Threads created: Jul 21 2016 to Jul 27 2016

Offering reflections is like offering a reflection in a pond for someone to see themselves in. A few ripples in the water can often be what helps the person see more clearly. By having to decide what ISN'T and redefine what IS. Emotional situations effect people in ways where they say things they don't mean. So redefining ones true view of the people they are in conflict with i...

I am anorexic, but at a healthy weight (BMI 19-20). Male CS engineer in his mid twenties. I struggle with it daily, often skipping meals or starving myself for days on end. My personality is withering away and my favourite hobby, the love of my life, has taken a poor back seat. Any help I get from doctors or similar hasn't worked and I do not get to see any specialists here in my country sinc...

Hello, This may sound silly but i would use an advise that would help me out and i am am writing this because i badly want to get over some one as soon as i can and heal my heart and be happy. i would like to get some advise on how to get over a guy i once loved and he decided to reject me for some one else. any advise will be highly appreciated. i am tired of worrying, i wana move on a...

Hi, I'm a 19 y/o and so is my boyfriend weve been dating for almost a year now and friends for 4. Into our 3rd year of friendship our relationship went really south, and I still seem to have problems getting over it. He always had a crush on me since we met and I kinda knew it but wasn't interested for awhile. And I know its partially my fault for taking so long but right when I started...

I'm 17, have had only one serious relationship so far, that thing ended badly. Since then, i kissed 3 girls, but that's it, tbh i don't know if it was because i wasn't interested enough, or if they weren't interested enough, but those 3 kisses never got any further. Finally, a month ago i went on a trip with several dozen people to Greece and met this incredibly hot girl t...

I have been in a relationship with my fiance for twenty years, we have two children. My car is in the garage for repairs so fiance (f) had said he would pick me up from my night shift. I finish at 4am. His mom said she would stay over incase kids woke up. I call him at the end of my shift, he said to carry on walking and he would drive down to me. So I did. It is almost impossible to get a...

Okay, i was recently married on July 2nd 2016, my wife moved out on july 19th. Shd did basically all fhe planning and was very excifed about our marriage. But we have had alot of issues with her boss messaging her 100-150xs a day asking personal questions sending rainbow heart emojis, sending pictures complaining about her weight almost as fishing for complaiments. I ended up losing my job because...

I desperate for help! My 9 year old daughter who I raised alone for 7 years was the best and most well behaved child. I felt so lucky, she never disrespected me or acted out until the past year. I got engaged a year ago and we bought a house and my daughter's life has improved greatly. She has her own room, gets spoiled by my parent's, my fiance's and her biological father's...

I am 24 , by time i I start my mbbs I will be 25 or 26 ...i did masters in an arts subject becoz i could not aford mbbs but my bf of two yrs loves me insanely and we can pay our mbbs bills together- however my boyfriend wants to get married soon and after hearing my dream he got angry and said ok fulfil your wish we will get married after complting ur mbbs- becoz he think our marital life and sexu...

Hey guys, so like a lot people I like to wear jeans, but unfortunately I have this problem. Whenever I sit down or bend over my butt crack shows. I don't always "feel the breeze" but when I do I try to pull up my pants but they end up revealing my crack again as I continue to move around. I enjoy wearing jeans so if anyone can relate or help me out let me know. I appreciate the ...

Hi everyone, I wanted to ask some of your advice regarding my current relationship and whether to keep it. I feel I´m currently not equipped with enough knowledge to confidently make this decision. I posted this in the general discussion page as I felt it to be more fitting, hope it is the correct place. We have been together for three and a half years now, we had very good times and not ...

I have found my relationships to never work out the way I want them to. I have made improvements over the years but I never got very far in the love department. Recently, I found someone who I feel connected with and isn't either touchy nor emotionalless. However, he is leaving fairly soon out of the city to follow his practice and make a career out of it. Thinking about it just makes me extr...

So I work hard, as does my wife. I try hard to get her everything and to provide for the family. I book weekend trips, try to do something different often. I work long hours, often getting home at 8 or 9pm if not later. Career wise I am doing great, as is she. I would like to know if I am being unreasonable.... My wife NEVER wants sex. If I touch her, I can feel her wince. I'm no stud, I am o...

Hi Everyone I am hoping to get some sound advice since I have spent the entire weekend bawling my eyes out. I have been dating a guy for 4 months that is a coworker. He expressed interest in me for a year before but I was devastated over a previous relationship so I was always very scared. Four months ago we finally started dating and it started out great. He planned a trip for us and was...

I have to get one tomorrow, or maybe two... And I looked it up, the hpv shot hurts ALOT. I may also have to get another shot to register in my school. I'm acting pretty babyish but I'm serious I hate hate hate shots so much! Ugh! Tomorrow morning I will have to get the shots then I have to go to swim practice, it will be sore. If you're wondering, yes, i hate pain and am prob...

have recently discovered the traits of how my husband has been with me over the past 2 years (completed 4 yrs in May) to narcissistic personality disorder. anyone can help me how to deal with him as seeing a NPD husband is very hard and its an emotional abuse when you are given the silent treatment, disconnect, disinterested, self centered, egotistical, chauvinistic. i don't want to le...

just after some advise really .im really not sure what im getting my self into.. ive meeting this guy for last three weeks couple times a week ..anyway i do know him from works too hes been work collegue for about erm 8 years our more but ive not really had anything to do with him outside work until i ask him about something to do with a computer program i was looking for because i remeber he was ...

