Threads created: Jan 26 2015 to Feb 1 2015

Hi, its been 1 year know that I met this guy at school that I really like. We met at a party (not very romantic), he was really into me at first but I wasn't at all and as time passed I started to learn more about him and I really liked him. Since then there is this extremely intense chemistry btw use. Every time he's at the same party or club as me we can't help but staying togethe...

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. 33 years ago we dated on and of for 4 years. I have never cheated on him but he constantly accuses me of it he says someone told him, we have no mutual friends, he is emotionally abusive. When we were first together he was a dream come true. He loved me and gave me everything i ever wanted. I mean not just material things. He thinks i cheat with my ...

Hello, everybody! So, I'm not quite sure where to start exactly... I'm a young guy who has recently gotten out of a 2 year relationship with a girl who I truly loved. She was my best friend and most trusted companion. Everyone including all of our friends used to say we were perfect together. A little after 2 years, things just became... A little monotonous. Neither one of us had do...

I'm a 18 year old girl who's gone through alot in life,i never knew what its like to have someone to love and care for me or even being able to trust another person but myself until i met my boyfriend. We've been together for a year now and no its not always been perfect between us but we're always trying to make things work and no matter what,at the end of the we could stil...

I have a baby with my long term partner, our child is now 18 months old. My partner had a bad drinking problem which spiralled and at his lowest he found God and is now born again. We have not lived together for 8 months due to his out of control binge drinking. He became born again 5 months ago which is fantastic for him as he is no longer walking dead and our child has a functioning dad. Howev...

I broke up with my bf of 6 months and he is not doing very good, im worried, especially if he is drinking alone. Should i tell a friend of his that he might need some company? ...

Hi so I'm a 17 year old girl and I really like this guy I know and am friends with him (he is also 17 and we have known each other for about a year and a half). I'm not really good at the whole "knowing if someone likes me" as I have never liked anyone up until this guy and I'm not sure if he likes me as a friend or something more, he has just been sending a bunch of mixed...

Just wondering if there was anyone here that got a divorce after being married for a long time. I know someone and he doesn't seem happy but he stays cause he says he's comfortable. I just don't understand that. What made you decide to leave? And did you think you wouldn't but just decide one day that it was over?...

I need some help trying to figure out a situation I have been in.I was involved with a man for the last 5 years,the first year was perfect,we did everything I need some help trying to figure out a situation I have been in.I was involved with a man for the last 5 years,the first year was perfect,we did everything together,I met his children and we moved in together with 3months,I thought my life ha...

I'm 5 years married to my best friend. We are together 12 years altogether and although I had boyfriends before him, it was never serious, and he is the only man I've ever slept with. He is a good person and a good husband and I love him very much. For the last few years we have been trying for a baby and are currently going through tests to try find out why it's not happening. ...

I just really need some advice...I'm 19 my boyfriend is 23. We're in a long distance relationship. We live on opposite ends of the U.S. We've been together for 7 months...things were great at the beginning but lately we've been fighting a bit (I've hardly ever fought in past relationships)..we're young and we're learning and we love each other..but here's th...

Hello, So I am looking for a little advice. I have been single for a while and have been wanting to start a relationship. I tried online dating and actually found someone who lives in my apartment building. We both have a lot in common, both working in the medical field. However, he told me that he doesn't think he is ready for a relationship. He says that in the past he has a tendency to ...

I was engaged for a few years and I think I took my fiancé for granted. I did not feel I was ready to move forward even though we dated about 4 years. The love was there from both sides but he had an addiction and not a high moral standard and he would socialize with women who were flirting with him shamelessly. I was very hurt and he was the one who badly wanted us to be united family. He had a ...

I honestly do not know what to do anymore. I have tried so hard trying to please everyone else, and when I talk about my problems to someone they either tell me I have no reason to be sad, or they tell me to talk to someone and I cant....

I love my boyfriend dearly, but whenever we have misunderstandings he gets nasty and says really hurtful stuff to me like "are you giving me money" "stop thinking u are that special or i can't get any other girl i want" and a bunch of other crazy stuffs. He always apologises afterwards but it's been giving me concern. I know he is a bit temperamental but I'm wond...

