i am very frustrated i have tried wearing sexy underwear to turn him on and other ways
can anyone give me advice thanks
my advice is his too old for you maybe he hasnt go the strenth to do it... Your only twenty seven and your still quite young...
If you dont ant to get rid of him try giving him blowjobs that difently turn bloke on
I can understand where you coming from. Maybe that his just tired after work? or stress out of smethin? The best thing to do is to talk to him..
Goodluck + keep me posted
i am 34 (f) and my partner is 29 (M) and hes not really that interested in sex so we argued about it alot and he ended up saying so yur pressurizing me into having sex? anyhow after that arguement i decided never to bring it up again and to just get on without worrying about sex or wether he fancies me etc etc and this seems to have taken lots of pressure off us both and sex is more frequent and more enjoyable now hope this is some help to you! remember men get worried about sex too and wether they are good enough, wether there performance is as good as youve had before and most of all wether they satisfy you! maybe a little reassurance is all he needs take care x
Could it be that your boyfriend feels unworhty of you, sort of the father figure, (forgive me) age gap relationships are good and do work, sometimes all of us no matter how old need "me time", maybe he has been ribbed about the relationship with you and feels he is either too old or not good enough for you.
Maybe he is going through the male menapause thing, talking can be a great help in situations like this, OR simply being with each other, not trying to make things happen, just laughing, spending time with each other, being there for each other, sharing a tub of ice cream or a beer or two.
Sometimes we all go off the physical side of a relationship, given time this could turn around and who knows he could end up being a "tiger" in the bedroom again.
Could it be that the sexy underwear is not his thing, or could it be his own insecurites and self worth that have taken a knock.
All manner of issues may be underneath this, I suggest you simply be with each other and not push the issues, when people feel preassurised that only seems to make things worse, no matter how good your intentions have been.
Maybe his sex drive has not passed its MOT, sometimes no matter what a woman does a man simply needs to rest, who knows you might even be wearing him out.
Just give it time my sweet
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