My wife and I joined a choir earlier in the year and have made lots of new friends some of whom we see for social events & nights out outside of choir sessions. One of the friends is a very attractive, outgoing woman around 12 years younger than me that I get on very well with, have a laugh and enjoy her company. She is single but looking for someone special. I am becoming increasingly attracted to her, she says she is very fond of us both but I can't help thinking about her a lot of the time.
My wife is I'm sure unaware of my feelings (as is the friend).
This is the first time I have felt this way about any woman since I meet my wife. I really don't know what to do as her friendship is very important to both of us and I love my wife dearly and don't want to ruin anyone's lives. Is it best to just say nothing, enjoy the friendship and carry on as I am and just keep my feelings to myself ?
This is a perfectly normal crush. Put it into its place: in your fantasy mind.
In the meantime, pay extra attention to your wife and use that turned up libido to re- ignite your love with her.
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