I really need some help, I'm losing the love of my life!
SCARED - Oct 21 2017 at 07:25
I've been with my fiance for three years. I moved straight in with him after leaving a bad 23 year marriage. I promised this man so many things and I have failed to deliver any of them. He has said how I have been horrible to him because I don't trust him,I don't care about his feelings and his emotions. But I do. He says I don't show I love him. And he's to the point where he said he doesn't care what happens to our relationship. I do love him very much. I've never loved any man the way I love him. How can I fix what I have broken? When he's at the point of
leaving? He told me I was treating him badly but I didn't see it cause I love him so much. Please help me figure out how to fix this? I'm desperatly wanting to be with him forever.
Maybe you should ask him how exactly he thinks you’re treating him badly and then work on those specifics- show him that you’re willing to work on being a better partner for him
Your fiancé of three years mentioned feeling hurt because you made promises that you did not keep? Are those promises out of your control?
It is true having hope in your future can be full of promise, but if that is a deal breaker in a relationship, you may want to rethink that relationship? Do you or your fiancé have faith in God? Is there any room for mercy and forgiveness? For me personally, I know Jesus loves and forgives me whenever I mess things up. And my husband of many years would say I mess things up pretty often.
Coming out of a bad marriage of 23 years, and moving into another relationship so quickly can also bring some emotional baggage. Communication is everything: if you feel there’s a chance of reconciling with your fiancé you may need some help? Here’s a link below learning how to communicate your love language.
I'd love to hear back from you and get an update on how you are doing? And if you do try the link above on relationship building how or if it helped you?