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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryCan't do casual, can I?
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 30 2015 at 19:11 by Felicity RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Nov 30 2015 at 19:53

Hi, This is my first time using a forum to share my problems. Usually I ask a friend for advice or work it out alone. But right now I feel like that isn't possible. It's not a serious problem but it is constantly there. I entered into a casual relationship over a year ago. At first it was just that, casual. Partly because I wasn't sure he wanted anything serious, but mostly becau...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLonely
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 30 2015 at 17:12 by anonymousfemale RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Nov 30 2015 at 17:21

So here I am in a desperate attempt to connect with anyone. I don't even know where to start. I'm a middle aged woman, married well over 20 years, grown children out of the house. Am extremely active in group activities where I should be making friends. Thing is, I feel like I can never make any headway. I don't understand what is wrong with me. It's like I'm permanently b...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySo... her mum found out about us
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 30 2015 at 10:08 by Cossack RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / Soulmate / thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Dec 5 2015 at 16:17

So... I tried the chatroom here first, but everyone was super hostile and I couldn't get in a sideways word. I hope that everyone here on the forum will be a little more productive....

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI am in love. With two men
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 30 2015 at 05:53 by aras ecnay RESPONDENTS: Amms / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 30 2015 at 21:14

I know that everyone thinks this is impossible, and i have tried to convince myself of the same but i know that i an in love with two men at the same time. I feel it in every bone of my body, it hurts with every thought, they are both so amazing, intelligent, hard workers. And I can't stand the thought of hurting either one i would give anything to take their pain away. if i could take that p...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySneaky woman scorned
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 29 2015 at 15:23 by Eva1 RESPONDENTS: Mrs Unsure / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 29 2015 at 16:50

I was married for 15 years and we have 3 children. In the marriage I realized my husband had several affairs. Needless to say we seperated. Upon the seperation, I realized that he had children with 3 of the women. We seperated for five years. I moved to another state and was in a relationship 4 years but realized we make better friends (maybe cause I am a woman scorned). My ex husband end up getti...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my partner girlfreind cheating
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 29 2015 at 10:08 by Poolchamp RESPONDENTS: Mrs Unsure / Amms / skinnygirl / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 30 2015 at 14:33

Hi I'm not sure weather I'm being paranoid but my girlfreind who I have been with for ten years and have 3 children with has afreind who she claims to have known for years. She also claims that he is gay. For the past two weeks I have went to work he has turned up when I'm not in. Last night I set the bed up in such a way I would know if anyone had been in the bed and someone had be...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage problems
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 28 2015 at 22:58 by Confused-tj RESPONDENTS: Mrs Unsure / Amms LAST POST: Nov 29 2015 at 20:01

I have been having issues on and off with my husband. He goes through stages of being in dating websites, porn stes, chat rooms. Everytime he says hes done, later he ends up going back. I have no idea if its me and there is something I can do differently. Its as if hes insecure and needs this to make himself feel better. When he gets this way he gets deffensive, always on his phone, even in t...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI really don't know what to do
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 28 2015 at 20:50 by geeky2015 RESPONDENTS: korr4now LAST POST: Nov 29 2015 at 03:37

I've been going to an orchestra for 2 years now. I was in second desk but i should have moved up to first desk. My friend joined and she's not the same standard as me yet she sits there. I feel that I should be in first desk because not only am I more experienced but I'm also older. The leader of the section said I should sit next to her i tried but my friend forced her way there. I...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryPost breakup anxiety?
[12 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 28 2015 at 20:43 by Antihero41590 RESPONDENTS: Mrs Unsure / Amms / thedynamicsofsoul / Nella LAST POST: Dec 6 2015 at 08:20

Hey everyone, my GF and I broke up in the beginning of November. Both of us seem to be doing unwell since then, unfortunately. I won't get into what happened or why we broke up (unless you believe that it will help). A history of my problem: It began the day we broke up. For weeks I didn't feel like eating, couldn't sleep and cried for her every night. Things seemed impossible ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryCurious
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 28 2015 at 16:53 by Curious76 RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Nov 28 2015 at 20:13

