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Advice On Whether To Give Up On My Relationship Or Not

Posted by
BAMBI12345
on Feb 22 2018 at 21:50
Member since: 22 February 2018
Relationship advice I have been seeing my boyfriend for 8 months. We have both been in rehab and are both 3 yrs sober . He is not very physically affectionate , is not really into the iphysical side of the relationship , we only see eachother about once a week even though we live quite close and I find him a little bit cold. On the plus side he is in contact with me a lot , he now and again makes nice meals for us . I do not know what to do though because I feel I'm not getting what I look for in a relationship
Advice on whether to give up on my relationship or not
Reply from
SUSIEDQQ
on Feb 23 2018 at 04:50
Member since: 27 December 2013
After 8 months, you have a vision of this relationship and it's just not right for you. Trust yourself that you know what you need in a partner.

You owe him honesty about being in THIS kind of relationship, but you can be there as a friend.

Besides, It seems that's how he sees you now. Maybe it will be a relief for him, too.

Advice on whether to give up on my relationship or not
Reply from
D.D
on Mar 9 2018 at 08:40
Member since: 09 March 2018
Now I know this first response is gonna jump on me but I met my husbAnd in rehab. Hed been there four months ,I was mental hygiened by my family so only the 10 days. A week after I got home to the day he got dropped off to me and we just took off. I know that's not very smart and while we did fall down for a period of time we have a home and a child and everything's normal now.we saved each other People always say "you can tell you guys truly love eavhother" we're the why can't you be more like himher couple. Nobody knows how cold our relationship is.he's an amazing person ,man and father.used to treat me like a queen do anything and everything for me,which that slowing down is normal I hear lol but it was barely a few months in,I usually say 2but probably a little more than that al! The physical stuff stopped. Even wrestling around or the way he'd bite his lip when he looked at me. We were under stress ,especially him since just leAving rehab after 4 months and e everyone anxious to see your next steps. also he told me while hes always been horny but he's never had confidence And wasnt too in tune with his body.which trust me everything was fine.waa a I was as understanding for as long as I could be. Then came the anger, then sadness . I don't regret staying because he is my soulmate and I was like well sex isn't love but it hurts not feeling like the one man you should be able to f!up a switch on my thinks of you . It you start a relationship with a sign like this and don't feel like this person should passed by address it soon.sorry for rambling I actually got on here to vent and can't Bruce I've seen two others so fast
Advice on whether to give up on my relationship or not
Reply from
MAMABEAR
on Mar 14 2018 at 12:21
Member since: 06 March 2016
D.D.

Please stop highjacking other people's threads. If you need advice or want to vent, please post your own thread?

Advice on whether to give up on my relationship or not
Reply from
D.D
on Mar 14 2018 at 16:14
Member since: 09 March 2018
I think you need to mind your business really. Sometimes it's not advice that helps, its seeing that you're not there only person out there dealing with something. Why even get on a site of this nature much less a specific forum for that matter if you're just gonna have attitude with people? You should go to Topix for thaT
Advice on whether to give up on my relationship or not
Reply from
MAMABEAR
on Mar 14 2018 at 17:19
Member since: 06 March 2016
D.D.

The idea of a support group site is so people can post their problems, and get feedback. I'd love to hear about what you're going through. I'm not trying to say we don't want to hear your story. Just that it would be better if it was your own post, instead of through comments on other people's threads. It's hard to work up the courage to ask for help. I applaud you for reaching out. You can message me if you'd like to chat.

Discussion closed - why not create your own thread?