A lot of people are having relationship problems and I believe that when we have something defined...we live within that definition. When we know what love is... it is easy to know what love isn't. We are protected by our own definition. WHAT IS LOVE HOW SHOULD LOVE MAKE US FEEL LOVE IS NOT LIMITED TO RELATIONSHIPS... WHAT DO YOU LOVE MADONNA... In her incredible and extensive...

I am 38 years old, I have never had sex and I have never had a girlfriend. I've tried going out to clubs, I've tried online dating, but women never choose me. I don't want to be single and I would like an abundant sex life. ...

Hi there, thanks for looking at this thread. It's a bit long, so bear with me, any insights you could give me would be super appreciated, I'm at a loss about how to handle this and move on. So a bit of back story for context. I'm currently engaged to my boyfriend of almost five years. I'm 26 and he's 23. He's my first serious relationship and the only person I'...

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Where to begin..I have been single for just under 2years now and have dated now and again since my last relationship, however since my last relationship (which didn't end to well) I have become so clingy with my potential partners that i am driving them away and in the process driving myself into an anxious state and getting very down about it. It all started when my ex left me with no rea...

I AM 42 MARRIED WITH 3 CHILDREN TO MY FIRST PROPER BOYFRIEND WHO I MET AT AGE 16. WE BEEN TOGETHER NOW FOR 26YRS, MARRIED FOR 15YRS HAPPLIY. HE IS THE ONLY PERSON I HAVE EVER MADE LOVE TO. HE IS EVERTHING TO ME AND MORE WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD A GOOD SEX LIFE, NEVER ANY BREAKS IN THE REALTIONSHIP SINCE WE MET ..... BUT I AM INCREASINGLY CURIOUS ABOUT WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER MAN. TH...

Hello, Our is a arrange marriage. Its been four months now to the marriage. Husband stays in UK. Our Engagement took place One and half year back. There was a complete one year gap between we committed for marriage to each other and our marriage took place. Initially husband delayed the marriage because he was seeing other proposals even after committing me for marriage and doing a small engageme...

Okay, I'll start off sharp. I'm in a 3 year relationship, I live at his and I'm unhappy. I've been unhappy for a while now and I keep trying to make things work by planning something and thinking this will make things better - when it never, ever goes to plan. So my expectations get crushed so badly. And I'll think why did I fall for this again and then I'll plan some...

I am 33 years old and have been married and with the same woman for 10 years. My issue is my circle of friends and I am not sure where to go or what to do. I had good friends in High school and kept those friends through College but we all sort of went our own ways. When I started dating my wife I became friends with her sisters husband. We knew each other before I started dating his sister i...

This is a long and complicated situation so I appreciate anyone who takes the time. So I was with the same boyfriend for about 4 years, It started very young and kept getting better as time went on, we grew together and cared for each other, we would work through anything and I knew in my heart that it was worth it. To get right to the end of things, we had a home together, I was at this point...

My husband and I have been married for 9 months, together 5 years and have 2 children. I just recently went through his phone because of a gut feeling and discovered that he cheated on me. He had a threesome with two friends of mine(1 guy, 1 girl) while I was pregnant(2 months ago). I took pictures of the texts and confronted him about it. But he quickly lied to my face multiple times as I asked, ...

First, a little history: I have been with my husband for almost 9 years. Of those 9 years, we've been married for 2. My husband has a child from a previous relationship, and has full custody. We also have a 5-month old child together. We've gone through a lot in the 9 years we've been together. In the beginning he was struggling with job loss, and I was in college. We temporarily ...

I'm realizing my marriage is faltering, and I don't know whether I want it to succeed. How do you balance hurting kids, your SO, families etc vs my needs and wants? I'm a 35wife to a 34man who iskibd, amiable, a good Dad. He is just incredibly lazy, with certain things, that effects every aspect of our lives. I do everything: not kidding. Clean, kids, meals, yes but also all fin...

Husband doesn't want to make it work. I've done everything to change but he always blames me for things i did in the past. is cold, dent want to make love, said he will take time to get over things. forgave him for sexting a random woman he met at a bar and met few times. broken my trust but doesn't want to win it back. the end of any discussion is the same, useless. fighting ...

I have a problem I hope someone can help out with. Its a question of what is financially fair in a live-in relationship. In my head its complicated but will try to keep it simple. Here is the background: I am a divorced mom of 3 school aged kids and have a live-in boyfriend of 4 years. The first 6 months after he moved in, he was very generous financially because he had the funds from a large s...

My wife constantly puts her parents before her family and it's starting to really affect our marriage. She says it's all in my head I would like some help please. I will give you some examples of this and I would like people to comment on whether I have a point or if its in my head 1: my wife and her parents booked a holiday without finding out if I could get time off work first whi...