My wife is heading out for a business trip out of town I noticed in her suitcase she had a few items I didn't know she had like anal beads bondage tape shades of grey flogger and oral gel should I be worried or is she just trying to ease the boredom on her trip by maybe dressing up included was also a type of black bondage top ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes he feel something for me or is it a joke?
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 28 2015 at 09:21 by Berlin RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Nov 28 2015 at 13:59

So I went to this cast party last year, and this guy introduced himself to me, let's call him Ben. Ben seemed very nice, we didn't talk much, but we'd wave in the halls at school. A while in the future, I go to this small venue concert, and guess who's there, him. Ben saw me, and waved, and stood in the front of the room (as we were there early) and I thought that at some poin...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed advice
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 28 2015 at 08:47 by someperson RESPONDENTS: Amms / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 28 2015 at 19:15

OK so here it goes, I've kept everything bottled up inside for awhile now. So here's the thing I want to talk about and get advice on ASAP because I don't know what to do anymore or who to go to.. everyone I knew doesn't talk to me anymore and that includes family. So I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years(longest relationship I've been in), I don't know ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow should I follow up on ask her out?
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 27 2015 at 22:51 by hopeless94 RESPONDENTS: alonelydude LAST POST: Nov 28 2015 at 05:13

I like this girl that works to the GameStop I always go to. I wouldn't say that I'm a regular customer, but I do go there enough where she notices my voice on the phone. When I go to gamestop, she always mention something about how I could never prank call her because she knows my voice to well. I always get this vibe that she's flirting with me, but idk if she's lesbian or not...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to fix my life?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 27 2015 at 22:09 by hopeless94 RESPONDENTS: Tamworth / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 29 2015 at 16:41

I flunked out of college and lost my financial aid twice. so now I can't go to college because I can't afford it, I do have a full time job but still can't afford to pay it. I don't have the money; neither does my family to pay out of pocket. Joining the military to pay for college is a good idea (key word idea) but I'm too fat to join. I'm 5'1 and I weigh 216 po...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHitting rock bottom!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 27 2015 at 19:12 by Inamuddle RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 28 2015 at 19:07

To cut a long story short. I was married, 3 kids. My husband had bad temper, put me down, my couoking, cleaning, decorating nothing I did was any good. He ran up large phone bills ringing sex chat lines for years. I was still loyal devoted, he seemed to pick on.our eldest son a lot too probably because he looks like me. I didnt spend any time with my husband I suddenly snapped one day started to...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTension between parents CREATED: Nov 27 2015 at 13:39 by ANKUR LAST POST: Nov 27 2015 at 19:22

Lat week, my mother(57) got suspicious about my dad (62) being sexually involved with the house maid and lashed out at him. Though, she saw nothing as such, but there have been several incidents in the past indicating dad's promiscuity. Also, I have overheard dad talking to another lady in affectionate terms but i ddnt talk to my mother for the fear of creating unrest in the household. For a ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryGirl(friend?) problems... Looking for advice CREATED: Nov 27 2015 at 06:01 by goalscor91 LAST POST: Nov 27 2015 at 19:28

Alright... I'm 24m and I haven't ever really been a relationship guy before but I've met a girl at my university who really matches my "blueprint" for what I like in a person... I went against the usual initial feelings of avoiding anything serious and decided "What the hell, I'm going give this an honest try.. Not gonna hold back." ... To say the least, th...

