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Slept with my boyfriends brother before we even met

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Okay, I am currently dating the most amazing guy ever but before we really knew each other, I slept with his brother. I thought that my boyfriend was away but I'm starting to feel like he isn't. I honestly don't know what to do or how to tell him because I don't want to lose him over something that happened in the past and that meant nothing. I feel so disgusted with myself

Slept with my boyfriends brother before we even met

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It says away but I meant aware

Slept with my boyfriends brother before we even met

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Hi. I think the best way if you can't forget this thing, you should tell him the truth. If you tell him the truth I am sure he will appreciate your honesty.You will lose your heavy burden. This is a hard decision but you'll be relieved.

Slept with my boyfriends brother before we even met

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I have decided to tell him. He is coming over this Friday so I figured I should tell him then, that way if he wants to leave he can.

Slept with my boyfriends brother before we even met

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Please, write me back on Friday about what happened. :)

Slept with my boyfriends brother before we even met

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I would hope you would not tell him. This happened BEFORE him, so why do you feel obligated to tell him about before he came into your life? Is this brother threatening to tell?

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So I ended up telling him and he said that he already knew. Everything between us is okay, and I feel a lot better. I just hope it stays that way.

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