When I say complicated situation, I really mean it and I guarantee no one else has this problem so i write here with little to no hope.
I'm 30, she's 25. I'm married of 5 years and deep down, I knew I jumped into this because I was heartbroken about a girl. I knew this girl (now my wife) for under a year before marrying her, but I guess i did it to get over the previous girl but I thought I was happy about marrying this one. Not long after we married, she tells me she doesn't like sex and that she actually has a thing for girls. We were really open about everything to each other before marrying but I felt cheated that she withheld this kind of information beforehand... she panicked and said
This is not a unique situation. And, it's not even that complicated. So you can stop feeling so alone. This kind of thing happens all the time, all over the world. And the solution is pretty obvious. And very common. You and your wife need to separate before things get ugly. Divorce is not fun, but it's the healthiest decision here. Then you'd both be free to do as you please, with whomever you please.
I'm not implying divorce is easy, but it is hardly rare or difficult to pursue. Find a family law attorney and move on as civilly as possible.
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