How porn can ruin your dating life

Author: Patrick Banks
Published: May 20 2014

There was a time when intimacy and sex are not shared with other people but just between individuals involved. It’s changed now. People are more exposed to porn and their views are somehow affected by it but most individuals are not even aware of how much this can affect their daily lives and their sexual preference.

Constantly watching porn actually sets your imagination active at all times that even seeing a scantily clad lady wakes up your little junior underneath your pants due to those sensual and erotic scenes that plays in your head. Funny part is you are not aware of it and you even ask yourself “why am I horny all the time?” Got news for you dude, this is not the only thing you need to worry about. Just like the infomercial, “Wait there’s more!”

It’s similar to teaching yourself to come fast

Guys watching porn basically teach themselves to come too fast. Each time you watch these scenes it gets stored in your mind and when you are engaged in the act these are the exact thoughts that plays in your head and it escalates your hormones and causes dopamine rush which can cause premature ejaculation .

You may want to check on your partner and see if she’s still happy with you because each time you soar high alone, you are leaving her unsatisfied and that is not a great way to treat your partner.

It makes you less sensitive

Sex is between two people and with too much porn you are becoming less sensitive and unaware of what your partner wants. If your performance in bed each time you end up with someone is based on what you see on those hardcore encounters on screens, it will only cause you frustration. The people on those movies are still called actors and actresses even if they do not get an acting award from Oscars. They are still good in showing a convincing look as if they are having a mind boggling orgasm.

You can’t expect your girl partner to shout out her amazing experience as she climax or have her throw you a look as if she is going to savage you raw! You need to use your senses and consider her needs and wants. Don’t expect your partner to get excited being spat at or spanked while you does some trashy talk. You may want to ask her opinion about it before you start doing it!

Pressure on your mind each time you are having sex

Again, the scenes on those videos are what come to your mind and each time you are engaged in sex you imagine yourself as the one on those scenes. Most of those women having sex on the screen are faking their emotions up to the point where they are fake their orgasms but you have a real partner who is not doing that. You tend to over think and you end up having the feeling that you did not satisfy your partner because she didn’t wriggle and writhed the way those porn stars did!

Your relationship won’t have a healthy sexual part to it

Having sex is supposed to be an act where you release an urge you are feeling inside you and with too much pressure in your mind while you over think about your performance based on what you see on porn movies your experience won’t be near fun at all. Sexual experiences between two people in a relationship whether it is just a casual one or something more intimate should always be something special and not a regretful one.

However, if you always come earlier than your partner then it is no longer a relationship. Whether it is just a casual one and there is no romantic inclination to it you still need to keep a balance and have a healthy sexual appetite.

Porn is not only watched by men since there are some women enjoying them too. The point here is that in our society men are given the chance to lead in bed along with their partners. Too much porn in your head tend to make you live in a surreal environment and each time you are doing it you are not being the real you. Maybe a few scenes from time to time to get some ideas on how to spice up your sex life can do you well but watching too much will not be a healthy one.

BIO: Patrick Banks is a Berlin based writer with over 5 years of experience providing sex and dating advice. He is a fierce optimist who believes in the power of making life happen; enjoy being single and making the most of it. He offers advice on dating and helpful tips to make your sexual life better on Wingman Magazine

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