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Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGirlfriend from the Philippines
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 23:15 by Northern Guy123 RESPONDENTS: manalone / PJVL9 LAST POST: Sep 1 2015 at 20:08

I am sorry if my story gets very long, but I hope you will read it anyway and comment it :-) Almost 3 years ago, during a 3-week vacation in the Philippines, I met a Filipina girl and we fell deeply in love. I´m from Northern Europe myself. She had a job as an assistant chef in a restaurant, was a single mother, with 3 children from a previous relationship. I already knew at that time that this...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 21:23 by MrsGomez2206 RESPONDENTS: Sandy D / becky555 LAST POST: Aug 31 2015 at 23:37

I am in desperate need of help with my marriage. I need advice and someone who is willing to listen or read I guess I've been with my husband for 12 years married for 4. We have gone through so much. I've always caught my husband talking and texting with other women. I haven't trusted my husband in years and honestly can't even remember when I had any trust in him. 2 years ago ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy ex
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 15:38 by Stressy RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 16:11

I have a serious issue for myself now, We had been broke up 6 months ago, we promised each other we will still be friend even when we broke up. I am really hurted when we broke up with her and im still glad able to be her friend, So we still talk to each other on whatsapp everyday, we are still close to each other, we promised we will be inseparable still. But, After a while i noticed s...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp. Need advice. Am I wrong to feel this way?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 03:41 by agnes1103 RESPONDENTS: somesunnyday LAST POST: Sep 1 2015 at 22:24

My husband and I have been together 6 years. He has two teenage sons from previous marriage. He is a great father and wants to be with his sons all the time. I understood that coming into the marriage, but I guess I expected things to be different than they have turned out to be. The first 4 years the kids came every weekend from Friday to Sunday, so we never went out, ever. On a few occasions...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWant out of relationship but scared
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 30 2015 at 02:16 by staystrongmum RESPONDENTS: Goldfish / PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 20:36

I've been with my boyfriend off and on for 4 years. I have a 16 year old daughter from a previous relationship and just had a baby with my current partner. When I was 3 months pregnant he made it clear that he was unhappy about the pregnancy. He has been verbally and emotionally abusive to me and my daughter since just before the pregnancy. I would have left already but financially am unable ...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I in love, or am I just used to him?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 21:49 by adelaide RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 30 2015 at 15:30

Hi, my boyfriend and and have been in a relationship for over a course of around 4 years. We started in High school, stayed together for 1 and a half years, and we broke up when I decided to go to college in NY. We went a year without communication then got back together and he came to visit me up there. He lives in Florida. Everything was doing fine and at that point I still felt the way I did ab...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryThe most confusing relationship of all time
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 21:09 by Dmu RESPONDENTS: starlite LAST POST: Sep 1 2015 at 18:24

Hello everyone, I posted something like this in the past, yet I figured I'd provide more of an updated version so everyone can get the basis of the situation. I appreciate any support and advise you can give me. I'm sorry for the massive amount of text, but it's the best way I can convey this situation to y'all. My life hasn't been the best in the past, but someone c...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryCrazy ex, controlling, bored in my relationship....
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 16:59 by Bubbles_88 RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Sep 5 2015 at 06:41

I've been in a relationship with my bf for a year. The relationship started off in the wrong direction because he was going through a divorce. Basically his ex has made my life a living hell.she would constantly call, text, and email me about him. She would leave five minute voice mail talking about what he has done and how he still wants her back. She even began to send me messengers on face...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel alone and unable to communicate with people anymore
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 15:09 by MIchaelXander RESPONDENTS: Bubbles_88 / mariposa / Starrlite95 / PJVL9 LAST POST: Sep 1 2015 at 02:03

I am currently in my first year of university but the mental picture that I had before entering has crumbled. I don't have a lot of friends. Ever since my best friend stabbed me in the back, I had this problem making friends, like I can never fully trust anyone new again. It's this dark voice within me that has been whispering negative thoughts into me, causing me to put on a mask. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryEveryone needs goals and dreams CREATED: Aug 29 2015 at 14:10 by nionthrie LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 22:58

I love my Mum. She's helped me through so much but recently she's started falling in to depression as her life-plan crumbled one weekend. Originally, she'd planned to move to this beautiful sea-side village that she loved and set up a business there but during a recent visit, she fell out of love with the village and the dream that she had held for years. Now she's lost and I d...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDon't know what to do anymore!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 28 2015 at 16:50 by J.william RESPONDENTS: Lakota / rasperr / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 12:20

Hi I have been with my girlfriend 2 and a half years now and we have a kid together I also have a kid from a previous relationship that I see often, since the birth of the youngest my girlfriend just seems to dispise my other child, I have been signed of work since the beginning of the year with a foot injury which means I am unable to pay any maintenance which the previous partner understands but...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know if he likes me
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 28 2015 at 09:46 by Persephone RESPONDENTS: Swim LAST POST: Aug 28 2015 at 17:08

Hi! First, I want to say that English isn't my mother language, so forgive me if I write something wrong. Ok, now let's begin. I'm 24 and I live in Brazil. In March I met a guy who's 24 too and he's basically everything I've ever wanted. We've been seeing each other every week since then. I already know some of his friends, he takes me to cool places and someti...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryHabits habits habits grrr
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 27 2015 at 10:24 by loisgriffin RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 27 2015 at 19:24

