I actually have a friend that we are more than friends but less than lovers. And a week ago we were whatsapping and suddenly my whatsapp got sick and stopped receiving any msgs.. Too many friends got mad becz i didnt answer and so on.. I dont kno if hes one of them or not.. I didnt text hin since when and he also didnt .. And it was about attending a wedding two days ago but he didnt text nor conf...
So my husband has booked a romantic weekend away at the coast in a few weeks. Lovely, yes? Except that he’s told me he’s on a boys weekend the other end of the country that weekend and knows I’ve arranged to stay with my bestie… I found the details of the booking on his email - he knows I have access to his email account, he just didn’t hide the sent items regarding the booking as well...
So I have a fool as a boyfriend whom recently decided to sell drugs because he's too lazy to get another job. He leaves me very often for days to go sell his drugs and ends up drinking and snorting cocaine. He comes home reeking in alcohol 2-3 days later and then apologizes for not coming home. He doesn't answer my calls nor responds to my texts. I've forgiven him more than enough t...
Recently I have begun to question why I have a relationship with my mother. I never had the greatest of childhoods but who did really? My father was an alcoholic, he abused me physically and emotionally. He cheated on my mom with my best friends mother (I was 8 at the time) while we were staying at their place. When I was 13 his bestfriend (My uncle) passed away from a heroine overdose, t...
My name is Ashley. I am still a newly wed in my eyes, a year and a half to be exact. When I married my husband everything felt right he had a son, which I loved and accepted so close to my heart. Once we married everything was perfect, up until 2 months ago. My husband had been in and out of relationships with his sons mother for 13 crazy years before he had met me. So u can image how much the...
I am pretty bad at talking to ladies. I want to get in a relationship and get married some day, but this social awkwardness always prevent me from it. I rarely talk to women in office or at parties. My friends try their best to help me, and once they even tried to set me up for a date with a lady through a matchmaking service named Premier introductions,http://www.premierintroductions.ca/ . That l...
Hello. I am a married woman 10 years and we have a 7 year old daughter. My husband is a nice guy and he loves his daughter. We have been strained since she was born. Marriage has been up and down with his online cheating and I have tried to separate 3 times but he does not want to leave. I always decided to stay and stick with the marriage for the sake of our kid. But even after a week of no fight...
Hi i have been with my husband for 15 yrs and have four children. The eldest is from a previous relationship of mine but has had minimal contact with her Bio. She is 23 and has Autism and Bipolar2. Our kids together are 10, 8 and 4. our life together has always been a struggle as our eldest wasn't diagnosed until she was 16 and a lot of the problems were put down to poor parenting etc. Thr...
(Skip the first 2 paragraphs if You want to get to the root of the "problem") It's been a pretty long time since i've even thought about this site, but i'm hoping i can get some really good--preferably objective--advice. In order for You to be able to see things from my perspective a little more clearly, i'll give You a brief summary of my relationship experiences....
in a couple of months i will be 20. i have boyfriend and we always wish to spent at least one night together but i live with my parents and they are very strict. they treat me like iam under age and that is not the case. iam doing everything right work and college never been in trouble now that i think of. still spending more than three hours with my boyfriend its too much for them. they say that ...
It was a rocky break up with my ex two years ago. And I haven't dated anyone after him because i haven't been interested in anyone but him. He already has a girlfriend but I just feel so stuck in just hoping he thinks about me. I've moved on in a sense where I don't neccessarily feel any bitterness towards him anymore but I just feel so lonely and depressed at times that I have...
okay so a few weeks ago I lost my virginity. It wasn't to my boyfriend because I don't have one, but I was very disappointed with myself for doing that. But anyways after that things changed like I started talking to guys easier and I had way more guy friend. So this morning my mom woke me up and told me to give her my phone I was so nervous because im not allowed to talk to boys and dat...
I'm a 52 year old male who had a drunken one night stand with a work colleague who is married with three children.I withdrew before ejaculation.A few weeks later I heard from another source that she was pregnant and the thought crossed my mind that I could be responsible because basically I am a worrier,I can find a problem anywhere. I contacted my friend who confirmed the pregnancy .She c...
My baby's daddy (Adam) and I have a 13 month aged daughter. We're both 25 years. We don't live together because we still don't have enough money to move out. He lives with his mother and I live with my parents and our daughter. My mother hated Adam right from the start even though she never met him nor talked to him she just heard things about him from my aunts and cousin and d...
