Heart broken

at 55 i fell head over heels in love met him on line and i found him on other dateing sites

Not enough info, song . . . What is your understanding with this man? Do you both expect exclusiveness after "falling in love." Did you talk about seeking or dating others? Online relationships are very difficult to maintain. Are you seeing this man in person?

thing is its to long a stoery to go into but yes we met in person we were engaged he lives in essex live newcastle upontyne eny way doesnt matter now its over i ended it in may this year and when i told him he said ok bye havnt heared from him since like i said its realy to long to go into

Were you hoping he would run back to you and try to make it work? You said you ended it. That's what he heard. He took you seriously. Now, if you have changed your mind and would like to re- kindle this relationship, you can contact him to ask if he wants to talk. You will know by his answer if the door is still open.