I moved in with my partner. He has two adult children one of whom still lives at home when he is not at university. My problem is that the son is incredibly lazy and has some pretty revolting habits. I find it hard to confront him as he has gone running home to mommy's in the past and has stirred up a whole lot of problems. I don't want to be seen as the evil stepmother here. I have spok...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI love my younger friend, but he sends me mixed signals
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 27 2015 at 04:27 by susperialover RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 20:47

So small back story about my self. I'm 24, I was previously engaged. That ended horribly, and I've been single for 2 years now. It's been hard but great learning to be alone and love my self. I'm also bipolar among other things, and have finally started therapy and medication. So pretty much my life has been hard and i'm slowly making my life stable on my own and working m...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryLost love
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 26 2015 at 05:54 by lupita956 RESPONDENTS: Sadako / skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 27 2015 at 02:43

Ive been with my bf 6 years. We have an 18 month old child. He found a job out of state and has been gone for 5 months straight. One month before he came home to visit he said he needed time and he has no feelings for me. It was hard for me i begged i cried i did everything and he just didnt change his mind. Month later tired of doing as much as i can to get him back i said to him ok im tired of f...

Legal advice forum category advice forum categoryTested positive for illegal drug... whats next? CREATED: Aug 26 2015 at 03:03 by justbreathe LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 17:34

Last week I was at a friends house where we both drank heavily and we both used cocaine. Instead of driving home I wanted to sleep it off in my car. Someone called either the fire department or the police, but because I wasn't driving I was sent to the hospital in a ambulance and was kept in the ER over night. My blood alcohol level was very high and my urine test came back positive for c...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryWhere do I start?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 23:12 by iK3V RESPONDENTS: Spent / Soulmate / PJVL9 LAST POST: Aug 27 2015 at 22:16

I'm at my wits end. Where do I start? Well, my stepdad molested me when I was young. I was burned in a house fire at the age of 9. Teased for it at school. Im on disability. Then my mom died 2 years ago of an overdose. A few months later my gf of 9 years left me and turns out she cheated on me with a few of my "friends". I got passed all these things, but I also think im an alcoholi...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes my husband still want me?
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 16:56 by Scaredandalone RESPONDENTS: tarheelmlv / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 21:34

I've been married 10 years. My husband has always been very loving and attentive. I was going through a difficult time last year. I had become addicted to my pain medication which led to methadone treatment. I knew my husband didn't support that route but I felt it was best for me. Last August I decided I didn't want to take methadone anymore so I quit cold turkey. I was just 3 mont...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryBeach trip
[12 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 16:50 by tarheelmlv RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 27 2015 at 19:16

I am a stay at home mom with three young children. We haven't lived in this city very long, but I have become great friends with my next door neighbor (Denise). She's a stay at home mom too. Our kids play together and she and I get a along great and have gotten really close. Her best friend (Pat), however, who comes over quite regularly is somewhat domineering and belligerent. Frank...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum category20 year friends with benefits. Just sex? Or love?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 07:28 by scj74 RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 10:50

Do you really think that the relationship I've been having off and on for 20 years(known him for 28)is just sexual with no feelings? He even named one of his sons that he had with his girlfriend the same name as my son. I am confused.We've seen eachother through 2 relationships he's had and 2 that I have had. I'm thinking about laying it on the line and asking that we do someth...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I make things right?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 04:16 by Julixe RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Aug 25 2015 at 13:12

First, a little bit of background. When I was 14, I started dating this girl, and we dated for 7 years, I was 21 when we broke up. I think for the most part, it was a high school relationship that just lasted too long because we were too afraid to try new things. I was much more driven by my education, I transferred to a big university about 80 miles away. I lived in the dorms, but I never actuall...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm so screwed up....
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2015 at 01:41 by Stonecrest22 RESPONDENTS: lilbigfish / PJVL9 / DittoMarks LAST POST: Sep 3 2015 at 02:05

12 years ago, I met a girl in high school after she transferred from a different school. We became friends during that time and after I graduated, (she was a grade under me), she called me out of the wild blue to ask me to go to her Senior Prom with her. Her date had ditched her and I had always told her if she ever needed anything, to just call. To my surprise, she did, and I was more than hon...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFalling out of love
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 24 2015 at 22:38 by September91 RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Aug 26 2015 at 12:07

I am here to talk about my husband and this issue that we are going through. Honestly this is a little weird for me but I don't wanna talk to people on my life because I don't want to be judged or for them to know the issues of my life behind walls. I have a husband we have been married 3 years and together for 5. Last week I received a text message from a coworkers son and he didn'...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow can I tell the love of my life? Please help CREATED: Aug 24 2015 at 18:55 by Hopelessnomore LAST POST: Aug 25 2015 at 13:04

Ok, I'm going to try to make this as short as possible, and I hope that some of you wiser and more experienced can share your insight with me. I've been in a relationship for many years now and I love my boyfriend to bits. Due to academic/ job reasons, we have not been able to live together or even in the same city for a few years, although we've taken breaks from the long-distanc...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage loneliness
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 24 2015 at 05:45 by HappyOnTheOutside RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / PJVL9 / Bluemel / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 29 2015 at 12:48

I always act happy. I'm good at that. But I really am very sad. And very alone. I think it's because my troubles aren't as bad as they could be. And I am very grateful for so many things, that I don't feel like my feelings matter. I am so alone in my marriage. And parenting. It is exhausting. I could list reasons but I don't think it would help. I think just letting people...