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Relationship advice Am aged enough to get married , am currently working ,completed my under and post graduate . i have been in love with a guy for 3 years , we know each other for 5 years since our college days , but we accepted our love for each other 3 years before and its going well , we understood each other , adjust each other and also meet up and finally we decided to get married and planned to be together till last

we also decided to convey our love to our parents when time comes, but for me the time is almost come and i need to open my love anytime . i even informed about this to him . but the problem is am from a rich background and well settled family but he is not like that he is solely responsible for his family and he need to work hard and earn very well for his family settlement , he has also settled in a good job with good salary then me , really a good career start for him .

so anyways i need to convey my love to my family or my elder brother at least very soon so problem will arise because he is from a poor background and also my family will see good looking and also he is very dark , looks matter only to an extent n after 5 years or future looks doesn't matter that time , but family will surely create huge problems with his poor background and looks and humiliate him and hurt him apart from hurting me emotional black mailing me they will also try to hurt him as possible with his status . all my family members will hurt me and scold me and curse me , BUT THE ULTIMATE THING IS WE DECIDED TO GET MARRIED AND LIVE TOGETHER AND FACE ALL ODDS TOGETHER NO MATTER WHAT , AM REALLY SCARED OF CONVEYING MY LOVE TO MY FAMILY BECAUSE THEY WILL HOUSE LOCK ME AND I WILL BE SO BROKEN , BUT I HAVE TO FACE SOON :( . AM SURE WE BOTH CAN MAKE IT AND LIVE TOGETHER , WHERE IN THE WORLD I WILL GET STRENGTH TO FACE AND ALSO BEAR ALL .

Way for my love future

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Start by being you, Relax In the process, Don't let your emotions determine the outcome, Jourmal stuff down that you would like to say. The right person will love you and accept you for you, Why do you think your family is reacting the way they are

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yes , but cant stay relaxed by the thought that we wont be together , we will surely live and win together but at present he might be in a very low position and things but as i said he has a very good career start am sure he will come heights !, am so scared about the hurting my parents gives to him and me and apart from all these we being united , it should happen but its a nightmare for me i know :( , where will i get the dramatic and ton strength to handle.

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I understand that it's very difficult to handle. I believe in you and I believe that you can have the strength to stay calm and handle it with the best decisions. You have what it takes, You are valued and loved please always remember that. Why is he in a low position?

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No , am tying to say that he is little lower background then me , but since he has studied well (both same college engineering ) and also started his career in a good multinational company , am sure he have bright future ahead . his future will be very good might be in another 5 years but currently he is struggling and have some things to do in his life . (his family settlement , his parents joy etc.) as i said am sure he will be in good position in few years because he is hardworking . am ready to be a support for him both emotionally and my contributions . but am so nervous about my family accepting him :( they will surely hurt him with his current status :(

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