A very strange relationship
I met a man in 2010 and we soon developed a relationship that was everything that I wanted. We shared many happy days, travelling, having luches and dinners together, enjoying life. Eventually we slept together and that part was very good as well. One day suddenly in September he broke up with me for no apparent reason, got a woman in a bar and stayed with her for some weeks, only to come back to me saying she was not for him.
We had some more months of happiness till April when he again broke up with me for no reason, and stayed on his own.
This time I was so hurt that I went abroad for three months. During this time we emailed each other daily and even phoned. He keeps saying how much he cares for me, how wonderful im, however he does not see me as his wife.
Why, I ask, if for so long we were so much in love, doing everything together, sharing laughs and private jokes, and im a good loving woman, pretty and sexy, intelligent and earn my own money.
What has changed in his head, anybody has a clue?
Now he told me he is seeing another woman but it is nothing serious (again) and he wants to meet me to talk. Why?
Im so confused. I love him to distraction. I have the feeling that this man is a commitaphobic who got scared because it was becoming serious between us, we were talking about moving together and even bought things for our home.
I dont know if I should see him or not, and I need advice. I said to him Ill see him WHEN he is not seeing the other woman. I feel that he gets this women he does not even like much as means to avoid me and what he feels for me, but he still feels it (her said he has feelings for me) and is scared. I even though he might be bipolar, his behaviour is so bizarre and I never know where im with him for ex, he asked me to be his girlfriend and told my son we were in a relationship, after he introduced me to some friends as `his friend`.
Any help will be well received.
your problem is really very clear, its just you want this to work. But the fact is, its simple he is not a one man woman. Dont accomodate him, i would advice not too meet him. Some people are good company, but you cant spend your life with them and he is one of them. If you respect yourself than you shouldnt meet him and waste your love and emotions.
hi...personally i think he is not the person who can be in a stable relationship,who can take a relationship seriously.so you should stay away from him...