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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy boyfriend paid for a lap dance found out years after. is everthing a lie?
CREATED: Jan 16 2017 at 23:48 by Kpnut76 LAST POST: Jan 20 2017 at 08:16

Found out my boycriend paid for a lap dance. Thing is he twists the truth about it. First he didnt have one it was a dance in front of him. But his freind dropped him in it. Then years after i find out it was a full lap dance . He told me firat they was chatting an she offered him one an dont know why he did because he didnt enjoy it . Fibd out his matea eent in booths . Dont they all anyway .wh...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFinding out that my husband was going to leave me
CREATED: Jan 16 2017 at 15:22 by Luvpancakes LAST POST: Jan 19 2017 at 14:24

I knew my husband was cheating on me but I didn't know that he was actually going to leave. This happened 12 years ago but recently I was speaking with my mom "n" law and somehow our conversation lead to the time my hubby/her stepson was cheating on me. I guess she knew that I knew it all but I didn't. I didn't know that his whole family was involved in his decision to st...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNesting doll of issues
[15 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 16 2017 at 05:06 by lostandfound RESPONDENTS: TeenieG / another view / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 15 2017 at 12:10

I have four major issues in my life: life, wife, job and its also about a girl. Here it goes: life: I feel like i am going through mid life crisis or something. I feel like i have generally lost interest in things that i used to like and i do not feel motivate about most things. I want to be happy but i don't feel like doing things that used i used to like doing. I used to be a very passio...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepression anxiety help CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 15:11 by edvins1998 LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 23:51

I been deprest for 4 year and i feel worthless :(( i need friedns to talk too. :)...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling kinda lost CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 11:58 by nicknametaken LAST POST: Jan 17 2017 at 07:08

So since September last year, I've been living off my savings which are slowly melting away, and I should probably look for something meaningful to do. The most important thing to me is my boyfriend, and he's probably the reason I have any motivation to do anything (I think). I've been growing apart from my friends and family, and I find most people annoying, to the point where goin...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDon't know what to do, please help
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 10:06 by JordanL103 RESPONDENTS: nicknametaken / Beepond LAST POST: Jan 22 2017 at 02:54

So this morning I just had an argument with my mother. I know, it was my fault starting it and I was being a ignorant person again and pissed her off. I had made my mom angry so constantly and frequently that she obviously had ENOUGH. I can tell. And she got really mad and out of control and said some really nasty and disgusting stuff. It's more nasty than you can imagine. I am a 17 year old ...

Housing advice forum category advice forum categoryMy family moved into my parents home, bad choice....
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 03:32 by anicole RESPONDENTS: AES123 LAST POST: Feb 15 2017 at 01:11

Me and my husband are in our early twenties. We have been married for 3 years. We have a one year old son. We bought our first house two years ago and was doing very well financially. When I was pregnant I lost my job at a bank due to job cuts, and my husband works in construction so he got laid off due to no work, so we went through our savings trying to make due with bills. We don't have an...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryLost
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 15 2017 at 00:44 by Lost & Confused RESPONDENTS: anicole / Scopes LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 00:56

A week ago my husband told me that he and one of his female co workers had sex about a week or so before Christmas 2016. He told me that him and her had pre planned 24 hours in advance to have sex after they got off work the following night. That following night he said they got off work and he followed her to an empty parking lot and had sex in the back of her car. Now he says it only happened th...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFundamental disagreement with my husband makes me sad
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 10:04 by Shauna RESPONDENTS: Most Royalblood / Altreal LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 22:15

I am pro-life. My husband is not. Some time ago he made reference to abortion in a callous comment: "It's going to come in so you may as well get used to the idea." I have had serious difficulty in talking to him about any real subject apart from kids and timetables since. When I said I didn't want to shop in Tesco anymore because of their stance on Every Life Counts, we ended ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused and don't know what to do
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 07:35 by Confusedaboutus RESPONDENTS: Beepond LAST POST: Jan 22 2017 at 01:43

We've been together off and on for 10 years as of recently he has found recovery and our family has been more than well...As of recently he has been distant and come to find out he had recevied and started talking to someones phone number he had met on the bus and i guess has had conversation with. it caused us to break up or at least significantly split. we have two children together but yet...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryBabysitting help
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 05:10 by Sup1234 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 14:50

I'm older than your average babysitter (20s) and I've been babysitting for this really nice family for a couple years. The only issue I have with them is the dad gets a little innapropriate when he gets drunk (usually every time he comes home). My last time babysitting for them he was already drunk when I got there and was extremely inappropriate towards me telling me he'd have ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage and doing seperate things?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 14 2017 at 05:01 by Jono_aussie RESPONDENTS: broost LAST POST: Jan 20 2017 at 00:06

Ok so been with my wife for 9 years now, we have a pretty good relationship id say, we have a 20 month old baby boy and a 7 week old girl. The last month my wife has felt like she is bored with her life and is stuck home, and that I go to work and that I can go and do my music things (im a musician) such as gigs etc which is possibly once a month.. So the other day she mentioned about being bo...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes anyone else feel like their marriage has suffered after having kids?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 13 2017 at 04:41 by luvmybabies1617 RESPONDENTS: Ladder666 / Scopes / Anamica / Shauna LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 19:31

I have a beautiful baby boy and another one on the way. Yay! Only problem is, my husband and are growing further and further apart! It's a lot of things that are contributing to our distance. 1. He spends tons of time at the gym, which I used to do, but don't have time to do now. 2. He doesn't help around the house much with cooking, cleaning or yard work. 3. He never compliment...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryA long time relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 14:00 by Nan RESPONDENTS: Most Royalblood LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 14:31

