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Other advice forum category advice forum categoryWas I wrong?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 29 2016 at 15:35 by Elbell1 RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer / thisisStar / ProblemSurfr LAST POST: Jul 3 2016 at 22:29

I have known this person for five years he is your typical por pulse boy handsome bully he manipulates people mucks up stuff for people is arrogant and quite honestly not a nice person. However I went through a phase of liking him but it was more a case of liking the idea of hating before loving. He could sometimes be funny even though he was an idiot which was incredibly irritating and sometimes ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWife seems anxious to enter into a separation agreement
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 29 2016 at 12:49 by MyWitsEnd RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 30 2016 at 04:54

This is in addition to a previous post I made, but the subject matter seems to be useful on its own. My wife and I are currently in the process of deciding the fate of our relationship after over two decades. She has recently had the desire to explore life, alone, since our kids are all grown up, and she feels we are incompatible with each other. In some of the earlier talks in this situatio...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I being paranoid? Or am I right?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 29 2016 at 06:24 by Rosebud33 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 30 2016 at 04:46

So, I'll try to be brief. i feel like my husband of 2 years is being more secretive. I know that he cant be having a physical affair because I'm usually in the same house as him. Anyway when we started dating 3 years ago he'd let me look at his phone or answer his text messages, Recently hes been insisting on needing "privacy". i found messages from a friend of his (singl...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBest friends exclude me
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 29 2016 at 05:39 by Alli RESPONDENTS: Moomin2016 / thisisStar LAST POST: Jun 30 2016 at 13:23

My best friends always hang out without me and I care about them so much that I don't want to lose them so I don't want to get mad at them or get In a fight or say anything because me favorite one (let's call her Laynie) will probably hate me for ever if I'm mean to her. At least twice a week they hang out without me even if I ask them if they want to go do a certain thing with...

Children advice forum category advice forum categoryCustody issues
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 18:39 by reggie RESPONDENTS: Ninalola LAST POST: Jul 1 2016 at 18:03

My ex and I broke up because he was not treating me right or doing the right thing for our son. When my son was a baby he bought a boat and spent all his time and money fixing it up. Meanwhile we live in a small apartment and this a 33 year old man. My son is now two and my ex gets him most Fridays over night and two days during the week he brings him back in the evening. He is constantly telling ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGive him a chance
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 16:04 by Peb123 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 29 2016 at 06:49

Ive got the chance to meet a bloke from a dating site. Says hes still living with his wife and two kids but they only stay together because of the kids. Told him why is he cheating if he is genuine as he says he is, told me he would rather meet tell me then instead of in text or he would call me and tell me if i wanted to know. I asked him if he wanted a relationship with someone then how could th...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryWill I ever be okay?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 13:22 by BillyJoe2 RESPONDENTS: Lucie7 LAST POST: Jul 1 2016 at 03:55

I had know this girl since about 8th grade, Im now going into 11th grade and will be a junior in high school. I will just start from the beginning. Sorry, this will probably just be a rant to help me with this, and I know this seems like im just being a pussy or I'm just worrying about nothing, but it has been eating me away, so feel free to call me a wimp. It started when I was in 8th gra...

Crime advice forum category advice forum categoryRadio bully, family bully, work bully and domestic violence
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 05:14 by Dj chi RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 3 2016 at 14:13

Hi! Im a Victim of Radio bully from Philippine radio station.It started out like this...Im a big fan of radio and i love mixing music and listening to it as a hobby.I enjoy drawing also like manga style and make story out of it.When i post my story and drawing they start to criticise and saying rude and humiliate my drawing over the radio because i refused to draw them in sex scene and in bed scen...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryHusband and I are always fighting
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 20:45 by Briana266 RESPONDENTS: Same boat LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 04:11

I just don't know what to do anymore about this arguring/ fighting I'm just fed up! Anyone else in this situation? ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryCommitment issues??
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 20:39 by dna RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 2 2016 at 19:45

