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Complicated Situation, Don't Know What To Do.

Posted by
SERENORR
on Dec 13 2018 at 18:40
Member since: 13 December 2018
Relationship advice I have no one to tell my problems to, I come from a very closed family and what friends I have well, I don't have friends anymore.

When I say complicated situation, I really mean it and I guarantee no one else has this problem so i write here with little to no hope.

I'm 30, she's 25. I'm married of 5 years and deep down, I knew I jumped into this because I was heartbroken about a girl. I knew this girl (now my wife) for under a year before marrying her, but I guess i did it to get over the previous girl but I thought I was happy about marrying this one. Not long after we married, she tells me she doesn't like sex and that she actually has a thing for girls. We were really open about everything to each other before marrying but I felt cheated that she withheld this kind of information beforehand... she panicked and said

Complicated situation, don't know what to do.
Reply from
MAMABEAR
on Dec 18 2018 at 18:13
Member since: 06 March 2016
Since this is still unanswered, likely because it's not a complete post, but here goes.

This is not a unique situation. And, it's not even that complicated. So you can stop feeling so alone. This kind of thing happens all the time, all over the world. And the solution is pretty obvious. And very common. You and your wife need to separate before things get ugly. Divorce is not fun, but it's the healthiest decision here. Then you'd both be free to do as you please, with whomever you please.

I'm not implying divorce is easy, but it is hardly rare or difficult to pursue. Find a family law attorney and move on as civilly as possible.