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I aniket sharma. my problem is that i in love with someone. more than 4years but due to study issue i am not in touch with my lover for 5month . but in this period she got engaged with someone. she is not happy with her. but she can't say this to her parents. I am not in a situation to tell these things to anyone and also parents. i also told her that without my permission dont discuss with anyone. she also agreed and she also tried many times to said about her engagement plan which is done by her parents but dur to my busy schedule of study. i am disconnected from contacts. but every she will come in my fellings and mind and i can see in as a real in upfront of me. I am in depression. what can i do for getting my love?? i also tried to forgive but its not possible? please

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Hello Aniket, I don't know how to take your question here. You say that due to your studies you lost touch with your loved one during 5 months. Well. That means she's not a priority for you. Then, looks like she's completely powerless about her parents decisions. You (both) need to step up for your love, if it's as real as you mention and break the schemes that 'tie' you to a depressing future. If you're not ready to fight for your love, maybe it's not as real and as deep as you think. So, my first advice would be to get your priorities sorted out. If she's your priority, then make it happen. If your studies are your priority, then just let her live her life and focus on your career. This is one of the times in your life when you get to make a life-changing decision. Good luck!

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This girl must not marry a man she does not love. She must tell her parents that. If you love this girl and she loves you then you must work to show your love for her.

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