Due to ongoing family issues (we live on family property and my uncle is psycho), it’s no longer an option for my family to live here. It was a family decision to move. It’s an unsafe, unhappy option for my family to stay. The situation isn’t going to get better and there’s nothing we can do about it. The rental property we own just went under contract. So we put in an offer on a house that we love in the next county. It has plenty of room, isn’t too far from our jobs, my school, or my boyfriend.
Even though it was a family decision, and I KNOW we have to, I’m struggling. I’m a very sentimental person and this is the Home I was raised in. My grandpa gave my parents the land and my dad basically built it himself. There are so many memories and firsts in this house. And we’re about to leave them all behind.
Every ounce of familiarity I had was gone. Not one single aspect (besides my family and boyfriend) are the same as they were 8 months ago. New house, new school, I don’t even drive the same car I had. Everything is changing and I have MAJOR anxiety about it. I know this change is for the better, but it’s hard to leave everything you’ve ever known. Especially when you don’t really have a choice; you were forced out of it because of unfair, selfish, crazy neighbors.
I’m really struggling with this. I’m trying to keep it from my parents because they’re both very upset with the situation too. They built this house together and theyve lived here for 27 years. And now we’re just leaving it.
Any advice for how to deal with this anxiety and fear?
Try to make plans. What will your room look like? How can you decorate it so it's wonderful for you? Try to get a girfriend involved to help you. Clean and sort and pick out your colors.
Maybe the entire family can have a pow wow and share anxieties so you can support each other.