Me and my boyfriend live in a 3 room building, each room has their own kitchen and we all only share the bathroom with each other. we rent 2 room and another girl lives with us. This girl and I became super close when she moved in in 2016 and I've been guiding her and helping her around. Since around the end of 2017, she has been cancelling plans or not very into the friendship anymore, but I didn't think much of it. It only annoyed me when I could've done something else on that day but made plans with her, only for her to cancel last minute without explanation.
My boyfriend and I had been talking about moving out since the beginning of the year, and since she was my friend I wanted to give her a heads up that we were planning to move out around October 2018, but that we didn't have a place yet. She started to promise her friends that they could move in and telling us we need to sign a pre-agreement that we will definitely be out of the house by October even if we DONT find another place. So we'd be homeless. Mind you she is NOT the landlord nor does she have any close relationship with the landlord. So after all this pressuring from her, I would calmly explain that we won't sign anything because (after confirming with the landlord) we have every right to stay in this house until we have a place to move to. This is when she started saying things like "But if you're so confident you'll find a place, why don't you just sign my agreement so we can all be happy (meaning her and her friends who want to move in)" to which I kept responding "No, sorry, but we're not going to be homeless just so your friends can have certainty". This went on for quite some time until she noticed I was getting really tired of her always pressuring us. It got to the point where asked us if we could move out in June (while it was already June) so her friends could just be sure to have this place.
Is this how you treat a friend? it seems to me that she was more afraid of her promise that she couldn't keep to her friends than about us being homeless...
Fast forward to now... there is tension in the house. I took some steps back because it really got to the point that she was asking EVERY week if we had a place already. If we had found a place I would've told her. I took some steps back for my own sanity and to not flip out on her. Because I keep explaining things over and over again and she just keeps saying she understands but then continuing to do the same thing. it's frustrating.
Now for some reason, she isn't speaking to me. I texted her yesterday because it was her birthday, she replied normally. Today... I asked her if she enjoyed her day, no answer. Another issue, my boyfriend told her yesterday that she missed a payment for utilities and sent her proof that he did not receive her payment, to which she replied: "But I'm sure I did, but I'll check". Today I ask her again if she checked because there was no payment on the house bank account... no answer... I do not understand what is going on.
I tried confronting her, explaining everything detailed to her, asking her to pay on time (she's usually late).
What more can I do?