After knowing my now husband for 13years (we've only been married 1 year and we broke up for a number of years before we got back together), it feels like I'm in the worst relationship. I know it's partly because of stress. But we've only been married a year and we don't have sex and he doesn't listen to me. I feel so lost and confused. What I thought was going to be a start of a nice life for us has resulted in stress, sadness and contemplation of divorce on my end. Money is tight and I'm scared of moving again because I dont handle transition well as it is. I'm almost 40 years old... no kids.... Why do I feel as lost as I did when I'm in my 20's? As a wife, I've done all the wifely duties well... clean/cook/pay the bills/reliable/organized... now that I'm the one working full time- it's hard to do all these things. I honestly feel like my husband has taken me for granted and doesn't listen to me. I'm not sure what to do...
I really don't have any advice for you but I didn't want your post to go unacknowledged because if anything in this world- I know what it feels like to be alone.
This move has caused constant strain on my marriage. I am miserable which of course spills over into the family. My husband and I separated for about a week but when I came back he wanted to jump back into everything and I wasn't ready to get physical and he got mad and now I think we are separating again.
So I don't think I was any help to you. But I just wanted you to know that you have been heard. I'm sorry.
I know you're both in a stressful situation with recently purchasing a home and now possibly have to put a contract on it. If your husband does have to go back to the state you left for employment would it be possible for him to commute? Maybe you could at least talk about the possibility or if anything on a trial basis.
Just a serving suggestion
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