Threads created: Feb 21 2015 to Feb 27 2015

Hi iam a 28 year old man and have been in a relationship for 11 years with my partner. Our relationship has been a normal one until of late. Within the first 6 months of our relationship my partner went out with friends and met a lad while out and kissed him, cut a long story short she came home and explained all, I forgave her and we moved on. 5-6 months later she went away with friends ( the sam...

I'm 25 years old. 5 years ago I was dating a girl kind of far away. But I would see her every week. After dating for a year we broke up. I was a different person back then selfish smoking to much weed no work only party. It was a final straw that broke me. I gave up on dating. I feel deep into a depression. I smoked weed and drank in a den of saddness for four years. We kind of of kept in tou...

I have been seeing a guy on and off for a just over 8 months we have a great connection and a great sex life. However he blows hot and cold all the time one minute he talks about the connection between us and how he thinks we will be same when we are 50 snd the next minute its hard to get a convo out of him and we cant have a proper conversation He was in a previous relationship for 14 years ...

I am a 30 year old and married for 5 years. Me and my husband have had a healthy married life so far, off course with some ups and downs. Recently, when I was using my husband's phone, I read his messages. And the one that completely shattered my trust were messages to another woman, who he later said was a friend whom he met 12 years back. (One point to mention, this woman is in another coun...

Hi i am priyanshi a 27 yrs old women i got married before 2 years with my boyfriend we loved each other so much at that time.but now i realize he is totally changed.he argue and anger even a small things and start fighting he never understand what i want he always blamed me that you can not understand my problems.some times i thinkg this the end of my life i have nothing feeling hopeless.pls sugge...

Just when I thought I was doing fine, yes sad and lonely, but feeling positive, my mind is screaming for him, and I actually feel positive and happy that oh he is going to miss me, he will contact me today or tomorrow or soon!! im like get back to reality!! he is not going to be doing any of that and I feel stupid for hoping, that it was real, can still be real, or I don't know, making it bet...

Hello to you, who is reading this I am 15 years old, and might just be the smartest person in my school (I am doing the highest possible highschool in my country). I think a lot, maybe too much. By doing this I often come to the conclusion that everyone is pathetic and life has no purpose. Anyway, the problem is I feel like I am going crazy, because I am thinking about weird things, which &quo...

Why all of a sudden are you weighing on my mind? What was it about you that gripped my very soul? I've searched everywhere, everything, everyone to find that answer. I thought, if I could just figure out what it was, I could find it somewhere else. Then, maybe then, you wouldn't still be hurting me because you'd be powerless. You would no longer have this ability to make me fee...

It hasn't been long since we broke up, and he lives in a different town, no danger of seeing him!! he deleted me on facebook, and the only time I tried to call was once when he left over the wknd. its been really hard, not to think about him, or obsess. I had a set back and sent him a facebook picture a couple of days ago, to which he read and did not reply. I know I have to move on, get over...

I've been with my boyfriend for almost six years already and i feel like his real identity is only starting to unravel now. As much as I love him, i really cannot tolerate the fact that we only see each other 2-4 times a month because he has to do things with his family most of the time. He basically spends every single day with them and even during our 15min-45 min conversations, he still...

I felt like my life was headed in the right direction, i had really close friend and was doing an apprentaship in something love and I lost it all. While I was doing my apprentaship I got really bad acne, didn't want to go to work as my colleges would comment on it and I just didn't have the confidence to go out. My acne s stating to get better but I have no friends to see I have no jo...

I'm sorry if you decided to read this. I realize my problems are not the end of the world. However, my friends told me that if I worry about them then they are important to me and I should talk about them. Especially with people who might understand. For the past 3 years I dated a man who I didn't love. I knew it from the start but I settled. I wasn't miserable, he treated me we...

Married but very much alone. Just looking for some online companionship, someone to chat with whether it is just listening and encouraging one another or whether it involves some online adult fun or some of both. ...