So sick of always feeling rejected when it comes to sex or unsatisfied when it does happen for the two PATHETIC minutes that it does! It's always he is too tired from working all day and blah blah blah but even the days he's off its the same exact thing . Other than sex things are ok with us other than I wish he would spend more time verses doing all kinds of yard work and than complain ...
Hi, I've been with my partner for 8 years (engaged for 4 1/2 years), he is step father to my 2 children and we have a child together. About 3 years ago I got paranoid that my partner was cheating because he was getting a lot of texts from a female that we both know. This caused a could of major fall outs but we got over it. We seemed to move on it from it but the intimacy of our relationsh...
Hi! I would really like to ask for some advice, since I have no one to turn to. About 7 years ago, I was in a relationship with a guy (let`s call him Alex). Alex was fun, great in bed, loved me, and I loved him. But, I always felt a little uncomfortable with him. I`m 5 foot 1. He is shorter then me, and sometimes I`d fell like I`m molesting a child even though he`s older. Then one of my family ...
I lived in the same place for 17 years of my life. Recently, my family and I moved 3 hours away. I have always had problem with friends leaving, but I was the one that left this time. I thought that it wouldn't bother me so much because I frequently visit them between school and work. My problem began a few months ago when I visited them again. I am currently 19 years old and will be att...
I'm having a problem because I am a college student trying to make a way for myself and my parents and I seem to have diverging points of views about certain things especially as I get older. I wanted to start looking at different jobs and things for the time being because I have been ill but am trying to get back on my feet. I'm currently at home with nothing to do. And so I stated liki...
I have been married for almost 5 years. We have a 3.5 and a 2.5 year old and the last 3.5 years of our marriage have been really hard! I am always going back to the same conclusion, get a divorce, but then I wonder if I need to be a "better wife" as I am always told I am not. Soon after the marriage, very soon, I learned he did not have a paying job, had other children I was not awar...
I've been with my boyfriend for a few years now. I've also struggled with depression since a young age, and am currently in my early 20s. I think the most difficult thing for me is that I don't connect well with others and most of the time in group situations, I'm awkward or quiet because I don't know what to say. When I hang out with my boyfriend and his friends, if I don...
So I just turned 18 and just graduated high school in June. Right now I don't have a driver's license (I have a learners permit), a physical job, or really any friends (I have acquaintances but not like, friends). I'm generally a happy go lucky type person, and for money I do online art commissions. But my family is concerned over me being an adult now and yet still lacking a lic...
Hi, I am not really sure how to start this, and this is the first time I am on a public forum, please bear with me if there is something wrong with my post. I am 25year old Indian girl, well educated, well settled for my age. I almost turned down more than 100 guys proposals before my marriage and there comes my mother who always cribs for my marriage, she never used let me say No to any guy, s...
It’s not something I’ve actually talked to anyone about at all, mainly because I just don’t know how. I pretty much can figure out what anyone would say, from how to fix it or simply what’s bothering me upsetting them in some form or way. Lately I’ve just been… depressed inside. I feel alone, despite having my best friend and lover by my side. It’s not that she isn’t enough, but mo...
Let me start apologizing for the long explanation of my problem and for some wrong spelling or word while you are reading this. It started that she has a guy friend which so told me she likes the guy and she told me the ask for her to be his girlfriend but she said no because she was not ready for another relationship but if he ask her next time she may accept him because she really likes him, ...
Hi, i'm new to this website. I don't know how to start but, I guess I just tell you my story. My parents abused me as a child and it went on for years. One day my father kidnapped me and my siblings. We were young at the time and had no idea what was happening. He decided to send my sibling's back into my mothers care and just keep me. Of course I was very distraught at seeing my si...
Hi everyone, I've known this guy for most of my life. But we only got together a couple of years back and at that time we entered the relationship as a fling, because he would be living for further studies but as time went on I got more emotionally involved even though I knew it was wrong. I fell in love with him but was too afraid to say it to him coz I thought it would drive him away so I...
My name is Jack!Me and my wife have been married for 15 years.Honestly,I can't believe she did that.My wife is a manicurist.She works at a beauty salon which near our apartment.Recently,she's been inviting her "girlfriends" over for a cup of coffee.They used to gather at cafes or just elsewhere but since they were here I thought I'd take advantage of that and overhear thei...