Is this wierd or is it just me?
Okay so we live in an RV park so the laundry mat and showers are in the same building. The doors to the men s & women s showers are right next to each other. Last night my girlfriend went to take the laundry from the washers and put them in dryers and then take a shower afterwards. The whole process took her close to an hour when I know, first hand, that she takes 5to10 minute showers max. The weird part is, I took a walk over there about 20 to 25 minutes in and saw some dude walking away from the shower doors. It sucks because from where I was standing, I couldnt tell if he was coming out of the womens room or not & messing with my girl. The part that gets me is it was 4:30 in the morning... could it be just coincidence that they were in the shower rooms at the same time & he was just coming out of the mens room? I thought it was super odd that they d be there at the same time in the dead of night when no one should even be there lol. Tell me, what do you think? I want other people opinions so I can stop feeling like an assuming asshole . Thank you for your responses
i must say, i would be suspicious if my man did this and i saw a woman walking away from the area! Best thing to do is ask her but whether or not she tells the truth is a different matter. It would certainly raise my suspicions but then, it totally could be something simple like the guy had a bad stomach and desperately needed the loo!
seems you have severe trust issues. is very possible he was in the mens shower room. if you ask her of course she will say she was alone. next time get a better view so you are confident of her cheating before making a unsupportable accusation. opening up now will only start a fight and alert her to be more careful in the future if you're assumption is correct.
Is that the best you got? (Two people in the same building at the same time)?
Unless you have other information - it IS just you.
There may be a lot of people that would be suspicious here, but those people would be super insecure.
You need to ask yourself why you are so suspicious, based on literally nothing. Says way more about you than anyone else.