leaving me without. I asked him if all is well and if we could discuss the wedding and that was a wek ago He said he is fine just real busy and not one word about...

Emotional advice forum category My Life Is Falling Apart And I Feel More Than Just Depressed (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 21 2015 at 23:03 by Cloud9B RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Tartan / somesunnyday LAST POST: Aug 22 2015 at 23:11

This whole year has been one of the hardest of them all. I'm barely 21 and I should be enjoying life yet I'm stuck with so many problems. It all really start at the beginning of this year. I had a really good job that not only i liked but was paying me really good. My boss left and that's where it all went down hill for me. I was put down to part time by the new manager with promises that it would be back to normal soon. Then he tried to demote m...

Relationships advice forum category In Need Of Courage! (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 20 2015 at 23:29 by carebear1982 RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / Tartan LAST POST: Aug 21 2015 at 20:44

This feels weird! I have so many good friends yet cannot bring myself to talk to any of them - that in itself I suppose should speak volumes to me. I've been with my husband 11 years and married for just over 3. I am a doormat. Always have been. The worse thing is that I can see it happening in so many situations but can't break the cycle. Take any disagreement in all these years. If I say/do wrong I immediately apologize....to the poin...

Other advice forum category Should I Go? Can I Not? (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 19 2015 at 03:05 by OKJung RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq / PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 21 2015 at 18:41

Hello, I am eighteen and I still live at home. I am going to be going to university in the winter. During the rest of the summer and the fall until January, I will be living at home. Living at home has always been very stressful. My parents are bad with money, drink excessively and are very emotional people. Of course I still love them, but they can be very stressful to be around. I don't fit my family's ideals at all. I am very reserved/intr...

Relationships advice forum category Should I Fight For Us Or Walk Away (Posts: 1)

CREATED: Aug 19 2015 at 22:13 by Little_One RESPONDENTS: susiedqqq LAST POST: Aug 21 2015 at 13:23

I don't know what to do.. I'm sorry if its long. I have know this guy for about 2 years we started talking through facebook one day he had always seen me around and one day he messaged me. We officially met in person because we had a mutual friend at the time about 1 year ago and have been together 10 months now exclusively. (Before I finish Ama clear this up I was involved with the mutual friend that I had known for 4 years. We never dated or...

Relationships advice forum category Married, But Not Sure If This Is What I Want... (Posts: 3)

CREATED: Aug 20 2015 at 06:06 by Altreal RESPONDENTS: Crazy8 / manalone LAST POST: Aug 21 2015 at 06:54

I want to start out by saying that, for the most part, my relationship is going alright. But I recognize some potential problems, and want to have a mature conversation and get some feedback. Things could be going downhill, but I feel like now I have the time to sort through things and figure out what to do next. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 years now, and recently tied the knot. Getting married was a decision that bot...

Relationships advice forum category Affairs And What To Do (Posts: 13)

CREATED: Aug 15 2015 at 03:03 by arielagain RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl / susiedqqq / PJVL9 / Bevans / moody_one / :) / Soulmate / Altreal LAST POST: Aug 20 2015 at 18:55

I am married and this guy is married but we flirt all the time and there is definately an attraction there. I have so many mixed emotions right now and I just dont know what to do. Part of me wants to start an affair. We have never ever spoken about the attraction we have towards each other but we both know that it is there. I am so confused and I do think about him all the time. I am not sure if he even wants to act on these feelings. I hav...

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