We lead hectic, but joyful lives in general. Tonight he went to his jobs do directly after work (work is a 30 min drive away), said he wouldn’t be late, so I wanted up for him. He arrived home at 1 o’clock, and it turns out he went to a colleagues neighbours house at ten, so almost next door for three hours, without sending me a text to say he’d actually gone to a neighbours hose. I sit with a feeling he could have let me know. But when I ask if there was a reason for not telling m, he says I am pretty self-absorbed if I sit home and think about me. He was just enjoying himself. Why doesn’t he just send a text?Do you agree with him? I’d like to hear your thoughts on this. Thank you.
So, yes, I’d say it was inconsiderate.
When is the last time you two went out( without the kids)?
Especially when he said he wouldnt be late
Honestly he put you on the back burner.
He should be more considerate.
Boo on him.
The least he could do is give you a headsup
Youre not self absorbed for expecting the bare minimum
Dont let him bully you
And wont even include you on his off time
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