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Question about my boyfriend behaviour

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Hi guys!

I'm 27 years old and my boyfriend is 26 years old we seeing each other on and off for two years but he keep complains saying the bellow, he Said is an explanation(don't know what he is trying to explain) but it dosen't look like it to me so i will copy and paste the conversation we had and please let me know what do you think because I'm really confused.
On a side note just to let you know I'm a single Mum and work full time but I never complained about spending time with him or needing time for myself but he always tells me he has his own life, his own goals and conplains he spends hours with me( but I also do the same so sounds like he is doing me a favor?)
The other day he got Angry and wanted to brake up with me but I begged him not to leave me so when he calm down he said that he loves me and he wants to be with me.
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Question about my boyfriend behaviour

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Hello Kris,

Looks like you forgot to paste what you wanted us to see.

Nevertheless, by the looks of it, the relaitionship is already on a slope downhill.

There are several points to consider.

1.- You're a single mom: Is he emotionally available for dealing with your kid? Is he going to take it in as treat him/her right?
2.- "He has his own life and goals": That's as clear as it gets. Unless you both have some common goals and or future vision, there's little hope for the relationship to go on for a long time.
3.- Just because you don't complain about spending time with him, you can't expect him to behave like you. And if that bothers you, you should let him know.

I strongly suggest you DON'T EVER BEG for love. Nobody deserves it. If he wants to go away, let it be. Having stay for a little longer at the expense of humilliations is not worth it and, in the end, he will leave the same... Just later.

I hope this helps you. I know is not sweet, but is what I think. And I believe, clarifying these items will help you to be in a better position to make an informed decision about your partner.

Blessings! Good luck!

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