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Guy I dated was very hurtful towards me why?

Hi I was dating someone who on the second date he exposed himself and wanted sex I didn't feel ready so I told him no and also he knows im still a virgin but he kept insulting me he kept calling me useless. I gave off to him over Facebook and he blocked me. Its not the first time he insulted me he called me a Freak before too he sent me a text one time over Facebook saying freak stop annoying me! A few months after I'd met him again on a night out and I asked him why he went on like that to call me names he said to my face I don't like you! I felt very upset and just walked away :( I couldn't believe how hurtful he was and I couldn't believe this was a guy I'd really fell for And he knew I really liked him I just wanted him to apologize and he wouldn't. I texted him saying that I felt bullied by him too because of the names he called me :( he wrote back what are you on about are you serious? And I texted back yes very serious. I think maybe he's just very immature? He's 23 but still he was so hurtful to me. :(

Guy I dated was very hurtful towards me why?

Two dates is not “dating” - that’s just getting to know each other. And you found out he’s a perv and a user. Avoid him. He really sounds creepy.

Guy I dated was very hurtful towards me why?

Yeah he doesn't really sound like a winner based off of your description. What made you fall for this guy? Does he have any good qualities?

Guy I dated was very hurtful towards me why?

Hi yea I did sadly fall for him he seemed nice up until he went on like this to call me names and block me for giving off to him

Guy I dated was very hurtful towards me why?

I think his actions and attitudes towards you are because he couldn’t get what he wants when he wanted it. Don’t ever feel bullied into anything no matter how much you like a person if your not ready your not ready he should of respected that of you and I’m sure he realises he has missed out on a good one

Guy I dated was very hurtful towards me why?

Thanks for the reply! yea I did feel he tried to pressure then when I turned him down I was so shocked because he kept saying to me I was useless! I just couldn't believe how hurtful he was he was someone I was starting to really fall for. Maybe he thought I was vulnerable? because he knew I really liked him so when I turned him down I think it hurt his ego! He's quite a confident guy too so I think he took it badly and you are right he should of respected my decision not to.

Guy I dated was very hurtful towards me why?

How might you have reacted to his antics had he of been twenty years your senior, it`s exactly the same, react to him accordingly, do n`t tend to toleration merely because you consider him of eligible years. His interest is solely in ownership of your body!

Guy I dated was very hurtful towards me why?

There is absolutely no reason whatsoever not to believe that he might be a low performing psychopath, high performing psychopaths would make sure to own you before revealing their true colors. Do n`t give away your body to any of them for otherwise it is impossible to be certain that their affection is genuine.

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