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Why would he delete me for something so petty?

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Online Dating advice He deleted me off Snapchat after i pressed to call him rather than send him a chat. I hung up as soon as I realised what I'd done but when I typed a quick sorry into chat it said the message was pending until I was added as a friend.

We had spoke almost everyday for a few weeks but this dwindled as it was almost impossible to see each other. We did know each other but we didn't meet up since talking online.

We haven't spoken for a couple of weeks so I was going to send a message to ask if he was doing okay but pressed call instead of chat and as I said he's deleted me. It's really upset me and I don't know why he would do that.

He did stop reading my chats to him but always looked at my story. I'm not stupid and I know he must have lost interest maybe because I couldn't see him I don't know?

I'm waiting to be deleted from Facebook next :'( Any advice how to deal with this would be so appreciated because I have no one to talk to about it.

Why would he delete me for something so petty?

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Some people are not emotionally mature. Why he acted like that, only he could tell you. What you can figure out is that he doesn't handle being told what to do. In all honestly, you'll have and lose many friends in your life. Its best to move on. If he's not willing to suck it up and push you away easily, he's not a good friend. Moving on is a very hard thing to do. I hope this helps some. (A)

Why would he delete me for something so petty?

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Thank you for your reply. You're right he is not emotionally mature - he is younger than me. It was him chasing me at first which was very flattering but this dwindled and for it to come to him deleting me is a hard pill to swallow. I've not told him to do anything I just wanted to ask if he was doing okay! :^) (A) ;-( (A)

Why would he delete me for something so petty?

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Very extreme reaction on his part!

Any reason why he blew up just because he was called?

Why would he delete me for something so petty?

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This is what I can't understand! Assuming I had called him on purpose, if he couldn't talk that's fair enough but to delete me is uncalled for imo. We hadn't spoken for a couple of weeks hence me wanting to ask him if he was okay so no, I don't get it ;-( (A)

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Sounds like he didn’t want to be found out he was talking on the phone.

At work? Married or has GF?

Are you EVER going to be able to talk or has he limited contact to chats?

Sounds very mysterious!!

Why would he delete me for something so petty?

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It is a difficult situation and I do know him outside of social media but I haven't seen or spoke to him in person since things became more personal online. Maybe he got fed up of waiting??

During the times he was interested in pursuing me he had tried to call me if I was delayed in answering a message from him, so it was okay for him to call and not answer my messages for days! On that occasion I couldn't take a call but I messaged him straight back. I always messaged straight back and it annoyed me that he stopped. I think it is rude.

He is definitely not at work nor married and according to his Facebook page he's single and he has been for about a year I believe so I just don't get it.

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