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So i lost the trust of my couple when i was drunk at his place and begin to cry and have a meltdown….he almost get evicted….i really dont remember that detail when i was like that and i promise him never do that again…never drink ….he still have dates with me but not in his place anymore….he want me to gain his trust again…im going to find a psychologist because i know this thing of me crying when im drunk is something very deep….but he also ask me to do this in forums….i was very sincere about what is really hapoening in my mind…and he still wants to see me…but he is taking his time…i just dont like that he always talk about that incident and get very stubborn and a little not so kind…..and i feel a little sad also…then i just tell him : ok i understand you are depresse because of me…i want you happy you can find other person..i will deal with the feeling of losing you for a time..its ok i just want your happiness…but he still write and wants to see me…what i should do? I really likes him…we have only 5 months of realtionship….jaja but we are really happy to find us..

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Hello FRAMBUESA, My guess is that you speak Spanish. The first question is why you drink alcohol to the point of losing control. The second question is if you too got to some sort of agreement or plan to deal with the issue. The fact that you think that he's depressed because of you actually points out that you may be the one who is depressed and you're simply trying to mirror that behavior in him. I would suggest finding professional help and try to fix whatever issues you may have. Greetings. ------------------- Supongo que hablas español. La primera pregunta is por qué bebes hasta perder el control? La segunda es si ya hablaron y tienen algún tipo de plan para enfrentar esta situación juntos. El hecho de que pienses que él está deprimido por tu culpa, en realidad muestra que quien puede estar deprimida eres tú. Creo que lo mejor es que busques ayuda profesional y trates de resolver los problemas que pueden estar ocasionando esto. Saludos y un abrazo.

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He does not trust you at this time. It will take time for him to feel good again about you and him. Stop drinking. Go to counseling. Learn to live sober. He need to allow you to change.

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"So i lost the trust of my couple when i was drunk at his place and begin to cry and have a meltdown….he almost get evicted….i really dont remember that detail when i was like that and i promise him never do that again…never drink ….he still have dates with me but not in his place anymore….he want me to gain his trust again…im going to find a psychologist because i know this thing of me crying when im drunk is something very deep….but he also ask me to do this in forums….i was very sincere about what is really hapoening in my mind…and he still wants to see me…but he is taking his time…i just dont like that he always talk about that incident and get very stubborn and a little not so kind…..and i feel a little sad also…then i just tell him : ok i understand you are depresse because of me…i want you happy you can find other person..i will deal with the feeling of losing you for a time..its ok i just want your happiness…but he still write and wants to see me…what i should do? I really likes him…we have only 5 months of realtionship….jaja but we are really happy to find us.." Frambuesa, what actually triggered your meltdown? How many meltdowns have you had as his girlfriend? Do you have meltdowns with other people or just him?

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