I think there’s a good chance she may have feelings for me too, as there have been incidents in the past way too flirty to be considered a “just friends” thing. There was a period of time where she would do things like cuddle up with me every time we were hanging out alone together, and when I asked a mutual friend if the girl I like did that whenever they hung out, she said no. The problem is, lately she’s had a big crush on one of her friends who we all strongly believe is straight, and ever since then, I feel like she’s been distancing herself from me a bit and cuddling with me less.
Today, she invited me to hang out alone with her for the first time in a while, and we had a great time, but every time she leaves I’m left feeling confused about what I should do. I don’t want to ruin anything because we have plans to move out together, possibly with another friend in a few years, but she really means the world to me. I’m scared to make the first move, but I also know that if she really does like me back, she’s probably too shy to as well. On top of it all, I haven’t come out to my family either, so only one really close friend knows about my feelings for this girl. Sorry this was long, but I’ll take any advice I can get. This sucks! :,(
Decide if you want to make this happen. You already know her head is turned by another.
May I ask your ages.?
You are having sexual feelings for this girl, perhaps simply because you have gotten physically close to her. There may come a time when that will happen with a guy. They like to cuddle and kiss, too.
No need to rush into anything. Spend time with lots of people and let things happen as they will. Leave all options open.
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