Okay so, i've barely had serious relationships, and this is due to to fact that when i get too attached i get frustrated, i become antsy, overly emotional, a bit irrational, i get upset over nothing,i feel like i trust the person, but my expectations of them are quite low, like i expect them to be unfaithful etc, and it drives me crazy. i hate feeling so attached because of how ansty i get,...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryA broken relationship
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 20:27 by JustAnotherGirl15 RESPONDENTS: Same boat / a2345pposl / Bright LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 15:25

I am 15 years old. In the beginning of my freshman year, I met this guy, lets call him N. He is 17 now, and he is going into his senior year and I am going into my sophmore. We have been together for 9 months now, and he is someone that has changed my life in some of the craziest ways. He is the only guy I've ever met that I am completely myself around. I can truly say that I love him, and...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy mom will tell everyone what a nasty person I truly am ;( Does she still care?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 19:13 by Akiko_Mia RESPONDENTS: Dj chi / Ninalola LAST POST: Jul 1 2016 at 18:35

So I've been a mean and nasty person since i was a toddler. I've scratched my mom many times relentlessly and left many scars over stupid things because I was such a spoiled, nasty brute. I've been so mean and she's been so tolerable. But not anymore. Shes been taking videos of me and pictures of her cuts. She said if i scratched her one more time she's going to call th...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryCan I trust my husband again?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 16:37 by tiredwife RESPONDENTS: Briana266 LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 03:54

My husband and I have been married for 4 years and I don't trust him anymore causing me to lose any attraction towards him. I often feel like I am the only adult in this marriage and have 3 kids not just 2. I talk to him and he says the right things and it gets better for a little while but it goes back to the same old same old. This is both of ours first marriage and he didn't grow ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy best friend has refused to come to my wedding because her ex is invited
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 13:43 by Moomin2016 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jul 5 2016 at 07:00

Hello, I'm new here! Really need some advice please. My partner and I have been engaged a while and want to plan our wedding within the next year. My best friend got wind of this and asked me if her ex boyfriend would be invited, to which I said yes. My friend was in a relationship with him for 4 years and it ended nearly 3 years ago now. She has nothing to do with him or mutual friends a...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhether to pursue a relationship or not
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 06:36 by jbaseman1 RESPONDENTS: thisisStar LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 03:20

I feel as though I am in an awkward situation and I don't know where to go. There is this girl that I talk with everyday constantly and I have grown very close with her. I have gotten to the point where I wish to have a relationship with her but I don't know if I should. I have just recently graduated highschool and she will be entering her sophomore year of high school. We are only ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFellow spouses affected by Xbox addiction
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 03:33 by Lonelywife2016 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 2 2016 at 19:40

Ok start from beginning we will be married 2 years next month. We have 3 kids two from previous relationship of mine one is disabled then we have a son together. We were doing great till he quit his job due to find a dead inmate at the local prison he got on Xbox and never got off then he got another job and it got better again. Then his Kim passed in October of last year I planned the funeral pai...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it actually this big of a deal???
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 27 2016 at 02:12 by Bluehues RESPONDENTS: thisisStar LAST POST: Jun 27 2016 at 09:27

Hey guys im new here Im in 2 nd yr of uni rn and I've been stressing over my masters degree that will obviously start after I complete uni in the next two years. So from where I come from, it’s extremely hard for females to live without a man. Everyday chores become a big hell because people just don't consider females equal so they make a fool out of us. I swear I can't even g...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryAn office affair. Maybe.
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 26 2016 at 02:25 by Leenick RESPONDENTS: manalone / Same boat LAST POST: Jun 28 2016 at 02:39

I'm going to dispense with the backstory since I have already had to write this two other times. I lost it both times due to technical issues. Basically. I am married for 10+ years. Kids. But it has been an emotional black hole for 7+ years. We have only ever had sex with each other. High school sweethearts. It's just as bad as everything else in out marriage. I haven't been hap...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship problem?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 20:33 by MariaS RESPONDENTS: MyWitsEnd LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 02:50

