Hi guys right now I’m going through some hard situations and my emotions are every where. I try to explain to partner why I’m feeling a certain way but it just turns into us arguing and honestly makes me want to shut down. I honestly don’t know how to handle it anymore except to distant myself.
No matter what the situation is, your partner should want to be willing to talk it out with you. Minor or major. It’s not fair to you to just not talk it out. I don’t think you should distant yourself, because that will leave the problem unresolved. If you bring it up again, before doing so you should try and say you just want to be honest and do it in a calm manner. Ask him to do the same. If he can’t respect you enough to do that, then problems in the future are just going to be the same. Conflicts are healthy in relationships believe it or not. I hope this helps and you get the chance to work things out!