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I’ve been divorced since 2008 and living in a motor home om my parents property due to the divorce. I have a 12 ya old daughter with ex wife. We were together starting 2003 I think.we are better friends the husband and wife and we are currently friends with benefits but it’s only every so often. Skip ahead... Since 2008 I’ve really been alone and lonely and I’ve been trying the dating site but nothing real. It’s mostly scams as I have found. I’ve given up but I don’t want to be alone anymore, my problem is I’m thinking of maybe going back to ex. I know for a fact she would be for it. I know she still has feelings for me and my daughter would love to have her family back too. She’s asked befor if me and mommy would ever get back together but the issue is I don’t think I have any love for her, I don’t feel anything. I think it’s been to long, I don’t know..... When I’m with her it’s nice cause I’m not alone but I just think of her as a friend feelings aren’t there. Just don’t know if I will be happy cause I just settled because I gave up or the feeling and love may come back after time and what would it do to our daughter if it didn’t work out again, any suggestions...

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What are you doing to meet new women? It sounds like you are waiting for them to bang down your door. Why would you settle for something you find a "non feeling"? Don't reconcile with your ex for your daughter. That's a cruel thing to do.

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One of the best things to do is find a social hobby. If you have a hobby, then you can find someone in common. You don't have to have another woman in your life. You can just be friends and though friends, you have a family.

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