Wife illegal sex relationship
i am a 32 year old. let me share my problem with you all. i am a Hindu male, i like a Muslim girl. i change my religion for her. she like me a lot, and me too was in same situation. we were incomplete without each other. she was resident of outside India, unfortunately after her father death she came back to her village with her mother, during this instance she meet me. and we started like each other. she introduce me to her family, her mother like me as her son-in-law. then after 3 month of meeting we both were agree to having sex, because we was agree to marry. unlimited times we sex. life was going on smoothly. then after 3 year her family planned to go back her country, we got separated, we cried a lot when i see off her on airport. then i felt we can not live without each other. she started to make her mother and brother to agree on our relationship. she invite me to come to her country and make our future there apart from India. during this painful time when we were not together, my family take me under their pressure and they fix my marriage with a unknown girl to me. i was thinking that after marry here in India, i will go to my girlfriend and will tell her all what happened to me in India. then one day the time came, i landed to her country and went to her house. they all welcome me warmly, gave me respect, and help me a lot. they provide me a good job there, and then they started to go ahead for my marriage with my Muslim girlfriend. then i felt this is the time i should told all to my girlfriend. Gently i told her all, and tell her to take a future decision for her, because no girl want to marry a already married man. i told her that my family force me to marry there in India. she cried a lot for three days. i advice her to take a decision for her, but she was blind in our love so she told me that she want to marry me. then we happily married, but about these all issues i never tell my family. then after two year, me my new wife (girlfriend), her mother and her brother all came back together to India, then i went back to my home as my annual leave from out of country. after coming India we again start to depend only on chatting. during these instances when i was in my personal house with my mother father and that my family wife, she saw all my messages, call and knew about our relation. there were a lot of crisis on me that i having extra marital affair with a Muslim girl. all of my family members get angry on me. and i lose all respect from all of my relations here. that my Muslim wife take admission far from my house (other state) and started study with her brother and mother. just ten days ago problem started. i wish to know about her. to whom she is in contact. i got her call details of last six month and i found that she is in affair with his village cousin, i asked her all and she accepted that she had sex 5-6 time during her stay at her house in village. then my heart break down. still she request me to forgive but i don't know what to do or what not to do. she loved me madly, blindly and crossed all the limits to get us closer. i don't know why she have done it to me, what she think now. i need you help, because i feel i should commit suicide for this betray.please help
You have no claim to the woman you say you love. You were already married. You could have left before the ceremony, or simply been honest with all involved. You should never have gone after her, since you were already married.
You wonder how she can hurt you.
YOU MARRIED SOMEBODY ELSE. THEN DIDN'T TELL HER TIL AFTER YOU LET HER FAMILY HELP SETTLE YOU IN A NEW COUNTRY.
Neither of these women deserve such awful treatment.
Yes i know it was my fault. But at least she cpuld have told me that we shold be seperate now. Iy was possible for me. But if she involved with me yet she make relation wiyh another person is not good for a relation of 6 years.
You know what, DONMZN? Marriage is not the end of the road. You can divorce, and move on. And I'd advice you to, since it sounds like you weren't really that interested in the woman your family set you up with.
You have feelings for this Muslim woman. That is obvious. And if you really love her, then you should go to her. Don't waste years of your life just trying to make your family happy!
People have needs. You weren't there for this woman you loved, and she found pleasure elsewhere. You likely would have done the same if the roles were reversed, and some cute girl came on to you before you married. If you really care about this woman, then forgive her. Start anew. Get a divorce from the woman you aren't interested in, and make an effort to solidify the choice you've made.
thanks ALTREAL. i appreciate you replied and helped me in my thinking positive.