About 6 years ago i opened an envelope from the bank which said i was nearly 2 grand in debt so i took my relatives who had power attonery on my account due to me being quite ill with my mental health,and i managed to get myself out of it by budgeting a lot.
I asked what they did with that money that a relative gave them,they couldn't answer me properly. I still have problems with my mental health and it stresses me out when they ask for money.
I lent some to the relative who now has some money and that has now been paid off. Why can't they ask the other relative and not me? I am out of work and my relative and spouse work. Please may I have some advice.
Some people have a lawyer to oversee their accounts. You might want to investigate that. Also, your social worker should be aware of everything.
Next, learn to say No. You must not let yourself be pressured into doing anything you don’t want to. Just say”I’m sorry. I am not able to do that.” If you do lend anyone money, get an IOU in writing. Date, amount, and payment plan - all on paper.
Congratulations on your being able to save. Watch over all your accounts.
You sound like a compassionate person. Be discerning too.
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