My bf and I have been together a few years, he had a drug problem and our relationship wasn't good at all. He is now on medication however our sex life is .... there isn't one he says it's because of his medication, I think he's been looking at porn but I'm not sure when watching movies online alot of adds pop up & it could be that but I'm not sure, something seem...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I like fighting physically with my mom??! How to fix help
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 19:07 by Akiko_Mia RESPONDENTS: thisisStar / heythisisstar LAST POST: Jun 27 2016 at 20:31

Okay, so it was over something extremely stupid, and all my fault.So it began with yelling then she tried to throw away my stuff. When she does that, it irritates me and I wanted to show her what would happen if she did that to me. The fighting began in my room. She grabbed my arms and dug her nails into me and threw me onto the bed. My instincts saw opportunity and I reached up and kicked her in ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes my boyfriend still love his ex?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 06:20 by MariaS RESPONDENTS: Akiko_Mia / manalone LAST POST: Jun 26 2016 at 06:57

Hi, I need help with a situation I am in, I have been with my boyfriend for around 3 years now & the beginning of our relationship wasn't the best the first year & a half wasn't really good but I didn't think of cheating & I still don't think he cheated at that point, however his ex did text time a few years ago just after new year saying very sarcastically "H...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFiguring out how to have a sex life with husband after having three kids
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 06:09 by dobb RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 15:53

I've been with the same guy for 16 yrs and we have three children and at the beginning of relationship we was having sex 5 to 7 times a day! I got pregnant with our first child 2 months later. we had hard times but got back together and things was looking up. We had issues which I may talk about if I feel comfortable later on and I got pregnant with 2 child 4 years later and at the time my hu...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDepression in your spouse
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 01:27 by Bean2p RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 15:57

Hey I am at a loss of what to do or feel at this point. I love my partner with all my heart and in fact unconditionally but his depression is not only hurting me its making me so damn angry. The thing is I KNOW how he is feeling, 7 years ago I attempted suicide and had a 2 month stay in a Psychiatric ward. We have been together for over 10. So he knows that I understand, but being the pers...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFell in love with a friend who's in a relationship
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 01:23 by Helena3087 RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 16:08

A few months ago I realized I was in love with one of my really good friends from college who is in a previous relationship. We've known each other for over two years and really became close this past year. The last month of our time at college we texted 24/7 and hung out as often as we could, but always in a group setting. We finished up school for good in April but have continued texting 24...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryChildren with a married man - what is next? CREATED: Jun 23 2016 at 13:48 by Violett LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 23:01

I would like to know what others think: I had a 2 year relationship with a married man with kids who lied to me that his marriage was almost over. He left his family and we were together for the last 6 months, he suffered and missed his kids and eventually reconsiled with his wife and left me. Few weeks later he wanted to be in contact with me again as he missed me. At this time I considere...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBreaking-up over lack of intense physical attraction?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 23 2016 at 12:37 by Zauberer RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 23:44

Hi all, Apologies for the length of this post I tried to write this down for the first time in the hope it will bring clarity to the thoughts that have been plaguing me. The situation: I [28 M] have been with her [24 F] for 5 years. Everything is great in theory. We have a lot of fun together and a real “mature” and stable relationship. We enjoy doing the same things and spend nearly al...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWould you consider this cheating?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 23 2016 at 06:31 by Secondrodeo RESPONDENTS: Raye LAST POST: Jun 24 2016 at 06:41

Quick background : my 2nd marriage, his 1st, no kids together, married almost 6 yrs but have known each other for 30. We are really close with another couple, we are all best friends so we joke around a lot and can get pretty silly and crass without anyone thinking much of it. I'll call the woman in the couple "Tammy". Anyway, I was talking to Tammy on the phone, just a general...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryOur 3 years relationship is over because my boyfriend's parents don't accept me
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 23 2016 at 04:27 by lizzylann RESPONDENTS: Raye LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 06:16

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we had all this plans for our future, getting married and such after i finished with nursing school. I am 25 years old and my boyfriend is 27. I am half vietnamese and half korean and my boyfriend is full korean. He recently told his dad about me and his dad doesn't accept me and already judging me because my family isn't wealthy and ...