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Discovering porn everyday in my husbands history sometimes several times a day for about 4 and a half years! He’s lied about everything, it’s 90% teenage porn which really disturbs me. I kept a secret record of our sex and his porn. Every time I left the house even for 10 minutes, straight in it, like he’s hanging to jump on there. Even goes into the toilet and mastutbates to it while I’m home because I caught him. 2 weeks ago I wanted sex, it was morning he was awake he turned me down and left the bedroom for his coffee etc., never came back to me. I viewed his history and he f**king went and flogged off to porn, teenage porn! I shut my mouth and become hostile I couldn’t help it. 3 days later I couldn’t hold it in and told him what I know, how much he watches it, what he watches, and that he turned me down for that! He denied it!! I said you can’t lie I have the proof right here, no remorse for my feelings of inadequacy, hurt, just defence and anger. Told him he has an addiction he claims bullshit. I see otherwise and I’m not competing with that shit. I’m pretty fucking shattered and just want to walk,

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give him ultimatum therapy or divorce don't put up with that treatment. also tell him you want open relationship since he would rather watch teenies and masterbate than cum in a real woman. say you will find someone that prefer doing a real woman to watching video actresses.

give him a wake up call he can't dismiss.

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May I suggest marriage counseling to start with. Perhaps your husband hearing it from a second party will give him a better understanding of what the consequences might be for what he's doing.

Others might say it's just p*** and there's no harm in it, but obviously it's hurting you and that's understandable.

Maybe you and your husband could talk about ways to spice up your sex life.

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Prefers to watch porn when there is a loving, willing partner waiting in the wings? The guys got a compulsion problem!

Draw the line in the sand. He gets help or he leaves.

He may deny it’s a problem, but if his actions affect the marriage, then it’s a problem.

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Something else you could look into https://www.themindfulhabit.com
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Thanks all, I was pretty convinced he’s got a problem before posting here. Just want others opinions on the matter.

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