Threads created: Sep 25 2016 to Oct 1 2016

My problem is this. I had a high school sweetheart. We were in serious love but he went to the military and things kind of broke from there. This was 13 years ago we broke up, in 2003. In May or June 2004 I Spoke to him and he had a child. He was living far from me b/c of the military so I knew noone in that area. A child with someone who I believe he didn't have a relationship with. I really...

My birthday is coming up (I'm in my 20s) and I have zero friends to celebrate with. I moved a few years ago and was just never able to hold onto friendships - mostly because I didn't really have anywhere to meet people, and the ones I did ended up moving away. I do have a boyfriend, but it's still really new so I don't think he knows yet that I truly have no friends here. We�...

Hello guys.. So after 1 and half year of no contact, my ex (or more like my fwb) contacted me two months ago. We were together for a year. When I realised we were just fwb, i told him about my feelings. He was the first person that I loved so deeply and I told him this. But he told me that he only saw me as a friend. This is the reason why we stopped talking. So when he contacted me two mo...

So, I just started college. I was so overwhelmed with everything. Except for studying, because I love what I study now. But I have to deal with homesick, and the most important thing is that I tend to really get intimidated by my new friends who are way more confidence than me. Is there any advice in being confidence?? And one more thing, what am I suppose to do to survive in my new college knowin...

Hi, To start, I'm a 20 year old girl who faced the college selection exam (A/L's) last year and now been selected to a university. So now I have been home for precisely a year and in our country, we still have to wait for another half a year until college starts. My problem is, I have no financial independence not just because I'm 20 already and going to have to stay far from hom...

I am a girl and I met with a guy at my college. He was my senior (2 years elder than me). We worked together on some projects and became friends. We were in a college together for 2 years but just as a friend. After that we did not talk for 1 year and we both moved in different countries. After that 1 year we started to chat and then he started to comments on my photos about how good looking I am....

Ok, so I've had a crush on this girl for all of a month. I broke up with me ex the week before I figured out I had this crush (BTW I'm a bi girl) and her and I were talking and she told me she liked me too, but her parents don't approve of gays so she and I couldn't date so we didn't until a week later when we dated for all of 19 hours. She is also best friends with my twi...

Hello! I've been wanting to become an occupational therapist since at least 8th grade. But, I see you can major in anything as an undergraduate to apply for ot school( and yes, I know about the prerequisites). I was wondering, what did you major in as an undergrad? I want to major in something that I know I can keep my grades up in. But id really like to hear about your experience! Also, I�...

Hey! I'm going to be moving soon and I'm very nervous. My current school is very small, and there are never any new kids, so I'm lost. When there's typically a new kid, do the current students at the school usually come up to him/her and talk to him/her? I'm not into sports, and I'll probably join clubs a few months in once I'm fully settled, but I don't wan...

I am a freshman at a college that I did not plan on going to. I was denied freshman acceptance at the school I wanted to attend but given a conditional admission allowing me to be admitted as long as I complete 30 hours and have a 3.3 GPA. I planned on rushing a sorority down here and was very excited, I thought I knew all the right people and was in wherever i wanted. I was dropped by every soror...

I have been married for 3 years. The marriage has been difficult to say the least, to be more specific just a lot of arguments he seems to be very immature for his age, he doesn't have a father so has no frame of reference as to what a real marriage or husband should be. I do believe he is trying his best. I found out he was talking to his ex, she has caused problems in the past as in she tri...

Over the past two years I've been living and traveling in Canada. I'm from England originally but I decided after finishing my degree I needed to travel and since arriving here I've decided I want to settle here eventually. In my first year I met a girl, Hannah, Australian. We immediately hit it off and became close and involved with each other although as she was a student she&#...

Am I a horrible person? I thought I wasn’t…..until now. I’ve been thinking for the last couple of hours what happened and I need to explain. My name is J (not my real name), I’m a single dad and raised 2 boys alone since their mum and I split about 10 years ago. I’ve been teaching in a college for a few years now and recently change to a different college, I love my job...

Hi there. I have a problem with a girl that I have lost all my hang ups on and I have admitted to myself that I love her. I am a male in my mid 20's. Near the turn of the year I met a lovely girl and things developed quite fast. The girl had a child and it's the first time I've dated a girl with a child. As this was new to me I had issues committing and the female starting asking...