Really trying to get over this "I need my ex back!" its only been a few days, but today im sad and low and want to be back together. there are so many negatives, but I just wish the relationship was really real, and im thinking he already moved on, possibly with his ex. just trying to make it through the day where I do not miss him anymore. ...

Grandma has been rotating staying with different family members to look out for her. She can stay alone sometimes, but not all the time...so she comes to live with different family members so that we can all take turns taking care of her. Her own children cant deal with her for too long, before yelling at her and getting in big arguments. Now grandma is a good person deep down, and tried to li...

The past 2 months, my ex snapchats me, flirts, and sends stupid and random stuff, and some of it I don't care about. I know he does that cause he still loves me, and he still does it. Sometimes he sends me 6 snaps with no reply from me, he's done that twice. Recently, he's text me (because I told him we needed to talk about stuff, and him texting shows he still cares for me/ us). I ...

Hi guyzzz. I have a problem dealing with the matter of my crush. It is a bit long story(not that long). But please, help me out. I had a crush on a lovely girl when i was 9th and 10th class. She kept looking at me and smiled every 2 minutes in the class. I liked her a lot. My friends even encouraged me talk to her, but i was very scared of talking to her. What if she refused..... She left the sch...

I'm an introvert person and 21 years old. Personally, I really like to do everything alone. I'm currently still studying. After the graduation(october 2015), I don't like to continue work in the manufacturing field but I still can persist to work for the next 3 years. In fact, I used to remember I like to discover anything in this world and help the others/animals or charity. I ...

A bit of backstory: I broke up with my first boyfriend because while I was gone at an engineering camp I developed feelings for another guy. My thought process was "If I can develop feelings for somebody other than my boyfriend, he obviously isn't the one". So for the past almost year and a half I've been dating the man I've been convinced I'll marry since I met him....

So I've been with my bf on and off for 3 years.We recently broke up for 3 months and I started to move on but recently he'sbeen trying to get back with me. He seems as if he's trying to change but he's cheated so many times I honestly don't know if he's being foreal or not. But here's the problem I met someone else. I'm not in love with him but I like him. I...

I have been with my guy a little less then a year we dateded in high school and reunited after 8+ years we moved in together 7 months after getting back together. I have a 2 year old and he has completely stepped in to the roll as an amazing step father and a great boyfriend which is where the problem lays he's a little two good he's amazing he's caring he's giving he's nu...

I have been with my guy for 18 months. I met him in Canada when we both worked in the same office. He is American and later on got let go and moved back to the USA. It's a 7 hour drive from door to door and I can't legally work in the USA, although I have spent months there with him without being able to work. He works double jobs and has three children from a previous relationship (...

Hello everyone and thank you. Some of you might have read some of my previous posts. I just hope you can help me with some answers or lessons... I need them. I'll try to keep this as short as possible. Basically, I'm super depressed and I just can't get out of it. This depression started about one and a half years ago. I went on a study abroad term (erasmus), where my life compl...

Hi I'm Rinku, 33yrs female from India.i m a doctor and I got married to a doctor 5years back, it was a arranged marriage. Our relationship was harmonious in the beginng, but after two years of marriage he started to threaten me of divorce on every small quarrel. He beat me first time when I was 2and half months pregnant, the reason for the beating was that I forgot to put date on my notes in ...

Lately I've been feeeling quite lonely, sad and unmotivated. I think it's been a build up of things. When I was 16 I was sexually harassed for a period of a year by a friend of mine. I never told my family and although I do feel like I have come out the other side of it, it still affects me every single day. Relationships have never really worked out either, I've been lead on, che...

Ok Peoples Problems, I could really use some opinions on this matter because it has been stressing me out and I want to know if this situation would stress any others. So to start the situation is my girlfriend has this new guy friend and although I really don't think she would ever cheat I'm stressing over this new guy because of the manner in which they are chilling and how often. ...