Bereavement advice forum category advice forum categoryStepson's mother died
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 26 2015 at 20:40 by PuppyLove RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 27 2015 at 09:33

My husband's ex-girlfriend and mother of his 9yr old son died last week in a car accident. She had been cut off from my stepson since last May due to drug use, we tried everything to get her into treatment but she wouldn't go. He told me at the time we were trying everything to help her because he expected her to die of an overdose in the near future, I thought he was exaggerating. He...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy am I not important to this man?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 26 2015 at 09:03 by Missjoni RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 27 2015 at 18:08

Never in my life have i felt like i don't understand men. I don't know how I can out right say. That I need sex and attention then I get ignored. I don't understand. I don't know what's going on. Like what's wrong with me?? I can't quit crying right now to even write this post. Does he just not want to be with me?? I show him attention and give him oral sex weekl...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused about love
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 26 2015 at 07:38 by themegs123 RESPONDENTS: RAM731 / skinnygirl LAST POST: Nov 26 2015 at 16:50

I have been an on and off "relationship" with a Muslim guy for the past 3 years. I am Christian and this would be very scandalous and would (actually) ruin my life because I have very strict parents. For the first 6 months, it was emotional. Now it is entirely physical and we have done everything besides sex. We only speak if we want a quick hook up. We're both aware that we have no...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 26 2015 at 07:28 by RAM731 RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / Soulmate / Amms / Brave LAST POST: Dec 6 2015 at 11:18

After being so close friend and receiving all my support, money, time, favors, she declined to accept me as her boy friend, but did not dump me either as she found me very useful. One evening I warned her that since I have been with her for 8 years and taking care of her, I needed her in bed also, otherwise I was breaking away.Since she was almost loosing me, she allowed me to kiss her etc. But sh...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryI just realized that I'm still in deep depression
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 26 2015 at 02:12 by natc RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Nov 26 2015 at 16:06

I'm engaged to a European guy who brought me to his country land in 2013 for the sake of good future. Back then, I was a naive little Asian girl who desperately hoped for the best. 2 of us thought that everything would have worked out. It turned out to be a horror story. I wish I could've stayed the same as other innocent Asian girls, at least Indonesian fellows of mine. I have gone thro...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryProblems after engagement
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 25 2015 at 17:31 by Ashi RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / Amms LAST POST: Nov 29 2015 at 20:14

I am newly engaged to a guy.Its an arranged one by our family.Problem is i had a past in which i had a sexual relationship.While first meeting basis with this new guy i did mentioned about my past with a given limit that i havent crossed my limits and all...that because i cant specify all details at that meeting.That time he said yes confirming that he is ok with all this and i asked him no to tal...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryCan you help me get my love-avoidant ex back?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 25 2015 at 14:40 by zebra10 RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul / skinnygirl LAST POST: Dec 5 2015 at 04:33

I was with my ex for 2 years. After over a year, he'd never said "I love you." Seemed so emotionally closed off -- I knew nothing about his feelings, his future plans or dreams -- if I asked he'd say "I don't make plans far in the future. I'll see when the time comes." Would refer to how his upbringing (in a poor 3rd world country) taught him not to plan for...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNo one to talk to
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 25 2015 at 03:15 by Doorsfan2015 RESPONDENTS: sailormoon / Amms LAST POST: Nov 28 2015 at 19:13

Feel so alone wondering what is wrong with me...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused between two women
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 24 2015 at 20:06 by Boggled_brain RESPONDENTS: manalone / thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Nov 25 2015 at 15:46

I have been in a long-distance relationship for more than 4 years; when my first-love broke my heart. A few months afterwards I met a lovely girl using online dating site... she isn't what I expected in terms of looks... but she has a kind heart and makes me feel great to be around her. A few weeks ago my ex- reached out and said she wants us to get back together... I am very confused about w...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryMy coworker is making my life miserable... Please help!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 24 2015 at 16:19 by JHC91 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Nov 25 2015 at 15:47

Hi, I was wondering if anyone had any advice - would really appreciate it! I have been in my job a year now and got on well with everyone, the coworker I am having issues with currently has also had issues with several other colleagues - all of them puerile and unnecessary problems that could have been avoided. In my case, my colleague, let's call her Ruth, informed me that I was not allowed ...