What do you think when you find him on a dating site
JESSMESS - Jun 9 2017 at 09:10
I have recently had to take a short trip away and during this time i guess my now husband was on a classified website for hookers and also match.com and badoo.i hacked his match amd baddoo accounts which he was engaging in conversation with girls talking about he wants to chill and meet ip or asking how they like livinh where yjey live.i discovered the classified ad ones buy looking at his activitirs on the phone.and his searches.then i seen text.je sent a pic of himself nude and also said he was ohw.then the odd numbers call he acts like he dont know who or a text dont know then i research it fond who.his phone recalles locations and times.i seen he was at the hotel that was on the text for 3hr said he broke down there but why was he even tjere its not anuwhere near where we live.then he puts it all on me trys yo make things like i am doing tjem.like u look at sugar daddies or u have a classified account.he sent a email telling this hooker about him and how he wants to play.but i confront him he says he never has cheated that it was all jokes and he was bored and curious.what do you think and how do i go about fixing this .i love him and im scared
While he may not have physically cheated, he is, in fact, emotionally cheating on you already if he's gone to the trouble of posting nude pics and interacting with hookers online. When a man truly loves and respects his wife, he most certainly doesn't act the way your husband has regardless if he was bored and curious. His actions disrespect and belittle you and betray the trust that your marriage is built on. As for fixing it, the 'ball's in his court' and you need to sit him down and have a heart to heart with him because only he can give you answers.
Totally agree with MANALONE. You now KNOW you have a cheater for a husband, however knowledge is power. Please don't fall for "it was all a joke" betraying your marriage is no joke. He said "I was bored and curious" so I take it he thinks you're REALLY STUPID.
You caught him, stupid you're not. What is his plan to restore trust and respect to your marriage? Stay strong.