Now he talk to me constantly in class, sometimes even getting me in trouble. He wants to hang out at school, after school, saturday, sunday, basically everytime of the day. If i make an excuse to not hang out with him like, homework, he will offer to do my homework for me. If i say i have training, he will ask if he can join and watch. On steam he will ask me if i want to play with him, and i don't want to say no, because i once said 'no thank you i want to play alone' and the next day he looked like shit, like he stayed up all night or something. Im kinda concerned. Yesterday i got a friend request on facebook from him, and i don't know if i should accept and im afraid he'll bring it up in conversation. And all this started since two weeks ago, when school started again.
I don't want to say to him that i don't want to hang out or talk to him, because i'm afraid he'll get even worse. Should i gently let him down, or should i talk to my teacher? I don't think my friends will help at all, since all they to is 'ship' me and him toghether, and it's very annoying because i really don't know what to do. Help?
Your kindness got misinterpreted as female attention. Tough to back out on.
Bring some other people into the mix, especially guys. Invite this guy to group things only.
Let the entire group "adopt" him.
Don't let your friends dictate your action, and don't make this guy YOUR sole issue.
Be nice while declining his offer. You can avoid accepting the facebook request right away. Maybe after the tide passes, you can put him on limited profile and then deal with it. By then he would have been sorted about the way he thinks about you.
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