So I’ve been friends with this person for over a year now and we’re overly friendly. We hold hands and and act like a couple at work which is how we met but he never wants to commit and see me outside of work. He always has an excuse, sometimes it’s just I’m tired. Today he told me he didn’t want to commit to anything. Everyone thinks we’re going out but I kinda feel like I’m being played. I really like him though and he knows that. What do I do? Everytime I get angry at him, he pacifies me and now I’m just sad and I don’t know what to do.
ignore him until he is ready to make a commitment. he is just using you as a work time toy now to impress coworkers how hot he is. stop chasing him and let him earn right to hold your hand and couple with you.