I found out a friend of mine of ten years is a pedophile and dating a fifteen year old kid. I confronted him about it and now he's starting and drama and telling everyone I'm making all this up and now I'm worried he's going to send people after me. I don't know what to do. The good person in me is telling me to turn him in because I have seen him with my own two eyes kis...

I'm having a problem with this girls iv known for 2 years now.We started talking about a year ago.. Getting close and hanging out. We both really like each other but everytime she leaves my house she always say "I just wanna let you know if I don't see you for awhile, Its not because I don't want to." Currently she's the youngest in here Family. I'm 22 years old ...

On January 24, I went to my friends birthday party. We're 16 years old, and her mom lives two counties over with her step dad and step brother. We went to her house, and some of her step brothers friends were there. So I had never met any of the guys that were going to be there. Her step brothers friend, Ethan, and I really hit it off, which isn't surprising because my friend Krista has...

Moved to different Universities last September, he stayed at home and I decided it was a good idea to go to Scotland. We did't end the relationship though as we're both really in love and were convinced we could make LDR work. However, we decided to take a break in October until I was home for Christmas. Just found out he has slept with 2 people over the break and dont know how to get ov...

So my ex and I are talking this morning and he asked about my sex life so far…and then he told me he did it with I’m guessing his rebound. I am kinda mad about it. But he keeps saying he has me. He said “you don’t have to use sex to get me, I have you ;)” what? I’m trying to get it through to him that he can’t use me for that. If he want he has has me like wants to get back? What doe...

I'm 23 with a 6 year old daughter. I haven't had much luck in the love department, I've been avoiding any kind of relationship for the pass 6 years cause I'm so afraid ill get hurt like I did with my childs father! But I did meet a guy at work and my coworker talked me into going on a date with him. I did and I was so nervous but i turned out really good. Hes kind, sweet and sm...

I told my ex last week that we needed to talk about stuff, but sadly he didn't interpret a word I said. But lately, he's been snapchatting me a lot, sending me selfies like he used to when we dated. He text me today (which I never expected, just a hey).* Is he starting to chase me? How do I do about this? Update (as of 9:28 as 2-17): I said Hi, he replied, "So why'd you neve...

A couple of months ago my husband and i separated. During this time i had met another guy that i started to have feelings for. The timing wasn't the best, but i really liked him and we continued to talk. He sent many mixed messages that had me confused, especially in my current state with feeling lots of emotions from the separation. I was so very relieved when my husband and i split as i had...

Hi. I'm 20 and have been with my girlfriend,21, for 3 1/2 years. We met each other through someone else in circumstances that are not usual where the guy told me she was his girlfriend but because she was beautiful I didn't believe him so I found out for myself. Turns out it wasn't true and 6months down the line we got back in contact and started talking. Every night we would talk f...

Hi, my wife and I have been together for 15 years, married for 13, in the last few years we have been through a he'll of a lot, her being bullied at work, turning to drink, losing her job, my insecurities I.e. thinking she was having an affair, then more recently I lost my dad and a short while later she after having councilling for her alcohol dependency had a relapse after we had an argumen...

Hi.. I am in a deep relationship with a guy from last 6 years and now we are planning to move to next step that is marriage. The problem is that he may or may not get divorce this year from his x wife. He is been fighting for divorce since last 6 years only but the girl is not ready and has ruined his life. Now the problem is as we are together since last 6 years we want to move ahead and convi...

I met a girl on a night out over a year ago and the second our eyes met across the crowded room it was like I had been electrocuted, I felt like I had taken a blow on the chin and was rocked to my core. I cannot describe it; I felt like she had just looked into my eyes and seen deep into my soul and understood me within a millisecond. Sounds insane I know. I looked away as I didn’t know what w...

I have been friends with this guy for about 8 years and we are very close. He is one of my best friends and I respect and appreciate his friendship a lot. I have had feelings for him for a while now (about 6 months) but I never told him. We both moved away for job/study and now live in 2 diff countries. I feel like i want more but I dont know how to tell him, I am afraid of him rejecting me bu...