Please put my mind at rest
I am engaged to someone I have been with for 5 years. Early on in our relationship, I had a one night stand with someone else after a night out, something I feel very shameful of. I messaged the woman afterwards on facebook to apologise and let her know that I couldn't see her again as I was seeing someone else.
I have since never heard from her other than a reply at the time abusing me for cheating.
Absent mindedly going through my messages on facebook recently, I clicked on her profile (we are not FB friends) to find a picture of a newborn baby posted on her first birthday. The date of birth would tie up exactly with when I slept with the woman.
There is a separate picture on the profile of the girl looking 3-4 years old. I have been going out of my mind looking into traits and whether they're dominant/recessive. I have brown hair and brown eyes, oval face and almond shaped eyes, all of which I understand to be dominant, though I know about carrying recessive genes. The little girl has very blonde hair, blue eyes, more of a square face and round eyes.
Am I driving myself insane for no reason? This woman could have contacted me and never did. I know she is on a low income so would definitely need assistance financially. She also has one older child. Thanks.
Believe me, she would have contacted you by now if she thought you were the birth father.
. Put it out of your mind.
But .... why are you looking at her FB account anyway?
Thanks Susie, that is helpful to see some sane words. I don't know, curiosity I suppose, wrong I know.