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Boyfriends mother hates me and wants me gone

Posted by
on Feb 26 2018 at 00:14
Member since: 26 February 2018
Gender: Female
Country: United Kingdom
Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My boyfriends mother hates me. his family is muslim and seeing as i am english she wants nothing to do with me. we have been together for 10 years now but didn't have a problem before as she thought i was just a phase but now that i have recently moved in with him she now is taking it serious and wants me gone and is even threatening to disown him if he doesn't accept. What can i do? she doesn't see that she is ruining my life!

Its causing a huge strain in our relationship and she doesn't even have the decency to try and get to know me first! My boyfriend has even started to consider leaving me as he is getting tired of all the arguments he has with her about me and thinks it might just be easier to let her win! but that would mean we are throwing away 10 years together for a woman that won't even give me 1 chance!

please help i don't know what i can do! its a really big problem and i don't know who i can talk to about it!

Reply from
on Feb 26 2018 at 11:34
Member since: 27 December 2013
Really?? After 10 years! ?

The problem isn't HER - it's her son who won't stand up to her about his life choices.

Reply from
on Feb 28 2018 at 03:36
Member since: 29 July 2017
Wow! Ten years in a relationship and his Mom hasn’t even tried to get to know you yet? I can’t even imagine! Have you been welcomed into your bf’s family by anyone else?

May I ask you if this is a racist or possible religious discrimination problem? If yes, then don’t take this personal, wars are fought over these issues. Do these issues come up in your relation?

I believe God loves all Humankind. ❤️ And we all need to learn how to get along. But, you deserve to be happy and if your B/F can’t convince his Mother to treat you better, it may never change.

May I ask you: how much more of your life are you willing to put on hold, knowing your boyfriend’s Mom doesn’t approve of your relationship? You mentioned your bf is struggling with his Mom over you! Ask him, “who’s going to win this agreement in the end?”

Please keep in touch, I’ll be praying for you!