I have been married for 30 years and have cheated on my husband about 25 years ago i find myself flirting with one of my coworkers and this person was flirting back i have noticed that now this coworker has been very mean to me and i think is spreading something throughout our workplace because everyone has been shunning me or avoiding me i have tried ignoring it and even changing my work shifts to avoid working the same time as this person but i still cant shake these feelings
What “feelings” are you having? Rejection?
Perhaps your behavior got close to being inappropriate or even stalking. Who knows?
But if this person AND the entire work group are now turned off and blocking you, just removing yourself from the environment is the best thing.
Does your husband know about you're cheating 25 years ago? Does he know about what you're doing now?
ignoring it will have no positive impact rather it will support your shamefulness. be proactive and discover reasons so you may desensitize harm caused by false rumors. i am sure a twenty five year old affair is not something anyone but your old man would care about.
Good to hear from you, LS255. So what is the question? What are the feelings you are trying to shake? I am assuming you may be experiencing many emotions due to this reciprocal flirtation, right? Share with us so we can be more helpful.