Silence after fight: is it over?
I and my bf of 4 yrs (in a serious relation-heading towards marriage and from last 2 years we are in LDR ) had a fight about two months back.I used v bad abusive words for his family in texts to him. He said
He said "Dont ever call me again." He didnt talk to me after that. He even didnt wish me on my birthday .I texted for apology but no reply.He blocked my calls.I then asked him one day to borrow some money from him because i didnt have my brother's college fee.He didnt give.Earlier he used to help me. One month back i sent last text to him asking for money as i was crying and was in so much tention.But no reply.
I saw he had some fb activity but didnt talk to me
From some time ( before fight) i had observed that he has stopped caring for me as before. We had trust issues as well.
Do u think no contact/silence from his side means its over?
how many ways do you want to be informed. he has displayed his hatred five times. he dumped you hard and fast forever. hopefully you have learned an important lesson for the future. guys can handle being abused but draw the line at trashing their family.
YES, Take his efforts not to talk to you as it's over. Time you start relying on yourself and move on.
He is a lot invested emotionally in this relationship. And me too. I have apologized to him as well. I dont know if his not talking is a sign of punishment for me for my mistake or its over... because many times he said its over but came back strongly.I am really sad at the moment. 4 years is a long time.
Do u think i should ask him if its over?