No sex in relationship
GILLYD - Dec 11 2017 at 02:42
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but for last 2 years there has been no sex or intimacy....he says he has no interest in it and is not interested in fixing it. I feel now that it is more like a friendship than a relationship. Is it a relationship without sex? I really miss the affection and have started to notice someone else and I feel bad about it but I just crave some affection x
I think sex is an important part of any relationship. The fact that he isn’t willing or interested in fixing it is a huge red flag.
Have you told him how much it bothers you that you aren’t having sex? Is there a reason that the sex stopped after 2 years of being together?
I think you need to have a conversation with him and if after that he isn’t trying to be more affectionate, then you need to end it and maybe see if you could be friends since that’s what you said it feels like anyway.
You can care and nurture someone without sex, but sex reflects heightened levels of desire and pleasure.
2yrs no show? He prlly getting his fill elsewhere, or doesn't give a damn.
Why should you?
If he ain't providing, then suggest to bang elsewhere.