When in high school, I confessed to girl that I had feelings for her, and she agreed to start a relationship with me. We were both fine together,not obsessed, but stayed together when we could. At that time both of us were seeing other men, which means it was more of an open relationship. I didn't take it seriously until years later I can't but think of her, I called her back but she cha...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWife to be serviced by another man
[20 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 09:10 by Sid196 RESPONDENTS: Most Royalblood / Scopes / Beepond / OnTheRoad / Altreal / slowjoe83 LAST POST: Feb 6 2017 at 13:58

I have a fantasy to wear something of my wife's then for her to tie me to a chair and lock me in a closet while I listen to her having sex with another man.I've talked this over with her and she is up for it.I am a decent bloke but just have this one fantasy to be locked away in her clothes and made to listen to her getting hot and having sex with someone else.Should I go for it or get h...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryEmployment reference check
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 06:20 by capricozee RESPONDENTS: Beepond LAST POST: Jan 22 2017 at 01:35

Hi, I left the an employer on the best terms. However we agreed he will provide positive reference for any future application. Can someone help do a dummy reference check to see what he has to say about me? Busybee...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to get over a break up when he says he needs to find himself
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2017 at 02:58 by heatherrk13 RESPONDENTS: Nice Guy LAST POST: Jan 13 2017 at 18:59

I'm having a sort of crisis at the moment. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years this month when out of nowhere he says the past two months have been a lie and he is feeling tied down? We agreed to break up and find ourselves with the hopes that we might get back together. But when I asked him before we took our break if he loves me and wants to be with me he can only reply "...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it me???
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 21:32 by Vickylou RESPONDENTS: Shauna / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 01:40

I think my husband has a totally different idea of what marriage means. I have 4 kids, 2 with first husband 2 with current husband. I work 30 hours a week but husband wants me to go back to 37 hours. He works 40 miles away so spends about 3 hours a day driving. When he gets home from work he has his tea (which I cook) then falls asleep in front of the telly. I get myself up in the mornings, get me...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused about relationship and beat down in life
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 20:53 by Wesley40 RESPONDENTS: whatislife LAST POST: Jan 11 2017 at 23:29

I am really feeling low today. I have to make this fast with a follow up later. I just want people to read since I have not really told anyone my whole story. I was almost a graduate with my IT degree from WGU B.S. For me this was a real self esteem boost, but I felt overstressed and alone. I had neglected what friends I had and hadn't had a gf for about 6 years. my confidence is a bit s...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I his wife or his mother
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 18:20 by whatislife RESPONDENTS: heatherrk13 / OnTheRoad / Altreal LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 22:36

My husband is honestly the person I connect with most in this world - best friend, soul mate, all that crap. He's a wonderful person and I know he wants to be a good husband. But I often feel more like a parent than a spouse. If I don't see the big picture, make the right choices on both our behalf, take responsibility for finances and the future, make more money, help him with school, e...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryRequired to dress as a female at work
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 15:52 by Sid196 RESPONDENTS: whatislife / OnTheRoad LAST POST: Feb 13 2017 at 08:19

I have been offered a job which I really want but I'm required to wear a uniform like the other staff but it is a female uniform.I will be cleaning rooms in a hotel so will have to wear a housekeeing dress and apron.I need the job, should I just take it.I am a man and the manageress won't compromise on this...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling extremely hurt and need advice. His physical wants while I'm ill!
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 11 2017 at 06:00 by Bananas RESPONDENTS: Simbad / whatislife / OnTheRoad / Scopes / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 16 2017 at 01:39

I'm feeling really hurt and disrespected right now. My partner of nearly 4 yrs and I are in a huge disagreement. Currently I have been sick. Multiple illnesses, and now I need oral surgery. My face is swollen and infected. Hurts to eat, move my jaw, talk, everything. And this is during and after other illness. The antibiotics I have taken have also given me a personal woman problem. That re...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categorySad and confused
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 10 2017 at 22:10 by Simbad RESPONDENTS: Most Royalblood LAST POST: Jan 14 2017 at 07:41

Me and my family migrated to Australia couple of years back. Before migrating we always had plans to sponsor our both parents on permanent migration so they can live with us. Since me and my wife are the only child in the family there is no one else to look after them. Parent migration (sponsored) costs a lot of money. We don't have that kind of money, I am reluctant to use the little saving...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryChoosing between friends
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 10 2017 at 17:04 by Elijah301 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 20:46

Back in September on a night out I kissed this guy and everything was fine wasn't looking for anything and he later got back together with his ex so that was great. Just before new year's I went to the club and met him and his best friend. I ended up kissing his best friend that night but didn't feel too bad because he was at that point still with his girlfriend. However later th...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categorySpouse won't stop smoking marijuana to save marriage and family
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 10 2017 at 08:35 by smh RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 12:26

Married 20 yrs. Been unhappy 13. Stayed for kids. Spouses habits have harmed relationships with each family member because they are emotionally, and mentally unavailable to them. Seems to put marijuana as a priority over feeding, clothing, supporting family. Leaves me to parenting by myself, making ends meet with food pantries and thrift store for family. Gambles on football pools and lottery. Smo...

Children advice forum category advice forum categoryLooking for some advice from separated fathers or anyone really
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 10 2017 at 05:47 by Lostandconfuseddad RESPONDENTS: Most Royalblood / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 10 2017 at 15:06

Hi, I've been separated from my ex partner for roughly 4 or 5 years now, I have two kids to her 10 and 12, currently I live 3 hours away from them, I drive 1200ks every second weekend to pick them up and bring them to my house and then back home again, I have been offered an awesome job opportunity, problem is it's 12 hours away from them, which means I wouldn't see them on the week...