Help me please
Me and my Girlfriend had broken up about 2 weeks ago
and when we were together her mom was jealous of her spending time with me
And her mom does have Stage 4 lung cancer
And my Girlfriend lives with her and takes care of her while she's not working
So we've been talking again and want to be together again
She told her mom last night that we were probably going to be getting back together. Her mom's response was. don't let him take you away from me.which Is not my intentions. I just want to spend time with her. even if it's at their house
So as a parent would you want your to be with a good guy knowing you don't have much time left
or would you try and be selfish and want all of your daughters time?
First your girlfriend needs your love and support at this time. I can relate to the jealous mom thing, i had been through that myself. This really is a tough one, as her mom is going through cancer. I would just show her how much you do love her, and be with her, and try not to let it get to you. I am sure the mom is scared right now. This is a hard thing to be going through. But as a parent, i would want to know that my daughter is with someone who is a good guy, and that loves her. I do have a question though, how long had you an your girlfriend been together before the breakup? and was the mom always like that toward you? or is this something new ? Asking has maybe her mom feels she does not have alot of time left. and wants to spend as much time with her as she can. So maybe just showing that you are willing to spend time, even like you said at her house. Will ease any tension.