Hello, I am hoping to increase my social life. In early years I was not a big social creature, however now I feel I am blooming into a more fuller person. I am married and my situation is being friends with people of the opposite sex namely women. My best guess is I probably shouldn't spend a lot of time with them alone. I was thinking maybe having lunch during a work day or inviting a fema...

Okay, so I just moved about 2 1/2 hours away from my boyfriend because i transferred to a new school. He and I were ever so happy until about a week ago. He keeps telling me the distance is killing him and he has done distance before and he just needs time to think if it'll work because he's scared and doesn't want to lose me. On the other hand, there is this girl in the picture tha...

I am in a three year relationship and now 8 mo engaged. We both had previous dysfunctional marriage of 18 years. We both have two children each boy and girl. However his daughter 21 years old is sabotaging our relationship every day. She brings chaos. She doesn't want to work or study goes out every weekend drinks do drugs and sleeps around. She acts savage is the wife and totally runs the sh...

So here is the deal, I am in love with a married woman and she is in love with me. She just has no idea how to leave her husband. Here is how things happened, the names have been changed to protect the beautiful, hick, and the witch. I met the hick and the witch playing a video game. Shortly after that I met the beautiful. Now the beautiful and the hick are married. Since I am a love machine I...

I love someone madly,,we both love each other so much,, one month ago he came and said he married another girl,,when i asked him why he do this? he said i am compeled to do so,,i stil love you etc etc etc,,, now i feel like i have nothing in my life,,i cried so much,, i am heart broken,sometimes i just dont want to live,it is so panic ,, i still want him because i love him so much,may be one day ...

Hi,call me Eve. Just so U know, this is my first time writing a problem online.To be more specific, it's not my problem but I have a feeling it will be soon... :( I'm still a highschooler and relationships are one of the biggest issue. A guy in my class always goes hitting on girls right after a break-up with his girlfriend.One of them were me and believe it or not, he was my f...

I am a dispatcher. My boss, although not directly, is the sheriff. I have "liked" her for months, long before I got this job. She told me she had feelings for me through text last week. There is no direct policy against fraternization but she does have a "not serious" boyfriend. And she is still my boss no matter how indirectly. We text a lot and the discussion often becomes pr...

So about two years ago I had a boyfriend and we had problems. Every time I tried to confront him about something I couldn't. It was like if I couldn't talk, it was beyond my control. If I did get to tell him what was bothering me he would turn it all around and I would just I agree with him. I guess I don't like fighting. Anyways, I didn't wanted to be in a relationship until I...

I have no idea how to handle my mother. She rarely trusts my judgement on anything. If I disagree with her on something she will say that I am completely unbearable, argumentative and that I am getting ideas above my station. She also accuses me of bullying her and will cry all because I had a different opinion. The night before I got married she had me in tears from being really mean to me ...

I have been in a relationship with a man for quite awhile and have recently discovered that he privately watches porn while I am asleep in the next room. I am bothered by this as again, I am right in the next room, why doesn't he come utilize what is real? I have never said no to this man for sex at any time or any way that he might like to try. I am trying t understand why he needs this w...

OK, so I have been divorced for 3 years from my ex husband; we have been together for almost 23 years and even after the divorce, we stayed friends. In fact, we got along better after we divorced some days than we did while we were married. I wanted the divorce; he wanted to try to work things out. I had been cheating on him, had cheated on him throughout our marriage. Yes, it was bad. He should h...

So I came out gay when I was 19; or though I knew I was gay from a young age 12-13, I thought it may have been a glitch in the puberty process. Since then I've fought it so much, as much as I try to change who am i, the more I become an enemy to myself. Eventually I took the first step to start talking to guys on dating apps, with such high levels of anxiety , which was obviously to the fact ...

