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Women seeing male partner using the loo

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Both myself and my partner are fairly uninhibited when it comes to sharing space such as the bathroom, but I wonder if I could ask some advice please from a women’s perspective. A few years ago while my then girlfriend gatecrashed me using the toilet and seemed rather shocked to see me finishing peeing and shaking my penis with the foreskin pulled back. I generally pull it back to pee. It’s left my a bit shy of my partner seeing this even though I know I probably shouldn’t worry. Are most women aware of it being perfectly normal and would the sight of a weeing willy with a pulled back foreskin or seeing a guy cleaning his penis in the bath - which I also avoid doing while she is in there - something relatively normal for a lot of women too? Thanks!

Women seeing male partner using the loo

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Sure it was “shock”? Maybe it was surprise, or even a turn- on, or curiosity. No, “most “ women would not realize the peeing procedures for uncircumcised men. Main thing is: don’t let this make you worry. Personally, I think gatecrashing someone in the bathroom is rude. A knock on the door is usually given. So you can always lock the bathroom door in the future.

Women seeing male partner using the loo

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Many thanks for your response. Unfortunately, I’ve managed to accidentally deactivate my original account. You’re right. Maybe it wasn’t shock after all. In this case, the bathroom had no lock. I appreciate your reassurance. I will certainly try to put it out of my mind. I think although I’m with someone else now, it just has made me a little self-conscious at times. Thanks again!

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