Relationship breakdown after abortion
Hi, my gf got pregnant and 4 weeks ago had an abortion.. we didn’t communicate properly and I said I didn’t want a baby in shock but days after I wanted her to keep the baby but didn’t say anything as I thought she wanted an abortion as she agreed when I said. Since the abortion she says she feels nothing for me anymore and doesn’t love me, she also said she’s feels guilty and hurt which I understand and I’ve told her o feel the same... she now knows I wanted to keep the baby but since has blocked me and stoped talking but is sending a few txts but it’s like we friends she’s having a laugh and I’m just hurt because I want to be with her! I love her so much and I want a family with her now or the future but she says she’s sees nothing regarding the future with me and needs to focus on herself. I want to support her but she doesn’t want me there and won’t even talk on the phone. Please help with advice as she really is the one I want to grow old with and have a family and I need her to see the good times and that we can get it back and have a family one day.
There was improper communication BEFORE this happened, so what makes you feel this can be sirted out now?
Get some counseling for both of you - together, so you both can move thru this.