Hi everyone, I have a really difficult situation. My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for over 5 yrs. We have lived together for most of that time. Our relationship has it’s ups and downs, like everyone else. But for the most part it is good. Her father is extremely ill at the moment, so she has moved to be with him and take care of him. She is only a couple of hours away. We agreed ...

hey guys I'm Alexa and I was hoping someone, ANYONE. could help me with boy advice. so there's this guy that told me he likes me through text. I told him I kind of like him as well. he's super nice, sweet, would never make me do anything I'm not comfortable with, etc. ever since, I've been really awkward around him in person and I can't help it. but basically if I wer...

Hey. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. She's my first girlfriend. To be honest she has nearly every quality I would ever look for in a woman, aside from a few major things. I'm a Christian, she's an anti-theist, and she's not very physically attractive, both face and body. She's an amazing person and she's giving her all in this relationship, and we c...

I love this guy but overtime we fight, as he hates when I ask him questions like where are u from. We have been dating for 9yrs 10months now. I think he goes for other women As I can't give him children. Please help...

I am posting this here to ask if there's anything wrong with me, if any at all - I love my wife to bits, and she is my all. But lately I've been loving it when she wears anything tight, or short, or a revealing top that shows part of her boobs. Is this normal? I love walking around with her, if she wears those skinny pants that show her booty, and specially if men look at her, it give...

There's a man I have worked with and over the last few months he has confided a lot in me including his relationship breakdown. We get on really well and talk a lot. I would have liked the relationship to go beyond friends and I think from some of the signs he has given me, he likes me too. Recently, another girl joined the team she is 13 years younger than him and has become very flirty a...

I am at desperation door. This is a long story so I will try and cut back where possible. I am engaged to be married in August of this year, I have been with this guy since July 2013 and from the day I met him, had the feeling he was the one. It's been a rocky road in places but in the main, when me and him are left alone, we are completely happy. The only problem we have between us (that doe...

Hi there, my bf of 4 years asked me to get engaged and subsequently asked me to make arrangements with the registar to organise our wedding. I did so and told him the date nd time. When the date came he backed out saying that we don't really need to get married as it may end in divorce and as we work we would need to pay. He promised me he doesn't want anyone else for rest of his life bu...

Nearly a year ago, I met a guy at my job who I hit it off with really quickly. It began as a friends with benefits kind of thing, but it got pretty complicated pretty quickly. There were things I know I did wrong in the relationship - I can be clingy, or too emotional, or just too intense of a person. I tend to fall for a person really hard, really fast. He wasn't perfect either, he is emotio...

Hi there, I'm 33 and have two sons, 1 and 3 years old. They have different fathers. Father #1 is still serving time related to domestic violence charges that he plead guilty to in 2012. He's in and out of jail, violating probation and whatnot, but still sees his son... only because I follow the law. I started dating father #2 when my first son was 1. Father #2 found out he had cancer a m...

Hi everyone, I know the internet is full of people with similar problems to mine but I was looking for some specific advice for me as a lot of the advice isn't particularly useful (general be yourself stuff). Let me introduce myself- I am a 21yo male. I am a highly skilled and qualified guy- I'm working in academia as a researcher pursuing a PhD in engineering. I do have quite good soci...

hi, so i'm not quite sure where to start, as the person i have a problem with, is probably the most complicated individual i have ever met and/or heard about in life or in media. but the core of the problem is such: my boyfriend and i are planning to get married. my dad is aware that we have been together for a while now, and that it's a serious relationship, but he completely totally an...

Thank you very much for helping me out! I'm a little desperate and I don't know who to ask for help, so I came here. I'm really sorry for the long post, but I need to let this all out and hope you understand the whole picture and give me your advice. I'll start by describing myself: I'm 24 years old, my friends know me for being a very happy, noble person and a gentlem...

My boyfriend of 4 months and me have had sex once in the past 5 weeks. He had been hospitalised a couple of times due to inflammation round his heart and was diagnosed with a condition called pericarditis, which can last for up to 6 months, and causes his heart to race and is very painful for him.The problem is that he says he has no interest in sex the now or for a long time as he still feels I&#...

I met this guy on a website called moco space 7 years ago... He was nice and everything at first. We talked through the site and eventually started texting and calling each other. We also video chatted and he was real, but what I didn't understand is why he never came. He's in the military rn &' he says that he's been in the same town as me several times, but that I don&#...