Threads created: May 25 2016 to May 31 2016

So my boyfriend NEVER wants to have sex! Or touch me. Or anything physical. I've heard so many excuses and I've tried to explain that it's really creating a distance between us now. I've tried to figure out if it's because we had a baby, if he still has feelings for his ex but I just can't figure it out. We have been together for 2 years, with a short break after o...

I am so upset, a couple at my church and in my small group got married and had this wedding and invited everyone from my small group except me. I know this because I saw pictures of everyone from my small group at the wedding. This was after I talked to my pastor about whether it was open invite bc I didnt get an invitation and he said it was invitation only and that I wasnt the only one not invit...

My husband was texing another woman. I wasn't happy about it but he said she was just a friend. After a while he talked about getting coffee with this woman the day after our 14th anniversary. He told me I was being mean and just didn't want him to have friends. The tricky part is, years back he suggested trying "open marriage". I was hesitant, but wanted to be "good givi...

I got talking to this guy on a dating site a few months back. I found it a little weird after 2 weeks he hadn't given his phone number or asked for mine. One particular day I gave mine and said he could text me as I had to go for the day. I never got a text and when I came back he just said he had run into some crazy girls on the site before so didn't want to give out his number right...

First off, this has been eating away at me to the point where I am losing my mind. A friend of mine, E (does not stand for anything) had a crush on this girl at my school. Never thought much of her, except for one time she complimented something I was making. Still remember it until today. Then it started, around 9 months ago. We were on our last class trip. I sat with a few friends getting drun...

Three years ago new neighbours moved in. They were already known to be troublesome at their previous address in the next village. Almost immediately I had to call the police when he pushed his way into my house late at night to make a complaint about our dogs barking, a situation of his own creation when he drunkenly shouted through the hedge at them. The police took action against him by way...

So here's my problem. I just married with this guy for a week now, the reason behind our marriage is because I was pregnant. I barely knew this guy because I just met him on January and we're not dating or plan to, we contact each other just for a booty call only. But I keep this thing going because I have feeling for him. Then I found out I was pregnant and my parents push him to marry ...

Hii, Im Sam twenty one years male.. I have a stepmother aged Thirty-nine.. She is very very beautiful n hot.. .. Fair skin n thick long hair till hips.. You can call her 'beauty Queen' . I often get hardon seeing her.. She visits beauty parlor every week and ties hair in different buns n styles at home.. She's trying to be more beautiful n sexy which I hate.. Dad totally sup...

This is a bizarre one that happened to me a few months back but it is still playing in my mind a lot. I've lost a lot of confidence and feel quite humiliated. I'm quite anxious as a result and have been prescribed anti anxiety medication for the last couple of months from my doctor. (Although the anxiety has decreased recently ) Firstly - to get to the punch line, I was out one night...

Marriage trouble... So, first of all- I hate marriage and am totally against it since it has failed for so many people that I know. I find it hard to ever really fall in love either. Marriage has been an ugly experience for my mom and a lot of other people I know. But since I'm in India, they stick to remaining married and never divorcing either - making things worse and traumatising fo...

I'm pretty nervous posting this but I feel the need to get this out.Alright so on February 24 my mom came back home after a trip and announced she was engaged to a guy she had been getting to know over the phone for about 7 weeks. Just some quick background before I continue, back in January somebody gave my mom's number to a guy on the West coast and as you prob guessed we live on the ...

Hey everyone! I have been married since January now and my husband who is the LOVE of my life and soulmate I have no doubt continues to accuse me of sleeping with anyone and everyone. I have in the past run around on my last husband but I have not cheated on this one and don't intend on it. I just don't know what to do about his accusations and how to handle it. Anyone that has any ideas...

Hi (all names used are fake for privacy reasons) Recently my friend,George, decided to stop talking to me because I snapped at him. It all started a about a month ago when I was frustrated with school and I done something silly in order to catch up with work. My girl best friend, Natasha, told him what I had done and he told me off for it. I'm one who doesn't do well when someone is di...

was with this guy , we planned everything together even planned to have a baby together. I already have two of my own. I told him we even about having a kid u have to promise when start to get tough u won't run. he said he wouldn't. then all of a sudden he went off the deep end. because of his mental disorder he was put in the hospital for a week. the whole week he was in there somehow h...

Hello! I've never really done this before, but I feel uncomfortable talking to my friends about this so here it goes. There's this guy. I've never really been able to say that before. I've always kept to myself, at least romantically. Most people respected that and didn't try to connect with me that way. This guy did. He broke through the wall I had created. He asked me ou...

I want experience in the world. I'm just turned 18 and have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, the first boyfriend I ever had. He's had a couple of relationships before me and is now wanting to settle down and I don't know what to do. I'd love to get a flat with him and settle down eventually because I do love him and love spending time with him but I'...

HI ive been with my girlfriend now for almost a year.we decided to live together about 4 months ago as we were getting on great ,as she was on a low income i said if she just paid towards food i would pay all other bills , but now im just feeling taken for granted ,if we do anything as a couple i always have to suggest and arrange it ,where she is out at least once a week with friends while im at...

I've been married to my husband for nearly 13 years, and when we met I moved abroad to his country (I'm American, he's English). Despite feeling very vulnerable when relocating and having to start over in my career and life, I have done my best to carve out a good life for myself. My self esteem at that time (and really through most of my life) was pretty low, and I found it very ...

Hi everyone, I request you all to provide me some solution to my life problem. Actually I am in deep love with one girl from many years onwards we both love each other widely. as usual they are certain misunderstandings occurs between any pair. but what my actual problem is I am person with attitude like concentrating more on career only I don't have much interest towards my beaut...

I just wanted some help and advise. I am 8 months married and have been with my husband for 11 years. We had a rocky start and I guess in essence I have always felt like I was 'lucky' when he moved in with me and eventually asked me to marry him. (In our first three years together he broke up with me twice and had a drunken one night stand). However we had been together for the las...

So, I'm 23 and never been in a relationship. In fact its quite uncommon for me to have feelings for a guy. (never a girl) I only state this to demonstrate just how inexperienced I am. Over the past few months I got to know a guy as a friend and pretty quickly developed feelings for him. After a month or two of shy flirting a drunkly asked if he had any in return, he said he as still getting t...

Before we even had children, I was the one who took care of the birth control. We agreed that after we had our 2nd child, husband would go and have the vasectomy (V). After our 2nd child was 6 months old and still no V, I went ahead and had an IUD put in, which was a 5 year plan. Done. Five years passed. Still asking him to get the V done, but would hear "I'll do it in the spring.&qu...

I am 22 yrs old and I recently got into a pretty serious relationship (6months). My folks are super old school, and can't bare when I ask to stay the night at my bfs house or suggest that he stays at my house (which I still live with my parents). I feel so limited to the things I can do there, I feel like I can't grow up. His family is much different than mine, and they're really we...

My mom is in the hospital, stage 4 breast cancer, I m currently staying with her in the hospital, she won t let me sleep. I just want a friend to talk to. Ya know? Just to talk to..I'm just very lonely and need someone to just talk to me. Please. She has stage 4 breast cancer, it spread to her brain, and in her bones. I have a lot of free time on my hands, but not too social because well, i&#...

First and foremost, before i get any links to psychology websites or articles or -whatever, I'm religious.I try to base my conduct off the bible, what it has set for me, and try to avoid what it clearly tells me to avoid. I've had one problem thats been.. Thats been a huge wall in my spiritual progression. I .. Masturbate.And ,although not frequently,also view pornography. I know for ...