Anyway then about 6 weeks ago his mam's dog had to be put down but he rang me about it a day later- was upset but chatted about a few things, then a couple of days later I said did he fancy having a drink to cheer himself up- and later that night I got a message back saying basically - I thought I told you to leave me the hell alone, but you must be completely stupid as you're doing the opposite. I am that p*** off with you I am close to telling you to f*** off, I thought to myself oh dear- I only asked if he wanted a few drinks to cheer himself up.
I just feel like I get my head bitten off all the time for the least bit thing- I get ignored at times when I ask him on his days off if he's ok, can't text him at work apparently (even when he texts me! ) Do I just give him space- or see what happens or just tell him to get lost- he says he had a difficult past with his childhood and stuff, and could only start getting his life back on track in his early 20's - he's 32 now- but my patience is wearing very thin now- what do I do- ? Do I deserve to be treated like this- I suppose maybe I have texted him what he might think is too much a few times- I explained though I just like his company and I'm a chatty person anyway!!
if it was me i would make a complete break away from him after belittling response he sent you. I would say to him "i am completely upset with your humiliating response to me. please never contact me again you pathetic loser".
If he contacts you, do not hesitate to tell him that he is really difficult to have a friendship with so you can't respond.
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